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Commentary on Romans 16 verses 1–16
Such remembrances as these are usual in letters between friends; and yet Paul, by the savouriness of his expressions, sanctifies these common compliments.
I. Here is the recommendation of a friend, by whom (as some think) this epistle was sent - one Phebe, Rom 16:1, Rom 16:2. It should seem that she was a person of quality and estate, who had business which called her to Rome, where she was a stranger; and therefore Paul recommends her to the acquaintance of the Christians there: an expression of his true friendship to her. Paul was as well skilled in the art of obliging as most men. True religion, rightly received, never made any man uncivil. Courtesy and Christianity agree well together. It is not in compliment to her, but in sincerity, that,
1.He gives a very good character of her. (1.) As a sister to Paul: Phebe our sister; not in nature, but in grace; not in affinity or consanguinity, but in pure Christianity: his own sister in the faith of Christ, loving Paul, and beloved of him, with a pure and chaste and spiritual love, as a sister; for there is neither male nor female, but all are one in Christ Jesus, Gal 3:28. Both Christ and his apostles had some of their best friends among the devout (and upon that account honourable) women. (2.) As a servant to the church at Cenchrea: diakonon, a servant by office, a stated servant, not to preach the word (that was forbidden to women), but in acts of charity and hospitality. Some think she was one of the widows that ministered to the sick and were taken into the church's number, Ti1 5:9. But those were old and poor, whereas Phebe seems to have been a person of some account; and yet it was no disparagement to her to be a servant to the church. Probably they used to meet at her house, and she undertook the care of entertaining the ministers, especially strangers. Every one in his place should strive to serve the church, for therein he serves Christ, and it will turn to a good account another day. Cenchrea was a small sea-port town adjoining to Corinth, about twelve furlongs distant. Some think there was a church there, distinct from that at Corinth, though, being so near, it is very probable that the church of Corinth is called the church of Cenchrea, because their place of meeting might be there, on account of the great opposition to them in the city (Act 18:12), as at Philippi they met out of the city by the water-side, Act 16:13. So the reformed church of Paris might be called the church at Charenton, where they formerly met, out of the city. (3.) As a succourer of many, and particularly of Paul, Rom 16:2. She relieved many that were in want and distress - a good copy for women to write after that have ability. she was kind to those that needed kindness, intimated in her succouring them; and her bounty was extensive, she was a succourer of many. Observe the gratitude of Paul in mentioning her particular kindness to him: And to myself also. Acknowledgment of favours is the least return we can make. It was much to her honour that Paul left this upon record; for wherever this epistle is read her kindness to Paul is told for a memorial of her.
2.He recommends her to their care and kindness, as one worthy to be taken notice of with peculiar respect. (1.) "Receive her in the Lord. Entertain her; bid her welcome." This pass, under Paul's hand, could not but recommend her to any Christian church. "Receive her in the Lord," that is, "for the Lord's sake; receive her as a servant and friend of Christ." As it becometh saints to receive, who love Christ, and therefore love all that are his for his sake; or, as becometh saints to be received, with love and honour and the tenderest affection. There may be occasion sometimes to improve our interest in our friends, not only for ourselves, but for others also, interest being a price in the hand for doing good. (2.) Assist her in whatsoever business she has need of you. Whether she had business of trade, or law-business at the court, is not material; however being a woman, a stranger, a Christian, she had need of help: and Paul engaged them to be assistant to her. It becomes Christians to be helpful one to another in their affairs, especially to be helpful to strangers; for we are members one of another and we know not what need of help we may have ourselves. Observe, Paul bespeaks help for one that had been so helpful to many; he that watereth shall be watered also himself.
II. Here are commendations to some particular friends among those to whom he wrote, more than in any other of the epistles. Though the care of all the churches came upon Paul daily, enough to distract an ordinary head, yet he could retain the remembrance of so many; and his heart was so full of love and affection as to send salutations to each of them with particular characters of them, and expressions of love to them and concern for them. Greet them, salute them; it is the same word, aspasasthe. "Let them know that I remember them, and love them, and wish them well." There is something observable in several of these salutations.
1.Concerning Aquila and Priscilla, a famous couple, that Paul had a special kindness for. They were originally of Rome, but were banished thence by the edict of Claudius, Act 18:2. At Corinth, Paul became acquainted with them, wrought with them at the trade of tent-making; after some time, when the edge of that edict was rebated, they returned to Rome, and thither he now sends commendations to them. He calls them his helpers in Christ Jesus, by private instructions and converse furthering the success of Paul's public preaching, one instance of which we have in their instructing Apollos, Act 18:26. Those are helpers to faithful ministers that lay out themselves in their families and among their neighbours to do good to souls. Nay, they did not only do much, but they ventured much, for Paul: They have for my life laid down their own necks. They exposed themselves to secure Paul, hazarded their own lives for the preservation of his, considering how much better they might be spared than he. Paul was in a great deal of danger at Corinth, while he sojourned with them; but they sheltered him, though they thereby made themselves obnoxious to the enraged multitudes, Act 18:12, Act 18:17. It was a good while ago that they had done Paul this kindness; and yet he speaks as feelingly of it as if it had been but yesterday. To whom (says he) not only I give thanks, but also all the churches of the Gentiles; who were all beholden to these good people for helping to save the life of him that was the apostle of the Gentiles. Paul mentions this, to engage the Christians at Rome to be the more kind to Aquila and Priscilla. He sends likewise greeting to the church in their house, Rom 16:5. It seems then, a church in a house is no such absurd thing as some make it to be. Perhaps there was a congregation of Christians that used to meet at their house at stated times; and then, no doubt, it was, like the house of Obed-Edom, blessed for the ark's sake. Others think that the church was no more than a religious, pious, well-governed family, that kept up the worship of God. Religion, in the power of it, reigning in a family, will turn a house into a church. And doubtless it had a good influence upon this that Priscilla the good wife of the family was so very eminent and forward in religion, so eminent that she is often named first. A virtuous woman, that looks well to the ways of her household, may do much towards the advancement of religion in a family. When Priscilla and Aquila were at Ephesus, though but sojourners there, yet there also they had a church in their house, Co1 16:19. A truly godly man will be careful to take religion along with him wherever he goes. When Abraham removed his tent, he renewed his altar, Gen 13:18.
2.Concerning Epenetus, Rom 16:5. He calls him his well-beloved. Where the law of love is in the heart the law of kindness will be in the tongue. Endearing language should pass among Christians to express love, and to engage love. So he calls Amplias, beloved in the Lord, with true Christian love for Christ's sake; and Stachys, his beloved: a sign that Paul had been in the third heaven, he was so much made up of love. Of Epenetus it is further said that he was the first-fruit of Achaia unto Christ; not only one of the most eminent believers in that country, but one of the first that was converted to the faith of Christ: one that was offered up to God by Paul, as the first-fruits of his ministry there; an earnest of a great harvest; for in Corinth, the chief city of Achaia, God had much people, Act 18:10. Special respect is to be paid to those that set out early, and come to work in the vineyard at the first hour, at the first call. The household of Stephanas is likewise said to be the first-fruits of Achaia, Co1 16:15. Perhaps Epenetus was one of that household; or, at least, he was one of the first three; not the first alone, but one of the first fleece of Christians, that the region of Achaia afforded.
3.Concerning Mary, and some others who were laborious in that which is good, industrious Christians: Mary, who bestowed much labour on us. True love never sticks at labour, but rather takes a pleasure in it; where there is much love there will be much labour. Some think this Mary had been at some of those places where Paul was, though now removed to Rome, and had personally ministered to him; others think Paul speaks of her labour as bestowed upon him because it was bestowed upon his friends and fellow-labourers, and he took what was done to them as done to himself. He says of Tryphena and Tryphosa, two useful women in their places, that they laboured in the Lord (Rom 16:12), and of the beloved Persis, another good woman, that she laboured much in the Lord, more than others, abounding more in the work of the Lord.
4.Concerning Andronicus and Junia, Rom 16:7. Some take them for a man and his wife, and the original will well enough bear it; and, considering the name of the latter, this is more probable than that they should be two men, as others think, and brethren. Observe, (1.) They were Paul's cousins, akin to him; so was Herodion, Rom 16:11. Religion does not take away, but rectifies, sanctifies, and improves, our respect to our kindred, engaging us to lay out ourselves most for their good, and to rejoice in them the more, when we find them related to Christ by faith. (2.) They were his fellow-prisoners. Partnership in suffering sometimes does much towards the union of souls and the knitting of affections. We do not find in the story of the Acts any imprisonment of Paul before the writing of this epistle, but that at Philippi, Act 16:23. But Paul was in prisons more frequent (Co2 11:23), in some of which, it seems, he met with his friends Andronicus and Junia, yoke-fellows, as in other things, so in suffering for Christ and bearing his yoke. (3.) They were of note among the apostles, not so much perhaps because they were persons of estate and quality in the world as because they were eminent for knowledge, and gifts, and graces, which made them famous among the apostles, who were competent judges of those things, and were endued with a spirit of discerning not only the sincerity, but the eminency, of Christians. (4.) Who also were in Christ before me, that is, were converted to the Christian faith. In time they had the start of Paul, though he was converted the next year after Christ's ascension. How ready was Paul to acknowledge in others any kind of precedency!
5.Concerning Apelles, who is here said to be approved in Christ (Rom 16:10), a high character! He was one of known integrity and sincerity in his religion, one that had been tried; his friends and enemies had tried him, and he was as gold. he was of approved knowledge and judgment, approved courage and constancy; a man that one might trust and repose a confidence in.
6.Concerning Aristobulus and Narcissus; notice is taken of their household, Rom 16:10, Rom 16:11. Those of their household who are in the Lord (as it is limited, Rom 16:11), that were Christians. How studious was Paul to leave none out of his salutations that he had any knowledge of or acquaintance with! Aristobulus and Narcissus themselves, some think, were absent, or lately dead; others think they were unbelievers, and such as did not themselves embrace Christianity; so Pareus: and some think this Narcissus was the same with one of that name who is frequently mentioned in the life of Claudius, as a very rich man that had a great family, but was very wicked and mischievous. It seems, then, there were some good servants, or other retainers, even in the family of a wicked man, a common case, Ti1 6:1. Compare Ti1 6:2. The poor servant is called, and chosen, and faithful, while the rich master is passed by, and left to perish in unbelief. Even so, Father, because it seemed good unto thee.
7.Concerning Rufus (Rom 16:13), chosen in the Lord. He was a choice Christian, whose gifts and graces evinced that he was eternally chosen in Christ Jesus. He was one of a thousand for integrity and holiness. - And his mother and mine, his mother by nature and mine by Christian love and spiritual affection; as he calls Phebe his sister, and teaches Timothy to treat the elder women as mothers, Ti1 5:2. This good woman, upon some occasion or other, had been as a mother to Paul, in caring for him, and comforting him; and Paul here gratefully owns it, and calls her mother.
8.Concerning the rest this is observable, that he salutes the brethren who are with them (Rom 16:14), and the saints who are with them (Rom 16:15), with them in family-relations, with them in the bond of Christian communion. It is the good property of saints to delight in being together; and Paul thus joins them together in his salutations to endear them one to another. Lest any should find themselves aggrieved, as if Paul had forgotten them, he concludes with the remembrance of the rest, as brethren and saints, though not named. In Christian congregations there should be smaller societies linked together in love and converse, and taking opportunities of being often together. Among all those to whom Paul sends greeting here is not a word of Peter, which gives occasion to suspect that he was not bishop of Rome, as the Papists say he was; for, if he was, we cannot but suppose him resident, or at least how could Paul write so long an epistle to the Christians there, and take no notice of him?
Lastly, He concludes with the recommendation of them to the love and embraces one of another: Salute one another with a holy kiss. Mutual salutations, as they express love, so they increase and strengthen love, and endear Christians one to another: therefore Paul here encourages the use of them, and only directs that they may be holy - a chaste kiss, in opposition to that which is wanton and lascivious; a sincere kiss, in opposition to that which is treacherous and dissembling, as Judas's, when he betrayed Christ with a kiss. He adds, in the close, a general salutation to them all, in the name of the churches of Christ (Rom 16:16): "The churches of Christ salute you; that is, the churches which I am with, and which I am accustomed to visit personally, as knit together in the bonds of the common Christianity, desire me to testify their affection to you and good wishes for you." This is one way of maintaining the communion of saints.
For he [Rufus] was chosen, that is, promoted by the Lord to do his work. Nevertheless he had such a holy mother that the apostle calls her his mother also.
"Salute Rufus, chosen in the Lord, and his mother and mine."
Here again the good things are without any drawback, since the son and the mother are each of such a character, and the house is full of blessing, and the root agreeth with the fruit; for he would not have simply said, "his mother and mine," unless he had been bearing testimony to the woman for great virtue.
These were Jews, and because they had suffered tribulation along with Paul but like him they had not been intimidated, they are deservedly held in esteem. Among others, they had been sent to further the progress of the Romans, and according to the testimony of Paul himself they are reported to have been believers before him.
The mother of Rufus by nature had become Paul’s mother by grace.
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SUMMARY
Romans 16:13 presents a concise yet profoundly personal greeting from the Apostle Paul to Rufus, identified as "chosen in the Lord," and to Rufus's mother, whom Paul tenderly acknowledges as a mother figure to himself. This brief salutation, embedded within Paul's extensive list of greetings at the close of his Epistle to the Romans, underscores the deep personal bonds, mutual affection, and spiritual recognition that characterized the early Christian community, highlighting the familial nature of fellowship and the significance of individual contributions to the gospel.
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EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS
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Literary Devices
Romans 16:13, though brief, effectively employs several literary devices to convey its profound message. The most prominent is Personal Address, as Paul directly names and greets specific individuals, creating a sense of intimacy and personal connection with the recipients of his letter. This personal touch humanizes the theological discourse of the epistle and highlights the relational nature of early Christian community. Furthermore, the verse utilizes Familial Language, particularly in the phrase "his mother and mine." This expression is a powerful Implied Metaphor, where the spiritual care and nurture provided by Rufus's mother are likened to the love and support of a biological mother. This metaphor underscores the deep, familial bonds formed within the body of Christ, where believers are called to treat one another with the same love and care as family members, embodying the spirit of adoption into God's household. The Affectionate Tone conveyed through these personal greetings and the "mother" designation reveals Paul's deep emotional investment in the lives of these believers, transforming a simple salutation into a testament of Christian love and fellowship.
THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS
Romans 16:13 powerfully illustrates the theological truth that the Christian community is more than a mere assembly of individuals; it is a spiritual family, bound by divine election and mutual love. The recognition of Rufus as "chosen in the Lord" speaks to the doctrine of election, emphasizing God's sovereign initiative in drawing individuals into relationship with Himself and His purposes. This divine choice bestows a unique dignity and purpose upon every believer. Furthermore, Paul's tender acknowledgment of Rufus's mother as "mine" beautifully exemplifies the profound familial bonds forged within the church, where believers extend care, hospitality, and affection to one another that transcends biological ties. This communal love is a tangible expression of the new identity believers share in Christ, reflecting the very nature of God's love for His children.
REFLECTION AND APPLICATION
Romans 16:13, though a brief greeting, offers profound insights for contemporary believers. It reminds us that Christian community is built on genuine, personal relationships and mutual care, not just shared beliefs or activities. Paul's deep appreciation for Rufus and his mother challenges us to actively recognize and affirm those who serve faithfully, often behind the scenes, providing hospitality, encouragement, and support within our churches and ministries. Just as Rufus's mother extended maternal care to Paul, we are called to cultivate a spirit of familial love, extending warmth, practical help, and spiritual nurture to those around us, especially those who may be serving tirelessly or are far from their biological families. This verse also affirms the inherent worth and divine calling of every believer; whether prominent or obscure, each is "chosen in the Lord" and has a vital, God-given role in the body of Christ. Our acts of love and service, no matter how small, contribute significantly to the health and mission of the church.
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Who was Rufus, and why is he called "chosen in the Lord"?
Answer: Rufus (G4504, Rhoûphos) was a Christian in Rome to whom Paul sends a personal greeting. While his identity is not definitively established, some scholars speculate he might be the same Rufus mentioned in Mark 15:21, as the son of Simon of Cyrene, who carried Jesus' cross. If so, it would mean Simon's family became believers and were known in early Christian circles. The phrase "chosen in the Lord" (Greek: eklektós en Kyriō) signifies that Rufus was a genuine believer, divinely elected and set apart by God for His purposes. It points to his authentic faith and likely his distinguished standing or service within the Christian community, emphasizing that his spiritual status was rooted in his union with Christ.
What is the significance of Paul referring to Rufus's mother as "his mother and mine"?
Answer: This tender and unique phrase does not imply a biological relationship between Paul and Rufus's mother. Instead, it conveys a profound spiritual and emotional bond. It suggests that Rufus's mother had extended significant maternal care, hospitality, or support to Paul during his ministry, perhaps providing him with shelter, food, comfort, or emotional encouragement when he was far from his own family. Her kindness and nurture were so impactful that Paul felt a deep sense of indebtedness and affection, regarding her as a mother figure to himself. This highlights the familial spirit, deep love, and mutual support that characterized the early Christian community, where believers often treated each other with a love that transcended biological ties, embodying the principle of Galatians 6:10.
CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT
Romans 16:13, with its intimate greetings and familial language, finds its ultimate fulfillment in Christ, who is the cornerstone and head of the new spiritual family of God. The concept of being "chosen in the Lord" for Rufus directly points to Christ as the one in whom all believers are chosen before the foundation of the world, as articulated in Ephesians 1:4. Our election is not based on our merit but on God's gracious purpose in Christ. Furthermore, the tender bond between Paul and Rufus's mother, where spiritual ties transcend biological ones, beautifully prefigures the new family created by Christ's redemptive work. Jesus Himself redefined family, stating that those who do the will of God are His "brother and sister and mother" (Mark 3:35). Through His sacrifice, Christ broke down barriers and united diverse peoples into one body, where believers are no longer strangers but "fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God" (Ephesians 2:19). Thus, the familial love and mutual support exemplified in Romans 16:13 are a direct outflow of the Spirit of Christ dwelling within His church, transforming individual lives into a loving, interdependent community that reflects the very heart of God.