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Matthew Henry
From his Commentary on the Whole Bible. Henry comments on passages, not single verses — this entry covers Proverbs 6:1–5.
It is the excellency of the word of God that it teaches us not only divine wisdom for another world, but human prudence for this world, that we may order our affairs with discretion; and this is one good rule, To avoid suretiship, because by it poverty and ruin are often brought into families, which take away that comfort in relations which he had recommended in the foregoing chapter. 1. We must look upon suretiship as a snare and decline it accordingly, Pro 6:1, Pro 6:2. "It is dangerous enough for a man to be bound for his friend, though it be one whose circumstances he is well acquainted with, and well assured of his sufficiency, but much more to strike the hands with a stranger, to become surety for one whom thou dost not know to be either able or honest." Or the stranger here with whom the hand is stricken is the creditor, "the usurer to whom thou art become bound, and yet as to thee he is a stranger, that is, thou owest him nothing, nor hast had any dealings with him. If thou hast rashly entered into such engagements, either wheedled into them or in hopes to have the same kindness done for thee another time, know that thou art snared with the words of thy mouth; it was easily done, with a word's speaking; it was but setting thy hand to a paper, a bond is soon sealed and delivered, and a recognizance entered into. But it will not be so easily got clear of; thou art in a snare more than thou art aware of." See how little reason we have to make light of tongue-sins; if by a word of our mouth we may become indebted to men, and lie open to their actions, by the words of our mouth we may become obnoxious to God's justice, and even so may be snared. It is false that words are but wind: they are often snares. 2. If we have been drawn into this snare, it will be our wisdom by all means, with all speed, to get out of it, Pro 6:3-5. It sleeps for the present; we hear nothing of it. The debt is not demanded; the principal says, "Never fear, we will take care of it." But still the bond is in force, interest is running on, the creditor may come upon thee when he will and perhaps may be hasty and severe, the principal may prove either knavish or insolvent, and then thou must rob thy wife and children, and ruin thy family, to pay that which thou didst neither nor drink for. And therefore deliver thyself; rest not till either the creditor give up the bond or the principal give thee counter-security; when thou art come into the hand of thy friend, and he has advantage against thee, it is no time to threaten or give ill language (that will provoke and make ill worse), but humble thyself, beg and pray to be discharged, go down on thy knees to him, and give him all the fair words thou canst; engage thy friends to speak for thee; leave no stone unturned till thou hast agreed with thy adversary and compromised the matter, so that thy bond may not come against thee or thine. This is a care which may well break thy sleep, and let it do so till thou hast got through. "Give not sleep to thy eyes till thou hast delivered thyself. Strive and struggle to the utmost, and hasten with all speed, as a roe or a bird delivers herself out of this snare of the fowler or hunter. Delays are dangerous, and feeble efforts will not serve." See what care God, in his word, has taken to make men good husbands of their estates, and to teach them prudence in the management of them. Godliness has precepts, as well as promises, relating to the life that now is.
But how are we to understand this? We are not to think it is unlawful in any case to become surety, or bail, for another; it may be a piece of justice or charity; he that has friends may see cause in this instance to show himself friendly, and it may be no piece of imprudence. Paul became bound for Onesimus, Plm 1:19. We may help a young man into business that we know to be honest and diligent, and gain him credit by passing our word for him, and so do him a great kindness without any detriment to ourselves. But, 1. It is every man's wisdom to keep out of debt as much as may be, for it is an incumbrance upon him, entangles him in the world, puts him in danger of doing wrong or suffering wrong. The borrower is servant to the lender, and makes himself very much a slave to this world. Christians therefore, who are bought with a price, should not thus, without need, make themselves the servants of men, Co1 7:23. 2. It is great folly to entangle ourselves with necessitous people, and to become bound for their debts, that are ever and anon taking up money, and lading, as we say, out of one hole into another, for it is ten to one but, some time or other, it will come upon us. A man ought never to be bound as surety for more than he is both able and willing to pay, and can afford to pay without wronging his family, in case the principal fail, for he ought to look upon it as his own debt. Ecclesiasticus 8:13, Be not surety above thy power, for, if thou be surety, thou must take care to pay it. 3. It is a necessary piece of after-wit, if we have foolishly entangled ourselves, to get out of the snare as fast as we can, to lose no time, spare no pains, and stick at no submission to make ourselves safe and easy, and get our affairs into a good posture. It is better to humble ourselves for an accommodation than to ruin ourselves by our stiffness and haughtiness. Make sure thy friend by getting clear from thy engagements from him; for rash suretiship is as much the bane of friendship as that which is prudent is sometimes the bond of it. Let us take heed lest we any way make ourselves guilty of other men's sins against God (Ti1 5:22), for that is worse, and much more dangerous, than being bound for other men's debts; and, if we must be in all this care to get our debts to men forgiven, much more to get our peace made with God. "Humble thyself to him; make sure of Christ thy friend, to intercede for thee; pray earnestly that thy sins may be pardoned, and thou mayest be delivered from going down to the pit, and it shall not be in vain. Give not sleep to thy eyes nor slumber to thy eye lids, till this be done."
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To be surety for a friend is to take charge of the soul of another on the surety of one’s own behavior. Your hand is bound to a stranger, and your mind is bound with the care of a responsibility which you previously did not hold. But you are snared with the words of your mouth and caught with your own speeches, because, while you are compelled to speak good things to those who are committed to you, you must yourself observe the things that you say. You are therefore snared with the words of your mouth, being constrained by the requirement of reason not to let your life be relaxed to what agrees not with your teaching. Thus before the strict Judge you are compelled to accomplish as much in deed as it is plain you have required of others by your words.
My son, if you have become surety for your friend, etc. The plain sense of this letter is clear, as it advises one who has become surety for a friend to diligently admonish that friend to repay the money owed to the creditor, thus freeing both himself and the friend. Allegorically, however, in this passage, it addresses the teacher; and further, in the subsequent passage, it instructs anyone wandering on how they should conduct themselves cautiously. It is said to the instructor, If you have become surety for your friend, you have struck your hand with a stranger. Which is openly to say: If you have taken the soul of a brother into the danger of your conduct, you have already bound your mind with the care of solicitude, which was previously absent.
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Summary
Proverbs 6:1 initiates a critical section of practical wisdom, cautioning against the perilous practice of becoming a financial guarantor for another. This verse highlights the profound risks associated with making such a commitment, especially when done rashly or for someone not intimately known, underscoring the serious and binding nature of financial pledges in ancient Israelite society and serving as a foundational warning against entanglements that can lead to personal and familial ruin.
Context
Literary Context
Proverbs 6:1 marks a transition point within the book of Proverbs, moving from general exhortations to wisdom and warnings against folly in the opening chapters (Proverbs 1-5) to more specific, practical admonitions. It introduces a series of distinct warnings from a father to his son, characteristic of the didactic framework of the wisdom literature. This particular warning against suretyship is immediately followed by counsel against laziness (Proverbs 6:6-11), deceit and maliciousness (Proverbs 6:12-15), and the destructive nature of adultery (Proverbs 6:20-35). The placement of this financial warning at the outset of this section emphasizes its foundational importance for a life of prudence and integrity, setting the stage for a comprehensive guide to avoiding common pitfalls that threaten one's well-being and reputation, as seen throughout Proverbs 6.
Historical & Cultural Context
In the ancient Near East, including Israel, formal banking institutions as we know them did not exist. Economic transactions, loans, and credit often relied on personal pledges and guarantees. The practice of suretyship, where one person guaranteed the debt or obligation of another, was a common but high-risk endeavor. The act of "striking one's hand" (Hebrew: tâqaʻ kaph) was a widely recognized and legally binding gesture, akin to a modern handshake or signature, signifying a solemn and unbreakable agreement or covenant. By striking hands, the guarantor assumed personal liability for the debt, potentially risking their own property, freedom, or even the enslavement of family members if the primary debtor defaulted. This societal reality underscores the severity of the warning in Proverbs 6:1, reflecting the potential for destitution and loss of liberty that could result from such a commitment.
Key Themes
This verse contributes powerfully to several overarching themes central to the book of Proverbs. Firstly, it champions financial prudence and responsible stewardship, highlighting the inherent dangers of pledging one's resources for another's obligations, particularly when the reliability of the principal debtor is uncertain. This theme is consistently echoed throughout wisdom literature, emphasizing the importance of diligent management of assets and avoiding financial entanglements that can lead to ruin, as further elaborated in passages like Proverbs 22:26-27. Secondly, the proverb stresses the binding nature of agreements and the importance of integrity. The idiom "stricken thy hand" signifies a solemn and unbreakable commitment, reminding the reader that words and gestures of agreement carry serious weight and consequences, reflecting a broader biblical emphasis on truthfulness and keeping one's word (Psalm 15:4). Thirdly, it speaks to discernment in relationships and associations. The distinction between "friend" and "stranger" suggests varying degrees of risk. While the warning applies generally, undertaking such a commitment for a "stranger" (someone less known or whose character is uncertain) is presented as particularly precarious, highlighting the need for wisdom in choosing whom to trust financially, aligning with the broader call for discernment and wisdom in all of life's dealings.
Exposition and Analysis
Key Word Analysis
This primitive root means "to braid, i.e. intermix; technically, to traffic (as if by barter); also or give to be security (as a kind of exchange)." This word vividly describes the act of intertwining one's financial fate with another's, taking on their risk as one's own. It implies a deep financial entanglement where one becomes an "exchange" or "pledge" for another's obligation, highlighting the profound personal liability involved.
This primitive root means "to clatter, i.e. slap (the hands together), clang (an instrument); by analogy, to drive (a nail or tent-pin, a dart, etc.); by implication, to become bondsman by handclasping." In this context, it refers to the forceful and deliberate act of striking hands together, symbolizing the formal sealing of a contract or agreement. It underscores the solemnity, public nature, and binding force of the commitment, making it clear that this was no casual promise.
This primitive root means "to turn aside (especially for lodging); hence to be a foreigner, strange, profane." Here, it refers to someone who is not intimately known, a non-relative, or someone whose character and reliability are uncertain. The warning is intensified when the commitment is made for such an individual, as their trustworthiness is unproven, significantly increasing the risk and folly for the guarantor.
Verse Breakdown
"My son"
This opening address immediately establishes the didactic and intimate tone of the proverb. It signifies a father's loving, authoritative instruction to his child or a teacher's guidance to a disciple, framing the advice as personal, vital, and intended for the practical formation of character and prudent living.
"if thou be surety for thy friend"
This clause introduces the core warning, highlighting the danger of becoming a guarantor for someone else's debt or obligation, even if that person is a "friend." While friendship might imply trust and loyalty, the proverb immediately points out the inherent financial risk involved in such a commitment, even with those one knows well, suggesting that even good intentions can lead to perilous outcomes.
"[if] thou hast stricken thy hand with a stranger"
This second clause intensifies the warning by specifying both the manner of the agreement ("stricken thy hand," a legally binding gesture) and the heightened risk when the commitment is made for a "stranger." The implied repetition of "if" emphasizes the conditional nature of the warning, setting up the severe consequences that are elaborated upon in the subsequent verses. The "stranger" implies someone less known, of uncertain character, or without established ties, making the act of suretyship even more perilous and foolish.
Literary Devices
Proverbs 6:1 employs several effective literary devices to convey its urgent warning. Didacticism is paramount, evident in the direct, paternal address ("My son"), which establishes an instructional tone typical of wisdom literature. The verse also functions as a Conditional Statement, implicitly setting up a clear cause-and-effect relationship ("if you do this... then these consequences will follow," with the "then" elaborated in the subsequent verses of the chapter). Furthermore, there is a subtle but significant Parallelism or contrast drawn between "friend" and "stranger," highlighting a spectrum of risk in relationships. While both scenarios are warned against, the latter implies a greater degree of folly and potential for ruin. Finally, Metonymy is powerfully present in the phrase "stricken thy hand," where the physical action of hand-striking stands for the entire, legally binding agreement or contract. This emphasizes the solemnity, public nature, and irreversible consequences of the commitment.
Theological and Thematic Connections
Proverbs 6:1, while rooted in practical financial wisdom, resonates with profound theological principles concerning stewardship, personal responsibility, and the sacred nature of promises. It teaches that true generosity must be tempered with divine wisdom, and that one's resources, entrusted by God, should be managed with prudence to avoid self-inflicted ruin and maintain integrity. The emphasis on the binding nature of agreements reflects God's own unwavering faithfulness to His covenants and calls believers to a high standard of integrity in their dealings, recognizing that words and pledges carry significant weight before both God and humanity. This wisdom safeguards not only personal finances but also one's reputation, freedom, and ability to fulfill other obligations, including those to God, family, and community, aligning human conduct with divine principles of order and trustworthiness.
Reflection and Application
In our contemporary world, the timeless warning of Proverbs 6:1 remains profoundly relevant, extending beyond the ancient practice of suretyship to modern financial practices such as co-signing loans, guaranteeing leases, or entering into business partnerships without thorough due diligence. This proverb challenges us to exercise profound wisdom, discernment, and self-control in all our financial commitments. It compels us to recognize that while generosity and helping others are virtues, reckless financial entanglement can lead to devastating consequences for ourselves, our families, and our ability to honor our commitments to God and others. It prompts us to carefully consider the character and reliability of those we might financially support, and to fully understand the legal and personal implications of any agreement we enter. The core principle is not to forbid all aid to others, but to ensure that our help is sustainable, wise, and does not jeopardize our own stewardship or lead us into a snare from which escape is difficult, always prioritizing long-term financial health and integrity.
Questions for Reflection
FAQ
Is Proverbs 6:1 a blanket prohibition against helping others financially?
No, Proverbs 6:1 is not a blanket prohibition against all forms of financial assistance. Instead, it is a strong and specific warning against the practice of becoming a surety or guarantor, particularly for someone whose reliability is unknown or questionable ("a stranger"). While the Bible encourages generosity and helping those in genuine need (e.g., Galatians 6:2), it consistently balances this with wisdom, prudence, and responsible stewardship. The warning here is against taking on another's financial liability in a way that puts one's own well-being, family, or future at severe and unnecessary risk, distinguishing between wise assistance and reckless entanglement.
What is the significance of "striking one's hand" in this verse?
"Striking one's hand" (Hebrew: tâqaʻ kaph) refers to an ancient Near Eastern practice of sealing a formal, binding agreement or contract with a physical gesture, often a solemn handshake. It was a public and legally recognized declaration of commitment, signifying that the person was now irrevocably bound to the terms of the agreement and personally liable for its fulfillment. This idiom underscores the gravity and irreversible nature of becoming a surety, highlighting that such a pledge was not to be taken lightly, as it carried severe consequences, much like a sworn oath or a signed contract today (Nehemiah 10:29).
Does this proverb apply to modern practices like co-signing a loan?
Absolutely. The principle embedded in Proverbs 6:1 directly applies to many modern financial practices, including co-signing a loan, guaranteeing a lease, or entering into a business venture where one's personal assets are at risk for another's debt or performance. When you co-sign, you become legally responsible for the debt if the primary borrower defaults, mirroring the ancient concept of suretyship. The proverb warns against the folly and potential ruin of such commitments, especially when made impulsively or for someone whose financial reliability or character is uncertain, a principle further reinforced in passages like Proverbs 17:18.
Christ-Centered Fulfillment
While Proverbs 6:1 offers crucial practical wisdom for navigating earthly financial entanglements, its ultimate theological resonance points profoundly to Christ and His work. In a unique and perfect sense, Jesus Christ became our ultimate "surety," not through a risky or foolish venture, but through a divine, unbreakable covenant. He "struck His hand" in an eternal agreement, not as a stranger, but as the faithful Son of God, taking upon Himself the immense, unpayable debt of humanity's sin (Hebrews 7:22). Through His atoning sacrifice on the cross, He perfectly fulfilled the demands of divine justice, paying the price for our spiritual bankruptcy and becoming sin for us so that in Him we might become the righteousness of God (2 Corinthians 5:21). This divine act of suretyship, rooted in perfect love, wisdom, and righteousness, frees us from the ultimate debt of sin and its eternal consequences, enabling us to live lives of responsible stewardship and generous giving, knowing that our true security is found not merely in avoiding earthly financial pitfalls, but in the unfailing provision and eternal inheritance secured by our Lord Jesus Christ (Ephesians 1:7).