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2 Samuel 14

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Joab Schemes to Bring Absalom Home 1–3

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Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king's heart was toward Absalom. ​
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And Joab sent to Tekoah, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning apparel, and anoint not thyself with oil, but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead: ​
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And come to the king, and speak on this manner unto him. So Joab put the words in her mouth.

The Wise Woman’s Parable 4–11

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And when the woman of Tekoah spake to the king, she fell on her face to the ground, and did obeisance, and said, Help, O king.
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And the king said unto her, What aileth thee? And she answered, I am indeed a widow woman, and mine husband is dead.
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And thy handmaid had two sons, and they two strove together in the field, and there was none to part them, but the one smote the other, and slew him. ​
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And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid, and they said, Deliver him that smote his brother, that we may kill him, for the life of his brother whom he slew; and we will destroy the heir also: and so they shall quench my coal which is left, and shall not leave to my husband neither name nor remainder upon the earth. ​
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And the king said unto the woman, Go to thine house, and I will give charge concerning thee.
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And the woman of Tekoah said unto the king, My lord, O king, the iniquity be on me, and on my father's house: and the king and his throne be guiltless.
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And the king said, Whosoever saith ought unto thee, bring him to me, and he shall not touch thee any more.
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Then said she, I pray thee, let the king remember the LORD thy God, that thou wouldest not suffer the revengers of blood to destroy any more, lest they destroy my son. And he said, As the LORD liveth, there shall not one hair of thy son fall to the earth. ​

The Parable Applied to Absalom 12–20

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Then the woman said, Let thine handmaid, I pray thee, speak one word unto my lord the king. And he said, Say on.
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And the woman said, Wherefore then hast thou thought such a thing against the people of God? for the king doth speak this thing as one which is faulty, in that the king doth not fetch home again his banished. ​
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For we must needs die, and are as water spilt on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again; neither doth God respect any person: yet doth he devise means, that his banished be not expelled from him. ​
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Now therefore that I am come to speak of this thing unto my lord the king, it is because the people have made me afraid: and thy handmaid said, I will now speak unto the king; it may be that the king will perform the request of his handmaid.
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For the king will hear, to deliver his handmaid out of the hand of the man that would destroy me and my son together out of the inheritance of God.
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Then thine handmaid said, The word of my lord the king shall now be comfortable: for as an angel of God, so is my lord the king to discern good and bad: therefore the LORD thy God will be with thee. ​
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Then the king answered and said unto the woman, Hide not from me, I pray thee, the thing that I shall ask thee. And the woman said, Let my lord the king now speak.
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And the king said, Is not the hand of Joab with thee in all this? And the woman answered and said, As thy soul liveth, my lord the king, none can turn to the right hand or to the left from ought that my lord the king hath spoken: for thy servant Joab, he bade me, and he put all these words in the mouth of thine handmaid: ​
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To fetch about this form of speech hath thy servant Joab done this thing: and my lord is wise, according to the wisdom of an angel of God, to know all things that are in the earth.

Absalom Returns to Jerusalem 21–24

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And the king said unto Joab, Behold now, I have done this thing: go therefore, bring the young man Absalom again. ​
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And Joab fell to the ground on his face, and bowed himself, and thanked the king: and Joab said, To day thy servant knoweth that I have found grace in thy sight, my lord, O king, in that the king hath fulfilled the request of his servant.
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So Joab arose and went to Geshur, and brought Absalom to Jerusalem.
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And the king said, Let him turn to his own house, and let him not see my face. So Absalom returned to his own house, and saw not the king's face. ​

Absalom’s Appearance and Family 25–27

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But in all Israel there was none to be so much praised as Absalom for his beauty: from the sole of his foot even to the crown of his head there was no blemish in him. ​
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And when he polled his head, (for it was at every year's end that he polled it: because the hair was heavy on him, therefore he polled it:) he weighed the hair of his head at two hundred shekels after the king's weight. ​
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And unto Absalom there were born three sons, and one daughter, whose name was Tamar: she was a woman of a fair countenance. ​

Absalom Forces Full Reconciliation 28–33

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So Absalom dwelt two full years in Jerusalem, and saw not the king's face. ​
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Therefore Absalom sent for Joab, to have sent him to the king; but he would not come to him: and when he sent again the second time, he would not come.
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Therefore he said unto his servants, See, Joab's field is near mine, and he hath barley there; go and set it on fire. And Absalom's servants set the field on fire. ​
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Then Joab arose, and came to Absalom unto his house, and said unto him, Wherefore have thy servants set my field on fire?
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And Absalom answered Joab, Behold, I sent unto thee, saying, Come hither, that I may send thee to the king, to say, Wherefore am I come from Geshur? it had been good for me to have been there still: now therefore let me see the king's face; and if there be any iniquity in me, let him kill me. ​
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So Joab came to the king, and told him: and when he had called for Absalom, he came to the king, and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king: and the king kissed Absalom. ​

Bible text: King James Version (1769 Blayney text) · Public domain

Study Notes for 2 Samuel 14

Verse 1

the king's heart was toward Absalom — 'Perceived' is yada, to know. What Joab read is stated in 13:39: 'the soul of king David longed to go forth unto Absalom'. Joab is 'the son of Zeruiah', David's sister (1 Chr 2:16), and brother of Abishai and Asahel (2 Sam 2:18).

Verse 2

a wise woman — Tekoah lay in Judah and was later the home of Amos (Amos 1:1). 'Wise' is chakam, skilful, even artful. The disguise is a mourner who does not 'anoint' herself with oil; David had done the opposite when his mourning ended (2 Sam 12:20).

Verse 6

two sons, and they two strove together in the field — The story mirrors Absalom and Amnon: two brothers, one slain by the other. 'Field' recalls the first fratricide, 'when they were in the field' (Gen 4:8). 'None to part them' (natsal) is the same verb as 'deliver' in v.16.

Verse 7

quench my coal which is left — Gechel is a live ember; the last son is the one spark of the household. 'Name' (shem) and 'remainder' (she'erit) name what an heir preserves. The family's demand is the avenger's: 'The revenger of blood himself shall slay the murderer' (Num 35:19).

Verse 11

As the LORD liveth — David swears by the LORD, the oath the people used of Jonathan: 'as the LORD liveth, there shall not one hair of his head fall to the ground' (1 Sam 14:45). 'Revengers of blood' is go'el, the kinsman charged with avenging a death (Num 35:19).

Verse 13

the king doth speak this thing as one which is faulty — 'Faulty' is ashem, guilty. Her turn: David's oath to spare her son condemns his own refusal to 'fetch home again his banished' (nadach). Absalom had been at Geshur 'three years' (13:38). 'Thought' (chashab) leads into the same verb in v.14.

Verse 14

water spilt on the ground — Death is irreversible, like water that 'cannot be gathered up again'. Yet 'doth he devise means': chashab, the verb of 'thought' in v.13, with its noun machashabah, a plan. The aim is that his 'banished' (nadach, twice here) be 'not expelled from him'.

Verse 17

as an angel of God — Malak, messenger. The phrase is repeated in v.20 and used of David again by Mephibosheth (2 Sam 19:27). 'To discern good and bad' is Solomon's request for 'an understanding heart' (1 Kings 3:9). 'Comfortable' is menuchah, rest.

Verse 19

Is not the hand of Joab with thee in all this? — David names the source; she confesses that Joab 'put all these words in the mouth of thine handmaid', the verb (sum) of v.3. 'Turn to the right hand or to the left' is the language of keeping the LORD's law (Deut 5:32), here said of the king's word.

Verse 21

bring the young man Absalom again — 'Bring… again' is shub, the verb of 'fetch home again' in v.13. David answers her charge in her own word. 'Young man' is na'ar, a term covering boy to adolescent and servant; the command goes to Joab, not to the woman.

Verse 24

let him not see my face — 'Turn' is sabab; Absalom is back in Jerusalem but shut out of the king's presence. The same words close v.28: 'saw not the king's face'. A like bar was set on Abner when he sought a league with David: 'Thou shalt not see my face' (2 Sam 3:13).

Verse 25

no blemish in him — Mum, a blemish or blot. 'Praised' is halal, the verb for public acclaim. Saul was described in similar terms: 'not among the children of Israel a goodlier person than he' (1 Sam 9:2). The verse gives no word on Absalom's character.

Verse 26

two hundred shekels after the king's weight — 'Polled' is galach, to shave; he cut his hair once a year because it was heavy. 'Weight' is literally 'stone' (eben), the stone weights of trade. The same head later catches in 'the thick boughs of a great oak' (2 Sam 18:9).

Verse 27

three sons, and one daughter, whose name was Tamar — She bears the name of Absalom's sister, whom Amnon wronged (2 Sam 13:1). The sons are not named, and Absalom later says, 'I have no son to keep my name in remembrance' (2 Sam 18:18), which suggests they had died.

Verse 28

two full years — The Hebrew pairs 'years' (shanah) with 'days' (yom), a complete span. With the three years at Geshur (13:38) Absalom has been out of his father's sight for five years, though now living in Jerusalem. The verse repeats v.24: 'saw not the king's face'.

Verse 30

set it on fire — Yatsat, to kindle; the same verb marks Joab's complaint in v.31. Barley (se'orah) was a field crop, so the burning destroyed the standing grain. Samson likewise sent fire 'into the standing corn of the Philistines' (Judg 15:5).

Verse 32

if there be any iniquity in me, let him kill me — Avon, iniquity. Absalom asks for judgment or restoration, and says 'it had been good for me to have been there still' at Geshur. Jonathan once heard the same plea from David: 'if there be in me iniquity, slay me thyself' (1 Sam 20:8).

Verse 33

the king kissed Absalom — He 'bowed himself on his face to the ground', the homage the woman gave in v.4, and the king's kiss ends the bar of v.24. Kisses mark reconciliation elsewhere: Esau and Jacob (Gen 33:4), the father and the returning son (Luke 15:20).