Proverbs31

Proverbs 31 begins with King Lemuel's mother's counsel, urging him to avoid destructive women and strong drink, and to uphold justice for the poor and afflicted. The chapter then transitions to a detailed description of a virtuous woman, whose worth is far above rubies. She is characterized by diligence, wisdom, generosity, and a deep commitment to her household and the fear of the Lord, earning her praise from her family and community.

Advice from King Lemuel's Mother

The words of King L'mu'el, the prophecy with which his mother disciplined him:

No, my son! No, son of my womb! No, son of my vows!

Don't give your strength to women or your ways to that which destroys kings.

It is not for kings, L'mu'el, not for kings to drink wine; it is not for rulers to ask, "Where can I find strong liquor?"

For they may drink, then forget what has been decreed, and pervert the justice due to the poor.

Give strong liquor to one who is perishing, wine to the deeply depressed;

let him drink, forget his poverty and cease to remember his troubles.

Speak up for those who can't speak for themselves, for the rights of all who need an advocate.

Speak up, judge righteously, defend the cause of the poor and the needy.

The Woman of Valor (Eshet Hayil)

Who can find a capable wife? Her value is far beyond that of pearls.

Her husband trusts her from his heart, and she will prove a great asset to him.

She works to bring him good, not harm, all the days of her life.

She procures a supply of wool and flax and works with willing hands.

She is like those merchant vessels, bringing her food from far away.

It's still dark when she rises to give food to her household and orders to the young women serving her.

She considers a field, then buys it, and from her earnings she plants a vineyard.

She gathers her strength around her and throws herself into her work.

She sees that her business affairs go well; her lamp stays lit at night.

She puts her hands to the staff with the flax; her fingers hold the spinning rod.

She reaches out to embrace the poor and opens her arms to the needy.

When it snows, she has no fear for her household; since all of them are doubly clothed.

She makes her own quilts; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

Her husband is known at the city gates when he sits with the leaders of the land.

She makes linen garments and sells them; she supplies the merchants with sashes.

Clothed with strength and dignity, she can laugh at the days to come.

When she opens her mouth, she speaks wisely; on her tongue is loving instruction.

She watches how things go in her house, not eating the bread of idleness.

Her children arise; they make her happy; her husband too, as he praises her:

"Many women have done wonderful things, but you surpass them all!"

Charm can lie, beauty can vanish, but a woman who fears ADONAI should be praised.

Give her a share in what she produces; let her works speak her praises at the city gates.

Study Notes for Proverbs 31

Verse 1

Lemuel is unknown outside this passage. The text attributes this wisdom to the king's mother, emphasizing the profound influence of maternal instruction in royal education.

Verse 2

The triple rhetorical question emphasizes the depth of the mother's concern and the solemn responsibility placed on the son, who was perhaps dedicated to God ('son of my vows').

Verse 3

This warns against sexual promiscuity and indulgence in relationships that deplete a king’s moral and physical resources, a common failing among ancient monarchs.

Verse 4

Kings must maintain clear judgment to ensure justice (Deut 17:14-20). Alcohol clouds the mind, making impartial rule impossible.

Verse 5

To 'forget the law' means to neglect the covenant responsibilities of a righteous ruler, leading directly to the miscarriage of justice for the vulnerable.

Verse 6

This provides a contrast: while rulers must be sober, strong drink is appropriate as a palliative for the desperately suffering or dying, offering temporary relief from extreme misery.

Verse 8

The king's primary duty is social justice. He must use his royal authority ('Open thy mouth') to advocate for the voiceless, the vulnerable, and those condemned unjustly.

Verse 10

This verse introduces the famous acrostic poem (Vv. 10–31). The Hebrew *’ēšet ḥayil* means 'woman of strength' or 'woman of worth,' signifying her moral and practical competence.

Verse 11

Her trustworthiness is complete. Because she manages resources so well, her husband has no need to acquire wealth dishonestly ('spoil') or worry about domestic security.

Verse 13

She is proactive and industrious, involved in textile production from the raw materials (wool and flax), highlighting her direct labor and management skills.

Verse 14

This metaphor emphasizes her shrewdness and foresight; she acquires the best provisions through careful planning, ensuring high quality and abundance for her family.

Verse 16

She is an astute businesswoman, capable of evaluating and investing in property using the profits of her own labor, demonstrating financial independence and competence.

Verse 18

Her constant diligence is symbolized by her working late into the night. She perceives that her merchandise is profitable and is motivated by success.

Verse 20

Her industry is balanced by compassion. Her wealth and competence are used to actively support the poor and needy in the community, demonstrating practical piety.

Verse 21

'Scarlet' (or double-dyed clothing) indicates warmth and quality. Her preparations are thorough and luxurious, protecting her family from hardship (the 'snow').

Verse 23

Her competence and standing reflect positively on her husband, who gains public respect and leisure time to participate in civic governance ('in the gates') because his domestic affairs are impeccable.

Verse 25

Her true clothing is moral strength and dignity. She faces the future ('time to come') with confidence because her character and preparations are sound.

Verse 26

Her speech is characterized by wisdom and instruction. Her management style is marked by kindness and grace, showing she instructs and manages her household through gentle authority.

Verse 28

The primary sources of her honor are her family. The blessing and praise from her children and husband validate her role and contribution.

Verse 30

This is the theological conclusion: outward appearance (beauty) is fleeting. True, lasting praise and worth come only from reverence for God ('feareth the LORD').

Verse 31

The final instruction demands public recognition for her efforts. Her accomplishments should be acknowledged openly in the public sphere ('the gates'), confirming her societal value.

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Advice from King Lemuel's Mother

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