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Commentary on Judges 14 verses 1–9
Here, I. Samson, under the extraordinary guidance of Providence, seeks an occasion of quarrelling with the Philistines, by joining in affinity with them - a strange method, but the truth is Samson was himself a riddle, a paradox of a man, did that which was really great and good, by that which was seemingly weak and evil, because he was designed not to be a pattern to us (who must walk by rule, not by example), but a type of him who, though he knew no sin, was made sin for us, and appeared in the likeness of sinful flesh, that he might condemn and destroy sin in the flesh, Rom 8:3.
1.As the negotiation of Samson's marriage was a common case, we may observe, (1.) That is was weakly and foolishly done of him to set his affections upon a daughter of the Philistines; the thing appeared very improper. Shall one that is not only an Israelite, but a Nazarite, devoted to the Lord, covet to become one with a worshipper of Dagon? Shall one marked for a patriot of his country match among those that are its sworn enemies? He saw this woman (Jdg 14:1), and she pleased him well, Jdg 14:3. It does not appear that he had any reason to think her wise or virtuous, or in any way likely to be a help-meet for him; but he saw something in her face that was very agreeable to his fancy, and therefore nothing will serve but she must be his wife. He that in the choice of a wife is guided only by his eye, and governed by his fancy, must afterwards thank himself if he find a Philistine in his arms. (2.) Yet it was wisely and well done not to proceed so much as to make his addresses to her till he had first made his parents acquainted with the matter. He told them, and desired them to get her for him to wife, Jdg 14:2. Herein he is an example to all children. Conformably to the law of the fifth commandment, children ought not to marry, nor to move towards marrying, without the advice and consent of their parents; those that do (as bishop Hall here expresses it) wilfully unchild themselves, and exchange natural affections for violent. parents have a property in their children as parts of themselves. In marriage this property is transferred; for such is the law of the relation that a man shall leave his father and his mother and cleave to his wife. It is therefore not only unkind and ungrateful, but very unjust, to alienate this property without their concurrence; whoso thus robbeth his father or mother, stealing himself from them, who is nearer and dearer to them than their goods, and yet saith, It is no transgression, the same is the companion of a destroyer, Pro 28:24. (3.) His parents did well to dissuade him from yoking himself thus unequally with unbelievers. Let those who profess religion, but are courting an affinity with the profane and irreligious, matching into families where they have reason to think the fear of God is not, nor the worship of God, let them hear their reasoning, and apply it to themselves: "Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or, if none of our tribe, never a one among all thy people, never an Israelite, that pleases thee, or that thou canst think worthy of thy affection, that thou shouldest marry a Philistine?" In the old world the sons of God corrupted and ruined themselves, their families, and that truly primitive church, by marrying with the daughters of men, Gen 6:2. God had forbidden the people of Israel to marry with the devoted nations, one of which the Philistines were, Deu 7:3. (4.) If there had not been a special reason for it, it certainly would have been improper in him to insist upon his choice, and in them to agree to it at last. Yet their tender compliance with his affections may be observed as an example to parents not to be unreasonable in crossing their children's choices, nor to deny their consent, especially to those that have seasonably and dutifully asked it, without some very good cause. As children must obey their parents in the Lord, so parents must not provoke their children to wrath, lest they be discouraged. This Nazarite, in his subjection to his parents, asking their consent, and not proceeding till he had it, was not only an example to all children, but a type of the holy child Jesus, who went down with his parents to Nazareth (thence called a Nazarene) and was subject to them, Luk 2:51.
2.But this treaty of marriage is expressly said to be of the Lord, Jdg 14:4. Not only that God afterwards overruled it to serve his designs against the Philistines, but that he put it into Samson's heart to make this choice, that he might have occasion against the Philistine. It was not a thing evil in itself for him to marry a Philistine. It was forbidden because of the danger of receiving hurt by idolaters; where there was not only no danger of that kind, but an opportunity hoped for of doing that hurt to them which would be good service to Israel, the law might well be dispense with. It was said (Jdg 13:25) that the Spirit of the Lord began to move him at times, and we have reason to think he himself perceived that Spirit to move him at this time, when he made this choice, and that otherwise he would have yielded to his parents' dissuasives, nor would they have consented at last if he had not satisfied them it was of the Lord. This would bring him into acquaintance and converse with the Philistines, by which he might have such opportunities of galling them as otherwise he could not have. It should seem, the way in which the Philistines oppressed Israel was, not by great armies, but by the clandestine incursions of their giants and small parties of their plunderers. In the same way therefore Samson must deal with them; let him but by this marriage get among them, and he would be a thorn in their sides. Jesus Christ, having to deliver us from this present evil world, and to cast out the prince of it, did himself visit it, though full of pollution and enmity, and, by assuming a body, did in some sense join in affinity with it, that he might destroy our spiritual enemies, and his own arm might work the salvation.
II. Samson, by a special providence, is animated and encouraged to attack the Philistines. That being the service for which he was designed, God, when he called him to it, prepared him for it by two occurrences: -
1.By enabling him, in one journey to Timnath, to kill a lion, Jdg 14:5, Jdg 14:6. Many decline doing the service they might do because they know not their own strength. God let Samson know what he could do in the strength of the Spirit of the Lord, that he might never be afraid to look the greatest difficulties in the face. David, who was to complete the destruction of the Philistines, must try his hand first upon a lion and a bear, that thence he might infer, as we may suppose Samson did, that the uncircumcised Philistine should be as one of them, Sa1 17:36. (1.) Samson's encounter with the lion was hazardous. It was a young lion, one of the fiercest sort, that set upon him, roaring for his prey, and setting his eye particularly upon him; he roared in meeting him, so the word is. He was all alone in the vineyards, whither he had rambled from his father and mother (who kept the high road), probably to eat grapes. Children consider not how they expose themselves to the roaring lion that seeks to devour when, out of a foolish fondness for liberty, they wander from under the eye and wing of their prudent pious parents. Nor do young people consider what lions lurk in the vineyards, the vineyards of red wines, as dangerous as snakes under the green grass. Had Samson met with this lion in the way, he might have had more reason to expect help both from God and man than here in the solitary vineyards, out of his road. But there was a special providence in it, and the more hazardous the encounter was, (2.) The victory was so much the more illustrious. It was obtained without any difficulty: he strangled the lion, and tore his throat as easily as he would have strangled a kid, yet without any instrument, not only no sword nor bow, but not so much as a staff or knife; he had nothing in his hand. Christ engaged the roaring lion, and conquered him in the beginning of his public work (Mat 4:1, etc.), and afterwards spoiled principalities and powers, triumphing over them in himself, as some read it, not by any instrument. He was exalted in his own strength. That which added much to the glory of Samson's triumph over the lion was that when he had done this great exploit he did not boast of it, did not so much as tell his father nor mother that which many a one would soon have published through the whole country. Modesty and humility make up the brightest crown of great performances.
2.By providing him, the next journey, with honey in the carcase of this lion, Jdg 14:8, Jdg 14:9. When he came down the next time to solemnize his nuptials, and his parents with him, he had the curiosity to turn aside into the vineyard where he had killed the lion, perhaps that with the sight of the place he might affect himself with the mercy of that great deliverance, and might there solemnly give thanks to God for it. It is good thus to remind ourselves of God's former favours to us. There he found the carcase of the lion; the birds or beasts of prey, it is likely, had eaten the flesh, and in the skeleton a swarm of bees had knit, and made a hive of it, and had not been idle, but had there laid up a good stock of honey, which was one of the staple commodities of Canaan; such plenty there was of it that the land is said to flow with milk and honey. Samson, having a better title than any man to the hive, seizes the honey with his hands. This supposes an encounter with the bees; but he that dreaded not lion's paws had no reason to fear their stings. As by his victory over the lion he was emboldened to encounter the Philistine-giants, if there should be occasion, notwithstanding their strength and fierceness, so by dislodging the bees he was taught not to fear the multitude of the Philistines; though they compassed him about like bees, yet in the name of the Lord he should destroy them, Psa 118:12. Of the honey he here found, (1.) He ate himself, asking no questions for conscience' sake; for the dead bones of an unclean beast had not that ceremonial pollution in them that the bones of a man had. John Baptist, that Nazarite of the New Testament, lived upon wild honey. (2.) He gave to his parents, and they did eat; he did not eat all himself. Hast thou found honey? eat so much as is sufficient for thee, and no more, Pro 25:16. He let his parents share with him. Children should be grateful to their parents with the fruits of their own industry, and so show piety at home, Ti1 5:4. Let those that by the grace of God have found sweetness in religion themselves communicate their experience to their friends and relations, and invite them to come and share with them. He told not his parents whence he had it, lest they should scruple eating it. Bishop Hall observes here that those are less wise and more scrupulous than Samson that decline the use of God's gifts because they find them in ill vessels. Honey is hone still, though in a dead lion. Our Lord Jesus having conquered Satan, that roaring lion, believers find honey in the carcase, abundant strength and satisfaction, enough for themselves and for all their friends, from that victory.
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SUMMARY
Judges 14:4 unveils the profound theological truth behind Samson's seemingly impulsive and culturally controversial desire to marry a Philistine woman from Timnath. Far from being a mere personal whim, the narrator reveals that this perplexing choice was providentially orchestrated by the LORD. This verse profoundly underscores God's sovereign and often hidden hand in human affairs, demonstrating His capacity to utilize even unconventional, humanly flawed, or morally ambiguous actions as precise catalysts to advance His overarching redemptive plan, specifically to initiate conflict with the Philistines who were, at that time, oppressively dominating Israel.
CONTEXT
Literary Context: Judges 14:4 serves as the pivotal interpretive lens for understanding the ensuing narrative of Samson's judgeship. It immediately follows Samson's declaration to his parents in Judges 14:2 that he has seen a woman in Timnath whom he desires to marry, a request met with their understandable disapproval due to her Philistine origin. This verse reorients the reader's perspective, shifting the focus from Samson's apparent carnal motivations to God's overarching, sovereign purpose. It directly connects to the angelic prophecy in Judges 13:5, which foretold that Samson would "begin to deliver Israel out of the hand of the Philistines." The entire narrative arc of Judges 13-16 portrays Samson's life as a complex interplay of personal struggles, divine empowerment, and God's strategic interventions, with Judges 14:4 providing the essential theological framework for comprehending the often-ambiguous nature of his actions. It sets the stage for the series of confrontations with the Philistines, which are uniquely initiated through Samson's personal grievances rather than a direct, organized military campaign.
Historical & Cultural Context: The period of the Judges (approximately 12th-11th centuries BC) was characterized by a recurring cycle of Israelite apostasy, divine judgment manifested as foreign oppression, the people's cries for deliverance, and God raising up a "judge" to provide temporary liberation. At this specific point in history, Judges 13:1 explicitly states that the Philistines had held "dominion over Israel for forty years," indicating a long and severe period of subjugation. The Philistines were a formidable, technologically advanced people, possessing superior iron weaponry, unlike the Israelites who were still largely in the Bronze Age. They occupied the fertile coastal plain, frequently clashing with Israelite tribes in the adjacent Shephelah region, where Timnath was situated. Culturally and religiously, intermarriage with foreign peoples was strictly forbidden by Mosaic Law, as articulated in passages like Deuteronomy 7:3-4. This prohibition was not merely tribalistic but served a crucial theological purpose: to prevent idolatry, preserve Israel's distinct covenantal identity as God's chosen people, and safeguard their spiritual purity. Samson's request, therefore, was not only culturally scandalous but also a direct violation of deeply held religious principles from his devout Nazirite parents' perspective.
Key Themes: The most prominent and profound theme in Judges 14:4 is Divine Sovereignty and Providence. This verse powerfully asserts that even when human actors, such as Samson, appear to be driven solely by personal desires or make questionable choices, God remains absolutely in control, seamlessly weaving these actions into His larger, immutable redemptive plan. The declaration "it was of the LORD" is a profound theological statement of God's hidden, yet active, hand, demonstrating His unparalleled ability to use unconventional means and imperfect instruments to achieve His divine purposes. This resonates deeply with the broader biblical truth that God orchestrates all things for the ultimate good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose, as articulated in Romans 8:28. Another significant theme is God Uses Imperfect Instruments. Samson, despite being divinely chosen and supernaturally empowered, was demonstrably flawed, frequently succumbing to carnal impulses and personal vendettas. This verse highlights that God's power and effectiveness are not contingent upon human perfection or moral purity but rather on His own sovereign will and His ability to work through anyone He chooses, thereby demonstrating His glory through human weakness and unexpected avenues. Finally, the verse introduces the theme of The Beginning of Deliverance, as Samson's personal conflict with the Philistines, sparked by this divinely orchestrated marriage proposal, becomes the divinely ordained catalyst for Israel's long-awaited liberation from their oppressive foreign rule.
EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS
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Verse Breakdown
Literary Devices
Judges 14:4 masterfully employs Dramatic Irony, where the reader is privy to crucial information that the characters within the narrative (Samson's parents) are not. While the parents are bewildered, disapproving, and concerned about Samson's seemingly misguided choice, the omniscient narrator reveals God's overarching, sovereign purpose, creating tension and powerfully highlighting the vast disparity between limited human understanding and infinite divine wisdom. This irony profoundly underscores the theme of Divine Providence, presenting God as the ultimate orchestrator behind seemingly random, impulsive, or even morally questionable human actions. The verse also functions as potent Foreshadowing, signaling to the discerning reader that Samson's personal romantic pursuits and resulting grievances will inevitably lead to significant confrontations with the Philistines, thereby setting the stage for the dramatic events of his judgeship and the eventual beginning of Israel's deliverance. Furthermore, the narrative technique of revealing God's hidden hand at work exemplifies Divine Commentary, where the narrator steps in to provide the authoritative theological interpretation of events, guiding the reader's understanding and ensuring the correct theological perspective.
THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS
Judges 14:4 stands as a powerful and enduring testament to the absolute sovereignty of God, demonstrating unequivocally that His divine purposes are neither thwarted nor derailed by human imperfection, apparent disobedience, or the complex tapestry of human choices. It reveals a God who possesses the infinite wisdom and power to weave together the seemingly disparate threads of human desire, cultural conflict, and personal motivations into the magnificent tapestry of His grand redemptive plan. This verse does not, by any means, condone Samson's choices if they were sinful or driven by carnal impulses; rather, it profoundly highlights God's remarkable ability to work through them, showcasing His unparalleled wisdom and power in transforming human actions, even those that appear misguided, into precise instruments for His divine will. It offers profound reassurance to believers that God is perpetually at work, even when His methods are mysterious, His plan is not immediately discernible, or circumstances appear chaotic, thereby calling for profound trust in His overarching and perfect providence.
REFLECTION AND APPLICATION
Judges 14:4 offers both profound comfort and a significant challenge for believers navigating the complexities of life today. It serves as a powerful reminder that God's sovereign hand is meticulously at work in all circumstances, even those that appear chaotic, counter-intuitive, or seemingly born of human folly. We, much like Samson's parents, often find ourselves struggling to see God's hand at work, feeling bewildered by events and desperately seeking to understand "why" things unfold as they do. This verse calls us to cultivate a deeper, more profound trust in God's providence, recognizing with humility that He can and does use any situation, any person—and yes, even our own flawed choices—to advance His good, perfect, and ultimate will. It liberates us from the burdensome pressure of needing to be perfect for God to use us, while simultaneously challenging us to diligently align our desires and actions with His revealed will, knowing that He can still accomplish His purposes despite our imperfections. Ultimately, it encourages us to look beyond surface appearances and diligently seek God's deeper, redemptive purposes in the unfolding narrative of our individual lives and the grand story of the world.
Questions for Reflection
FAQ
Does this verse excuse Samson's potentially sinful choices, implying God caused him to sin?
Answer: No, this verse absolutely does not excuse Samson's choices or imply that God directly caused him to sin. The pivotal phrase "it was of the LORD" (מֵיְהוָה, mêyhwh) signifies divine initiative or purpose, meaning God ordained that this specific situation would serve as the precise catalyst for His overarching plan of deliverance for Israel. It highlights God's incredible and awe-inspiring ability to work through human decisions, even those that might be morally questionable, driven by carnal desires, or appear disobedient, without endorsing or causing the sin itself. Samson remained fully and personally responsible for his actions and their immediate moral implications. God's sovereignty means He can integrate human free will, and even human sin, into His overarching redemptive plan, turning what was intended for evil into good, as profoundly articulated in Genesis 50:20. The text's primary focus is on God's ultimate purpose and providential orchestration, not on Samson's purity of motive or the moral rectitude of his actions.
CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT
Judges 14:4, while seemingly focused on the flawed and enigmatic judge Samson, powerfully foreshadows the ultimate and perfect divine orchestration found supremely in the person and redemptive work of Jesus Christ. Samson was a deliverer raised by God to "begin to deliver Israel" from the physical oppression of the Philistines, yet his methods were often unconventional, driven by personal vendettas, and tragically marked by his own moral failings and weaknesses. He was, at best, an imperfect and temporary savior. In profound contrast, Jesus is the perfect, divinely ordained Deliverer, the true Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world. His mission was not merely to deliver Israel from a physical oppressor but to deliver all humanity from the far more devastating dominion of sin, death, and the devil (Colossians 1:13-14). Just as Samson's actions, though misunderstood and disapproved of by his parents, were ultimately "of the LORD" to fulfill a divine purpose, so too was the suffering, crucifixion, and death of Christ, though appearing as a human tragedy and an act of profound injustice, entirely "of the LORD" according to the definite plan and foreknowledge of God (Acts 2:23). God used the ultimate "occasion"—the sinfulness of humanity, the machinations of evil, and the betrayal of Judas—to bring about the greatest deliverance through Christ's sacrificial death, demonstrating His perfect sovereignty, unfathomable wisdom, and boundless redemptive love (Romans 5:8). Jesus perfectly fulfilled the role of the deliverer, not through personal flaws or carnal impulses, but through His perfect obedience to the Father's will, becoming the true and lasting source of eternal salvation for all who believe (Hebrews 5:9).