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Matthew Henry
From his Commentary on the Whole Bible. Henry comments on passages, not single verses — this entry covers Genesis 23:3–15. His two-level outline is real structure in the source text, so it is rendered as structure.
Here is, I. The humble request which Abraham made to his neighbours, the Hittites, for a burying-place among them, Gen 23:3, Gen 23:4. It was strange he had this to do now; but we are to impute it rather to God's providence than to his improvidence, as appears Act 7:5, where it is said, God gave him no inheritance in Canaan. It were well if all those who take care to provide burying-places for their bodies after death were as careful to provide a resting-place for their souls. Observe here, 1. The convenient diversion which this affair gave, for the present, to Abraham's grief: He stood up from before his dead. Those that find themselves in danger of over-grieving for their dead relations, and are entering into that temptation, must take heed of poring upon their loss and sitting alone and melancholy. There must be a time of standing up from before their dead, and ceasing to mourn. For, thanks be to God, our happiness is not bound up in the life of any creature. Care of the funeral may, as here, be improved to divert grief for the death at first, when it is most in danger of tyrannizing. Weeping must not hinder sowing. 2. The argument he used with the children of Heth, which was this: "I am a stranger and a sojourner with you, therefore I am unprovided, and must become a humble suitor to you for a burying-place." This was one occasion which Abraham took to confess that he was a stranger and a pilgrim upon earth; he was not ashamed to own it thus publicly, Heb 11:13. Note, The death of our relations should effectually remind us that we are not at home in this world. When they are gone, say, "We are going." 3. His uneasiness till this affair was settled, intimated in that word, that I may bury my dead out of my sight. Note, Death will make those unpleasant to our sight who while they lived were the desire of our eyes. The countenance that was fresh and lively becomes pale and ghastly, and fit to be removed into the land of darkness. While she was in his sight, it renewed his grief, which he would prevent.
II.The generous offer which the children of Heth made to him, Gen 23:5, Gen 23:6. They compliment him,
1.With a title of respect: Thou art a prince of God among us, so the word is; not only great, but good. He called himself a stranger and a sojourner; they call him a great prince; for those that humble themselves shall be exalted. God had promised to make Abraham's name great.
2.With a tender of the best of their burying-places. Note, Even the light of nature teaches us to be civil and respectful towards all, though they be strangers and sojourners. The noble generosity of these Canaanites shames and condemns the closeness, and selfishness, and ill-humour, of many that call themselves Israelites. Observe, These Canaanites would be glad to mingle their dust with Abraham's and to have their last end like his.
III.The particular proposal which Abraham made to them, Gen 23:7-9.
He returns them his thanks for their kind offer with all possible decency and respect; though a great man, an old man, and now a mourner, yet he stands up, and bows himself humbly before them, Gen 23:7. Note, Religion teaches good manners; and those abuse it that place it in rudeness and clownishness. He then pitches upon the place he thinks most convenient, namely, the cave of Machpelah, which probably lay near him, and had not yet been used for a burying-place. The present owner was Ephron. Abraham cannot pretend to any interest in him, but he desires that they would improve theirs with him to get the purchase of that cave, and the field in which it was. Note, A moderate desire to obtain that which is convenient for us, by fair and honest means, is not such a coveting of that which is our neighbour's as is forbidden in the tenth commandment.
IV.The present which Ephron made to Abraham of his field:
The field give I thee, Gen 23:10, Gen 23:11. Abraham thought he must be entreated to sell it; but, upon the first mention of it, without entreaty, Ephron freely gives it. Some men have more generosity than they are thought to have. Abraham, no doubt, had taken all occasions to oblige his neighbours, and do them any service that lay in his power; and now they return his kindness: for he that watereth shall be watered also himself. Note, If those that profess religion adorn their profession by eminent civility and serviceableness to all, they shall find it will rebound to their own comfort and advantage, as well as to the glory of God.
V.Abraham's modest and sincere refusal of Ephron's kind offer, Gen 23:12, Gen 23:13.
Abundance of thanks he returns him for it (Gen 23:12), makes his obeisance to him before the people of the land, that they might respect Ephron the more for the respect they saw Abraham give him (Sa1 15:30), but resolves to give him money for the field, even the full value of it. It was not in pride that Abraham refused the gift, or because he scorned to be beholden to Ephron; but,
1.In justice. Abraham was rich in silver and gold (Gen 13:2) and was able to pay for the field, and therefore would not take advantage of Ephron's generosity. Note, Honesty, as well as honour, forbids us to sponge upon our neighbours and to impose upon those that are free. Job reflected upon it with comfort, when he was poor, that he had not eaten the fruits of his land without money, Job 31:39.
2.In prudence. He would pay for it lest Ephron, when this good humour was over, should upbraid him with it, and say, I have made Abraham rich (Gen 14:23), or lest the next heir should question Abraham's title (because that grant was made without any consideration), and claim back the field. Thus David afterwards refused Araunah's offer, Sa2 24:24. We know not what affronts we may hereafter receive from those that are now most kind and generous.
VI.The price of the land fixed by Ephron but not insisted on:
The land is worth four hundred shekels of silver (about fifty pounds of our money), but what is that between me and thee? Gen 23:14, Gen 23:15. He would rather oblige his friend than have so much money in his pocket. Herein Ephron discovers,
1.A great contempt of worldly wealth. "What is that between me and thee? It is a small matter, not worth speaking of." Many a one would have said, "It is a deal of money; it will go far in a child's portion." But Ephron says, "What is that?" Note, It is an excellent thing for people to have low and mean thoughts of all the wealth of this world; it is that which is not, and in the abundance of which a man's life does not consist, Luk 12:15.
2.Great courtesy, and obligingness to his friend and neighbour. Ephron was not jealous of Abraham as a resident foreigner, nor envious at him as a man likely to thrive and grow rich. He bore him no ill-will for his singularity in religion, but was much kinder to him than most people now-a-days are to their own brothers: What is that between me and thee? Note, No little thing should occasion demurs and differences between true friends. When we are tempted to be hot in resenting affronts, high in demanding our rights, or hard in denying a kindness, we should answer the temptation with this question: "What is that between me and my friend?"
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Summary
Genesis 23:12 records Abraham's profound gesture of respect and deference as he bowed before the Hittites during the negotiation for Sarah's burial plot. This act, though not worship, underscored Abraham's integrity, his humble acknowledgment of his sojourner status in the land God had promised him, and his commitment to honorable and transparent dealings, setting a powerful example of ethical conduct for a man of faith.
Context
Literary Context
Genesis 23 opens with the death of Sarah, Abraham's beloved wife, at the age of 127. This event precipitates Abraham's need for a permanent burial site, a poignant reminder that despite God's covenant promise of the entire land of Canaan, Abraham, as a sojourner, possessed no personal inheritance within it yet. The immediate narrative preceding Genesis 23:12 details Abraham's approach to the "sons of Heth" (Hittites), the local inhabitants, to purchase a burial ground. He specifically requests to buy the cave of Machpelah from Ephron the Hittite. Ephron initially offers the cave and the field as a gift, a common ancient Near Eastern negotiation tactic that often implied future obligations. Abraham's bowing in verse 12 immediately follows his polite but firm refusal of the gift, as he insists on paying the full price, demonstrating his unwavering commitment to a legitimate, undisputed transaction. The subsequent verses detail the public agreement and the weighing out of the silver, solidifying the purchase.
Historical & Cultural Context
In the ancient Near East, land ownership and transactions were highly formalized and public affairs, often involving intricate negotiations and gestures of respect. The Hittites, a prominent people group in Canaan at this time, had established customs regarding property rights and legal agreements. Public bowing was a common gesture of deep respect, homage, or deference, especially when addressing those in authority or when engaging in serious negotiations. It was a non-verbal affirmation of sincerity and a commitment to abide by the agreed-upon terms. For Abraham, a wealthy patriarch and a "prince of God" (Genesis 23:6), to bow before the local inhabitants, even as he was promised the land, highlights his understanding of and adherence to the prevailing cultural and legal norms. This ensured the validity and undisputed nature of his acquisition in the eyes of the community, crucial for establishing a permanent family burial site.
Key Themes
This passage, and Genesis 23:12 in particular, contributes to several overarching themes in Genesis and the broader biblical narrative. Firstly, it underscores the theme of faith and patience in the fulfillment of God's promises. Despite the divine promise of the entire land of Canaan to his descendants (Genesis 15:18), Abraham still had to acquire even a small burial plot through conventional means, demonstrating that faith does not negate practical, ethical engagement with present realities. Secondly, it highlights the theme of integrity and honorable dealings. Abraham's insistence on paying the full price and his respectful demeanor set a precedent for ethical conduct in transactions, reflecting God's character through His chosen servant. Thirdly, it emphasizes Abraham's sojourner status, a recurring motif for the patriarchs (Hebrews 11:9-10). Even while acting on a promise of future inheritance, he navigates the present as a guest, demonstrating humility and respect for the existing inhabitants. Finally, the acquisition of the burial plot marks the first tangible piece of the Promised Land that Abraham legally possesses, a significant step towards the eventual fulfillment of the covenant.
Exposition and Analysis
The KJV text for Genesis 23:12 states, "And Abraham bowed down himself before the people of the land." This seemingly simple action carries significant weight, revealing much about Abraham's character and the nature of the transaction.
Key Word Analysis
From the root H7812, this verb means "to depress, i.e., prostrate (especially reflexive, in homage to royalty or God)." While often used to describe worship or profound reverence toward God, as seen in Genesis 24:26 or Exodus 34:8, its usage here in a secular context signifies a deep gesture of respect, deference, or homage shown to human superiors or in formal, weighty negotiations. It conveys Abraham's earnest desire to conduct the transaction with the utmost politeness, sincerity, and adherence to local customs, emphasizing the gravity of the matter.
Derived from H6440, this term literally means "face" but is used in a great variety of applications, including as a preposition "before," "in the presence of," or "in front of." Its use here emphasizes that Abraham's bowing was a public, visible act directed specifically towards the assembled Hittites, confirming his open and transparent engagement with them.
H5971 (ʻam) refers to "a people (as a congregated unit); specifically, a tribe." H776 (ʼerets) means "the earth (at large, or partitively a land)." Together, "the people of the land" refers to the local inhabitants of Canaan, specifically the Hittites, who held legal and customary authority over the territory. Abraham's bowing before them acknowledges their current dominion and his status as a sojourner seeking to acquire property legitimately within their jurisdiction.
Verse Breakdown
"And Abraham bowed down himself"
This clause describes a deliberate and profound physical action. The reflexive nature of "bowed down himself" (from the Hebrew shâchâh) indicates a voluntary act of self-abasement or humility. It was not a casual nod but a full prostration or deep bow, signifying the utmost respect and earnestness. This act immediately follows his refusal of Ephron's "gift" and his insistence on paying the full price, underscoring his commitment to a legitimate, undisputed transaction.
"before the people of the land"
This phrase specifies the recipients of Abraham's gesture: the Hittites, the local inhabitants and legal authorities of Hebron. By bowing publicly before them, Abraham acknowledged their customs, their current ownership of the land, and his position as a sojourner seeking to integrate legitimately into their societal structures for this crucial transaction. It was a public display of honor and a pledge of his sincerity in the negotiation.
Literary Devices
The verse employs several literary devices to convey its profound meaning. Symbolism is central, as Abraham's act of bowing symbolizes profound respect, humility, and integrity. It is a non-verbal communication of his earnestness and his commitment to honorable dealings. This gesture also carries irony: Abraham, the recipient of God's promise of the entire land of Canaan, must humble himself and pay a substantial sum for a mere burial plot. This highlights the disjunction between divine promise and present reality, emphasizing the journey of faith. Furthermore, the scene serves as foreshadowing, as this first legal acquisition of land by Abraham within Canaan anticipates the future possession of the entire territory by his descendants, secured through legitimate means. The public nature of the act also underscores verisimilitude, lending credibility and realism to the ancient legal transaction.
Theological and Thematic Connections
Abraham's humble posture in Genesis 23:12 provides a powerful theological lesson on the nature of true spiritual strength and integrity. Despite his divine calling, immense wealth, and status as a "prince of God," Abraham exemplifies humility and respect towards those who, in a worldly sense, held authority over the land he sought. This demonstrates that faith does not exempt believers from engaging ethically and respectfully with the world's systems and cultures, particularly when conducting business or seeking to establish a presence. His insistence on a legitimate purchase, reinforced by his respectful demeanor, showcases the importance of transparency and honor in all dealings, reflecting God's character to a watching world.
Reflection and Application
Abraham's actions in Genesis 23:12 offer timeless lessons for believers today, particularly in how we navigate interactions within society and conduct our affairs. His humility, despite his elevated status and divine favor, reminds us that true strength often manifests in respectful and deferential actions towards others, regardless of their background, beliefs, or perceived status. In a world often characterized by arrogance and self-assertion, Abraham's example calls us to cultivate a spirit of humility, recognizing the dignity of every individual. Furthermore, his commitment to honorable and transparent dealings, even when he could have potentially leveraged his influence, challenges us to conduct all our transactions—whether in business, personal relationships, or community engagement—with unimpeachable integrity. This builds trust, fosters good relationships, and, most importantly, reflects the character of God to a watching world, demonstrating that our faith is not just theoretical but deeply practical and ethical. We are called to be salt and light, and our conduct in daily life is a powerful witness to the transforming power of Christ.
Questions for Reflection
FAQ
Why did Abraham bow down to the Hittites, given God's promises to him?
Abraham's bowing was not an act of worship or spiritual submission to the Hittites, but a profound gesture of respect and deference in a formal negotiation. The Hebrew word shâchâh (H7812), while sometimes used for worship of God, also signifies deep homage or politeness towards human superiors or in significant social and legal interactions. Abraham, though promised the land by God, was still a sojourner in Canaan and needed to engage with its current inhabitants according to their customs to secure a legitimate burial place for Sarah. His bowing demonstrated his humility, integrity, and earnest desire to conduct the transaction honorably, acknowledging their authority over the land he sought to purchase. This public act ensured the validity and undisputed nature of his acquisition in the eyes of the community, setting a precedent for future interactions and the eventual inheritance of the land by his descendants.
Christ-Centered Fulfillment
Abraham's humble bowing and honorable dealings in Genesis 23:12 profoundly foreshadow Christ in His redemptive work. Just as Abraham, the patriarch and "father of many nations," humbled himself before the people of the land to secure a small piece of the promised inheritance, so too did Christ, the Son of God and true heir of all things, humble Himself. He "made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross" (Philippians 2:7-8). Abraham's insistence on paying the full price for the land, rather than accepting it as a gift, points to Christ's perfect righteousness and His just acquisition of His inheritance and ours, not through seizure or unearned favor, but through the ultimate payment of His own life, shedding His blood as the spotless Lamb of God (1 Peter 1:18-19). Ultimately, Abraham's desire for a secure, legally purchased plot of land within the promised territory, even as a sojourner, finds its glorious fulfillment in Christ, who, through His death and resurrection, secures for His people an eternal and undisputed inheritance in the new heavens and new earth (1 Peter 1:3-4). In Him, we are no longer sojourners in a foreign land but co-heirs with Christ, truly possessing the land promised to Abraham and all believers, not by human negotiation, but by divine grace and the perfect work of our Savior (Romans 8:17).