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Matthew Henry
From his Commentary on the Whole Bible. Henry comments on passages, not single verses — this entry covers 2 Samuel 19:1–8. His two-level outline is real structure in the source text, so it is rendered as structure.
Soon after the messengers had brought the news of the defeat and death of Absalom to the court of Mahanaim, Joab and his victorious army followed, to grace the king's triumphs and receive his further orders. Now here we are told,
I.What a damp and disappointment it was to them to find the king in tears for Absalom's death, which they construed as a token of displeasure against them for what they had done, whereas they expected him to have met them with joy and thanks for their good services: It was told Joab, v. 1 The report of it ran through the army (Sa2 19:2), how the king was grieved for his son. The people will take particular notice what their princes say and do. The more eyes we have upon us, and the greater our influence is, the more need we have to speak and act wisely and to govern our passions strictly. When they came to the city they found the king in close mourning, Sa2 19:4. He covered his face, and would not so much as look up, nor take any notice of the generals when they attended him. It could not but surprise them to find, 1. How the king proclaimed his passion, of which he ought to have been ashamed, and which he would have striven to smother and conceal if he had consulted either his reputation for courage, which was lessened by his mean submission to the tyranny of so absurd a passion, or his interest in the people, which would be prejudiced by his discountenancing what was done in zeal for his honour and the public safety. Yet see how he avows his grief: He cries with a loud voice, O my son Absalom! "My servants have all come home safe, but where is my son? He is dead; and, dying in sin, I fear he is lost for ever. I cannot now say, I shall go to him, for my soul shall not be gathered with such sinners; what shall be done for thee, O Absalom! my son, my son!" 2. How he prolonged his passion, even till the army had come up to him, which must be some time after he received the first intelligence. If he had contented himself with giving vent to his passion for an hour or two when he first heard the news, it would have been excusable, but to continue it thus for so bad a son as Absalom, like Jacob for so good a son as Joseph, with a resolution to go to the grave mourning and to stain his triumphs with his tears, was very unwise and very unworthy. Now see how ill this was taken by the people. They were loth to blame the king, for whatever he did used to please them (Sa2 3:36), but they took it as a great mortification to them. Their victory was turned into mourning, Sa2 19:2. They stole into the city as men ashamed, Sa2 19:3. In compliment to their sovereign, they would not rejoice in that which they perceived so afflictive to him, and yet they could not but be uneasy that they were thus obliged to conceal their joy. Superiors ought not to put such hardships as these on their inferiors.
II.How plainly and vehemently Joab reproved David for this indiscreet management of himself in this critical juncture.
David never more needed the hearts of his subjects than now, nor was ever more concerned to secure his interest in their affections; and therefore whatever tended to disoblige them now was the most impolitic thing he could do, and the greatest wrong imaginable to his friends that adhered to him. Joab therefore censures him, Sa2 19:5-7. He speaks a great deal of reason, but not with the respect and deference which he owed to his prince. Is is fit to say to a king, Thou art wicked? A plain case may be fairly pleaded with those that are above us, and they may be reproved for what they do amiss, but it must not be done with rudeness and insolence. David did indeed need to be roused and alarmed; and Joab thought it no time to dally with him. If superiors do that which is foolish, they must neither think it strange nor take it ill if their inferiors tell them of it, perhaps too bluntly.
1.Joab magnifies the services of David's soldiers: "This day they have saved thy life, and therefore deserve to be taken notice of, and have reason to resent it if they be not." It is implied that Absalom, whom he honoured with his tears, sought his ruin and the ruin of his family, while those whom by his tears he puts a slight upon were such as preserved from ruin him and all that was dear to him. Great mischiefs have arisen to princes from the contempt of great merits.
2.He aggravates the discouragement David had given them: "Thou hast shamed their faces; for, while they have shown such a value for thy life, thou hast shown no value for theirs, but preferrest a spoiled wicked youth, a false traitor to his king and country, whom we are happily rid of, before all thy wise counsellors, brave commanders, and loyal subjects. What can be more absurd than to love thy enemies and hate thy friends?" 3. He advises him to present himself immediately at the head of his troops, to smile upon them, welcome them home, congratulate their success, and return them thanks for their services. Even those that may be commanded yet expect to be thanked when they do well, and ought to be. 4. He threatens him with another rebellion if he would not do this, intimating that rather than serve so ungrateful a prince he himself would head a revolt from him, and then (so confident is Joab of his own interest in the people) "there will not tarry with thee one man. If I go, they will go. Thou hast now nothing to mourn for: but, if thou persist, I will give thee something to mourn for (as Josephus expresses it) with a true and more bitter mourning."
III.How prudently and mildly David took the reproof and counsel given him, Sa2 19:8.
He shook off his grief, anointed his head, and washed his face, that he might not appear unto men to mourn, and then made his appearance in public in the gate, which was as the guild-hall of the city. Hither the people flocked to him to congratulate his and their safety, and all was well. Note, When we are convinced of a fault, we must amend, though we are told of it by our inferiors, and indecently, or in heat and passion.
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But when king David had suffered this injury at the hands of his impious and unnatural son, he not only bore with him in his mad passion but mourned over him in his death. He certainly was not caught in the meshes of carnal jealousy, seeing that it was not his own injuries but the sins of his son that moved him. For it was on this account he had given orders that his son should not be slain if he were conquered in battle, that he might have a place of repentance after he was subdued. When he was baffled in this design, he mourned over his son's death, not because of his own loss but because he knew to what punishment so impious an adulterer and parricide had been hurried.
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Summary
Second Samuel 19:1 captures the immediate, somber aftermath of Absalom's rebellion, revealing that King David, despite the decisive victory that secured his throne, is consumed by profound grief, openly weeping and mourning for his deceased son. This pivotal verse shifts the narrative focus from military triumph to the king's personal anguish, setting the stage for a critical confrontation between David's overwhelming sorrow and his royal duties, thereby highlighting the complex interplay of family, leadership, and the painful consequences of rebellion.
Context
Literary Context
This verse serves as the direct continuation and emotional pivot from the climactic battle described in 2 Samuel 18. Specifically, it follows David's inconsolable lament upon receiving news of Absalom's death in 2 Samuel 18:33, where his repeated cry, "O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!" vividly portrays his anguish. 2 Samuel 19:1 transitions from David's private despair to the public awareness of his state, indicating that his grief has become a matter of widespread knowledge and concern within the victorious army. This dramatic shift sets the scene for Joab's subsequent intervention, as he recognizes the detrimental impact of the king's prolonged mourning on the morale and stability of the kingdom.
Historical & Cultural Context
David's reign, though divinely established, was frequently marked by internal strife, particularly within his own household, a consequence prophesied by Nathan in 2 Samuel 12:10-11. Absalom's rebellion represented a severe challenge to the stability of the monarchy, typical of the volatile nature of ancient Near Eastern kingdoms where succession was often contested. In this cultural milieu, a king's public persona and actions were crucial for maintaining authority, inspiring loyalty, and rewarding his troops. David's open and prolonged mourning for a rebellious son, rather than celebrating the victory that preserved his kingdom and the lives of his loyal soldiers, would have been perceived as deeply demoralizing and even disrespectful to those who risked everything for him. The army, expecting recognition and reward, found their king seemingly valuing his enemy more than his saviors.
Key Themes
2 Samuel 19:1 powerfully encapsulates several major themes central to the book of 2 Samuel. First, it highlights the theme of Profound Parental Grief, demonstrating that even a king's public duty cannot extinguish the deep love and sorrow a father feels for his child, regardless of that child's transgressions. David's lament is a raw expression of human emotion that transcends political realities, echoing the universal pain of loss. Second, it underscores the Conflict of Duty and Emotion, presenting the stark tension between David's personal anguish and his responsibilities as a monarch to his people and army. This conflict is central to Joab's subsequent actions, as he prioritizes the kingdom's stability over the king's personal sorrow. Finally, the verse implicitly reinforces the theme of the Consequences of Sin and Rebellion. Absalom's ambition and treachery led directly to his tragic end, and his death, in turn, brought immense suffering to his father and threatened to destabilize the very kingdom he sought to usurp. This serves as a stark reminder of the often-devastating ripple effects of disobedience and moral compromise.
Exposition and Analysis
Key Word Analysis
This primitive root means "to weep; generally to bemoan." It describes the outward, often audible, expression of deep sorrow through tears. David's weeping was not merely an internal feeling but a visible and public display of profound distress, indicating an uncontained and intense emotional response to Absalom's death. It highlights the raw, physical manifestation of his grief, making his sorrow evident to all.
This primitive root means "to bewail; lament, mourn." This term denotes a deeper, more comprehensive state of grief, often involving a prolonged period of sorrow and outward signs of lamentation beyond just tears. When paired with "weepeth," it emphasizes the totality of David's sorrow, suggesting a state of profound and pervasive lamentation that encompassed his entire being and was evident to those around him, signifying a deep, perhaps even ritualistic, expression of loss.
Verse Breakdown
"¶ And it was told Joab,"
This opening phrase immediately shifts the narrative focus from David's personal lament to the perspective of his chief military commander, Joab. The passive construction "it was told" implies that the news of David's state was spreading throughout the camp, reaching Joab as a matter of significant concern, indicating that the king's grief had become public knowledge and a pressing issue for the army.
"Behold,"
This interjection serves as an emphatic particle, drawing immediate attention to the critical nature of the information being conveyed. It signals a surprising or alarming revelation, underscoring the gravity of the king's condition and its potential implications for the morale of the army and the stability of the kingdom. It demands Joab's immediate attention and action.
"the king weepeth and mourneth for Absalom."
This is the core message, revealing David's profound emotional state. The use of both "weepeth" (shedding tears) and "mourneth" (lamenting, expressing deep sorrow) emphasizes the intensity and public nature of David's grief. The object of his grief, "Absalom," is crucial, as it is the rebellious son whose death secured David's throne, yet for whom David feels overwhelming personal loss. This statement sets up the central conflict of the chapter: the king's personal sorrow versus his public duty.
Literary Devices
The verse employs several significant literary devices. Irony is prominent, as the news conveyed to Joab is not of celebration for a decisive victory, but of the king's profound grief over the very individual whose death secured that victory. This stark contrast highlights the tragic cost of the rebellion and David's complex emotional landscape. Pathos is powerfully evoked through the description of David's weeping and mourning, drawing the reader into the king's deep personal suffering, despite Absalom's treachery. The simple, direct reporting of David's state ("the king weepeth and mourneth") creates a sense of immediate and raw emotion. Furthermore, the verse acts as Foreshadowing, setting the stage for Joab's harsh but necessary intervention, as he recognizes the detrimental impact of David's public grief on the morale of his loyal army and the stability of his newly re-established reign. The dramatic tension introduced here will drive the subsequent narrative.
Theological and Thematic Connections
This verse powerfully illustrates the profound and often conflicting nature of human emotions, even within the context of divine sovereignty and justice. David's grief, while deeply personal, also reflects the tragic consequences of sin, both Absalom's rebellion and the broader moral failings within David's own family that contributed to the crisis. The theological tension lies in reconciling God's justice, which allowed the rebellion to be put down, with the deep human suffering that accompanies such events. It reminds us that even when God's purposes are fulfilled, the path can be fraught with pain and loss. The passage implicitly raises questions about leadership, the delicate balance between personal sorrow and public duty, and the enduring pain that can result from fractured relationships, even those within a divinely chosen lineage. It underscores the truth that sin's ripple effects can devastate even the most sacred bonds.
Reflection and Application
The scene depicted in 2 Samuel 19:1 offers a profound glimpse into the human heart, even that of a king. It challenges us to consider the complexities of grief, particularly when it arises from difficult or morally ambiguous circumstances. David's sorrow for Absalom, despite his son's heinous rebellion, speaks to the enduring power of parental love and the deep pain of loss, irrespective of the deceased's actions. This passage encourages empathy for those who grieve, reminding us that sorrow is a universal human experience that transcends social standing or past grievances. For leaders, it highlights the delicate balance between personal emotion and public responsibility. While authentic emotion is vital, a leader must also discern when personal feelings threaten the well-being and morale of those they lead. It prompts us to reflect on how we navigate our own deep emotions while fulfilling our duties to our families, communities, and God, seeking wisdom to know when to mourn and when to act decisively for the greater good, always considering the broader impact of our emotional expressions.
Questions for Reflection
FAQ
Why was David weeping for Absalom when Absalom had rebelled against him and tried to kill him?
David's grief for Absalom, as described in 2 Samuel 18:33 and reiterated in 2 Samuel 19:1, stems from a profound parental love that transcended Absalom's rebellion and treachery. Despite Absalom's actions, he was still David's son, and David had a deep emotional attachment to him. This intense sorrow highlights the universal human experience of parental grief, where the loss of a child is devastating, regardless of the circumstances or the child's character. David's lament also reflects the tragic consequences of the sin within his own family, fulfilling prophecies of trouble in his house (2 Samuel 12:10-11). His grief was not an endorsement of Absalom's actions but a raw expression of personal loss and perhaps even regret over the circumstances that led to such a tragic outcome.
Christ-Centered Fulfillment
David's profound grief for his rebellious son, Absalom, though deeply human, finds a profound echo and ultimate fulfillment in the person and work of Jesus Christ. David wept for a son who was his enemy, a son whose death brought him political peace but personal anguish. This foreshadows a greater divine sorrow and a more glorious redemption. God, the ultimate Father, grieves over the rebellion of humanity, His creation, who have turned away from Him in sin (Genesis 6:6). Yet, unlike Absalom, who died in his rebellion, God, in His infinite love, sent His own Son, Jesus, not to be killed by His enemies, but to die for His enemies (Romans 5:8). Jesus, the true Son of David, willingly laid down His life to reconcile rebellious humanity to the Father, bearing the ultimate sorrow and separation from God on the cross (Matthew 27:46). Through His death and resurrection, Christ conquered sin and death, offering true peace and reconciliation, a peace far greater than the temporary political stability David achieved. Thus, David's lament for Absalom, though tragic, points to the divine heart that grieves over sin but triumphs over it through the sacrificial love of the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world (John 1:29), offering eternal life to all who believe.