Judges 11:40
“The Fulfillment of the Tragic Vow”Judges 11:34–40
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Matthew Henry
From his Commentary on the Whole Bible. Henry wrote on whole passages, and this entry covers Judges 11:29–40. He set out his notes in a four-level outline, kept here as he numbered it.
We have here Jephthah triumphing in a glorious victory, but, as an alloy to his joy, troubled and distressed by an unadvised vow.
I.Jephthah's victory was clear, and shines very brightly, both to his honour and to the honour of God, his in pleading and God's in owning a righteous cause.
1.God gave him an excellent spirit, and he improved it bravely, Judges 11:29. When it appeared by the people's unanimous choice of him for their leader that he had so clear a call to engage, and by the obstinate deafness of the king of Ammon to the proposals of accommodation that he had so just a cause to engage in, then the Spirit of the Lord came upon him, and very much advanced his natural faculties, enduing him with power from on high, and making him more bold and more wise than ever he had been, and more fired with a holy zeal against the enemies of his people. Hereby God confirmed him in his office, and assured him of success in his undertaking. Thus animated, he loses no time, but with an undaunted resolution takes the field. Particular notice is taken of the way by which he advanced towards the enemy's camp, probably because the choice of it was an instance of that extraordinary discretion with which the Spirit of the Lord had furnished him; for those who sincerely walk after the Spirit shall be led forth the right way.
2.God gave him eminent success, and he bravely improved that too (Judges 11:32): The Lord delivered the Ammonites into his hand, and so gave judgment upon the appeal in favour of the righteous cause, and made those feel the force of war that would not yield to the force of reason; for he sits in the throne, judging right. Jephthah lost not the advantages given him, but pursued and completed his victory. Having routed their forces in the field, he pursued them to their cities, where he put to the sword all he found in arms, so as utterly to disable them from giving Israel any molestation, Judges 11:33. But it does not appear that he utterly destroyed the people, as Joshua had destroyed the devoted nations, nor that he offered to make himself master of the country, though their pretensions to the land of Israel might have given him colour to do so: only he took care that they should be effectually subdued. Though others' attempting wrong to us will justify us in the defence of our own right, yet it will not authorize us to do them wrong.
II.Jephthah's vow is dark, and much in the clouds.
When he was going out from his own house upon this hazardous undertaking, in prayer to God for his presence with him he makes a secret but solemn vow or religious promise to God, that, if God would graciously bring him back a conqueror, whosoever or whatsoever should first come out of his house to meet him it should be devoted to God, and offered up for a burnt-offering. At his return, tidings of his victory coming home before him, his own and only daughter meets him with the seasonable expressions of joy. This puts him into a great confusion; but there was no remedy: after she had taken some time to lament her own infelicity, she cheerfully submitted to the performance of his vow. Now,
1.There are several good lessons to be learnt out of this story.
(1.)That there may be remainders of distrust and doubting even in the hearts of true and great believers. Jephthah had reason enough to be confident of success, especially when he found the Spirit of the Lord come upon him, and yet, now that it comes to the settling, he seems to hesitate (v. 30): If thou wilt without fail deliver them into my hand, then I will do so and so. And perhaps the snare into which his vow brought him was designed to correct the weakness of his faith, and a fond conceit he had that he could not promise himself a victory unless he proffered something considerable to be given to God in lieu of it.
(2.)That yet it is very good, when we are in the pursuit or expectation of any mercy, to make vows to God of some instance of acceptable service to him, not as a purchase of the favour we desire, but as an expression of our gratitude to him and the deep sense we have of our obligations to render according to the benefit done to us. The matter of such a singular vow (Leviticus 27:2) must be something that has a plain and direct tendency either to the advancement of God's glory, and the interests of his kingdom among men, or to the furtherance of ourselves in his service, and in that which is antecedently our duty.
(3.)That we have great need to be very cautious and well advised in the making of such vows, lest, by indulging a present emotion even of pious zeal, we entangle our own consciences, involve ourselves in perplexities, and are forced at last to say before the angel that it was an error, Ecclesiastes 5:2-6. It is a snare to a man hastily to devour that which is holy, without due consideration quid valeant humeri, quid ferre recusent - what we are able or unable to effect, and without inserting the needful provisos and limitations which might prevent the entanglement, and then after vows to make the enquiry which should have been made before, Proverbs 20:25. Let Jephthah's harm be our warning in this matter. See Deuteronomy 23:22.
(4.)That what we have solemnly vowed to God we must conscientiously perform, if it be possible and lawful, though it be ever so difficult and grievous to us. Jephthah's sense of the powerful obligation of his vow must always be ours (Judges 11:35): "I have opened my mouth unto the Lord in a solemn vow, and I cannot go back," that is, "I cannot recall the vow myself, it is too late, nor can any power on earth dispense with it, or give me up my bond." The thing was my own, and in my own power (Acts 5:4), but now it is not. Vow and pay, Psalm 76:11. We deceive ourselves if we think to mock God. If we apply this to the consent we have solemnly given, in our sacramental vows, to the covenant of grace made with poor sinners in Christ, what a powerful argument will it be against the sins we have by those vows bound ourselves out from, what a strong inducement to the duties we have hereby bound ourselves up to, and what a ready answer to every temptation! "I have opened my mouth to the Lord, and I cannot go back; I must therefore go forward. I have sworn, and I must, I will, perform it. Let me not dare to play fast and loose with God." (5.) That it well becomes children obediently and cheerfully to submit to their parents in the Lord, and particularly to comply with their pious resolutions for the honour of God and the keeping up of religion in their families, though they be harsh and severe, as the Rechabites, who for many generations religiously observed the commands of Jonadab their father in forbearing wine, and Jephthah's daughter here, who, for the satisfying of her father's conscience, and for the honour of God and her country, yielded herself as one devoted (Judges 11:36): "Do to me according to that which hath proceeded out of thy mouth; I know I am dear to thee, but am well content that God should be dearer." The father might disallow any vow made by the daughter (Numbers 30:5), but the daughter could not disallow or disannul, no, not such a vow as this, made by the father. This magnifies the law of the fifth commandment. (6.) That our friends' grievances should be our griefs. Where she went to bewail her hard fate the virgins, her companions, joined with her in her lamentations, Judges 11:38. With those of her own sex and age she used to associate, who no doubt, now that her father had on a sudden grown so great, expected, shortly after his return, to dance at her wedding, but were heavily disappointed when they were called to retire to the mountains with her and share in her griefs. Those are unworthy the name of friends that will only rejoice with us, and not weep with us. (7.) That heroic zeal for the honour of God and Israel, though alloyed with infirmity and indiscretion, is worthy to be had in perpetual remembrance. It well became the daughters of Israel by an annual solemnity to preserve the honourable memory of Jephthah's daughter, who made light even of her own life like a noble heroine, when God had taken vengeance on Israel's enemies, Judges 11:36. Such a rare instance of one that preferred the public interest before life itself was never to be forgotten. Her sex forbade her to follow to the war, and so to expose her life in battle, in lieu of which she hazards it much more (and perhaps apprehended that she did so, having some intimation of his vow, and did it designedly; for he tells her, Judges 11:35, Thou hast brought me very low) to grace his triumphs. So transported was she with the victory as a common benefit that she was willing to be herself offered up as a thank-offering for it, and would think her life well bestowed when laid down on so great an occasion. She thinks it an honour to die, not as a sacrifice of atonement for the people's sins (that honour was reserved for Christ only), but as a sacrifice of acknowledgment for the people's mercies. (8.) From Jephthah's concern on this occasion, we must learn not to think it strange if the day of our triumphs in this world prove upon some account or other the day of our griefs, and therefore must always rejoice with trembling; we hope for a day of triumph hereafter which will have no alloy.
2.Yet there are some difficult questions that do arise upon this story which have very much employed the pens of learned men. I will say but little respecting them, because Mr. Poole has discussed them very fully in his English annotations.
(1.)It is hard to say what Jephthah did to his daughter in performance of his vow.
[1.]Some think he only shut her up for a nun, and that it being unlawful, according to one part of his vow (for they make it disjunctive), to offer her up for a burnt-offering, he thus, according to the other part, engaged her to be the Lord's, that is, totally to sequester herself from all the affairs of this life, and consequently from marriage, and to employ herself wholly in the acts of devotion all her days. That which countenances this opinion is that she is said to bewail her virginity (Judges 11:37, Judges 11:38) and that she knew no man, Judges 11:39. But, if he sacrificed her, it was proper enough for her to bewail, not her death, because that was intended to be for the honour of God, and she would undergo it cheerfully, but that unhappy circumstance of it which made it more grievous to her than any other, because she was her father's only child, in whom he hoped his name and family would be built up, that she was unmarried, and so left no issue to inherit her father's honour and estate; therefore it is particularly taken notice of (Judges 11:34) that besides her he had neither son nor daughter. But that which makes me think Jephthah did not go about thus to satisfy his vow, or evade it rather, is that we do not find any law, usage, or custom, in all the Old Testament, which does in the least intimate that a single life was any branch or article of religion, or that any person, man or woman, was looked upon as the more holy, more the Lord's, or devoted to him, for living unmarried: it was no part of the law either of the priests or of the Nazarites. Deborah and Huldah, both prophetesses, are both of them particularly recorded to have been married women. Besides, had she only been confined to a single life, she needed not to have desired these two months to bewail it in: she had her whole life before her to do that, if she saw cause. Nor needed she to take such a sad leave of her companions; for those that are of that opinion understand what is said in Judges 11:40 of their coming to talk with her, as our margin reads it, four days in a year. Therefore,
[2.]It seems more probable that he offered her up for a sacrifice, according to the letter of his vow, misunderstanding that law which spoke of persons devoted by the curse of God as if it were to be applied to such as were devoted by men's vows (Leviticus 27:29, None devoted shall be redeemed, but shall surely be put to death), and wanting to be better informed of the power the law gave him in this case to redeem her. Abraham's attempt to offer up Isaac perhaps encouraged him, and made him think, if God would not accept this sacrifice which he had vowed, he would send an angel to stay his hand, as he did Abraham's. If she came out designedly to be made a sacrifice, as who knows but she might? perhaps he thought that would make the case the plainer. Volenti non sit injuria - No injury is done to a person by that to which he himself consents. He imagined, it may be, that where there was neither anger nor malice there was no murder, and that his good intention would sanctify this bad action; and, since he had made such a vow, he thought better to kill his daughter than break his vow, and let Providence bear the blame, that brought her forth to meet him.
(2.)But, supposing that Jephthah did sacrifice his daughter, the question is whether he did well.
[1.]Some justify him in it, and think he did well, and as became one that preferred the honour of God before that which was dearest to him in this world. He is mentioned among the eminent believers who by faith did great things, Hebrews 11:32. And this was one of the great things he did. It was done deliberately, and upon two months' consideration and consultation. He is never blamed for it by any inspired writer. Though it highly exalts the paternal authority, yet it cannot justify any in doing the like. He was an extraordinary person. The Spirit of the Lord came upon him. Many circumstances, now unknown to us, might make this altogether extraordinary, and justify it, yet not so as that it might justify the like. Some learned men have made this sacrifice a figure of Christ the great sacrifice: he was of unspotted purity and innocency, as she a chaste virgin; he was devoted to death by his Father, and so made a curse, or an anathema, for us; he submitted himself, as she did, to his Father's will: Not as I will, but as thou wilt. But,
[2.]Most condemn Jephthah; he did ill to make so rash a vow, and worse to perform it. He could not be bound by his vow to that which God had forbidden by the letter of the sixth commandment: Thou shalt not kill. God had forbidden human sacrifices, so that it was (says Dr. Lightfoot) in effect a sacrifice to Moloch. And, probably, the reason why it is left dubious by the inspired penman whether he sacrificed her or no was that those who did afterwards offer their children might not take any encouragement from this instance. Concerning this and some other such passages in the sacred story, which learned men are in the dark, divided, and in doubt about, we need not much perplex ourselves; what is necessary to our salvation, thanks be to God, is plain enough.
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Never shall I be led to believe that the leader Jephthah made his vow otherwise than without thought, when he promised to offer to God whatever should meet him at the threshold of his house on his return. For he repented of his vow, as afterwards his daughter came to meet him. He tore his clothes and said, “Alas, my daughter, you have entangled me, you have become a source of trouble for me.” And though with pious fear and reverence he took upon himself the bitter fulfillment of his cruel task, yet he ordered and left to be observed an annual period of grief and mourning for future times. It was a hard vow, but far more bitter was its fulfillment, while he who carried it out had the greatest cause to mourn. Thus it became a rule and a law in Israel from year to year, as it says: “that the daughters of Israel went to lament the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite four days in a year.” I cannot blame the man for holding it necessary to fulfill his vow, but yet it was a wretched necessity which could only be solved by the death of his child.…What, then, in the case of esteemed and learned people is full of marvel, that in the case of a virgin is found to be far more splendid, far more glorious, as she says to her sorrowing father, “Do to me according to that which has proceeded out of your mouth.” But she asked for a delay of two months in order that she might go about with her companions upon the mountains to bewail fitly and dutifully her virginity now given up to death. The weeping of her companions did not move her, their grief did not prevail upon her, nor did their lamentations hold her back. She did not allow the day to pass, nor did the hour escape her notice. She returned to her father as though returning according to her own desire, and of her own will [she] urged him on when he was hesitating, and acted thus of her own free choice, so that what was at first an awful chance became a pious sacrifice.
It is also sometimes contrary to duty to fulfill a promise or to keep an oath. As was the case with Herod, who swore that whatever was asked he would give to the daughter of Herodias, and so allowed the death of John, that he might not break his word. And what shall I say of Jephthah, who offered up his daughter in sacrifice, she having been the first to meet him as he returned home victorious; whereby he fulfilled the vow which he had made that he would offer to God whatever should meet him first. It would have been better to make no promise at all than to fulfill it in the death of his daughter.
For Jephthah likewise, when he had promised that the first thing that met him, after a victorious battle, he would sacrifice, fell into the snare of child murder; for his daughter first meeting him, he sacrificed her, and God did not forbid it. And I know, indeed, that many of the unbelievers impugn us of cruelty and inhumanity on account of this sacrifice; but I should say that the concession in the case of this sacrifice was a striking example of providence and clemency; and that it was in care for our race that he did not prevent that sacrifice. For if after that vow and promise he had forbidden the sacrifice, many also who were subsequent to Jephthah, in the expectation that God would not receive their vows, would have increased the number of such vows, and proceeding on their way would have fallen into child murder. But now, by suffering this vow to be actually fulfilled, he put a stop to all such cases in the future. And to show that this is true, after Jephthah’s daughter had been slain, in order that the calamity might be always remembered and that her fate might not be consigned to oblivion, it became a law among the Jews that the virgins assembling at the same season should bewail during forty days the sacrifice which had taken place; in order that renewing the memory of it by lamentation, they should make all people wiser for the future; and that they might learn that it was not after the mind of God that this should be done, for in that case he would not have permitted the virgins to bewail and lament her. And that what I have said is not conjectural, the event demonstrated; for after this sacrifice, no one vowed such a vow to God. Therefore also he did not indeed forbid this; but what he had expressly commanded in the case of Isaac, that he directly prohibited, plainly showing through both cases that he does not delight in such sacrifices.
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The young women of Israel went every year for four days to lament and retell the story of Jephthah’s daughter, so that her memory was kept in Israel.
“That the daughters of Israel went yearly”
The young women of the nation, year after year.
“to lament the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite”
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“four days in a year.”
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Passage studyJudges 11:34–40
Jephthah’s Daughter and the Rash Vow
Summary
Jephthah comes home to Mizpeh after the LORD has given him victory over the Ammonites, and the first one out of his door is his daughter, his only child, coming to welcome him with timbrels and dances. Before the battle he had vowed that whatever came out to meet him would be the LORD’s and would be offered as a burnt offering. He tears his clothes and cries that he cannot go back. She tells him to do as he promised, since the LORD has avenged him, and asks for two months to mourn her virginity on the mountains with her friends. Then he does with her according to his vow, and the young women of Israel go every year to remember her. Believers differ over whether she died or lived out her days unmarried in the LORD’s service. The passage is plain that a vow spoken to God is a weighty thing, that Jephthah’s vow was rash, and that God’s law had already called the offering of children an abomination.
What Jephthah vowed and who came out to meet him
Jephthah’s story is told from Judges 10 through Judges 11 to Judges 12.
He was an outcast whom his own people called back to lead them against the Ammonites. Before the battle he vowed to the LORD that whatever came out of the doors of his house to meet him on his return “shall surely be the LORD’s, and I will offer it up for a burnt offering” (Judges 11:30–31). The LORD gave him the victory, and he struck the Ammonites across twenty cities, from Aroer to Minnith (Judges 11:33).
Then Jephthah comes to Mizpeh, his home in Gilead, a name that means watchtower. The word “behold” marks the moment: his daughter comes out to meet him with timbrels and with dances. Women in Israel welcomed victories this way. After the crossing of the Red Sea all the women went out after Miriam “with timbrels and with dances” (Exodus 15:20), and after David killed Goliath the women came out of the cities of Israel singing and dancing (1 Samuel 18:6). The timbrel, tôph, is a tambourine or hand drum, and the dances, mᵉchôlâh, are round dances. She is doing what a glad and loving daughter would do. Anyone who has read the vow knows what her welcome means, while she comes out in pure joy, unaware of it.
We are then told that “she was his only child; beside her he had neither son nor daughter.” The word yâchîyd means sole or only one, and it can carry the warmth of “beloved” as well. In Israel a family’s name and inheritance went on through its children, so an only child carried the whole of her father’s future. When the vow falls on her, it falls on his line too, and Jephthah’s victory costs him his house.
Why Jephthah tore his clothes and said he could not go back
The moment he saw her, Jephthah “rent his clothes”. The verb qâraʻ means to tear or rend, usually with force, and tearing one’s garments was how grief and horror showed themselves in Israel. Jacob tore his clothes when he believed Joseph was dead (Genesis 37:34), David when he heard that Saul had died (2 Samuel 1:11), and the high priest at what he took for blasphemy in the words of Jesus (Matthew 26:65). Jephthah’s joy turns to anguish in front of everyone.
“Alas, my daughter! thou hast brought me very low.” The verb behind “brought me very low” is kâraʻ, to bow the knee or sink down, and the Hebrew doubles it for force, which the KJV gives as “very low”. He is brought to his knees. His next words, “thou art one of them that trouble me,” sound harsh, yet they come from a man caught by his own promise, who sees his trouble standing before him in his daughter. The wound is self-inflicted.
“For I have opened my mouth unto the LORD, and I cannot go back.” To open the mouth, pâtsâh, is to open it wide, and here it means that he spoke his vow aloud before the LORD. The verb shûwb means to turn back or return. Jephthah feels that his word to God holds him fast, whatever it costs.
Could Jephthah have broken his vow?
Jephthah could have broken it and should have, because God’s own law stood above any vow he could make, and that law forbade giving a child as an offering (Leviticus 18:21). The law did lay down rules for vows (Numbers 30), and they were binding, but a vow to do what God had forbidden was sinful to keep. Jephthah held to the letter of his promise and lost sight of who the LORD is, and he went ahead without seeking the counsel that would have shown him the LORD’s will. His despair is real, and so is his confusion, which belongs to a time when even a leader of Israel could put a rash pledge above the plain commands of God.
What the daughter said to her father
Her first words are “My father”, ʼâb, the ordinary word for a father, spoken with respect and love at the moment he has told her the worst. In “if thou hast opened thy mouth unto the LORD”, the “if” has the force of “since”, for she takes his vow as fact.
“Do to me according to that which hath proceeded out of thy mouth.” Her words are close to the language of the law of vows, which says that a man who vows to the LORD “shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth” (Numbers 30:2). She knows what a vow to the LORD meant in Israel, and she asks her father to keep his, at the cost of her own future.
She gives her reason: “forasmuch as the LORD hath taken vengeance for thee of thine enemies, even of the children of Ammon.” The word for vengeance, nᵉqâmâh, means avenging, either the act or the passion, and when God takes vengeance for his people he steps in to vindicate and deliver them. She sees the victory as the LORD’s work, done for her father and for Israel. In a book crowded with people who served themselves, this young woman thinks first of what God has done and of her father’s word to him. Her courage deserves honour, even though the vow that called for it was wrong.
Why she went to the mountains to bewail her virginity
She makes one request: “Let this thing be done for me: let me alone two months.” The verb râphâh means to slacken or let go, and here she asks to be let alone, released for a set time. She asks for a season of mourning with its end already fixed, and she means to come back.
She will “go up and down upon the mountains”, har, a mountain or range of hills, out in the hill country away from home and town, and “bewail my virginity, I and my fellows.” To bewail, bâkâh, is to weep and lament aloud, a mourning that others could see and hear. Virginity, bᵉthûwlîym, is the state of a young woman who is unmarried. What she mourns is the life that is now closed to her: a husband, children, and her father’s line going on through her.
Her friends go with her, and the grief is shared. The women of Israel knew this loss well. Sarah’s long barrenness (Genesis 16) and Rachel’s struggle to bear children (Genesis 30) brought real sorrow, Rebekah’s family sent her off with a blessing on the offspring she would bear (Genesis 24:60), and the story of Judah and Tamar turns on keeping a family line alive (Genesis 38). For Jephthah’s only daughter, to go childless meant the end of her father’s house.
Jephthah answers with one word: “Go.” He sends her away for the two months, sixty days, and she does just as she asked, going with her companions and weeping over her virginity upon the mountains. His short reply holds a grief too heavy for more words.
Was Jephthah’s daughter put to death?
At the end of the two months she came back to her father, “who did with her according to his vow which he had vowed: and she knew no man.” The vow, neder, is a solemn promise made to God, or the thing promised, from the verb nâdar, to promise to do or give something to God. “Knew” is yâdaʻ, to know, a word Scripture uses for the union of husband and wife, as in “Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived” (Genesis 4:1). So she remained a virgin to the end of her life. What Jephthah did is told in few words, and believers differ over what it was. Both readings take the words seriously, and both grieve over the vow.
On either reading Jephthah’s vow was rash, an innocent daughter paid for it with her whole future, and Scripture sets the deed down as a warning from Israel’s darkest days.
Did God want Jephthah to keep a vow like this?
God had already told Israel that offering children was an abomination to him. His law forbade letting any child pass through the fire to Molech (Leviticus 18:21), named the nations’ burning of their sons and daughters to their gods as something the LORD hates (Deuteronomy 12:31), and forbade anyone in Israel to make a son or daughter pass through the fire (Deuteronomy 18:10). Through Jeremiah God said of the children burned as offerings to Baal, “which I commanded not, nor spake it, neither came it into my mind” (Jeremiah 19:5). Long before, on the mountain where Abraham was told to offer Isaac, God provided a ram in his son’s place (Genesis 22:13–14). The LORD is the God who provides.
The nations around Israel did offer their children, and the Ammonites, the very enemy Jephthah fought, gave them to Molech. Jephthah’s vow may owe more to that kind of bargaining than to the worship the LORD had taught Israel, or he may simply have had little grasp of how God abhors it. Either way the victory was the LORD’s gift, and the vow added nothing to it. What the LORD requires Micah sets out plainly: “to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God” (Micah 6:8).
Why did God let this happen?
God let Israel live with the results of its own choices in the days of the judges, and Judges tells those days honestly. The book sums them up in words it repeats near its end: “every man did that which was right in his own eyes” (Judges 17:6, Judges 21:25). Jephthah’s vow and its fulfilment come from his own rashness and from the spiritual darkness of his time, and the LORD neither commanded nor endorsed them.
The closing chapters of the book, from Judges 17 to Judges 21, show where that way of living leads: idolatry, civil war and ruin. Scripture keeps the record of what Jephthah did so that every generation after would be warned by it, and the sorrow of it stays on the page.
What Scripture teaches about making vows
A vow spoken to the LORD was meant to be kept. Moses told Israel to pay a vow without delay, for the LORD would surely require it, and he added, “if thou shalt forbear to vow, it shall be no sin in thee” (Deuteronomy 23:21–23). Ecclesiastes says the same: “When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it,” and “Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay” (Ecclesiastes 5:4–6). Proverbs calls it a snare “after vows to make enquiry” (Proverbs 20:25), which is just where Jephthah found himself, weighing his words after he had spoken them. The man who may dwell in God’s holy hill is one who “sweareth to his own hurt, and changeth not” (Psalm 15:4). That praise belongs to keeping a costly promise that is right to keep, and Jephthah’s promise called for what God had forbidden.
Jesus taught his disciples to speak so truly that a plain yea or nay is enough: “let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay” (Matthew 5:33–37), and James repeats the teaching (James 5:12). The lesson of Jephthah reaches every promise we make. Our words carry weight before God, and the time to weigh them is before we speak.
Why the daughters of Israel lamented her every year
“And it was a custom in Israel.” The word chôq means something prescribed or appointed: a law, a decree, a custom, a task or a set portion. Here it is a custom kept in Israel. “The daughters of Israel”, bath, are the young women of the nation, and they went “yearly”, a phrase built on yôwm, day, which reads literally “from days to days” and means year after year. They went to lament her for four days in every year. The verb tânâh means to rehearse or recount, and also to celebrate or commemorate, so the women told her story again as they mourned her.
Scripture leaves her unnamed. To the end she is “the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite”, tied to the father whose vow decided her life. Yet the women of Israel kept her memory, and a private grief became a grief the nation shared, year after year.
How Jephthah’s daughter points us to Christ
An innocent daughter bore the cost of her father’s rash vow, and Scripture answers that sorrow with the Son who gave himself freely. John the Baptist called Jesus “the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world” (John 1:29), and Peter speaks of his precious blood, “as of a lamb without blemish and without spot” (1 Peter 1:19). Jesus laid down his life of his own accord (John 10:18), came down from heaven to do his Father’s will (John 6:38), and “became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross” (Philippians 2:8).
Her words to her father, “do to me according to that which hath proceeded out of thy mouth”, are a faint echo of the prayer of Jesus in Gethsemane: “nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done” (Luke 22:42). Her submission was bound to a mistaken vow. His was given to a Father whose will is wholly good, and his death was God’s plan from eternity. Christ appeared once, at the end of the ages, to put away sin by the sacrifice of himself (Hebrews 9:26), and was offered once to bear the sins of many (Hebrews 9:28). He came to do God’s will in the body prepared for him, and by that will we are made holy through the offering of his body once for all (Hebrews 10:4–10).
His blood seals the new testament (Luke 22:20), a better covenant established on better promises (Hebrews 8:6). We are saved by grace through faith, as the gift of God, apart from any bargain of ours (Ephesians 2:8–9). Jephthah gave up his only child under a vow made in haste. God gave his only begotten Son because he loved the world (John 3:16), and he commends his love toward us in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8).
Jephthah’s daughter mourned the children that were denied her. Of the suffering Servant Isaiah says, “he shall see his seed” (Isaiah 53:10). Through Christ believers receive the Spirit of adoption and cry “Abba, Father” (Romans 8:15), and Abraham becomes the father of us all (Romans 4:16). Her memory was kept with weeping, four days every year. The death of Christ is remembered with joy, because he died for our sins, was buried, and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:3–4).
What this sorrowful story gives us
This hard passage gives us a father’s grief, a daughter’s courage, and a clear view of how much a word spoken before God weighs. Jephthah meant to honour the LORD, and his zeal ran ahead of his knowledge of the LORD’s will, so a day of victory ended in tears. His daughter met the worst news of her life with faith in what the LORD had done and with love for her father, and the young women of Israel remembered her for generations.
The passage shows us who God is as well. He gave Jephthah the victory before any vow was paid. He had already said in his law that he hates the offering of children. And in the fullness of time he gave his own Son, the one sacrifice that truly takes away sin, and he provided it himself. When we make a promise to God or to anyone, Jephthah’s story is a reason to weigh it first, and the cross of Christ is the assurance that God’s favour comes to us as a gift.
Judges 11:34
“And Jephthah came to Mizpeh unto his house,”
The road home from victory ends at his own door, the very place his vow had named.
“and, behold, his daughter came out to meet him”
“Behold” marks the sudden sight. She is the first through the doors, and so she meets the condition of the vow.
“with timbrels and with dances:”
The glad welcome that women in Israel gave a returning victor.
“and she was his only child; beside her he had neither son nor daughter.”
The point is made in two ways so that we feel the full cost. With her goes his whole line.
Judges 11:35
“And it came to pass, when he saw her, that he rent his clothes,”
His grief is immediate and public.
“and said, Alas, my daughter!”
A cry of anguish, spoken to her in sorrow.
“thou hast brought me very low,”
He is brought to his knees, though the vow that binds him was his own.
“and thou art one of them that trouble me:”
A hard phrase from a man trapped by his own promise.
“for I have opened my mouth unto the LORD,”
He spoke his vow aloud, and to the LORD himself.
“and I cannot go back.”
He counts the vow as fixed, whatever it costs him.
Judges 11:36
“And she said unto him, My father,”
Respect and tenderness at the worst moment of her life.
“if thou hast opened thy mouth unto the LORD,”
She takes the vow as given, his word spoken to the LORD.
“do to me according to that which hath proceeded out of thy mouth;”
She offers herself and asks him to keep it.
“forasmuch as the LORD hath taken vengeance for thee of thine enemies, even of the children of Ammon.”
She names the LORD as the one who won the battle, and the Ammonites as the enemy he has dealt with.
Judges 11:37
“And she said unto her father, Let this thing be done for me:”
She accepts the vow and asks one thing for herself.
“let me alone two months,”
A set time, after which she will return.
“that I may go up and down upon the mountains,”
Wandering in the hill country, away from home.
“and bewail my virginity, I and my fellows.”
She grieves for the marriage and motherhood now closed to her, and her friends grieve with her.
Judges 11:38
“And he said, Go.”
One word from a broken father.
“And he sent her away for two months:”
He grants all she asked.
“and she went with her companions,”
Her companions stay with her through the whole of it.
“and bewailed her virginity upon the mountains.”
The telling follows her request closely, as if to honour it.
Judges 11:39
“And it came to pass at the end of two months, that she returned unto her father,”
She keeps her word and comes back of her own will.
“who did with her according to his vow which he had vowed:”
The vow is kept. The deed itself is told only by its link to the vow, and that is why believers differ over it.
“and she knew no man.”
She remained a virgin to the end of her life.
“And it was a custom in Israel,”
This opens the custom that verse 40 explains.
Judges 11:40 This verse
“That the daughters of Israel went yearly”
The young women of the nation, year after year.
“to lament the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite”
To mourn her and to tell her story again. She is remembered by her father’s name.
“four days in a year.”
A set time, every year, given to her memory.
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