Judges 11:35

And it came to pass, when he saw her, that he rent his clothes, and said, Alas, my daughter! thou hast brought me very low, and thou art one of them that trouble me: for I have opened my mouth unto the LORD, and I cannot go back.

And it came to pass, when he saw {H7200} her, that he rent {H7167} his clothes {H899}, and said {H559}, Alas {H162}, my daughter {H1323}! thou hast brought {H3766} me very {H3766} low {H3766}, and thou art one of them that trouble {H5916} me: for I have opened {H6475} my mouth {H6310} unto the LORD {H3068}, and I cannot {H3201} go back {H7725}.

When he saw her, he tore his clothes and said, "Oh, no, my daughter! You're breaking my heart! Why must you be the cause of such pain to me? I made a vow to ADONAI, and I can't go back on my word."

As soon as Jephthah saw her, he tore his clothes and said, “No! Not my daughter! You have brought me to my knees! You have brought great misery upon me, for I have given my word to the LORD and cannot take it back.”

And it came to pass, when he saw her, that he rent his clothes, and said, Alas, my daughter! thou hast brought me very low, and thou art one of them that trouble me; for I have opened my mouth unto Jehovah, and I cannot go back.

Commentary

Judges 11:35 captures a moment of profound despair for Jephthah, the Gileadite judge, as he faces the devastating consequence of a rash vow he made to the Lord. Upon returning victorious from battle against the Ammonites, the first person to emerge from his house to greet him is his only daughter, his beloved child. His immediate reaction—tearing his clothes—is a powerful biblical gesture signifying intense grief and anguish.

Context

This verse is the tragic culmination of Jephthah's vow, recorded in Judges 11:30-31. Before engaging in battle with the Ammonites, Jephthah promised the LORD that if He granted him victory, whatever came out of the doors of his house first to meet him upon his return would be offered as a burnt offering. The Lord delivered the Ammonites into Jephthah's hands, and he returned victorious. However, his triumph was immediately overshadowed by the sight of his daughter, who came out with timbrels and dances, unaware of the gravity of her father's promise. This scene highlights the stark reality of life in ancient Israel, where vows were considered incredibly binding, even when made under duress or without full foresight.

Key Themes

  • The Gravity of Vows: Jephthah's words, "I have opened my mouth unto the LORD, and I cannot go back," underscore the absolute seriousness with which vows were treated in the Old Testament. Once a promise was made to God, it was considered irrevocable, a principle also emphasized in Deuteronomy 23:21 and Ecclesiastes 5:4.
  • Rashness and Consequences: The narrative serves as a cautionary tale about making hasty promises without careful consideration or seeking divine guidance. Jephthah's deep distress illustrates the painful and unforeseen consequences that can arise from such pledges.
  • Profound Grief and Sacrifice: Jephthah's act of tearing his clothes is a traditional sign of extreme sorrow and despair, reflecting the immense personal cost of his vow. This tragic moment emphasizes the heartbreaking sacrifice he is forced to contemplate.
  • Integrity of Word: Despite the devastating personal cost, Jephthah feels bound by his word. This reflects a cultural value placed on integrity and faithfulness to one's commitments, even when those commitments prove to be disastrous.

Linguistic Insights

The phrase "rent his clothes" (Hebrew: qara` begadim) is a powerful idiom used throughout the Bible to express intense emotional distress—whether it be grief, horror, anger, or despair. Examples include Jacob mourning Joseph (Genesis 37:34) or David's reaction to Saul's death (2 Samuel 1:11). Jephthah's lament, "Alas, my daughter! thou hast brought me very low, and thou art one of them that trouble me," conveys his overwhelming sorrow and the sense that his own daughter, through no fault of her own, has become the instrument of his anguish due to his self-imposed bond.

Practical Application

Judges 11:35 serves as a timeless reminder for believers today about the importance of thoughtful speech and the seriousness of commitments, especially those made to God. It encourages us to:

  1. Guard Our Words: Before making promises or commitments, especially in moments of desperation or intense emotion, we should exercise caution and wisdom.
  2. Seek God's Will: Rather than making rash vows, we are called to seek God's guidance and direction in all our decisions, trusting in His provision and timing.
  3. Understand God's Character: While the story is tragic, it also implicitly reminds us that God does not require human sacrifice. His covenant with Israel was based on obedience and faithfulness, not on such extreme and pagan practices.
  4. Live with Integrity: The passage highlights the value of keeping one's word, even when it is difficult. However, it also underscores the need for wisdom in making those initial commitments.
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Cross-References

  • Genesis 37:34

    And Jacob rent his clothes, and put sackcloth upon his loins, and mourned for his son many days.
  • Genesis 37:35

    And all his sons and all his daughters rose up to comfort him; but he refused to be comforted; and he said, For I will go down into the grave unto my son mourning. Thus his father wept for him.
  • Judges 21:1

    ¶ Now the men of Israel had sworn in Mizpeh, saying, There shall not any of us give his daughter unto Benjamin to wife.
  • Judges 21:7

    How shall we do for wives for them that remain, seeing we have sworn by the LORD that we will not give them of our daughters to wives?
  • Matthew 14:7

    Whereupon he promised with an oath to give her whatsoever she would ask.
  • Matthew 14:9

    And the king was sorry: nevertheless for the oath's sake, and them which sat with him at meat, he commanded [it] to be given [her].
  • Psalms 15:4

    In whose eyes a vile person is contemned; but he honoureth them that fear the LORD. [He that] sweareth to [his own] hurt, and changeth not.