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And another said, I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.
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And G2532 another G2087 said G2036, I have married G1060 a wife G1135, and G2532 therefore G1223 G5124 I cannot G3756 G1410 come G2064.
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Complete Jewish Bible
Still another said, ‘I have just gotten married, so I can’t come.’
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Still another said, ‘I have married a wife, so I cannot come.’
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And another said, I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.
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“Another said, ‘I have married a wife, and therefore I can’t come.’
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And another said, I haue maried a wife, and therefore I can not come.
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Young's Literal Translation
and another said, A wife I married, and because of this I am not able to come.
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SUMMARY

Luke 14:20 captures the third and final excuse offered by a guest who rejects a generous host's invitation to a great supper, stating, "I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come." This verse is a crucial part of Jesus' Parable of the Great Supper, serving as a poignant illustration of how even legitimate earthly commitments, when prioritized above God's divine invitation, can become an obstacle to entering His kingdom and experiencing the fullness of His fellowship. It highlights the human tendency to make excuses for spiritual apathy or unwillingness, underscoring the urgency and significance of God's call.

CONTEXT

  • Literary Context: Luke 14:20 is embedded within the broader narrative of Jesus' journey towards Jerusalem, where He consistently teaches about the nature of the Kingdom of God and the demands of discipleship. The parable of the Great Supper (Luke 14:16-24) immediately follows Jesus' teaching on humility and the proper way to invite guests to a banquet, emphasizing the importance of inviting the poor, crippled, lame, and blind rather than those who can repay (Luke 14:12-14). The parable itself is a direct response to a guest's pious remark about the blessedness of eating bread in the Kingdom of God (Luke 14:15). This verse, specifically, presents the final and perhaps most relatable excuse, setting the stage for the host's indignant response and his subsequent command to invite the marginalized.
  • Historical & Cultural Context: In ancient Jewish society, banquets were significant social events, symbolizing honor, fellowship, and celebration. Invitations were typically extended in two stages: an initial invitation to gauge interest, followed by a final summons when the meal was ready. To refuse the final summons, especially with flimsy excuses, was a grave insult to the host, implying a disregard for his generosity and status. While newly married men were indeed exempt from military service and certain public duties for a year (Deuteronomy 24:5), this exemption did not extend to social obligations like attending a feast. The excuses presented in the parable—buying land, buying oxen, and marrying a wife—were all legitimate life activities. However, the context implies they were used as pretexts for an underlying unwillingness to attend, revealing a deeper issue of misplaced priorities rather than genuine inability.
  • Key Themes: Luke 14:20 contributes significantly to several key themes within Luke's Gospel and the broader biblical narrative. Firstly, it underscores the generosity of God's invitation to salvation and fellowship, often depicted as a feast or banquet (Isaiah 25:6-9). Secondly, it highlights the pervasive human tendency to reject or delay a response to God's call due to earthly preoccupations, even seemingly good ones. The excuses, though superficially reasonable, reveal a heart that prioritizes temporal comforts and commitments over eternal blessings. Thirdly, the parable, through this verse, emphasizes the urgency of God's invitation; the supper is ready, implying that the time for decision is now. Finally, it foreshadows the rejection of God's initial invitation by those who were expected to accept it (often interpreted as Israel's leadership) and the subsequent extension of the invitation to the marginalized and Gentiles, a recurring Lukan theme found in passages like Luke 7:29-30.

EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS

Key Word Analysis

  • another (Greek, héteros', G2087): This word signifies "another of a different kind" or "different." In the context of the parable, it subtly distinguishes this guest's excuse from the previous two. While the first two guests offered excuses related to business or property, this third guest's excuse pertains to a personal, relational commitment. The use of héteros might imply a qualitative difference in the nature of the excuse, perhaps suggesting a more intimate or deeply rooted attachment that prevents acceptance of the invitation.
  • married (Greek, gaméō', G1060): Derived from gamos (marriage), this verb means "to wed" or "to marry." It directly refers to the act of entering into a marital union. The guest's statement "I have married a wife" is a simple declaration of a significant life event. The word itself is neutral, but its placement here as an excuse highlights how even a divinely ordained institution like marriage, when elevated above God's call, can become an impediment.
  • cannot (Greek, dýnamai', G1410): This verb means "to be able," "to be possible," or "to have power." When combined with the negative particle ou (not), as it is here (ou dynamai), it translates to "I am not able" or "I cannot." While the guest states an inability, the parable's context strongly suggests this is not a literal physical impossibility but rather a lack of willingness or a choice to prioritize something else. The "cannot" is a reflection of a heart unwilling to shift its focus, rather than a genuine constraint.

Verse Breakdown

  • "And another said,": This clause introduces the third and final guest to offer an excuse for declining the supper invitation. The simple connective "And" (kai) links this response to the preceding ones, highlighting a pattern of rejection. The phrase "another said" underscores the distinct identity of this individual, yet groups him with the others in their shared refusal.
  • "I have married a wife,": This is the specific reason provided by the third guest. Marriage is a legitimate and honorable institution, often seen as a blessing. The guest presents this as a factual, unchangeable circumstance. On the surface, it appears to be a reasonable life event. However, in the context of the parable, it serves as an example of how even good and natural human relationships or commitments can become ultimate priorities, displacing God's primary call.
  • "and therefore I cannot come.": This is the crucial consequence drawn by the guest from his marital status. The phrase "and therefore" (kai dia touto) indicates a logical deduction, implying that marriage inherently prevents his attendance. As discussed in the key word analysis, the "cannot" (ou dynamai) is presented as an inability, but the parable intends to expose it as a lack of desire or a misplaced priority. This part of the verse reveals the guest's true spiritual disposition: his commitment to his new marriage outweighs his perceived obligation or desire to attend the host's feast.

Literary Devices

The verse employs several significant literary devices. Allegory is central, as the entire parable functions as an extended metaphor for God's invitation to salvation and the Kingdom. The host represents God, the supper symbolizes the divine blessings and fellowship of the Kingdom, and the guests represent humanity. Symbolism is evident in the "wife" as a symbol of legitimate earthly attachments that, when idolized, can become spiritual impediments. The guest's "cannot come" is an instance of irony, as it presents a seemingly valid reason that, in the allegorical context, is exposed as a flimsy excuse for spiritual disinterest. This ironic justification highlights the human tendency to rationalize spiritual apathy.

THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS

Luke 14:20 powerfully illustrates the pervasive human tendency to prioritize earthly commitments—even good and legitimate ones—over God's urgent and generous invitation to His Kingdom. The guest's excuse, rooted in a new marriage, highlights how anything, when given ultimate allegiance, can become an idol that hinders one's response to divine grace. This refusal is not merely a social slight but a profound spiritual rejection, revealing a heart unwilling to forsake lesser goods for the supreme good of God's fellowship. The parable thus serves as a stark warning against spiritual complacency and the danger of allowing temporal attachments to eclipse eternal opportunities.

  • Deuteronomy 24:5: This Old Testament law exempted a newly married man from military service for a year, providing a cultural backdrop for the guest's seemingly reasonable excuse, though the exemption did not apply to social invitations.
  • Matthew 22:5: In the parallel Parable of the Wedding Feast, some invited guests "made light of it and went their ways, one to his farm, another to his business," echoing the theme of prioritizing earthly affairs over the king's invitation.
  • Proverbs 9:1-6: This passage depicts Wisdom preparing a feast and sending out invitations, urging the simple to "forsake foolishness and live," paralleling God's gracious call to humanity.

REFLECTION AND APPLICATION

Luke 14:20 serves as a profound mirror, inviting us to honestly examine our own lives and priorities. What "good things"—be it family, career, hobbies, social obligations, or even legitimate ministry—might inadvertently become our own "wife," "field," or "oxen" that prevent us from fully embracing God's call or serving Him with undivided attention? The parable is not a condemnation of marriage or other earthly responsibilities, but a piercing critique of allowing anything to usurp the rightful place of God in our lives. It challenges us to consider if our deepest commitments truly align with His will and His eternal invitation, urging us to cultivate a heart that is always ready and willing to respond to His summons, no matter the cost. It prompts us to ask whether we are truly prepared to participate in the great spiritual banquet, or if we are allowing earthly attachments to hold us back from the richness of God's fellowship and purpose.

Questions for Reflection

  • What are the "good things" in my life that, if not kept in proper perspective, could become an excuse for not fully following God?
  • Am I truly unable to respond to God's call, or am I unwilling, disguised by seemingly legitimate reasons?
  • How can I ensure that my priorities consistently reflect a primary commitment to God's Kingdom above all else?
  • What immediate steps can I take to re-evaluate my commitments and ensure I am not delaying my response to God's ongoing invitation?

FAQ

Does Luke 14:20 condemn marriage or suggest that married people cannot serve God?

Answer: Absolutely not. Luke 14:20 does not condemn marriage, which is a divinely ordained and blessed institution (as seen in Genesis 2:24 and Ephesians 5:31-33). The issue in the parable is not marriage itself, but the guest's prioritization of it to the exclusion of the host's urgent and generous invitation. The parable critiques any earthly commitment—whether marriage, business, or property—that becomes an ultimate priority, preventing one from responding to God's call. It's a warning against allowing even good things to become idols that hinder our relationship with God and our participation in His Kingdom. Many biblical figures and countless believers throughout history have served God faithfully while married.

CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT

Luke 14:20, within the Parable of the Great Supper, finds profound Christ-centered fulfillment in Jesus Himself, who is both the ultimate Host and the embodiment of the divine invitation. The "great supper" symbolizes the Kingdom of God, made accessible through the redemptive work of Christ. Jesus, as the Son of God, came to earth to extend this invitation to all humanity, particularly those who were initially overlooked or deemed unworthy (Luke 14:21-23). The excuses offered by the guests—including the one about marriage—represent the myriad ways people reject or delay their response to Christ's call to repentance and faith. Many, like those in the parable, prioritize their earthly comforts, relationships, or pursuits over the eternal life and abundant fellowship offered by Jesus. Yet, despite these rejections, Christ's invitation remains open, extended even to the "poor and crippled and blind and lame" (Luke 14:21), symbolizing those who recognize their spiritual need and embrace the grace freely offered through His sacrifice. Ultimately, the banquet of the Kingdom is fulfilled in the eschatological marriage supper of the Lamb (Revelation 19:7-9), to which all are invited, but only those who prioritize Christ above all else will fully participate.

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Commentary on Luke 14 verses 15–24

I. II. Main points1. 2. Sub-points(1.) (2.) Details

Here is another discourse of our Saviour's, in which he spiritualizes the feast he was invited to, which is another way of keeping up good discourse in the midst of common actions.

I. The occasion of the discourse was given by one of the guests, who, when Christ was giving rules about feasting, said to him, Blessed is he that shall eat bread in the kingdom of God (Luk 14:15), which, some tell us, was a saying commonly used among the rabbin.

1.But with what design does this man bring it in here? (1.) Perhaps this man, observing that Christ reproved first the guests and then the master of the house, fearing he should put the company out of humour, started this, to divert the discourse to something else. Or, (2.) Admiring the good rules of humility and charity which Christ had now given, but despairing to see them lived up to in the present degenerate state of things, he longs for the kingdom of God, when these and other good laws shall prevail, and pronounces them blessed who shall have a place in that kingdom. Or, (3.) Christ having mentioned the resurrection of the just, as a recompence for acts of charity to the poor, he here confirms what he said, "Yea, Lord, they that shall be recompensed in the resurrection of the just, shall eat bread in the kingdom, and that is a greater recompence than being reinvited to the table of the greatest man on earth." Or, (4.) Observing Christ to be silent, after he had given the foregoing lessons, he was willing to draw him in again to further discourse, so wonderfully well-pleased was he with what he said; and he knew nothing more likely to engage him than to mention the kingdom of God. Note, Even those that are not of ability to carry on good discourse themselves ought to put in a word now and then, to countenance it, and help it forward.

2.Now what this man said was a plain and acknowledged truth, and it was quoted very appositely now that they were sitting at meat; for we should take occasion from common things to think and speak of those heavenly and spiritual things which in scripture are compared to them, for that is one end of borrowing similitudes from them. And it will be good for us, when we are receiving the gifts of God's providence, to pass through them to the consideration of the gifts of his grace, those better things. This thought will be very seasonable when we are partaking of bodily refreshments: Blessed are they that shall eat bread in the kingdom of God. (1.) In the kingdom of grace, in the kingdom of the Messiah, which was expected now shortly to be set up. Christ promised his disciples that they should eat and drink with him in his kingdom. They that partake of the Lord's supper eat bread in the kingdom of God. (2.) In the kingdom of glory, at the resurrection. The happiness of heaven is an everlasting feast; blessed are they that shall sit down at that table, whence they shall rise no more.

II. The parable which our Lord Jesus put forth upon this occasion, Luk 14:16, etc. Christ joins with the good man in what he said: "It is very true, Blessed are they that shall partake of the privileges of the Messiah's kingdom. But who are they that shall enjoy that privilege? You Jews, who think to have the monopoly of it, will generally reject it, and the Gentiles will be the greatest sharers in it." This he shows by a parable, for, if he had spoken it plainly, the Pharisees would not have borne it. Now in the parable we may observe,

1.The free grace and mercy of God, shining in the gospel of Christ; it appears,

(1.)In the rich provision he has made for poor souls, for their nourishment, refreshment, and entertainment (Luk 14:16): A certain man made a great supper. There is that in Christ and the grace of the gospel which will be food and a feast for the soul of man that knows its own capacities, for the soul of a sinner that knows its own necessities and miseries. It is called a supper, because in those countries supper time was the chief feasting time, when the business of the day was over. The manifestation of gospel grace to the world was the evening of the world's day; and the fruition of the fulness of that grace in heaven is reserved for the evening of our day.

(2.)In gracious invitation given us to come and partake of this provision. Here is, [1.] A general invitation given: He bade many. Christ invited the whole nation and people of the Jews to partake of the benefits of his gospel. There is provision enough for as many as come; it was prophesied of as a feast for all people, Isa 25:6. Christ in the gospel, as he keeps a good house, so he keeps an open house. [2.] A particular memorandum given, when the supper time was at hand; the servant was sent round to put them in mind of it: Come, for all things are now ready. When the Spirit was poured out, and the gospel church planted, those who before were invited were more closely pressed to come in presently: Now all things are ready, the full discovery of the gospel mystery is now made, all the ordinances of the gospel are now instituted, the society of Christians is now incorporated, and, which crowns all, the Holy Ghost is now given. This is the call now given to us: "All things are now ready, now is the accepted time; it is now, and has not been long; it is now, and will not be long; it is a season of grace that will be soon over, and therefore come now; do not delay; accept the invitation; believe yourselves welcome; eat, O friends; drink, yea drink abundantly, O beloved."

2.The cold entertainment which the grace of the gospel meets with. The invited guests declined coming. They did not say flatly and plainly that they would not come, but they all with one consent began to make excuse, Luk 14:18. One would have expected that they should all with one consent have come to a good supper, when they were so kindly invited to it: who would have refused such an invitation? Yet, on the contrary, they all found out some pretence or other to shift off their attendance. This bespeaks the general neglect of the Jewish nation to close with Christ, and accept of the offers of his grace, and the contempt they put upon the invitation. It also intimates the backwardness there is in most people to close with the gospel call. They cannot for shame avow their refusal, but they desire to be excused: they all apo mias, some supply hōras, all straightway, they could give an answer extempore, and needed not to study for it, had not to seek for an excuse. Others supply gnōmēs, they were unanimous in it; with one voice. (1.) Here were two that were purchasers, who were in such haste to go and see their purchases that they could not find time to go to this supper. One had purchased land; he had bought a piece of ground, which was represented to him to be a good bargain, and he must needs to and see whether it was so or no; and therefore I pray thee have me excused. His heart was so much upon the enlarging of his estate that he could neither be civil to his friend nor kind to himself. Note, Those that have their hearts full of the world, and fond of laying house to house and field to field, have their ears deaf to the gospel invitation. But what a frivolous excuse was this! He might have deferred going to see his piece of ground till the next day, and have found it in the same place and plight it was now in, if he had so pleased. Another had purchased stock for his land. "I have bought five yoke of oxen for the plough, and I must just now go and prove them, must go and try whether they be fit for my purpose; and therefore excuse me for this time." The former intimates that inordinate complacency in the world, this the inordinate care and concern about the world, which keep people from Christ and his grace; both intimate a preference given to the body above the soul, and to the things of time above those of eternity. Note, It is very criminal, when we are called to any duty, to make excuses for our neglect of it: it is a sign that there are convictions that it is duty, but no inclination to it. These things here, that were the matter of the excuses, were, [1.] Little things, and of small concern. It had better become them to have said, "I am invited to eat bread in the kingdom of God, and therefore must be excused from going to see the ground or the oxen." [2.] Lawful things. Note, Things lawful in themselves, when the heart is too much set upon them, prove fatal hindrances in religion - Licitus perimus omnes. It is a hard matter so to manage our worldly affairs that they may not divert us from spiritual pursuits; and this ought to be our great care. (2.) Here was one that was newly married, and could not leave his wife to go out to supper, no, not for once (Luk 14:30): I have married a wife, and therefore, in short, I cannot come. He pretends that he cannot, when the truth is he will not. Thus many pretend inability for the duties of religion when really they have an aversion to them. He has married a wife. It is true, he that married was excused by the law from going to war for the first year (Deu 24:5), but would that excuse him from going up to the feasts of the Lord, which all the males were yearly to attend? Much less will it excuse from the gospel feast, of which the other were but types. Note, Our affection to our relations often proves a hindrance to us in our duty to God. Adam's excuse was, The woman that thou gavest me persuaded me to eat; this here was, The woman persuaded me not to eat. He might have gone and taken his wife along with him; they would both have been welcome.

3.The account which was brought to the master of the feast of the affront put upon him by his friends whom he had invited, who now showed how little they valued him (Luk 14:21): That servant came, and showed his lord these things, told him with surprise that he was likely to sup alone, for the guests that were invited, though they had had timely notice a good while before, that they might order their affairs accordingly, yet were now engaged in some other business. He made the matter neither better nor worse, but related it just as it was. Note, Ministers must give account of the success of their ministry. They must do it now at the throne of grace. If they see of the travail of their soul, they must go to God with their thanks; if they labour in vain, they must go to God with their complaints. They will do it hereafter at the judgment-seat of Christ: they shall be produced as witnesses against those who persist and perish in their unbelief, to prove that they were fairly invited; and for those who accepted the call, Behold, I and the children thou hast given me. The apostle urges this as a reason why people should give ear to the word of God sent them by his ministers; for they watch for your souls, as those that must give account, Heb 13:17.

4.The master's just resentment of this affront: He was angry, Luk 14:21. Note, The ingratitude of those that slight gospel offers, and the contempt they put upon the God of heaven thereby, are a very great provocation to him, and justly so. Abused mercy turns into the greatest wrath. The doom he passed upon them was, None of the men that were bidden shall taste of my supper. This was like the doom passed upon the ungrateful Israel, when they despised the pleasant land: God swore in his wrath that they should not enter into his rest. Note, Grace despised is grace forfeited, like Esau's birthright. They that will not have Christ when they may shall not have him when they would. Even those that were bidden, if they slight the invitation, shall be forbidden; when the door is shut, the foolish virgins will be denied entrance.

5.The care that was taken to furnish the table with guests, as well as meat. "Go" (saith he to the servants), "go first into the streets and lanes of the city, and invite, not the merchants that are going from the custom-house, nor the tradesmen that are shutting up their shops; they will desire to be excused (one is going to his counting-house to cast up his books, another to the tavern to drink a bottle with his friend); but, that you may invite those that will be glad to come, bring in hither the poor and the maimed, the halt and the blind; pick up the common beggars." The servants object not that it will be a disparagement to the master and his house to have such guests at his table; for they know his mind, and they soon gather an abundance of such guests: Lord, it is done as thou hast commanded. Many of the Jews are brought in, not of the scribes and Pharisees, such as Christ was now at dinner with, who thought themselves most likely to be guests at the Messiah's table, but the publicans and sinners; these are the poor and the maimed. But yet there is room for more guests, and provision enough for them all. "Go, then, secondly, into the highways and hedges. Go out into the country, and pick up the vagrants, or those that are returning now in the evening from their work in the field, from hedging and ditching there, and compel them to come in, not by force of arms, but by force of arguments. Be earnest with them; for in this case it will be necessary to convince them that the invitation is sincere and not a banter; they will be shy and modest, and will hardly believe that they shall be welcome, and therefore be importunate with them and do not leave them till you have prevailed with them." This refers to the calling of the Gentiles, to whom the apostles were to turn when the Jews refused the offer, and with them the church was filled. Now observe here, (1.) The provision made for precious souls in the gospel of Christ shall appear not to have been made in vain; for, if some reject it, yet others will thankfully accept the offer of it. Christ comforts himself with this, that, though Israel be not gathered, yet he shall be glorious, as a light to the Gentiles, Isa 49:5, Isa 49:6. God will have a church in the world, though there are those that are unchurched; for the unbelief of man shall not make the promise of God of no effect. (2.) Those that are very poor and low in the world shall be as welcome to Christ as the rich and great; nay, and many times the gospel has greatest success among those that labour under worldly disadvantages, as the poor, and bodily infirmities, as the maimed, and the halt, and the blind. Christ here plainly refers to what he had said just before, in direction to us, to invite to our tables the poor and maimed, the lame and blind, Luk 14:13. For consideration for the countenance which Christ's gospel gives to the poor should engage us to be charitable to them. His condescensions and compassions towards them should engage ours. (3.) Many times the gospel has the greatest success among those that are least likely to have the benefit of it, and whose submission to it was least expected. The publicans and harlots went into the kingdom of God before the scribes and Pharisees; so the last shall be first, and the first last. Let us not be confident concerning those that are most forward, nor despair of those that are least promising. (4.) Christ's ministers must be both very expeditious and very importunate in inviting to the gospel feast: "Go out quickly (Luk 14:21); lose not time, because all things are now ready. Call to them to come today, while it is called today; and compel them to come in, by accosting them kindly, and drawing them with the cords of a man and the bands of love." Nothing can be more absurd than fetching an argument hence for compelling men's consciences, nay, for compelling men against their consciences, in matters of religion: "You shall receive the Lord's supper, or you shall be fined and imprisoned, and ruined in your estate." Certainly nothing like this was the compulsion here meant, but only that of reason and love; for the weapons of our warfare are not carnal. (5.) Though many have been brought in to partake of the benefits of the gospel, yet still there is room for more; for the riches of Christ are unsearchable and inexhaustible; there is in him enough for all, and enough for each; and the gospel excludes none that do not exclude themselves. (6.) Christ's house, though it be large, shall at last be filled; it will be so when the number of the elect is completed, and as many as were given him are brought to him.

Matthew Henry (1662–1714) — Commentary on the Whole Bible. This section covers verses 15–24. Public domain.
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Pseudo-Basil (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
(app. Hom. in Ps. 37.) Not that the passion of anger belongs to the Divine substance, but an operation such as in us is caused by anger, is called the anger and indignation of God.
Clement of AlexandriaAD 215
The Instructor Book 2
The holy agape is the sublime and saving creation of the Lord.…An agape is in reality heavenly food, a banquet of the Word. The agape, or love, “bears all things, endures all things, hopes all things. Love never fails.” “Blessed is he who eats bread in the kingdom of God.” The most unlikely of all downfalls is charity that does not fail to be thrown down from heaven to earth among all these dainty seasonings. Do you still imagine that I refer to a meal that will be destroyed? “If I distribute my goods to the poor and do not have love,” Scripture says, “I am nothing.” The whole law and the word depend on this love. If you love the Lord your God and your neighbor, there will be a heavenly feast in heaven. The earthly feast, as we have proved from Scripture, is called a supper. It is permeated with love yet is not identified with it but is an expression of mutual and generous good will.
Origen of Alexandria (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)AD 253
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
He who has married a wife is he who is joined to the flesh, a lover of pleasure rather than of God. (1 Tim. 3:4.)
Eusebius of Caesarea (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)AD 339
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
Our Lord had just before taught us to prepare our feasts for those who cannot repay, seeing that we shall have our reward at the resurrection of the just. Some one then, supposing the resurrection of the just to be one and the same with the kingdom of God, commends the above-mentioned recompense; for it follows, When one of them that sat at meat with him heard these things, he said unto him, Blessed is he that shall eat bread in the kingdom of God.
Athanasius of AlexandriaAD 373
FESTAL LETTER
Oh, brothers and sisters, what a banquet that is! How great is the harmony and joy of those who eat at this heavenly table! They enjoy food that produces everlasting life, not that ordinary food which passes right on through the body. Who will be considered worthy to be in that group? Who is so blessed as to be called to and counted worthy of that divine feast? “Blessed is he who will eat bread in your kingdom.” Although he has been washed, even a person who has been judged worthy of this heavenly calling and has been sanctified by it can become unclean. How can he become unclean? “Counting as unclean the blood of the covenant by which he was sanctified and despising the Spirit of grace,” he hears the Lord say, “Friend, how did you get in here without wedding garments?”
Basil of Caesarea (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)AD 379
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
But he says, I cannot come, because that the human mind when it is degenerating to worldly pleasures, is feeble in attending to the things of God.
Ambrose of MilanAD 397
Exposition of the Gospel of Luke
He turned to the Gentiles from the careless scorn of the rich. He invites both good and evil to enter in order to strengthen the good and change the disposition of the wicked for the better. The saying that was read today is fulfilled, “Then wolves and lambs will feed together.” He summons the poor, the maimed and the blind. By this, he shows us either that handicaps do not exclude us from the kingdom of heaven and whoever lacks the enticements of sinning rarely offends, or that the Lord’s mercy forgives the weakness of sinners. Whoever glories in the Lord glories as one redeemed from reproach not by works but by faith.He sends them into the highways, because wisdom sings aloud in passages. He sends them to the streets, because he sent them to sinners, so that they should come from the broad paths to the narrow way that leads to life. He sends them to the highways and hedges. They, who are not busied with any desires for present things, hurry to the future on the path of good will. Like a hedge that separates the wild from the cultivated and wards off the attacks of wild beasts, they can distinguish between good and evil and extend a rampart of faith against the temptations of spiritual wickedness.
Ambrose of Milan (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)AD 397
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
Thus it is that the worn out soldier is appointed to serve degraded offices, as he who intent upon things below buys for himself earthly possessions, can not enter into the kingdom of heaven. Our Lord says, Sell all that thou hast, and follow me.
It follows, And another said, I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I go to prove them.

Or marriage is not blamed; but purity is held up to greater honour, since the unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy in body and spirit, but she that is married careth for the things of the world. (1 Cor. 7:34.)

Or let us suppose that three classes of men are excluded from partaking of that supper, Gentiles, Jews, Heretics. The Jews by their fleshly service impose upon themselves the yoke of the law, for the five yoke are the yoke of the Ten Commandments, of which it is said, And he declared unto you his covenant, which he commanded you to perform, even ten commandments; and he wrote them upon two tables of stone. (Deut. 4:13.) That is, the commands of the Decalogue. Or the five yoke are the five books of the old law. But heresy indeed, like Eve with a woman's obstinacy, tries the affection of faith. And the Apostle says that we must flee from covetousness, lest entangled in the customs of the Gentiles we be unable to come to the kingdom of Christ. (Eph. 5:3, Col. 3:5, Heb. 13:5, 1 Tim. 6:11.) Therefore both he who has bought a farm is a stranger to the kingdom, and he who has chosen the yoke of the law rather than the gift of grace, and he also who excuses himself because he has married a wife.
It follows, And the servant returned, and told these things to his Lord.

He invites the poor, the weak, and the blind, to show that weakness of body shuts out no one from the kingdom of heaven, and that he is guilty of fewer sins who lacks the incitement to sin; or that the infirmities of sin are forgiven through the mercy of God. Therefore he sends to the streets, that from the broader ways they may come to the narrow way.
Because then the proud refuse to come, the poor (Greg. Hom. 36.) are chosen, since they are called weak and poor who are weak in their own judgment of themselves, for there are poor, and yet as it were strong, who though lying in poverty are proud; the blind are they who have no brightness of understanding; the lame are they who have walked not uprightly in their works. But since the faults of these are expressed in the weakness of their members, as those were sinners who when bidden refused to come, so also are these who are invited and come; but the proud sinners are rejected, the humble are chosen. God then chooses those whom the world despises, because for the most part the very act of contempt recals a man to himself. And men so much the sooner hear the voice of God, as they have nothing in this world to take pleasure in. When then the Lord calls certain from the streets and lanes to supper, He denotes that people who had learnt to observe in the city the constant practice of the law. But the multitude who believed of the people of Israel did not fill the places of the upper feast room. Hence it follows, And the servant said, Lord, it is done as thou hast commanded, and yet there is room. For already had great numbers of the Jews entered, but yet there was room in the kingdom for the abundance of the Gentiles to be received. Therefore it is added, And the Lord said unto the servant, Go out into the highways and hedges, and compel them to come in, that my house may be filled. When He commanded His guests to be collected from the wayside and the hedges, He sought for a rural people, that is, the Gentiles.

Or, He sends to the highways and about the hedges, because they are fit for the kingdom of God, who, not absorbed in the desire for present goods, are hastening on to the future, set in a certain fixed path of good will. And who like a hedge which separates the cultivated ground from the uncultivated, and keeps off the incursion of the cattle, know how to distinguish good and evil, and to hold up the shield of faith against the temptations of spiritual wickedness.
Augustine of Hippo (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)AD 430
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
(ubi sup.) That is, the delight of the flesh which hinders many, I wish it were outward and not inward. For he who said, I have married a wife, taking pleasure in the delights of the flesh, excuses himself from the supper; let such a one take heed lest he die from inward hunger.

(ubi sup.) Now John when he said, all that is in the world is the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, (1 John 2:16.) began from the point where the Gospel ended. The lust of the flesh, I have married a wife; the lust of the eyes, I have bought fire yoke of oxen; the pride of life, I have bought a farm. But proceeding from a part to the whole, the five senses have been spoken of under the eyes alone, which hold the chief place among the five senses. Because though properly the sight belongs to the eyes, we are in the habit of ascribing the act of seeing to all the five senses.
Cyril of Alexandria (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)AD 444
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
That man was carnal, and a careless hearer of the things which Christ delivered, for he thought the reward of the saints was to be bodily.

This man represents God the Father just as images are formed to give the resemblance of power. For as often as God wishes to declare His avenging power, He is called by the names of bear, leopard, lion, and others of the same kind; but when He wishes to express mercy, by the name of man. The Maker of all things, therefore, and Father of Glory, or the Lord, prepared the great supper which was finished in Christ.
For in these latter times, and as it were the setting of our world, the Son of God has shone upon us, and enduring death for our sakes, has given us His own body to eat. Hence also the lamb was sacrificed in the evening according to the Mosaic law. Rightly then was the banquet which was prepared in Christ called a supper.

That servant who was sent is Christ Himself, who being by nature God and the true Son of God, emptied Himself, and took upon Him the form of a servant. But He was sent at supper time. For not in the beginning did the Word take upon Him our nature, but in the last time; and he adds, For all things are ready. For the Father prepared in Christ the good things bestowed upon the world through Him, the removal of sins, the participation of the Holy Spirit, the glory of adoption. To these Christ bade men by the teaching of the Gospel.

But whom can we suppose these to be who refused to come for the reason just mentioned, but the rulers of the Jews, whom throughout the sacred history we find to have been often reproved for these things?

But with the rulers of the Jews who refused their call, as they themselves confessed, Have any of the rulers believed on him? (John 7:48.) the Master of the household was wroth, as with them that deserved His indignation and anger; whence it follows, Then the master of the house being angry, &c.

Thus it was that the master of the house is said to have been enraged with the chiefs of the Jews, and in their stead were called men taken from out of the Jewish multitude, and of weak and impotent minds. For at Peter's preaching, first indeed three thousand, then five thousand believed, and afterwards much people; whence it follows, He said unto his servant, Go out straightway into the streets and lanes of the city, and bring in hither the poor, and the maimed, and the halt, and the blind. (Acts 2:41, 44.
Cyril of AlexandriaAD 444
COMMENTARY ON LUKE, HOMILY 104
"They began," it says, "all of them at once to make excuse," that is, as with one purpose, without any delay, they made excuse.… By senselessly giving themselves up to these earthly matters, they cannot see things spiritual. Conquered by the love of the flesh, they are far from holiness. They are covetous and greedy after wealth. They seek things that are below but make no account in the slightest degree of the hopes that are stored up with God. It would be far better to gain the joys of paradise instead of earthly fields and temporary furrows.
Gregory the DialogistAD 604
Forty Gospel Homilies, Homily 36
Another said: I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come. What is understood by a wife except the pleasure of the flesh? For although marriage is good, and established by divine providence for the propagation of offspring, nevertheless some seek through it not the fruitfulness of children, but the desires of pleasure, and therefore through a just thing an unjust thing can not inappropriately be signified. Therefore the supreme father of the household invites you to the supper of the eternal banquet; but while one is given to avarice, another to curiosity, another to the pleasure of the flesh, indeed all the reprobate together make excuses. While earthly care occupies this one, shrewd thinking about another's affairs devastates that one, carnal pleasure also defiles the mind of yet another, and each fastidious person does not hasten to the feast of eternal life.
Gregory the Dialogist (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)AD 604
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
(Hom. 36. in Evan.) Or he made a great supper, as having prepared for us the full enjoyment of eternal sweetness. He bade many, but few came, because sometimes they who themselves are subject to him by faith, by their lives oppose his eternal banquet. And this is generally the difference between the delights of the body and the soul, that fleshly delights when not possessed provoke a longing desire for them, but when possessed and devoured, the eater soon turns from satiety to loathing; spiritual delights, on the other hand, when not possessed are loathed, when possessed the more desired. But heavenly mercy recalls those despised delights to the eyes of our memory, and in order that we should drive away our disgust, bids us to the feast. Hence it follows, And he sent his servant, &c.

By this servant then who is sent by the master of the family to bid to supper, the order of preachers is signified. But it is often the case that a powerful person has a despised servant, and when his Lord orders any thing through him, the servant speaking is not despised, because respect for the master who sends him is still kept up in the heart. Our Lord then offers what he ought to be asked for, not ask others to receive. He wishes to give what could scarcely be hoped for; yet all begin at once to make excuse, for it follows, And they all began with one consent to make excuse. Behold a rich man invites, and the poor hasten to come. We are invited to the banquet of God, and we make excuse.

(ubi sup.) Or by the piece of ground is meant worldly substance. Therefore he goes out to see it who thinks only of outward things for the sake of his living.

(in Hom. 36. in Ev.) By the bodily senses also because they cannot comprehend things within, but take cognizance only of what is without, curiosity is rightly represented, which while it seeks to shake off a life which is strange to it, not knowing its own secret life, desires to dwell upon things without. But we must observe, that the one who for his farm, and the other who to prove his five yoke of oxen, excuse themselves from the supper of their Inviter, mix up with their excuse the words of humility. For when they say, I pray thee, and then disdain to come, the word sounds of humility, but the action is pride. It follows, And this said, I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.

(Hom. 36.) But although marriage is good, and appointed by Divine Providence for the propagation of children, some seek therein not fruitfulness of offspring, but the lust of pleasure. And so by means of a righteous thing may not unfitly an unrighteous thing be represented.

(in Hom. 36.) They then who, broken down by the calamities of this world, return to the love of God, are compelled to enter. But very terrible is the sentence which comes next. For I say unto you, That none of those men which were bidden shall taste of my supper. Let no one then despise the call, lest if when bidden he make excuse, when he wishes to enter he shall not be able.
Bede (as quoted by Aquinas, AD 1274)AD 735
Catena Aurea by Aquinas
But because some receive this bread by faith merely, as if by smelling, but its sweetness they loathe to really touch with their mouths, our Lord by the following parable condemns the dulness of those men to be unworthy of the heavenly banquet. For it follows, But he said unto him, A certain man made a great supper, and bade many.
BedeAD 735
On the Gospel of Luke
And another said: I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come. What is understood by a wife, except carnal pleasure? For although marriage is good and instituted by Divine Providence for the propagation of offspring, some nevertheless seek in it not the fruitfulness of offspring, but the desires of pleasure. And therefore, through a just matter, an unjust matter can not incongruously be signified. Therefore, the highest Master of the house invites us to the banquet of the eternal feast, but while this one is occupied with earthly care, another is devoured by the keen thought of another's actions, and even the mind of another is polluted by carnal pleasure, each fastidious one does not hasten to the feasts of eternal life.
Source: Quotations drawn from early Church Fathers and historical Christian theologians (AD 100–1500). Some quotes address the surrounding passage context rather than this verse alone.
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