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King James Version
But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
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KJV (with Strong's)
But G1161 he that is married G1060 careth G3309 for the things that are G3588 of the world G2889, how G4459 he may please G700 his wife G1135.
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Complete Jewish Bible
with how to please the Lord; but the married man concerns himself with the world’s affairs, with how to please his wife;
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Berean Standard Bible
But the married man is concerned about the affairs of this world, how he can please his wife,
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American Standard Version
but he that is married is careful for the things of the world, how he may please his wife,
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World English Bible Messianic
but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife.
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Geneva Bible (1599)
But hee that is maried, careth for the things of the world, how he may please his wife.
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Young's Literal Translation
and the married is anxious for the things of the world, how he shall please the wife.
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SUMMARY

Paul continues his discourse on marriage and singleness, here highlighting the practical realities and differing priorities that naturally arise for those who are married. Specifically, for the husband, entering into marriage brings a necessary focus on the temporal aspects of life and the legitimate desire to ensure his wife's well-being and contentment, a concern that naturally shifts his attention from the singular devotion possible in singleness. This verse is not a condemnation of marriage but an honest observation of its inherent demands and the resulting division of focus compared to an unmarried person's capacity for undivided service to the Lord.

CONTEXT

  • Literary Context: This verse is situated within Paul's extensive discussion in 1 Corinthians 7, where he addresses various questions from the Corinthian church regarding marriage, divorce, and celibacy. Paul's overarching purpose in this chapter is to provide guidance on how believers can best live in a manner that honors God, whether married or single, especially in light of the "present distress" (1 Corinthians 7:26). The immediate preceding verses, particularly 1 Corinthians 7:32, establish a contrast: the unmarried person is "anxious about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord," while the married person's concerns are redirected towards their spouse and the practicalities of married life. Paul's argument is not that marriage is inherently bad, but that it introduces a duality of focus that singleness does not.
  • Historical & Cultural Context: In first-century Corinth, as in much of the Roman world, marriage was the societal norm and expectation, primarily for procreation, social stability, and economic partnership. While some philosophical schools advocated for celibacy, the prevailing Jewish and Roman cultures highly valued marriage and family. Paul's teaching here, while counter-cultural in its elevation of singleness for spiritual devotion, also acknowledges the established social structures. The "things of the world" would encompass the practicalities of running a household, earning a living, managing family affairs, and participating in the social fabric of the city—all legitimate and necessary aspects of life for a married couple. The concept of "pleasing" one's spouse would have resonated with cultural expectations of mutual care and provision within marriage, though Paul elevates it to a spiritual concern for the believer.
  • Key Themes: The central theme running through 1 Corinthians 7 is undivided devotion to the Lord. Paul explores how different life states (married, single, widowed) impact one's ability to serve God without distraction. This verse highlights the theme of divided focus inherent in marriage, where legitimate marital responsibilities and the desire to please one's spouse naturally divert attention from exclusive devotion to God. It also touches on practical Christian living, demonstrating how spiritual principles intersect with the everyday realities of life, including the management of "worldly" affairs. Paul's pragmatic approach acknowledges that while the unmarried can focus solely on "the things of the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:32), the married must balance their spiritual aspirations with their God-given responsibilities within their earthly relationships.

EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS

Key Word Analysis

  • married (Greek, gaméō', G1060): From gamos, meaning "to wed." This word signifies the state of being united in marriage, encompassing both the act of marrying and the ongoing condition of being married. Paul uses it here to refer to the person who has entered into this covenant relationship, distinguishing them from the unmarried.
  • careth (Greek, merimnáō', G3309): This verb means "to be anxious about," "to be concerned with," or "to take thought for." While merimnáō can carry a negative connotation of anxious worry (as in Matthew 6:25), in this context, it refers to a legitimate and necessary preoccupation or concern. It denotes a responsible and attentive focus on the needs and well-being of one's spouse, rather than a sinful anxiety.
  • world (Greek, kósmos', G2889): This term, derived from komizō (to arrange), can refer to an "orderly arrangement," "decoration," or, by implication, the "world" in various senses. Here, "the things that are of the world" (τὰ τοῦ κόσμου) refers to the temporal, practical, and material aspects of earthly existence—household management, finances, social obligations, and the daily affairs necessary for living. It is distinguished from "the things of the Lord" and is not inherently evil, but rather represents the legitimate demands of life within this present age.

Verse Breakdown

  • "But he that is married": This clause introduces the subject of the verse, a man who has entered into the state of marriage. The "But" (G1161, ) serves as an adversative particle, drawing a direct contrast with the unmarried person discussed in the preceding verse (1 Corinthians 7:32). It sets up a comparison of the different focuses inherent in each state.
  • "careth for the things that are of the world": This phrase describes the natural and necessary preoccupation of a married man. "Careth" (G3309, merimnáō) implies a legitimate concern and attention, not necessarily a sinful anxiety. "The things that are of the world" (G2889, kósmos) refers to the practical, temporal, and material aspects of daily life—such as providing for the family, maintaining a home, managing finances, and navigating social relationships. These are the legitimate demands that arise from establishing a household and family.
  • "how he may please [his] wife": This final clause specifies the primary motivation for the married man's concern for "the things of the world." His efforts are directed towards ensuring his wife's happiness, comfort, and well-being. "Please" (G700, aréskō) signifies a desire to be agreeable, to satisfy, or to make content. This is a natural and commendable aspect of a loving marital relationship, reflecting the husband's responsibility to cherish and care for his spouse.

Literary Devices

Paul employs Contrast as a primary literary device in this passage, setting up a clear distinction between the unmarried person's singular focus on pleasing the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:32) and the married person's dual focus on both the Lord and their spouse. This contrast is not a judgment but an observation of the practical realities of each state. The phrase "things that are of the world" functions as a Metonymy, where "the world" stands for the practical, temporal affairs and responsibilities of daily life within the earthly realm, as opposed to purely spiritual pursuits. This highlights the shift in priorities and the legitimate demands placed upon a married individual.

THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS

This verse underscores a fundamental theological truth about the nature of human relationships and their impact on spiritual devotion. While marriage is a divinely ordained institution, it inherently introduces a division of focus that singleness does not. This is not presented as a flaw in marriage, but rather as a practical reality reflecting the legitimate responsibilities and affections within the marital covenant. The husband's "caring for the things of the world" and desiring to "please his wife" are not condemned but acknowledged as natural and necessary expressions of love and responsibility within a God-honoring marriage. The underlying theme is that both marriage and singleness are valid callings, each with unique challenges and opportunities for serving God, and each requiring believers to navigate their earthly responsibilities with an eye toward their ultimate devotion to Christ.

REFLECTION AND APPLICATION

This verse offers a profound and realistic perspective on the demands of marriage, particularly for the husband. It reminds us that entering into a marital covenant naturally brings with it a host of practical, temporal responsibilities and a deep desire to nurture and please one's spouse. This is not a distraction from God's will but often an integral part of living out one's faith within the context of family. For married individuals, it encourages a holistic view of discipleship, where serving God includes faithfully loving and caring for one's spouse, managing household affairs with integrity, and raising a family in the Lord. It challenges couples to intentionally seek ways to integrate their spiritual devotion into their shared life, ensuring that their necessary worldly concerns do not overshadow their ultimate commitment to Christ. For those contemplating marriage or singleness, it provides a sober assessment of the distinct demands and unique opportunities each state presents for serving the Lord. Ultimately, the goal in both states is to live a life that honors God, whether through undivided devotion in singleness or through faithful, loving partnership in marriage.

Questions for Reflection

  • How do the "things of the world" in your own life (whether married or single) compete with or complement your desire to please the Lord?
  • If married, how can you and your spouse intentionally integrate your "care for the things of the world" with your shared spiritual devotion?
  • How does understanding the different focuses of married and unmarried life help you appreciate and support others in the body of Christ, regardless of their marital status?
  • In what ways can a husband's desire to "please his wife" be an act of worship and service to God?

FAQ

Does Paul condemn marriage or suggest it's inferior for spiritual devotion?

Answer: No, Paul does not condemn marriage. Throughout 1 Corinthians 7, he affirms marriage as a legitimate and honorable state, even advising those who are married to remain so (1 Corinthians 7:27). His point is a pragmatic observation about the differing levels of undivided devotion possible in singleness versus marriage. While the unmarried person can focus solely on "the things of the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:32), a married person naturally and legitimately has concerns for their spouse and the practicalities of married life. This is not a moral judgment but a recognition of practical realities and different callings.

CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT

While 1 Corinthians 7:33 speaks to the practical realities of marital devotion, its Christ-centered fulfillment is found in how the paradigm of "pleasing" shifts and is perfected in Christ. Jesus, the ultimate Bridegroom, perfectly demonstrates undivided devotion to the Father while simultaneously giving Himself completely to "please" His Bride, the Church. His concern for the "things of the world" was not for personal gain or earthly comfort, but for the salvation and sanctification of humanity, culminating in His self-sacrifice on the cross (Ephesians 5:25-27). He perfectly balanced His earthly mission with His heavenly calling, always doing the will of the Father (John 6:38). For the Christian husband, the call to "please his wife" finds its highest expression and deepest meaning in emulating Christ's sacrificial love and selfless service to the Church. This means loving her as Christ loved the Church, being willing to lay down one's life and priorities for her good, and ultimately, leading her towards greater devotion to the Lord, thereby transforming "worldly" concerns into acts of worship and Christ-like service within the covenant of marriage (Colossians 3:19).

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Commentary on 1 Corinthians 7 verses 25–35

The apostle here resumes his discourse, and gives directions to virgins how to act, concerning which we may take notice,

I. Of the manner wherein he introduces them: "Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord, Co1 7:25. I have no express and universal law delivered by the Lord himself concerning celibacy; but I give my judgment, as one who hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful," namely, in the apostleship. He acted faithfully, and therefore his direction was to be regarded as a rule of Christ: for he gave judgment as one who was a faithful apostle of Christ. Though Christ had before delivered no universal law about that matter, he now gives direction by an inspired apostle, one who had obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful. Note, Faithfulness in the ministry is owing to the grace and mercy of Christ. It is what Paul was ready to acknowledge upon all occasions: I laboured more abundantly than they all; yet not I, but the grace of God which was with me, Co1 15:10. And it is a great mercy which those obtain from God who prove faithful in the ministry of his word, either ordinary or extraordinary.

II. The determination he gives, which, considering the present distress, was that a state of celibacy was preferable: It is good for a man so to be, that is, to be single. I suppose, says the apostle, or it is my opinion. It is worded with modesty, but delivered, notwithstanding, with apostolic authority. It is not the mere opinion of a private man, but the very determination of the Spirit of God in an apostle, though it be thus spoken. And it was thus delivered to give it the more weight. Those that were prejudiced against the apostle might have rejected this advice had it been given with a mere authoritative air. Note, Ministers do not lose their authority by prudent condescensions. They must become all things to all men, that they may do them the more good. This is good, says he, for the present distress. Christians, at the first planting of their religion, were grievously persecuted. Their enemies were very bitter against them, and treated them very cruelly. They were continually liable to be tossed and hurried by persecution. This being the then state of things, he did not think it so advisable for Christians that were single to change conditions. The married state would bring more care and cumber along with it (Co1 15:33, Co1 15:34), and would therefore make persecution more terrible, and render them less able to bear it. Note, Christians, in regulating their conduct, should not barely consider what is lawful in itself, but what may be expedient for them.

III. Notwithstanding he thus determines, he is very careful to satisfy them that he does not condemn marriage in the gross, nor declare it unlawful. And therefore, though he says, "If thou art loosed from a wife (in a single state, whether bachelor or widower, virgin or widow) do not seek a wife, do not hastily change conditions;" yet he adds, "If thou art bound to a wife, do not seek to be loosed. It is thy duty to continue in the married relation, and do the duties of it." And though such, if they were called to suffer persecution, would find peculiar difficulties in it; yet, to avoid these difficulties, they must not cast off nor break through the bonds of duty. Duty must be done, and God trusted with events. But to neglect duty is the way to put ourselves out of the divine protection. He adds therefore, I thou marry thou hast not sinned; or if a virgin marry she hath not sinned: but such shall have trouble in the flesh. Marrying is not in itself a sin, but marrying at that time was likely to bring inconvenience upon them, and add to the calamities of the times; and therefore he thought it advisable and expedient that such as could contain should refrain from it; but adds that he would not lay celibacy on them as a yoke, nor, by seeming to urge it too far, draw them into any snare; and therefore says, But I spare you. Note, How opposite in this are the papist casuists to the apostle Paul! They forbid many to marry, and entangle them with vows of celibacy, whether they can bear the yoke or no.

IV. He takes this occasion to give general rules to all Christians to carry themselves with a holy indifferency towards the world, and every thing in it. 1. As to relations: Those that had wives must be as though they had none; that is, they must not set their hearts too much on the comforts of the relation; they must be as though they had none. They know not how soon they shall have none. This advice must be carried into every other relation. Those that have children should be as though they had none. Those that are their comfort now may prove their greatest cross. And soon may the flower of all comforts be cut down. 2. As to afflictions: Those that weep must be as though they wept not; that is, we must not be dejected too much with any of our afflictions, nor indulge ourselves in the sorrow of the world, but keep up a holy joy in God in the midst of all our troubles, so that even in sorrow the heart may be joyful, and the end of our grief may be gladness. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy will come in the morning. If we can but get to heaven at last, all tears shall be wiped from our eyes; and the prospect of it now should make us moderate our sorrows and refrain our tears. 3. As to worldly enjoyments: Those that rejoice should be as though they rejoiced not; that is, they should not take too great a complacency in any of their comforts. They must be moderate in their mirth, and sit loose to the enjoyments they most value. Here is not their rest, nor are these things their portion; and therefore their hearts should not be set on them, nor should they place their solace or satisfaction in them. 4. As to worldly traffic and employment: Those that buy must be as though they possessed not. Those that prosper in trade, increase in wealth, and purchase estates, should hold these possessions as though they held them not. It is but setting their hearts on that which is not (Pro 23:5) to do otherwise. Buying and possessing should not too much engage our minds. They hinder many people altogether from minding the better part. Purchasing land and trying oxen kept the guests invited from the wedding-supper, Luk 14:18, Luk 14:19. And, when they do not altogether hinder men from minding their chief business, they do very much divert them from a close pursuit. Those are most likely to run so as to obtain the prize who ease their minds of all foreign cares and cumbrances. 5. As to all worldly concerns: Those that use this world as not abusing it, Co1 7:31. The world may be used, but must not be abused. It is abused when it is not used to those purposes for which it is given, to honour God and do good to men - when, instead of being oil to the wheels of our obedience, it is made fuel to lust - when, instead of being a servant, it is made our master, our idol, and has that room in our affections which should be reserved for God. And there is great danger of abusing it in all these respects, if our hearts are too much set upon it. We must keep the world as much as may be out of our hearts, that we may not abuse it when we have it in our hands.

V. He enforces these advices with two reasons: - 1. The time is short, Co1 7:29. We have but little time to continue in this world; but a short season for possessing and enjoying worldly things; kairos sunestalmenos. It is contracted, reduced to a narrow compass. It will soon be gone. It is just ready to be wrapped up in eternity. Therefore do not set your hearts on worldly enjoyments. Do not be overwhelmed with worldly cares and troubles. Possess what you must shortly leave without suffering yourselves to be possessed by it. Why should your hearts be much set on what you must quickly resign? 2. The fashion of this world passeth away (Co1 7:31), schēma - the habit, figure, appearance, of the world, passeth away. It is daily changing countenance. It is in a continual flux. It is not so much a world as the appearance of one. All is show, nothing solid in it; and it is transient show too, and will quickly be gone. How proper and powerful an argument is this to enforce the former advice! How irrational is it to be affected with the images, the fading and transient images, of a dream! Surely man walketh in a vain show (Psa 39:6), in an image, amidst the faint and vanishing appearances of things. And should he be deeply affected, or grievously afflicted, with such a scene?

VI. He presses his general advice by warning them against the embarrassment of worldly cares: But I would have you without carefulness, Co1 7:32. Indeed to be careless is a fault; a wise concern about worldly interests is a duty; but to be careful, full of care, to have an anxious and perplexing care about them, is a sin. All that care which disquiets the mind, and distracts it in the worship of God, is evil; for God must be attended upon without distraction, Co1 7:35. The whole mind should be engaged when God is worshipped. The work ceases while it diverts to any thing else, or is hurried and drawn hither and thither by foreign affairs and concerns. Those who are engaged in divine worship should attend to this very thing, should make it their whole business. But how is this possible when the mind is swallowed up of the cares of this life? Note, It is the wisdom of a Christian so to order his outward affairs, and choose such a condition in life, as to be without distracting cares, that he may attend upon the Lord with a mind at leisure and disengaged. This is the general maxim by which the apostle would have Christians govern themselves. In the application of it Christian prudence must direct. That condition of life is best for every man which is best for his soul, and keeps him most clear of the cares and snares of the world. By this maxim the apostle solves the case put to him by the Corinthians, whether it were advisable to marry? To this he says, That, by reason of the present distress, and it may be in general, at that time, when Christians were married to infidels, and perhaps under a necessity of being so, if married at all: I say, in these circumstances, to continue unmarried would be the way to free themselves from any cares and incumbrances, and allow them more vacation for the service of God. Ordinarily, the less care we have about the world the more freedom we have for the service of God. Now the married state at that time (if not at all times) did bring most worldly care along with it. He that is married careth for the things of the world, that he may please his wife, Co1 7:33. And she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. But the unmarried man and woman mind the things of the Lord, that they may please the Lord, and be holy both in body and spirit, Co1 7:32, Co1 7:34. Not but the married person may be holy both in body and spirit too. Celibacy is not in itself a state of greater purity and sanctity than marriage; but the unmarried would be able to make religion more their business at that juncture, because they would have less distraction from worldly cares. Marriage is that condition of life that brings care along with it, though sometimes it brings more than at others. It is the constant care of those in that relation to please each other; though this is more difficult to do at some reasons, and in some cases, than in others. At that season, therefore, the apostle advises that those who were single should abstain from marriage, if they were under no necessity to change conditions. And, where the same reason is plain at other times, the rule is as fit to be observed. And the very same rule must determine persons for marriage where there is the same reason, that is, if in the unmarried state persons are likely to be more distracted in the service of God than if they were married, which is a case supposable in many respects. This is the general rule, which every one's discretion must apply to his own particular case; and by it should he endeavour to determine, whether it be for marriage or against. That condition of life should be chosen by the Christian in which it is most likely he will have the best helps, and the fewest hindrances, in the service of God and the affairs of his own salvation.

Matthew Henry (1662–1714) — Commentary on the Whole Bible. This section covers verses 25–35. Public domain.
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Clement of AlexandriaAD 215
The Stromata Book 4
The same holds good also in the case of poverty. For it compels the soul to desist from necessary things, I mean contemplation and from pure sinlessness, forcing him, who has not wholly dedicated himself to God in love, to occupy himself about provisions; as, again, health and abundance of necessaries keep the soul free and unimpeded, and capable of making a good use of what is at hand. "For," says the apostle, "such shall have trouble in the flesh. But I spare you. For I would have you without anxiety, in order to decorum and assiduity for the Lord, without distraction."
Basil of CaesareaAD 379
THE LONG RULES 5
Paul allows marriage and considers it worthy of blessing, but he contrasts it with his own preoccupation with the concerns of God and hints that the two things are incompatible.
Apostolic ConstitutionsAD 380
Apostolic Constitutions (Book IV), Section 2, XIV
Concerning virginity we have received no commandment; but we leave it to the power of those that are willing, as a vow: exhorting them so far in this matter that they do not promise anything rashly; since Solomon says, "It is better not to vow, than to vow and not pay." [Ecclesiastes 5:5] Let such a virgin, therefore, be holy in body and soul, as the temple of God, [1 Corinthians 7:34] as the house of Christ, as the habitation of the Holy Spirit. For she that vows ought to do such works as are suitable to her vow; and to show that her vow is real, and made on account of leisure for piety, not to cast a reproach on marriage. Let her not be a wanderer abroad, nor one that rambles about unseasonably; not double-minded, but grave, continent, sober, pure, avoiding the conversation of many, and especially of those that are of ill reputation.
AmbrosiasterAD 384
COMMENTARY ON PAUL’S EPISTLES
Looking after a wife and family is a worldly thing. Sometimes, just to keep them happy, it even leads to doing things which ought to be punished.
Source: Quotations drawn from early Church Fathers and historical Christian theologians (AD 100–1500). Some quotes address the surrounding passage context rather than this verse alone.
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