Psalm 41:9
“David's Personal Lament and Prayer”Psalm 41:4–9
Bible text: King James Version (1769 Blayney text) · Public domain
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- גַּםgamalsoH1571AdvAdverb
- אִישׁ'isha person ofH376N-mscNoun Singular Masculine Construct
- שְׁלוֹמִיshe·lo·Mimy peaceH7965N-msc ¦ 1csNoun Singular Masculine Construct with suffixשְׁלוֹמִpeaceיmy
- אֲשֶׁר'a·SherwhomH834RelParticle Relative
- בָּטַחְתִּיba·Tach·tiI trustedH982V-Qal-Perf-1csVerb Qal Perfect 1st Singular common gender
- בוֹvoin himPrep-b ¦ 3msSuffix Personal 3rd Singular Masculineבinוֹhim
- אוֹכֵל'o·Khel[who] ateH398V-Qal-Prtcpl-msVerb Qal Participle Singular Masculine Absolute
- לַחְמִיlach·Mimy foodH3899N-csc ¦ 1msNoun Singular common gender Construct with suffixלַחְמִfoodיmy
- הִגְדִּילhig·Dilhe has made greatH1431V-Hiphil-Perf-3msVerb Hiphil Perfect 3rd Singular Masculine
- עָלַי'a·Laion meH5921Prep ¦ 1csPrepositionעָלַonיme
- עָקֵב'a·Keva heelH6119N-msNoun Singular Masculine Absolute
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Matthew Henry
From his Commentary on the Whole Bible. Henry wrote on whole passages, and this entry covers Psalm 41:5–13. He set out his notes in a three-level outline, kept here as he numbered it.
David often complains of the insolent conduct of his enemies towards him when he was sick, which, as it was very barbarous in them, so it could not but be very grievous to him. They had not indeed arrived at that modern pitch of wickedness of poisoning his meat and drink, or giving him something to make him sick; but, when he was sick, they insulted over him (Psalm 41:5): My enemies speak evil of me, designing thereby to grieve his spirit, to ruin his reputation, and so to sink his interest. Let us enquire,
I.What was the conduct of his enemies towards him.
1.They longed for his death: When shall he die, and his name perish with him? He had but an uncomfortable life, and yet they grudged him that. But it was a useful life; he was, upon all accounts, the greatest ornament and blessing of his country; and yet, it seems, there were some who were sick of him, as the Jews were of Paul, crying out, Away with such a fellow from the earth. We ought not to desire the death of any; but to desire the death of useful men, for their usefulness, has much in it of the venom of the old serpent. They envied him his name, and the honour he had won, and doubted not but, if he were dead, that would be laid in the dust with him; yet see how they were mistaken: when he had served his generation he did die (Acts 13:36), but did his name perish? No; it lives and flourishes to this day in the sacred writings, and will to the end of time; for the memory of the just is, and shall be, blessed.
2.They picked up every thing they could to reproach him with (Psalm 41:6): "If he come to see me" (as it has always been reckoned a piece of neighbourly kindness to visit the sick) "he speaks vanity; that is, he pretends friendship, and that his errand is to mourn with me and to comfort me; he tells me he is very sorry to see me so much indisposed, and wishes me my health; but it is all flattery and falsehood." We complain, and justly, of the want of sincerity in our days, and that there is scarcely any true friendship to be found among men; but it seems, by this, that the former days were no better than these. David's friends were all compliment, and had nothing of that affection for him in their hearts which they made profession of. Nor was that the worst of it; it was upon a mischievous design that they came to see him, that they might make invidious remarks upon every thing he said or did, and might represent it as they pleased to others, with their own comments upon it, so as to render him odious or ridiculous: His heart gathereth iniquity to itself, puts ill constructions upon every thing; and the, when he goes among his companions, he tells it to them, that they may tell it to others. Report, say they, and we will report it, Jeremiah 20:10. If he complained much of his illness, they would reproach him for his pusillanimity; if he scarcely complained at all, they would reproach him for his stupidity. If he prayed, or gave them good counsel, they would banter it, and call it canting; if he kept silence from good, when the wicked were before him, they would say that he had forgotten his religion now that he was sick. There is no fence against those whose malice thus gathers iniquity.
3.They promised themselves that he would never recover from this sickness, nor ever wipe off the odium with which they had loaded him. They whispered together against him (Psalm 41:7), speaking that secretly in one another's ears which they could not for shame speak out, and which, if they did, they knew would be confuted. Whisperers and backbiters are put together among the worst of sinners, Romans 1:29, Romans 1:30. They whispered, that their plot against him might not be discovered and so defeated; there is seldom whispering (we say) but there is lying, or some mischief on foot. Those whisperers devised evil to David. Concluding he would die quickly, they contrived how to break all the measures he had concerted for the public good, to prevent the prosecution of them, and to undo all that he had hitherto been doing. This he calls devising hurt against him; and they doubted not but to gain their point: An evil disease (a thing of Belial), say they, cleaves fast to him. The reproach with which they had loaded his name, they hoped, would cleave so fast to it that it would perish with him, and then they should gain their point. They went by a modern maxim, Fortiter calumniari, aliquid adhaerebit - Fling an abundance of calumny, and some will be sure to stick. "The disease he is now under will certainly make an end of him; for it is the punishment of some great enormous crime, which he will not be brought to repent of, and proves him, however he has appeared, a son of Belial." Or, "It is inflicted by Satan, who is called Belial," the wicked one, 2 Corinthians 6:15. "It is" (according to a loose way of speaking some have) "a devilish disease, and therefore it will cleave fast to him; and now that he lieth, now that his distemper prevails so far as to oblige him to keep his bed, he shall rise up no more; we shall get rid of him, and divide the spoil of his preferments." We are not to think it strange if, when good men are sick, there be those that fear it, which makes the world not worthy of them, Revelation 11:10.
4.There was one particularly, in whom he had reposed a great deal of confidence, that took part with his enemies and was as abusive to him as any of them (Psalm 41:9): My own familiar friend; probably he means Ahithophel, who had been his bosom-friend and prime-minister of state, in whom he trusted as one inviolably firm to him, whose advice he relied much upon in dealing with his enemies, and who did eat of his bread, that is, with whom he had been very intimate and whom he had taken to sit at the table with hi, nay, whom he had maintained and given a livelihood to, and so obliged, both in gratitude and interest, to adhere to him. Those that had their maintenance from the king's palace did not think it meet for them to see the king's dishonour (Ezra 4:14), much less to do him dishonour. Yet this base and treacherous confidant of David's forgot all the eaten bread, and lifted up his heel against him that had lifted up his head; not only deserted him, but insulted him, kicked at him, endeavoured to supplant him. Those are wicked indeed whom no courtesy done them, nor confidence reposed in them, will oblige; and let us not think it strange if we receive abuses from such: David did, and the Son of David; for of Judas the traitor David here, in the Spirit, spoke; our Saviour himself so expounds this, and therefore gave Judas the sop, that the scripture might be fulfilled, He that eats bread with me has lifted up his heel against me, John 13:18, John 13:16. Nay, have not we ourselves behaved thus perfidiously and disingenuously towards God? We eat of his bread daily, and yet lift up the heel against him, as Jeshurun, that waxed fat and kicked, Deuteronomy 32:15.
II.How did David bear this insolent ill-natured conduct of his enemies towards him?
1.He prayed to God that they might be disappointed. He said nothing to them, but turned himself to God: O Lord! be thou merciful to me, for they are unmerciful, Psalm 41:10. He had prayed in reference to the insults of his enemies, Lord, be merciful to me, for this is a prayer which will suit every case. God's mercy has in it a redress for every grievance, "They endeavour to run me down, but, Lord, do thou raise me up from this bed of languishing, from which they think I shall never arise. Raise me up that I may requite them, that I may render them good for evil" (so some), for that was David's practice, Psalm 7:4; Psalm 35:13. A good man will even wish for an opportunity of making it to appear that he bears no malice to those that have been injurious to him, but, on the contrary, that he is ready to do them any good office. Or, "That, as a king, I may put them under the marks of my just displeasure, banish them the court, and forbid them my table for the future," which would be a necessary piece of justice, for warning to others. Perhaps in this prayer is couched a prophecy of the exaltation of Christ, whom God raised up, that he might be a just avenger of all the wrongs done to him and to his people, particularly by the Jews, whose utter destruction followed not long after.
2.He assured himself that they would be disappointed (Psalm 41:11): "By this I know that thou favourest me and my interest, because my enemy doth not triumph over me." They hoped for his death, but he found himself, through mercy, recovering, and this would add to the comfort of his recovery,
(1.)That it would be a disappointment to his adversaries; they would be crest-fallen and wretchedly ashamed, and there would be no occasion to upbraid them with their disappointment; they would fret at it themselves. Note. Though we may not take a pleasure in the fall of our enemies, we may take a pleasure in the frustrating of their designs against us.
(2.)That is would be a token of God's favour to him, and a certain evidence that he did favour him, and would continue to do so. Note, When we can discern the favour of God to us in any mercy, personal or public, that doubles it and sweetens it.
3.He depended upon God, who had thus delivered him from many an evil work, to preserve him to his heavenly kingdom, as blessed Paul, 2 Timothy 4:18. "As for me, forasmuch as thou favourest me, as a fruit of that favour, and to qualify me for the continuance of it, thou upholdest me in my integrity, and, in order to that, settest me before thy face, hast thy eye always upon me for good;" or, "Because thou dost, by thy grace, uphold me in my integrity, I know that thou wilt, in thy glory, set me for ever before thy face." Note,
(1.)When at any time we suffer in our reputation our chief concern should be about our integrity, and then we may cheerfully leave it to God to secure our reputation. David knows that, if he can but persevere in his integrity, he needs not fear his enemies' triumphs over him.
(2.)The best man in the world holds his integrity no longer then God upholds him in it; for by his grace we are what we are; if we be left to ourselves, we shall not only fall, but fall away.
(3.)It is a great comfort to us that, however weak we are, God is able to uphold us in our integrity, and will do it if we commit the keeping of it to him.
(4.)If the grace of God did not take a constant care of us, we should not be upheld in our integrity; his eye is always upon us, else we should soon start aside from him.
(5.)Those whom God now upholds in their integrity he will set before his face for ever, and make happy in the vision and fruition of himself. He that endures to the end shall be saved.
4.The psalm concludes with a solemn doxology, or adoration of God as the Lord God of Israel, Psalm 41:13. It is not certain whether this verse pertains to this particular psalm (if so, it teaches us this, That a believing hope of our preservation through grace to glory is enough to fill our hearts with joy and our mouths with everlasting praise, even in our greatest straits) or whether it was added as the conclusion of the first book of Psalms, which is reckoned to end here (the like being subjoined to Ps. 72, 89, 106), and then it teaches us to make God the Omega who is the Alpha, to make him the end who is the beginning of every good work. We are taught,
(1.)To give glory to God as the Lord God of Israel, a God in covenant with his people, who has done great and kind things for them and has more and better in reserve.
(2.)To give him glory as an eternal God, that has both his being and his blessedness from everlasting and to everlasting.
(3.)To do this with great affection and fervour of spirit, intimated in the double seal set to it - Amen, and Amen. Be it so now, be it so to all eternity. We say Amen to it, and let all others say Amen too.
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So after he had washed their feet, and had taken his garments, and was set down again, he said unto them, Know ye what I have done to you? Ye call me Master and Lord: and ye say well; for so I am. If I then, your Lord and Master, have washed your feet; ye also ought to wash one another's feet. For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done to you. Verily, verily, I say unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord; neither he that is sent greater than he that sent him. If ye know these things, happy are ye if ye do them. I speak not of you all: I know whom I have chosen: but that the scripture may be fulfilled, He that eateth bread with me hath lifted up his heel against me. [Psalm 41:9] Now I tell you before it come, that, when it is come to pass, ye may believe that I am he. Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that receiveth whomsoever I send receiveth me; and he that receiveth me receiveth him that sent me.
The one who shared the same table with me and the same food proved to be a foe the more threatening the more he concealed his malice under his close relationship. The Lord also suffered this in the case of Judas: in that case, too, it was not someone from the outer group of disciples who concocted plots but one who gave the impression of being closely related and sharing with him table and food.
We need not imagine that Jesus did not know that Judas was going to betray him.… Of course Jesus knew it. But in order to emphasize how damnable was the deed, Jesus speaks of the hopes he had held regarding Judas’ loyalty.… We come down more heavily on one in whom we say we had high hopes or great trust, if afterwards that person robs us of our hope and high opinion.… This is why Jesus says that he had hoped, it was as though he had a right to hope. For surely one would expect an apostle to lay aside his old ways and follow new and better ways.
"The man of My peace, in whom I trusted, which did eat of My bread, has enlarged his heel against Me" [Psalm 41:9]: has raised up his foot against Me: would trample upon Me. Who is this man of His peace? Judas. And in him did Christ trust, that He said, "in whom I trusted"? Did He not know him from the beginning? Did He not before he was born know that he would be? Had He not said to all His disciples, "I have chosen you twelve, and one of you is a devil"? [John 6:70] How then trusted He in him, but that He is in His Members, and that because many faithful trusted in Judas, the Lord transferred this to Himself?..."The man of My peace, in whom I trusted, which did eat of My bread." How showed He him in His Passion? By the words of His prophecy: by the sop He marked Him out, that it might appear said of him, "Which did eat of My bread." [John 13:26] Again, when he came to betray Him, He granted him a kiss, [Matthew 26:49] that it might appear said of him, "The man of My peace."
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David’s closest friend, a man he trusted and fed at his own table, has turned on him with contempt, and Jesus applied these words to Judas.
“Yea, mine own familiar friend,”
The lament reaches its sharpest pain. The Hebrew calls him “the man of my peace”, someone bound to David in friendship.
“in whom I trusted,”
David had relied on him, which is why the wound goes so deep.
“which did eat of my bread,”
He had been a guest at David’s table, and a shared meal carried a duty of loyalty.
“hath lifted up his heel against me.”
The picture is of a kick or of trampling. The KJV supplies “his”. Jesus quotes this line of Judas in John 13:18.
Passage studyPsalm 41:4–9
David Prays for Mercy as Friends Turn on Him
Summary
David is sick, and he prays. He asks the LORD for mercy and for healing, and he gives his own sin as the reason he needs both. Then he tells God what is happening around his bed: enemies who want him dead and forgotten, a visitor who speaks kindly and carries gossip away, a circle of people whispering that his illness is the end of him, and last of all a trusted friend who has turned on him. Jesus took the last verse of this passage on his own lips at the Last Supper and applied it to Judas, so these verses also show us what the Lord himself went through.
David asks for mercy and confesses his sin
Psalm 41 closes the first book of the Psalms. It opens with a blessing on the person who cares for the poor and afflicted, whom the LORD will preserve and sustain on his sickbed (Psalm 41:1–3). In verse 4 David turns from that blessing to himself. He is now the afflicted one, and he asks for the very mercy and healing the opening verses describe.
“I said” marks a deliberate, earnest prayer. David addresses God as LORD, Yᵉhôvâh, the covenant name, which comes from the root “to be” and names the self-existent and eternal God who keeps faith with his people. “Be merciful” is chânan, which means to bend or stoop in kindness to someone lower and to show him favour. It is the word of a man asking for a gift. David brings God his need and leaves his merits out of it.
“Heal” is râphâʼ, to mend or cure, the word used for healing the sick. “Soul” is nephesh, a breathing creature, and so a person’s life or self. David is asking God to mend him, the whole man, in the place where sin has wounded him.
“For I have sinned against thee” gives the reason for the prayer. David offers his guilt as the ground of his need, and that honest admission is where God’s forgiveness and restoration begin. The words “against thee” matter most. Whoever else a sin hurts, it is in the end an offence against God, and David says the same in his great confession: “Against thee, thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in thy sight” (Psalm 51:4). Israel’s law had already taught the people to confess what they had done (Leviticus 5:5, Numbers 5:7), and the promise to those who do so still stands: “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). Jeremiah prays as David does: “Heal me, O LORD, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved: for thou art my praise” (Jeremiah 17:14).
Is “heal my soul” about the body or the soul?
David is asking for both, with the weight on the inner wound that his sin has made. Since nephesh is the whole living person, the prayer takes in his guilt, his distress and his sick body together. He is lying ill as he prays, as his enemies’ words in verse 8 show. In Israel sickness was often understood as a consequence of sin or a judgment from God, as when Miriam was struck with leprosy (Numbers 12:9–10) and when David’s own child fell ill (2 Samuel 12:15–18), so it was natural for him to bring his sin and his sickness to God in one breath. He wants to be put right with God and made whole.
The enemies want David dead and his name forgotten
From his prayer David turns to what is being said about him. “Enemies” is ʼôyêb, the usual word for a foe, from a verb that means to be hostile. “Speak” is ʼâmar, the everyday verb for saying something, so this hatred is voiced aloud where others can hear it. “Evil” is raʻ, a broad word that covers wickedness, harm, calamity and mischief. Their question, “When shall he die?”, is the question of people who are tired of waiting. They are counting the days.
The second half of the wish is worse than the first. A person’s name, shêm, stood in Israel for his reputation, his honour, his legacy and his family line. “Perish” is ʼâbad, a verb that means to wander away or be lost, and so to perish. The enemies want David lost from memory as well as dead, with his reign, his house and all he stood for erased. For a king this talk was dangerous as well as cruel, because a ruler’s sickness could be taken as God’s judgment on him, and slander at such a time could loosen his hold on the throne.
Scripture answers the wish directly. “The memory of the just is blessed: but the name of the wicked shall rot” (Proverbs 10:7), and Psalm 37 sets the lasting inheritance of the righteous beside the end of the wicked. David had met this kind of gloating before, when people rejoiced at his adversity and gathered against him (Psalm 35:15), and he left those who spoke evil against his soul to the LORD (Psalm 109:20). Jesus speaks to everyone who suffers the same: “Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake” (Matthew 5:11).
The visitor who speaks kindly and carries the story out
Visiting the sick was an expected kindness in Israel, an act of compassion that bound a community together. Verse 6 shows that kindness turned inside out. A visitor comes to David’s bedside and “speaketh vanity”. The word is shâvᵉʼ, which means emptiness, falsehood or worthlessness. His sympathy is polite and hollow, a cover for what he really thinks.
While he talks, “his heart gathereth iniquity to itself”. The verb qâbats means to collect or gather, and ʼâven means wickedness, trouble or sorrow. The man is storing things up: what he sees of David’s weakness and what he hopes will come of it. This is malice that has been thought about and kept. Then “when he goeth abroad, he telleth it”. “Telleth” is dâbar, to speak or tell, a verb whose root idea is setting words in order, which suits a report prepared in advance. The verse moves in three steps, from false words in the sickroom to wickedness stored in the heart to slander in the street. Since the king’s illness was widely known, and a man’s standing in a close community rested on what was said of him, such reports did real harm to someone already laid low.
Scripture teaches everywhere that the mouth follows the heart. “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life” (Proverbs 4:23). Jesus says that what comes out of the mouth comes from the heart (Matthew 15:18–19), “for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh” (Luke 6:45). Proverbs warns about warm lips over a wicked heart (Proverbs 26:23–26) and about the talebearer whose words go down deep (Proverbs 18:8). The visitor may deceive the man in the bed, and God still sees him plainly, “for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7).
The whispering circle and its verdict on David
Verse 7 widens the picture from one visitor to “all that hate me”. “Hate” is sânêʼ, to hate personally, so the hostility is aimed at David himself. “Whisper” is lâchash, to whisper, a word also used for muttering a charm. Whether these men went as far as curses or simply kept their voices low, their talk was kept secret from the man it concerned. “Together” is yachad: they do it jointly, in company. “Devise” is châshab, which means to weave or plait and so to plot or contrive. Their harm is thought out and planned. “Hurt” is raʻ again, the word translated “evil” in verse 5, and it takes in harm of every kind, to David’s health, his reputation and his throne.
The first line of the verse ends with “against me” and the second begins with it, so that the second line presses the first one harder. David has prayed this elsewhere, of those who lay snares and speak mischievous things all day long (Psalm 38:12), and Jeremiah heard the same low talk from people watching for him to stumble (Jeremiah 20:10). God knows every word of it. Each hidden plot against his people is open before him, and he is the righteous judge who will set things right. So in the verses that follow David takes the whole matter to the LORD and asks him for mercy and vindication (Psalm 41:10–13).
In verse 8 we hear what the whisperers say. The words “say they” were supplied by the KJV translators to make plain that this is the enemies’ speech.
What is the “evil disease”?
It is the enemies’ name for David’s illness, and it is a charge against him as well as a description. The Hebrew is dâbâr bᵉlîyaʻal. The first word, dâbâr, means a word, a matter or a thing. The second, bᵉlîyaʻal, means worthlessness, wickedness or destruction, and it is the word that gives us the name Belial. So the phrase is literally “a thing of Belial”, a wicked and ruinous thing, and the “evil” in it translates a different Hebrew word from the “evil” of verse 5. His enemies are saying that something vile has hold of him, a curse or a judgment that proves what kind of man he is.
“Cleaveth fast” is yâtsaq, a verb that means to pour out, that is used of casting metal, and that by extension describes what has set firm. In their mouths the sickness has been poured over David and has fixed itself on him. “Rise up” is qûwm, to rise, used of getting up from a bed and also of recovering and being established. “He shall rise up no more” therefore says two things at once, that he will die where he lies and that his reign and influence are finished.
The psalm itself proves them wrong. It ends with David upheld and with praise to the LORD, and the last word on a man’s life belongs to God. David’s confidence elsewhere is the right answer to such talk: “The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear?” (Psalm 27:1–3). Job heard a verdict like this one too, when his wife told him to curse God and die and he answered her with faith (Job 2:9–10).
Was David’s illness a punishment for his sin?
The verdict in verse 8 belongs to David’s enemies, and the psalm reports it as their words. David has already confessed sin in verse 4, as he does at length in other psalms, and Scripture does show sin bringing sickness, as with David’s child (2 Samuel 12:15–18). Scripture also corrects the idea that every sufferer has earned his suffering by some sin of his own. When the disciples asked whose sin had caused a man’s blindness, Jesus answered, “Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him” (John 9:1–3). So the difference between verse 4 and verse 8 is the difference between a man bringing his own sin to God for mercy and onlookers using his pain as evidence against him. The enemies’ reading of his illness comes from their wish to see him fall.
The friend who ate David’s bread
“Yea” brings the lament to its worst point. Open enemies are one kind of pain, and verse 9 names a deeper one. “Mine own familiar friend” is ʼîysh shâlôwm in Hebrew, literally “the man of my peace”: ʼîysh is a man, and shâlôwm is peace, welfare and friendship. This was someone with whom David was at peace, whose good he sought and who was supposed to seek his. “In whom I trusted” says how far David had let him in.
“Which did eat of my bread” is ʼâkal lechem, to eat bread or food. In Israel sharing a meal was a weighty thing. It joined host and guest in friendship and bound them to loyalty and protection, so a man who had sat at David’s table owed him faithfulness. To turn on your host after eating his bread was ingratitude of the worst kind.
“Hath lifted up his heel against me” puts gâdal, to be or make large, to magnify, with ʻâqêb, a heel. The friend has made his heel great against David. It is the picture of a kick or of trampling, the way a horse kicks its master, and it shows an active, contemptuous attack from someone standing close. There is a bitter irony in a “man of peace” striking such a blow. Job knew this grief, “All my inward friends abhorred me: and they whom I loved are turned against me” (Job 19:19), and David describes it again in the psalm about the companion with whom he once took sweet counsel and walked to the house of God (Psalm 55:12–14).
Who was the familiar friend?
The psalm leaves him unnamed, and the man in David’s life who fits best is Ahithophel. He was David’s trusted counsellor, and when Absalom rebelled he went over to the king’s son (2 Samuel 15:12) and advised him against David (2 Samuel 16:20–23). The whole account is in 2 Samuel 15–17. The psalm keeps its occasion to itself, so Ahithophel is a likely answer and the question stays open. A time of illness, plotting and treachery inside David’s own circle fits those years well.
Jesus and the friend who betrayed him
At the Last Supper Jesus took verse 9 as a word about himself: “I speak not of you all: I know whom I have chosen: but that the scripture may be fulfilled, He that eateth bread with me hath lifted up his heel against me” (John 13:18). Judas was one of the twelve. He had shared Jesus’ table and his work, and that very night he dipped his hand in the dish with him (Matthew 26:23). He had already agreed to hand Jesus over for thirty pieces of silver (Matthew 26:14–16), and he led the band of men to the garden (John 18:2–3) and gave the sign that betrayed him (Matthew 26:47–50). David’s grief was real and his own, and it was also written beforehand of the Son of David. God had foreseen even this treachery and took it up into his plan to save.
The rest of the lament runs the same course in the Gospels. Men spoke evil of Jesus, saying he cast out devils by Beelzebub (Matthew 12:24), and they wanted his death badly enough to cry, “Crucify him” (John 19:15). Some came to him with empty words, asking questions meant to entangle him (Matthew 22:15, Luke 11:53–54). The chief priests and elders met to plan how they might take him by subtilty and kill him (Matthew 26:3–5). At the cross they mocked his suffering as proof that God had rejected him (Matthew 27:39–43, Luke 23:35), and when he lay in the tomb they sealed the stone and set a guard (Matthew 27:62–66).
He rose. “He shall rise up no more” was false of David, and it was false of David’s Lord: “Christ being raised from the dead dieth no more; death hath no more dominion over him” (Romans 6:9–10). The name his enemies wanted to perish is the name above every name (Philippians 2:9–11), and he is King of kings and Lord of lords (Revelation 19:16).
Verse 4 is the one place where David and Jesus stand apart. David had to say, “I have sinned against thee.” Jesus “knew no sin” (2 Corinthians 5:21) and suffered for ours, as the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world (John 1:29). So the healing David asked for is found in him. He came to call “sinners to repentance” (Luke 5:32), as a physician comes to the sick, and through him God gives the new heart and new spirit he promised (Ezekiel 36:26).
What David’s prayer gives us
This passage gives us words for some of the hardest things people go through: being ill, being talked about, being wished gone, and being let down by someone we trusted. David tells God all of it. He begins with his own sin before he says a word about anyone else’s, and he asks for mercy as a gift. The psalms of lament pray this way again and again, as in Psalm 3, and they teach us that such pain may be spoken to God plainly.
It also shows us who God is toward a person in that place. He hears the confession of a sinner and heals. He sees the heart of the visitor at the bedside and hears what is whispered outside the door. Because he does, the settling of accounts can be left with him: “Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord” (Romans 12:19).
And the Lord Jesus has been here before us. He ate with the man who betrayed him, and he knows from the inside what it is to be turned on by a friend. Human trust can fail, as David’s did. The one who was betrayed for us is “the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever” (Hebrews 13:8), and the name his people bear in him is kept safe.
Psalm 41:4
“I said, LORD, be merciful unto me:”
David recalls the prayer he made in his sickness. He calls on God by his covenant name and asks for favour as a gift, which is what chânan means.
“heal my soul;”
The soul here is the whole self, so he is asking to be mended as a person, beginning with the wound that sin has left within.
“for I have sinned against thee.”
This is the ground of the request. David owns the sin as his and names God as the one he has wronged.
Psalm 41:5
“Mine enemies speak evil of me,”
The psalm moves from David’s prayer to the talk going on around him. The ill will is said out loud, where it can damage him.
“When shall he die,”
A question that wants no answer. It is impatience for his death put into words.
“and his name perish?”
The wish grows as the line goes on, from his death to the loss of his memory, his legacy and his line.
Psalm 41:6
“And if he come to see me, he speaketh vanity:”
A sick visit, which ought to be a kindness, becomes a cover. The comforting words are empty and false.
“his heart gathereth iniquity to itself;”
The heart is pictured as a place where evil is collected and kept. What the visitor notices at the bedside becomes his material.
“when he goeth abroad, he telleth it.”
Once he is outside, what he stored up becomes a report. The KJV supplies “it”, meaning the iniquity he gathered.
Psalm 41:7
“All that hate me”
The hatred is personal and it is shared, with a whole group of one mind about David.
“whisper together against me:”
They consult in low voices, passing rumours and making plans, and perhaps speaking curses.
“against me do they devise my hurt.”
The harm is woven together on purpose, as the word châshab suggests, and David is its single target.
Psalm 41:8
“An evil disease, say they, cleaveth fast unto him:”
This is the enemies’ diagnosis. They call his sickness a thing of Belial that has fastened on him, and they treat it as proof of his guilt.
“and now that he lieth he shall rise up no more.”
This is their forecast, and it is also their hope. They mean his death and the end of his reign, and the close of the psalm shows them mistaken.
Psalm 41:9 This verse
“Yea, mine own familiar friend,”
The lament reaches its sharpest pain. The Hebrew calls him “the man of my peace”, someone bound to David in friendship.
“in whom I trusted,”
David had relied on him, which is why the wound goes so deep.
“which did eat of my bread,”
He had been a guest at David’s table, and a shared meal carried a duty of loyalty.
“hath lifted up his heel against me.”
The picture is of a kick or of trampling. The KJV supplies “his”. Jesus quotes this line of Judas in John 13:18.
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