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King James Version
Turn again, my daughters, go your way; for I am too old to have an husband. If I should say, I have hope, if I should have an husband also to night, and should also bear sons;
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KJV (with Strong's)
Turn again H7725, my daughters H1323, go H3212 your way; for I am too old H2204 to have an husband H376. If I should say H559, I have H3426 hope H8615, if I should have an husband H376 also to night H3915, and should also bear H3205 sons H1121;
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Complete Jewish Bible
Go back, my daughters; go your way; for I'm too old to have a husband. Even if I were to say, 'I still have hope'; even if I had a husband tonight and bore sons;
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Berean Standard Bible
Return home, my daughters. Go on, for I am too old to have another husband. Even if I thought there was hope for me to have a husband tonight and to bear sons,
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American Standard Version
Turn again, my daughters, go your way; for I am too old to have a husband. If I should say, I have hope, if I should even have a husband to-night, and should also bear sons;
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World English Bible Messianic
Go back, my daughters, go your way; for I am too old to have a husband. If I should say, ‘I have hope,’ if I should even have a husband tonight, and should also bear sons;
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Geneva Bible (1599)
Turne againe, my daughters: go your way: for I am too olde to haue an husband. If I should say, I haue hope, and if I had an husband this night: yea, if I had borne sonnes,
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Young's Literal Translation
Turn back, my daughters, go, for I am too aged to be to a husband; though I had said, There is for me hope, also, I have been to-night to a husband, and also I have borne sons:
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SUMMARY

Ruth 1:12 captures Naomi's profound and raw despair, articulated as a selfless plea for her daughters-in-law, Orpah and Ruth, to return to their Moabite homes. Having endured the successive losses of her husband and two sons, Naomi perceives her own future as utterly barren, devoid of any realistic prospect for remarriage or the bearing of male heirs who could provide for, or marry, her widowed daughters-in-law. Her words, steeped in deep grief and a sense of complete destitution, powerfully underscore the ancient cultural reliance on male lineage for security and continuity, while simultaneously revealing her own profound lack of human hope for such provision.

CONTEXT

  • Literary Context: Ruth 1:12 marks a critical turning point within the opening chapter of the Book of Ruth. It immediately follows Naomi's initial, compassionate urging for Orpah and Ruth to return to their mothers' homes, accompanied by a blessing and a prayer for their future security and new marriages, as seen in Ruth 1:8-9. When her daughters-in-law initially refuse, clinging to her with tears, Naomi intensifies her argument in this verse. She presents a stark, almost exaggerated, assessment of her own hopeless situation, aiming to convince them that remaining with her offers no future. This desperate plea serves to highlight the perceived impossibility of her ever providing for them, thereby strengthening her insistence that they leave her. It directly precedes Orpah's reluctant departure and Ruth's resolute declaration of loyalty, setting the stage for the book's central narrative.
  • Historical & Cultural Context: In the patriarchal society of ancient Israel and its surrounding cultures, a woman's security, identity, and future were inextricably tied to her family, and specifically, to the male members of her lineage. Widows, particularly those without sons, were exceptionally vulnerable, often facing severe destitution and social marginalization. Marriage was not merely a romantic ideal but a crucial societal and economic institution, essential for the continuation of the family line and the provision of heirs. While Naomi's lament in Ruth 1:12 is not a direct application of the levirate marriage law (Deuteronomy 25:5-10), which typically involved a brother-in-law raising up an heir for his deceased brother, it profoundly reflects the broader cultural expectation that a male relative would provide for a widow and ensure the family's continuity. Her argument that she could not possibly bear sons who would then grow up to marry her daughters-in-law underscores the critical importance of male progeny for a woman's social and economic standing and her future well-being.
  • Key Themes: This verse powerfully contributes to several overarching themes within the Book of Ruth. Primarily, it vividly portrays profound despair and human hopelessness in the face of overwhelming tragedy. Naomi's belief that God's hand is against her, as she expresses later in Ruth 1:20-21, is palpable here. Her declaration, "I am too old to have an husband," and the subsequent hypothetical scenario of bearing sons "to night," illustrate her complete lack of any perceived human solution for her plight or that of her daughters-in-law. Secondly, the verse underscores the cultural significance of family and lineage, particularly the vital role of male heirs for security and continuity. Naomi's inability to provide new husbands, even hypothetically, is her primary reason for urging them to leave. Lastly, despite her overwhelming despair, Naomi's plea is an act of self-sacrifice and altruism. She is willing to endure her sorrow alone if it means her daughters-in-law might find new lives and security among their own people, demonstrating a deep, albeit sorrowful, love for them.

EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS

Key Word Analysis

  • Daughters (Hebrew, bath, H1323): From בָּנָה (as feminine of בֵּן); a daughter (used in the same wide sense as other terms of relationship, literally and figuratively). In this context, "daughters" (bath) emphasizes the tender, familial bond Naomi shares with Orpah and Ruth, despite their cultural and ethnic differences. It highlights her maternal affection and the depth of her concern for their welfare, even as she urges them to leave her.
  • Old (Hebrew, zâqên, H2204): A primitive root; to be old; aged man, be (wax) old (man). Here, zâqên denotes Naomi's advanced age, specifically emphasizing her perceived inability to bear children. This is not merely a statement of physical fact but a declaration of her barrenness in the context of providing heirs. Her age, coupled with her widowhood, renders her an economic and social dead end in her own eyes, making her argument for her daughters-in-law's departure pragmatically compelling.
  • Bear (Hebrew, yâlad, H3205): A primitive root; to bear young; causatively, to beget; medically, to act as midwife; specifically, to show lineage. This word directly speaks to the act of procreation, which is central to Naomi's hypothetical scenario. Her use of "bear sons" (yâlad bên) underscores the biological impossibility she faces, further cementing her conviction that she cannot provide the necessary male heirs to secure her daughters-in-law's future. It highlights the ultimate futility of her situation from a human perspective.

Verse Breakdown

  • "Turn again, my daughters, go [your way];": Naomi reiterates her earnest, almost desperate, plea for Orpah and Ruth to abandon their journey with her and return to Moab. The repetition of the command to "turn again" (shûwb) underscores her conviction that this is the only sensible and beneficial path for them, given her own dire circumstances. It is a loving, yet firm, command born of deep concern.
  • "for I am too old to have an husband.": This clause provides the immediate and practical reason for Naomi's insistence. She states a biological and social reality: she is past childbearing age, meaning she cannot realistically remarry and produce sons who could then provide for or marry her daughters-in-law. This statement grounds her argument in the harsh realities of her physical state and the cultural expectations of her time.
  • "If I should say, I have hope,": This introduces a hypothetical scenario, immediately dismissed by Naomi as utterly unrealistic. She considers the mere possibility of having hope for a future husband, only to reject it as completely unfounded. This phrase highlights her profound sense of despair and the complete absence of any positive expectation for her future, particularly regarding remarriage and family continuity.
  • "[if] I should have an husband also to night,": This continues the hypothetical, pushing it to an extreme of absurdity. Naomi imagines an immediate, miraculous remarriage, emphasizing the utter impossibility of such a thought. The phrase "to night" serves as a hyperbole, underscoring the swiftness and unlikelihood of such a turn of events, let alone the subsequent bearing of children. It accentuates the depth of her perceived hopelessness.
  • "and should also bear sons;": This final clause completes the chain of impossible events. Even if she were to remarry "to night," the subsequent act of bearing sons (who would then need to grow to maturity to marry) is presented as equally, if not more, fantastical. This highlights the multi-layered impossibility of her providing the necessary security for her daughters-in-law through her own means, cementing her argument for their departure.

Literary Devices

Ruth 1:12 masterfully employs several potent literary devices to convey Naomi's emotional state and the stark cultural realities of her time. The most prominent is Hyperbole, particularly evident in the phrase "if I should have an husband also to night, and should also bear sons." This deliberate exaggeration underscores the utter impossibility of her situation from her perspective, making her argument for her daughters-in-law's departure more forceful and emotionally charged. There is also a powerful use of Pathos, as Naomi's raw expression of grief, despair, and selfless love deeply appeals to the reader's emotions, eliciting profound sympathy for her plight. Furthermore, the verse subtly sets up Dramatic Irony. Naomi's declaration of hopelessness, intended to push her daughters-in-law away, inadvertently serves as the catalyst for Ruth's unwavering commitment, which will ultimately lead to the very provision and hope Naomi believes is impossible, foreshadowing the divine providence that will soon unfold through Ruth's loyalty and the kinsman-redeemer, Boaz.

THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS

Ruth 1:12 is a profound testament to the depths of human despair when confronted with overwhelming loss and a seemingly barren future. Naomi's lament reflects a universal human experience of feeling utterly forsaken and without hope, believing that all avenues for provision and security are irrevocably closed. Theologically, this verse serves as a crucial backdrop against which the book's overarching theme of God's sovereign providence will dramatically unfold. Naomi's perceived hopelessness and her sense that God has dealt bitterly with her (Ruth 1:20-21) highlight the stark contrast between human perspective, which sees only impossibility, and divine reality, where God can bring life, hope, and unexpected provision out of the most desolate circumstances. It demonstrates that God's plans are not limited by human limitations or despair, and His faithfulness can shine brightest when all human hope is exhausted.

REFLECTION AND APPLICATION

Ruth 1:12 offers a poignant and deeply relatable window into the human experience of profound loss and the subsequent feeling of utter hopelessness. Naomi's words resonate with anyone who has faced circumstances so overwhelming that the future appears completely closed off, devoid of any possibility for good. Her despair reminds us that even faithful individuals can experience moments of deep spiritual and emotional darkness, where God's hand seems to be against them, and all human avenues for resolution are exhausted. In such moments, it is natural to feel that "hope" – that connecting cord to a positive future – has been severed. However, the broader narrative of Ruth beautifully illustrates that God's providence often works through unexpected means and in ways that defy human logic. Naomi's despair, while real and deeply felt, is not the end of the story. This verse encourages us to cultivate profound empathy for those in the throes of grief and hopelessness, to listen to their pain without judgment, and to remember that even when we can see no way forward, God is at work, often through the faithfulness of others, to bring about His purposes and to provide hope and a future, even when all human hope seems lost. It challenges us to trust in God's unseen plan, even when our present circumstances seem to contradict any possibility of future blessing.

Questions for Reflection

  • When have you experienced a "Naomi moment" where all human hope seemed lost, and how did you navigate it?
  • How does Naomi's raw honesty about her despair encourage or challenge you in your own struggles with faith and hopelessness?
  • What does this verse, when considered within the entire narrative of the Book of Ruth, teach us about God's providence in seemingly impossible situations?

FAQ

Was Naomi's despair a sign of a lack of faith?

Answer: While Naomi's words in Ruth 1:12 and later in Ruth 1:20-21 express profound despair and a sense that the Lord has dealt bitterly with her, it is more accurately understood as a raw, honest expression of grief and human limitation rather than a complete absence of faith. The Bible often portrays faithful individuals grappling with intense suffering and questioning God's ways (e.g., Job, Jeremiah, the Psalmists). Naomi's lament is a testament to her deep pain and her perception that God's hand was against her, but it does not negate her underlying belief in Yahweh. Her willingness to return to Judah, the land of Israel, suggests a continued, albeit strained, connection to her heritage and God. The narrative ultimately demonstrates that God works through her despair to bring about His redemptive plan, highlighting that even in our darkest moments, His faithfulness endures.

CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT

Naomi's desolate cry in Ruth 1:12, expressing a complete lack of human hope for a husband or sons, profoundly foreshadows the ultimate hope found in Christ. Her perceived inability to provide a kinsman-redeemer for her family's line highlights humanity's own spiritual bankruptcy and inherent inability to redeem itself from the bondage of sin and death. Just as Naomi was "too old" and "empty" to provide the necessary heir to continue her lineage, so too is humanity utterly incapable of bridging the chasm between itself and a holy God. Yet, the narrative of Ruth, which begins in such deep despair, culminates in the unexpected birth of Obed, the grandfather of King David, from whose royal lineage the ultimate Kinsman-Redeemer, Jesus Christ, would come. Christ is the one who, unlike any human husband or son, truly provides the ultimate "hope" (Hebrews 6:19)—a hope that is "a sure and steadfast anchor of the soul." He is the divine Bridegroom who comes for His church (Ephesians 5:25-27), and the Son who brings forth spiritual children, giving life to those who were "dead in trespasses and sins" (Ephesians 2:1-5). Where Naomi saw only barrenness and an end to her line, Christ offers abundant life and an eternal inheritance (John 10:10). He is the true Boaz, who, by his sacrifice on the cross, redeems not just a family line, but all who believe, bringing spiritual sons and daughters into God's eternal family, fulfilling the deepest longings for security, belonging, and an enduring future that Naomi could only dream of.

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Commentary on Ruth 1 verses 6–18

I. II. Main points1. 2. Sub-points(1.) (2.) Details

See here, I. The good affection Naomi bore to the land of Israel, Rut 1:6. Though she could not stay in it while the famine lasted, she would not stay out of it when the famine ceased. Though the country of Moab had afforded her shelter and supply in a time of need, yet she did not intend it should be her rest for ever; no land should be that but the holy land, in which the sanctuary of God was, of which he had said, This is my rest for ever. Observe,

1.God, at last, returned in mercy to his people; for, though he contend long, he will not contend always. As the judgment of oppression, under which they often groaned in the time of the judges, still came to an end, after a while, when God had raised them up a deliverer, so here the judgment of famine: At length God graciously visited his people in giving them bread. Plenty is God's gift, and it is his visitation which by bread, the staff of life, holds our souls in life. Though this mercy be the more striking when it comes after famine, yet if we have constantly enjoyed it, and never knew what famine meant, we are not to think it the less valuable.

2.Naomi then returned, in duty to her people. She had often enquired of their state, what harvests they had and how the markets went, and still the tidings were discouraging; but like the prophet's servant, who, having looked seven times and seen no sign of rain, at length discerned a cloud no bigger than a man's hand, which soon overspread the heavens, so Naomi at last has good news brought her of plenty in Bethlehem, and then she can think of no other than returning thither again. Hew new alliances in the country of Moab could not make her forget her relation to the land of Israel. Note, Though there be a reason for our being in bad places, yet, when the reason ceases, we must by no means continue in them. Forced absence from God's ordinances, and forced presence with wicked people, are great afflictions; but when the force ceases, and such a situation is continued of choice, then it becomes a great sin. It should seem she began to think of returning immediately upon the death of her two sons, (1.) Because she looked upon that affliction to be a judgment upon her family for lingering in the country of Moab; and hearing this to be the voice of the rod, and of him that appointed it, she obeys and returns. Had she returned upon the death of her husband, perhaps she might have saved the life of her sons; but, when God judgeth he will overcome, and, if one affliction prevail not to awaken us to a sight and sense of sin and duty, another shall. When death comes into a family it ought to be improved for the reforming of what is amiss in the family: when relations are taken away from us we are put upon enquiry whether, in some instance or other, we are not out of the way of our duty, that we may return to it. God calls our sins to remembrance, when he slays a son, Kg1 17:18. And, if he thus hedge up our way with thorns, it is that he may oblige us to say, We will go and return to our first husband, as Naomi here to her country, Hos 2:7. (2.) Because the land of Moab had now become a melancholy place to her. It is with little pleasure that she can breathe in that air in which her husband and sons had expired, or go on that ground in which they lay buried out of her sight, but not out of her thoughts; now she will go to Canaan again. Thus God takes away from us the comforts we stay ourselves too much upon and solace ourselves too much in, here in the land of our sojourning, that we may think more of our home in the other world, and by faith and hope may hasten towards it. Earth is embittered to us, that heaven may be endeared.

II. The good affection which her daughters-in-law, and one of them especially, bore to her, and her generous return of their good affection.

1.They were both so kind as to accompany her, some part of the way at least, when she returned towards the land of Judah. Her two daughters-in-law did not go about to persuade her to continue in the land of Moab, but, if she was resolved to go home, would pay her all possible civility and respect at parting; and this was one instance of it: they would bring her on her way, at least to the utmost limits of their country, and help her to carry her luggage as far as they went, for it does not appear that she had any servant to attend her, Rut 1:7. By this we see both that Naomi, as became an Israelite, had been very kind and obliging to them and had won their love, in which she is an example to all mothers-in-law, and that Orpah and Ruth had a just sense of her kindness, for they were willing to return it thus far. It was a sign they had dwelt together in unity, though those were dead by whom the relation between them came. Though they retained an affection for the gods of Moab (Rut 1:15), and Naomi was still faithful to the God of Israel, yet that was no hindrance to either side from love and kindness, and all the good offices that the relation required. Mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law are too often at variance (Mat 10:35), and therefore it is the more commendable if they live in love; let all who sustain this relation aim at the praise of doing so.

2.When they had gone a little way with her Naomi, with a great deal of affection, urged them to go back (Rut 1:8, Rut 1:9): Return each to her mother's house. When they were dislodged by a sad providence from the house of their husbands it was a mercy to them that they had their parents yet living, that they had their houses to go to, where they might be welcome and easy, and were not turned out to the wide world. Naomi suggests that their own mothers would be more agreeable to them than a mother-in-law, especially when their own mothers had houses and their mother-in-law was not sure she had a place to lay her head in which she could call her own. She dismisses them,

(1.)With commendation. This is a debt owing to those who have conducted themselves well in any relation, they ought to have the praise of it: You have dealt kindly with the dead and with me, that is, "You were good wives to your husbands that are gone, and have been good daughters to me, and not wanting to your duty in either relation." Note, When we and our relations are parting, by death or otherwise, it is very comfortable if we have both their testimony and the testimony of our own consciences for us that while we were together we carefully endeavoured to do our duty in the relation. This will help to allay the bitterness of parting; and, while we are together, we should labour so to conduct ourselves as that when we part we may not have cause to reflect with regret upon our miscarriages in the relation.

(2.)With prayer. It is very proper for friends, when they part, to part with prayer. She sends them home with her blessing; and the blessing of a mother-in-law is not to be slighted. In this blessing she twice mentions the name Jehovah, Israel's God, and the only true God, that she might direct her daughters to look up to him as the only fountain of all good. To him she prays in general that he would recompense to them the kindness they had shown to her and hers. It may be expected and prayed for in faith that God will deal kindly with those that have dealt kindly with their relations. He that watereth shall be watered also himself. And, in particular, that they might be happy in marrying again: The Lord grant that you may find rest, each of you in the house of her husband. Note, [1.] It is very fit that, according to the apostle's direction (Ti1 5:14), the younger women, and he speaks there of young widows, should marry, bear children, and guide the house. And it is a pity that those who have approved themselves good wives should not again be blessed with good husbands, especially those that, like these widows, have no children. [2.] The married state is a state of rest, such rest as this world affords, rest in the house of a husband, more than can be expected in the house of a mother or a mother-in-law. [3.] This rest is God's gift. If any content and satisfaction be found in our outward condition, God must be acknowledged in it. There are those that are unequally yoked, that find little rest even in the house of a husband. Their affliction ought to make those the more thankful to whom the relation is comfortable. Yet let God be the rest of the soul, and no perfect rest thought of on this side heaven.

(3.)She dismissed them with great affection: She kissed them, wished she had somewhat better to give them, but silver and gold she had none. However, this parting kiss shall be the seal of such a true friendship as (though she never see them more) she will, while she lives, retain the pleasing remembrance of. If relations must part, let them thus part in love, that they may (if they never meet again in this world) meet in the world of everlasting love.

3.The two young widows could not think of parting with their good mother-in-law, so much had the good conversation of that pious Israelite won upon them. They not only lifted up their voice and wept, as loth to part, but they professed a resolution to adhere to her (Rut 1:10): "Surely we will return with thee unto thy people, and take our lot with thee." It is a rare instance of affection to a mother-in-law and an evidence that they had, for her sake, conceived a good opinion of the people of Israel. Even Orpah, who afterwards went back to her gods, now seemed resolved to go forward with Naomi. The sad ceremony of parting, and the tears shed on that occasion, drew from her this protestation, but it did not hold. Strong passions, without a settled judgment, commonly produce weak resolutions.

4.Naomi sets herself to dissuade them from going along with her, Rut 1:11-13.

(1.)Naomi urges her afflicted condition. If she had had any sons in Canaan, or any near kinsmen, whom she could have expected to marry the widows, to raise up seed to those that were gone, and to redeem the mortgaged estate of the family, it might have been some encouragement to them to hope for a comfortable settlement at Bethlehem. But she had no sons, nor could she think of any near kinsman likely to do the kinsman's part, and therefore argues that she was never likely to have any sons to be husbands for them, for she was too old to have a husband; it became here age to think of dying and going out of the world, not of marrying and beginning the world again. Or, if she had a husband, she could not expect to have children, nor, if she had sons, could she think that these young widows would stay unmarried till her sons that should yet be born would grow up to be marriageable. Yet this was not all: she could not only not propose to herself to marry them like themselves, but she knew not how to maintain them like themselves. The greatest grievance of that poor condition to which she was reduced was that she was not in a capacity to do for them as she would: It grieveth me more for your sakes than for my own that the hand of the Lord has gone out against me. Observe, [1.] She judges herself chiefly aimed at in the affliction, that God's quarrel was principally with her: "The hand of the Lord has gone out against me. I am the sinner; it is with me that God has a controversy; it is with me that he is contending; I take it to myself." This well becomes us when we are under affliction; though many others share in the trouble, yet we must hear the voice of the rod as if it spoke only against us and to us, not billeting the rebukes of it at other people's houses, but taking them to ourselves. [2.] She laments most the trouble that redounded to them from it. She was the sinner, but they were the sufferers: It grieveth me much for your sakes. A gracious generous spirit can better bear its own burden than it can bear to see it a grievance to others, or others in any way drawn into trouble by it. Naomi could more easily want herself than see her daughters want. "Therefore turn again, my daughters, for, alas! I am in no capacity to do you any kindness." But,

(2.)Did Naomi do well thus to discourage her daughters from going with her, when, by taking them with her, she might save them from the idolatry of Moab and bring them to the faith and worship of the God of Israel? Naomi, no doubt, desired to do so. But, [1.] If they did come with her, she would not have them to come upon her account. Those that take upon them a profession of religion only in complaisance to their relations, to oblige their friends, or for the sake of company, will be converts of small value and of short continuance. [2.] If they did come with her, she would have them to make it their deliberate choice, and to sit down first and count the cost, as it concerns those to do that may take up a profession of religion. It is good for us to be told the worst. Our Saviour took this course with him who, in the heat of zeal, spoke that bold word, Master, I will follow thee whithersoever thou goest. "Come, come," says Christ, "canst thou fare as I fare? The Son of man has not where to lay his head; know this, and then consider whether thou canst find in thy heart to take thy lot with him," Mat 8:19, Mat 8:20. Thus Naomi deals with her daughters-in-law. Thoughts ripened into resolves by serious consideration are likely to be kept always in the imagination of the heart, whereas what is soon ripe is soon rotten.

5.Orpah was easily persuaded to yield to her own corrupt inclination, and to go back to her country, her kindred, and her father's house, now when she stood fair for an effectual call from it. They both lifted up their voice and wept again (Rut 1:14), being much affected with the tender things that Naomi had said. But it had a different effect upon them: to Orpah it was a savour of death unto death; the representation Naomi had made of the inconveniences they must count upon if they went forward to Canaan sent her back to the country of Moab, and served her as an excuse for her apostasy; but, on the contrary, it strengthened Ruth's resolution, and her good affection to Naomi, with whose wisdom and goodness she was never so charmed as she was upon this occasion; thus to her it was a savour of life unto life. (1.) Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, that is, took an affectionate leave of her, bade her farewell for ever, without any purpose to follow her hereafter, as he that said he would follow Christ when he had buried his father or bidden those farewell that were at home. Orpah's kiss showed she had an affection for Naomi and was loth to part from her; yet she did not love her well enough to leave her country for her sake. Thus many have a value and affection for Christ, and yet come short of salvation by him, because they cannot find in their hearts to forsake other things for him. They love him and yet leave him, because they do not love him enough, but love other things better. Thus the young man that went away from Christ went away sorrowful, Mat 19:22. But, (2.) Ruth clave unto her. Whether, when she came from home, she was resolved to go forward with her or no does not appear; perhaps she was before determined what to do, out of a sincere affection for the God of Israel and to his law, of which, by the good instructions of Naomi, she had some knowledge.

6.Naomi persuades Ruth to go back, urging, as a further inducement, her sister's example (Rut 1:15): Thy sister-in-law has gone back to her people, and therefore of course gone back to her gods; for, whatever she might do while she lived with her mother-in-law, it would be next to impossible for her to show any respect to the God of Israel when she went to live among the worshippers of Chemosh. Those that forsake the communion of saints, and return to the people of Moab, will certainly break off their communion with God, and embrace the idols of Moab. Now, return thou after thy sister, that is, "If ever thou wilt return, return now. This is the greatest trial of thy constancy; stand this trial, and thou art mine for ever." Such offences as that of Orpah's revolt must needs come, that those who are perfect and sincere may be made manifest, as Ruth was upon this occasion.

7.Ruth puts an end to the debate by a most solemn profession of her immovable resolution never to forsake her, nor to return to her own country and her old relations again, Rut 1:16, Rut 1:17.

(1.)Nothing could be said more fine, more brave, than this. She seems to have had another spirit, and another speech, now that her sister had gone, and it is an instance of the grace of God inclining the soul to the resolute choice of the better part. Draw me thus, and we will run after thee. Her mother's dissuasions made her the more resolute; as when Joshua said to the people, You cannot serve the Lord, they said it with the more vehemence, Nay, but we will. [1.] She begs of her mother-in-law to say no more against her going: "Entreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee; for all thy entreaties now cannot shake that resolution which thy instructions formerly have wrought in me, and therefore let me hear no more of them." Note, It is a great vexation and uneasiness to those that are resolved for God and religion to be tempted and solicited to alter their resolution. Those that would not think of it would not hear of it. Entreat me not. The margin reads it, Be not against me. Note, We are to reckon those against us, and really our enemies, that would hinder us in our way to the heavenly Canaan. Our relations they may be, but they cannot be our friends, that would dissuade us from and discourage us in the service of God and the work of religion. [2.] She is very particular in her resolution to cleave to her and never to forsake her; and she speaks the language of one resolved for God and heaven. She is so in love, not with her mother's beauty, or riches, or gaiety (all these were withered and gone), but with her wisdom, and virtue, and grace, which remained with her, even in her present poor and melancholy condition, that she resolves to cleave to her. First, She will travel with her: Whither thou goest I will go, though to a country I never saw and in a low and ill opinion of which I have been trained up; though far from my own country, yet with thee every road shall be pleasant. Secondly, She will dwell with her: "Where thou lodgest I will lodge, though it be in a cottage, nay, though it be no better a lodging than Jacob had when he had the stones for his pillow. Where thou settest up thy staff I will set up mine, be it where it may." Thirdly, She will twist interest with her: Thy people shall be my people. From Naomi's character she concludes certainly that the great nation was a wise and an understanding people. She judges of them all by her good mother, who, wherever she went, was a credit to her country (as all those should study to be who profess relation to the better country, that is, the heavenly), and therefore she will think herself happy if she may be reckoned one of them. "Thy people shall be mine to associate with, to be conformable to, and to be concerned for." Fourthly, She will join in religion with her. Thus she determined to be hers usque ad aras - to the very altars: "Thy God shall be my God, and farewell to all the gods of Moab, which are vanity and a lie. I will adore the God of Israel, the only living and true God, trust in him alone, serve him, and in every thing be ruled by him;" this is to take the Lord for our God. Fifthly, She will gladly die in the same bed: Where thou diest will I die. She takes it for granted they must both die, and that in all probability Naomi, as the elder, would die first, and resolves to continue in the same house, if it might be, till her days also were fulfilled, intimating likewise a desire to partake of her happiness in death; she wishes to die in the same place, in token of her dying after the same manner. "Let me die the death of righteous Naomi, and let my last end be like hers." Sixthly, She will desire to be buried in the same grave, and to lay her bones by hers: There will I be buried, not desiring to have so much as her dead body carried back to the country of Moab, in token of any remaining kindness for it; but, Naomi and she having joined souls, she desires they may mingle dust, in hopes of rising together, and being together for ever in the other world. [3.] She backs her resolution to adhere to Naomi with a solemn oath: The Lord do so to me, and more also (which was an ancient form of imprecation), if aught but death part thee and me. An oath for confirmation was an end of this strife, and would leave a lasting obligation upon her never to forsake that good way she was now making choice of. First, It is implied that death would separate between them for a time. She could promise to die and be buried in the same place, but not at the same time; it might so happen that she might die first, and this would part them. Note, Death parts those whom nothing else will part. A dying hour is a parting hour, and should be so thought of by us and prepared for. Secondly, It is resolved that nothing else should part them; not any kindness from her own family and people, nor any hope of preferment among them, not any unkindness from Israel, nor the fear of poverty and disgrace among them. "No, I will never leave thee." Now,

(2.)This is a pattern of a resolute convert to God and religion. Thus must we be at a point. [1.] We must take the Lord for our God. "This God is my God for ever and ever; I have avouched him for mine." [2.] When we take God for our God we must take his people for our people in all conditions; though they be a poor despised people, yet, if they be his, they must be ours. [3.] Having cast in our lot among them, we must be willing to take our lot with them and to fare as they fare. We must submit to the same yoke and draw in it faithfully, take up the same cross and carry it cheerfully, go where God will have us to go, though it should be into banishment, and lodge where he will have us to lodge, though it be in a prison, die where he will have us die, and lay our bones in the graves of the upright, who enter into peace and rest in their beds, though they be but the graves of the common people. [4.] We must resolve to continue and persevere, and herein our adherence to Christ must be closer than that of Ruth to Naomi. She resolved that nothing but death should separate them; but we must resolve that death itself shall not separate us from our duty to Christ, and then we may be sure that death itself shall not separate us from our happiness in Christ. [5.] We must bind our souls with a bond never to break these pious resolutions, and swear unto the Lord that we will cleave to him. Fast bind, fast find. He that means honestly does not startle at assurances.

8.Naomi is hereby silenced (Rut 1:18): When she saw that Ruth was stedfastly minded to go with her (which was the very thing she aimed at in all that she had said, to make her of a stedfast mind in going with her), when she saw that she had gained her point, she was well satisfied, and left off speaking to her. She could desire no more than that solemn protestation which Ruth had just now made. See the power of resolution, how it puts temptation to silence. Those that are unresolved, and go in religious ways without a stedfast mind, tempt the tempter, and stand like a door half open, which invites a thief; but resolution shuts and bolts the door, resists the devil, and forces him to flee.

The Chaldee paraphrase thus relates the debate between Naomi and Ruth: - Ruth said, Entreat me not to leave thee, for I will be a proselyte. Naomi said, We are commanded to keep sabbaths and good days, on which we may not travel above 2000 cubits - a sabbath-day's journey. Well, said Ruth, whither thou goest I will go. Naomi said, We are commanded not to tarry all night with Gentiles. Well, said Ruth, where thou lodgest I will lodge. Naomi said, We are commanded to keep 613 precepts. Well, said Ruth, whatever thy people keep I will keep, for they shall be my people. Naomi said, We are forbidden to worship any strange god. Well, said Ruth, thy God shall be my God. Naomi said, We have four sorts of deaths for malefactors, stoning, burning, strangling, and slaying with the sword. Well, said Ruth, where thou diest I will die. We have, said Naomi, houses of sepulchre. And there, said Ruth, will I be buried.

Matthew Henry (1662–1714) — Commentary on the Whole Bible. This section covers verses 6–18. Public domain.
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