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King James Version
And what man is there that hath betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her? let him go and return unto his house, lest he die in the battle, and another man take her.
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KJV (with Strong's)
And what man H376 is there that hath betrothed H781 a wife H802, and hath not taken H3947 her? let him go H3212 and return H7725 unto his house H1004, lest he die H4191 in the battle H4421, and another H312 man H376 take H3947 her.
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Complete Jewish Bible
"'Is there a man here who is engaged to a woman, but hasn't married her yet? He should go back home; otherwise he may die fighting, and another man will marry her.'
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Berean Standard Bible
Has any man become pledged to a woman and not married her? Let him return home, or he may die in battle and another man marry her.”
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American Standard Version
And what man is there that hath betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her? let him go and return unto his house, lest he die in the battle, and another man take her.
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World English Bible Messianic
What man is there who has pledged to be married a wife, and has not taken her? Let him go and return to his house, lest he die in the battle, and another man take her.”
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Geneva Bible (1599)
And what man is there that hath betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her? let him go and returne againe vnto his house, lest he die in the battell, and another man take her.
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Young's Literal Translation
`And who is the man that hath betrothed a woman, and hath not taken her? --let him go and turn back to his house, lest he die in battle, and another man take her.
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SUMMARY

Deuteronomy 20:7 articulates a compassionate military exemption for men who had betrothed a wife but had not yet consummated the marriage. This specific instruction, embedded within Israel's laws of warfare, profoundly underscores the divine value placed on personal relationships, the sanctity of marriage, and the preservation of family lineage, even amidst the dire demands of national defense. It reveals a God who meticulously cares for the individual's well-being and the foundational structures of society, ensuring that life's most significant covenants are honored and fulfilled before a man faces mortal danger.

CONTEXT

  • Literary Context: Deuteronomy 20 provides a detailed legal framework for Israelite warfare, immediately following judicial instructions and preceding various social and ritual purity laws. The chapter commences with a powerful exhortation to courage and unwavering trust in God's presence during battle, setting a theological foundation for the subsequent practical guidelines. Within this context, Deuteronomy 20:5-7 outlines specific exemptions from military service, pronounced by the officers before engaging the enemy. These provisions include those who had built a new house and not dedicated it, planted a vineyard and not enjoyed its first fruits, and, critically, the man who had betrothed a wife but not yet "taken" her. The strategic placement of these humane exemptions before the commands for actual combat profoundly highlights God's holistic concern for His people, prioritizing human flourishing and the fulfillment of sacred covenants alongside the imperative of national security and military readiness. This demonstrates a divine order where personal well-being is not sacrificed for collective duty without careful consideration.
  • Historical & Cultural Context: In ancient Israel, betrothal (Hebrew: ʾerusin) was a legally binding and deeply serious covenant, distinct from a modern engagement. It typically spanned a period of up to a year, during which the couple was considered legally married, although they did not yet cohabit or consummate the union. The act of "taking" the wife (Hebrew: laqach) involved the groom bringing his bride into his home, a public procession, and the consummation of the marriage, which formally established the new household and initiated the potential for progeny. The exemption in Deuteronomy 20:7 was of paramount importance because dying before consummation would leave the betrothed woman in an exceptionally precarious and ambiguous state. She would be legally a widow, yet without the security, status, or inheritance rights typically afforded to a consummated marriage, and crucially, without the prospect of children with her intended husband. This law therefore served to protect the individual's honor, the family unit's stability, and the societal emphasis on progeny and inheritance, preventing a profound personal and social tragedy.
  • Key Themes: This verse powerfully contributes to several overarching themes within Deuteronomy and the broader Pentateuch, revealing the character of God and His design for human society. Foremost is the theme of Divine Compassion and Wisdom, which permeates God's law, demonstrating His meticulous care for the individual's life and personal circumstances, even amidst the rigid demands of military service. It underscores the Sanctity and Importance of Marriage and Family, recognizing betrothal and marriage as foundational covenants essential for the continuity of the Israelite nation and the fulfillment of God's promises of progeny, as seen from Genesis 1:28 and consistently emphasized throughout the patriarchal narratives. Furthermore, the law reflects Practical and Humane Leadership, acknowledging that soldiers burdened by unfulfilled personal commitments would likely be distracted, demoralized, and thus less effective in battle. By preventing such unnecessary tragedy and ensuring that those who serve do so with a clear mind, the law promotes both individual well-being and military cohesion, illustrating a profound respect for human dignity and the psychological realities of warfare. This holistic approach is a hallmark of the Mosaic Law, aiming for the flourishing of the entire community.

EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS

Key Word Analysis

  • Man (Hebrew, ʼîysh, H376): This term (H376) refers to a male person or individual. In this context, it emphasizes the specific individual soldier who is facing military duty. The law's focus is on the personal circumstances of "each" man, highlighting God's individual care within the collective.
  • Betrothed (Hebrew, ʼâras, H781): This verb (H781) signifies the formal act of engaging for matrimony. It denotes a legally binding covenant, establishing the couple as husband and wife in the eyes of the law, even prior to cohabitation. The use of this specific term underscores the gravity and legal finality of this pre-marital commitment in ancient Israelite society.
  • Taken (Hebrew, lâqach, H3947): This verb (H3947) means "to take" in a wide variety of applications. Here, it specifically refers to the groom "taking" his betrothed wife into his home, which included the public procession of the bride to the groom's house and the subsequent consummation of the marriage. This act completed the marriage covenant, moving it from the legal betrothal phase to the full establishment of the marital union and household.
  • Die (Hebrew, mûwth, H4191): This primitive root (H4191) means "to die," literally or figuratively. In this verse, it carries the literal and stark meaning of perishing in battle. The phrase "lest he die" emphasizes the dire consequence the law seeks to prevent, highlighting the tragic disruption of a sacred covenant and the potential loss of lineage if the man were to fall before fulfilling his marital duty.

Verse Breakdown

  • "And what man [is there] that hath betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her?": This rhetorical question introduces the specific scenario for the exemption, drawing attention to a man who is legally bound in betrothal but has not yet completed the marriage by bringing his wife into his home and consummating the union. The phrasing implies a recognition of the incomplete, yet legally binding, status of this significant life event, setting the stage for a compassionate provision.
  • "let him go and return unto his house,": This is the explicit divine command and compassionate provision. Such a man is not merely permitted but commanded to be released from military duty. He is to return to his home to fulfill his marital obligations, ensuring the completion of the covenant and the establishment of his family. This demonstrates God's profound priority for the individual's well-being and the sanctity of marriage over immediate military necessity, preventing a potential personal tragedy.
  • "lest he die in the battle, and another man take her.": This clause provides the crucial rationale for the exemption, highlighting the tragic consequences the law seeks to avert. If the betrothed man were to die before taking his wife, she would be left in an extremely vulnerable and anomalous position—a "widow" in legal standing but never truly a wife in consummation, without the security of a husband or the prospect of children through him. The phrase "another man take her" refers to the possibility of her eventually marrying someone else, but only after a complex and potentially distressing process, further emphasizing the disruption and sorrow of such a scenario. The law prevents this personal tragedy, protects the woman's status, and safeguards societal stability.

Literary Devices

Deuteronomy 20:7 skillfully employs several literary techniques to convey its profound message. The primary legal structure is Casuistic Law, presented as a conditional statement ("If a man has betrothed a wife... then let him go..."). This common ancient Near Eastern legal form clearly defines specific cases and their corresponding legal outcomes, providing clarity and precision for the Israelite community. The verse also utilizes Anticipation or Foreshadowing by explicitly stating the negative consequence ("lest he die in the battle, and another man take her"). This not only provides a compelling rationale for the exemption but also evokes empathy and underscores the divine compassion that undergirds the law, highlighting the tragedy it seeks to prevent. Furthermore, the opening rhetorical question, "And what man [is there]...", serves as a powerful form of Emphasis, drawing the reader's attention to the specific, sensitive nature of this particular exemption and highlighting its exceptional importance among the other military provisions. This rhetorical device engages the audience, prompting them to consider the profound implications of the law.

THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS

Deuteronomy 20:7 profoundly illustrates God's holistic care for His people, demonstrating that His laws are not merely about external obedience but are deeply rooted in compassion for the individual and a profound respect for the foundational institutions of human society, particularly marriage and family. This exemption reveals a divine wisdom that prioritizes the sacred covenant of marriage and the continuity of lineage, recognizing that these personal fulfillments are integral to the well-being and stability of the community. It teaches that even in times of national crisis and warfare, God's concern extends to the personal milestones and emotional well-being of His children, preventing unnecessary sorrow and ensuring that life's most significant commitments are honored. This principle reflects God's character as one who values life, relationships, and the fulfillment of promises, emphasizing that true strength in a nation comes not just from military might but from the integrity and flourishing of its individual families.

REFLECTION AND APPLICATION

Deuteronomy 20:7 offers timeless principles for personal and communal life, challenging us to deeply consider how we prioritize relationships and sacred commitments, especially when faced with demanding or conflicting circumstances. God's compassionate exemption for the betrothed man reminds us that true wisdom in leadership, whether in family, church, or workplace, involves understanding and valuing the personal circumstances and well-being of individuals. It encourages us to cultivate a culture where human dignity, the sanctity of covenants, and the fulfillment of life's significant milestones are held in high regard, rather than being sacrificed for expediency or perceived efficiency. Just as God sought to prevent unnecessary tragedy and disruption for His people, we are called to act with foresight, empathy, and practical wisdom, ensuring that our actions and decisions reflect a deep care for others and an unwavering commitment to honoring our sacred vows. This verse serves as a powerful reminder that God's plan for us is holistic, encompassing both our spiritual walk and our earthly relationships, and that His grace often manifests through practical, humane considerations that foster flourishing.

Questions for Reflection

  • How does this exemption challenge our modern understanding of duty versus personal well-being, especially in high-pressure environments?
  • In what specific ways can we, as individuals or communities, demonstrate God's compassionate consideration for others' significant life milestones and commitments, even when it requires personal sacrifice or adjustment?
  • What unfulfilled "betrothals" or significant, foundational commitments in our own lives might God be calling us to prioritize and complete before engaging in other demanding endeavors?

FAQ

Why was the betrothal period considered so serious in ancient Israel?

Answer: In ancient Israel, betrothal was far more than a casual engagement; it was a legally binding covenant, the first crucial step of marriage. It was established through formal agreements, often involving a bride-price paid by the groom's family to the bride's family. During this period, which could last up to a year, the betrothed couple was legally recognized as husband and wife, even though they did not yet cohabit. Breaking a betrothal required a formal divorce, and infidelity during this period was treated with the same severity as adultery in a consummated marriage, punishable by death (Deuteronomy 22:23-24). This high regard for betrothal underscored the sanctity of marriage, the importance of lineage, and the stability of the family unit in Israelite society. The exemption in Deuteronomy 20:7 was a divine provision to protect this sacred covenant and the individuals involved from potential tragedy and social stigma.

Does this military exemption apply to other significant life events or commitments?

Answer: While Deuteronomy 20:7 specifically addresses the betrothed man, it is part of a broader set of compassionate exemptions found in Deuteronomy 20:5-7. These include men who had built a new house but not yet dedicated it, and those who had planted a vineyard but not yet enjoyed its fruit. These exemptions collectively demonstrate God's profound and compassionate concern for major life milestones and the fulfillment of significant personal endeavors. The underlying principle is that God values the completion of these foundational life events and the prevention of unnecessary personal tragedy, even in times of national crisis. While the specific applications are culturally bound to ancient Israel, the timeless principle of divine compassion for individual well-being and the honoring of commitments remains a powerful testament to God's character.

CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT

Deuteronomy 20:7, with its profound emphasis on the sanctity of covenant, the protection of life, and the compassionate consideration for personal fulfillment, finds its ultimate and most glorious fulfillment in Jesus Christ. Just as the law sought to prevent a man from dying before consummating his earthly marriage, Christ, the ultimate Bridegroom, entered into a covenant with humanity, ultimately giving His life not to prevent a tragedy, but to redeem us from the ultimate tragedy of spiritual death and separation from God. Through His perfect life, atoning death, and glorious resurrection, Jesus has "taken" His bride, the Church, into an eternal and unbreakable covenant, ensuring that we will never be left desolate or "taken by another" (spiritually speaking, meaning lost to sin or judgment). He came to ensure that we, His betrothed, would not "die in the battle" of sin and judgment, but would be brought safely into His Father's house, where there are many rooms prepared for us (John 14:2-3). His compassion extends beyond temporary earthly concerns to provide eternal security and the glorious consummation of our union with God, beautifully depicted in the marriage supper of the Lamb (Revelation 19:7-9). Jesus is the true fulfillment of every compassionate provision in the law, ensuring that our spiritual "betrothal" leads to eternal "marriage" and abundant life in Him.

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Commentary on Deuteronomy 20 verses 1–9

I. II. Main points1. 2. Sub-points

Israel was at this time to be considered rather as a camp than as a kingdom, entering upon an enemy's country, and not yet settled in a country of their own; and, besides the war they were now entering upon in order to their settlement, even after their settlement they could neither protect nor enlarge their coast without hearing the alarms of war. It was therefore needful that they should have directions given them in their military affairs; and in these verses they are directed in managing, marshalling, and drawing up their own forces. And it is observable that the discipline of war here prescribed is so far from having any thing in it harsh or severe, as is usual in martial law, that the intent of the whole is, on the contrary, to encourage the soldiers, and to make their service easy to them.

I. Those that were disposed to fight must be encouraged and animated against their fears.

1.Moses here gives a general encouragement, which the leaders and commanders in the war must take to themselves: "Be not afraid of them, Deu 20:1. Though the enemy have ever so much the advantage by their numbers (being more than thou), and by their cavalry (their armies being much made up of horses and chariots, which thou art not allowed to multiply), yet decline not coming to a battle with them, dread not the issue, nor doubt of success." Two things they must encourage themselves with in their wars, provided they kept close to their God and their religion, otherwise they forfeited these encouragements: - (1.) The presence of God with them: "The Lord thy God is with thee, and therefore thou art not in danger, nor needest thou be afraid." See Isa 41:10. (2.) The experience they and their fathers had had of God's power and goodness in bringing them out of the land of Egypt, in defiance of Pharaoh and all his hosts, which was not only in general a proof of the divine omnipotence, but to them in particular a pledge of what God would do further for them. He that saved them from those greater enemies would not suffer them to be run down by those that were every way less considerable, and thus to have all he had done for them undone again.

2.This encouragement must be particularly addressed to the common soldiers by a priest appointed, and, the Jews say, anointed, for that purpose, whom they call the anointed of the war, a very proper title for our anointed Redeemer, the captain of our salvation: This priest, in God's name, was to animate the people; and who so fit to do that as he whose office it was as priest to pray for them? For the best encouragements arise from the precious promises made to the prayer of faith. This priest must, (1.) Charge them not to be afraid (Deu 20:3), for nothing weakens the hands so much as that which makes the heart tremble, Deu 20:3. There is need of precept upon precept to this purport, as there is here: Let not your hearts be tender (so the word is), to receive all the impressions of fear, but let a believing confidence in the power and promise of God harden them. Fear not, and do not make haste (so the word is), for he that believeth doth not make more haste than good speed. "Do not make haste either rashly to anticipate your advantages or basely to fly off upon every disadvantage." (2.) He must assure them of the presence of God with them, to own and plead their righteous cause, and not only to save them from their enemies, but to give them victory over them, Deu 20:4. Note, Those have no reason to fear that have God with them. The giving of this encouragement by a priest, one of the Lord's ministers, intimates, [1.] That it is very fit that armies should have chaplains, not only to pray for them, but to preach to them, both to reprove that which would hinder their success and to raise their hopes of it. [2.] That it is the work of Christ's ministers to encourage his good soldiers in their spiritual conflict with the world and the flesh, and to assure them of a conquest, yea, more than a conquest, through Christ that loved us.

II. Those that were indisposed to fight must be discharged, whether the indisposition did arise,

1.From the circumstances of a man's outward condition; as, (1.) If he had lately built or purchased a new house, and had not taken possession of it, had not dedicated it (Deu 20:5), that is, made a solemn festival for the entertainment of his friends, that came to him to welcome him to his house; let him go home and take the comfort of that which God had blessed him with, till, by enjoying it for some time, he become less fond of it, and consequently less disturbed in the war by the thoughts of it, and more willing to lie and leave it. For this is the nature of all our worldly enjoyments, that they please us best at first; after a while we see the vanity of them. Some think that this dedication of their houses was a religious act, and that they took possession of them with prayers and praises, with a solemn devoting of themselves and all their enjoyments to the service and honour of God. David penned the 30th Psalm on such an occasion, as appears by the title. Note, He that has a house of his own should dedicate it to God by setting up and keeping up the fear and worship of God in it, that he may have a church in his house; and nothing should be suffered to divert a man from this. Or, (2.) If a man had been at a great expense to plant a vineyard, and longed to eat of the fruit of it, which for the first three years he was forbidden to do by the law (Lev 19:23, etc.), let him go home, if he has a mind, and gratify his own humour with the fruits of it, Deu 20:6. See how indulgent God is to his people in innocent things, and how far from being a hard Master. Since we naturally covet to eat the labour of our hands, rather than an Israelite should be crossed therein, his service in war shall be dispensed with., Or, (3.) If a man had made up his mind to be married, and the marriage were not solemnized, he was at liberty to return (Deu 20:7), as also to tarry at home for one year after marriage (Deu 24:5), for the terrors of war would be disagreeable to a man who had just welcomed the soft scene of domestic attachment. And God would not be served in his wars by pressed men, that were forced into the army against their will, but they must all be perfectly volunteers. Psa 110:3, Thy people shall be willing. In running the Christian race, and fighting the good fight of faith, we must lay aside every weight, and all that which would clog and divert our minds and make us unwilling. The Jewish writers agree that this liberty to return was allowed only in those wars which they made voluntarily (as bishop Patrick expresses it), not those which were made by the divine command against Amalek and the Canaanites, in which every man was bound to fight.

2.If a man's indisposition to fight arose from the weakness and timidity of his own spirit, he had leave to return from the war, Deu 20:8. This proclamation Gideon made to his army, and it detached above two-thirds of them, Jdg 7:3. Some make the fearfulness and faintheartedness here supposed to arise from the terrors of an evil conscience, which would make a man afraid to look death and danger in the face. It was then thought that men of loose and profligate lives would not be good soldiers, but must needs be both cowards in an army and curses to it, the shame and trouble of the camp; and therefore those who were conscious to themselves of notorious guilt were shaken off. But it seems rather to be meant of a natural fearfulness. It was partly in kindness to them that they had their discharge (for, though shamed, they were eased); but much more in kindness to the rest of the army, who were hereby freed from the incumbrance of such as were useless and unserviceable, while the danger of infection from their cowardice and flight was prevented. This is the reason here given: Lest his brethren's heart fail as well as his heart. Fear is catching, and in an army is of most pernicious consequence. We must take heed that we fear not the fear of those that are afraid, Isa 8:12.

III. It is here ordered that, when all the cowards were dismissed, then captains should be nominated (Deu 20:9), for it was in a special manner necessary that the leaders and commanders should be men of courage. That reform therefore must be made when the army was first mustered and marshalled. The soldiers of Christ have need of courage, that they may quit themselves like men, and endure hardness like good soldiers, especially the officers of his army.

Matthew Henry (1662–1714) — Commentary on the Whole Bible. This section covers verses 1–9. Public domain.
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