Psalms 35:14

I behaved myself as though [he had been] my friend [or] brother: I bowed down heavily, as one that mourneth [for his] mother.

I behaved {H1980} myself as though he had been my friend {H7453} or brother {H251}: I bowed down {H7817}{H8804)} heavily {H6937}{H8802)}, as one that mourneth {H57} for his mother {H517}.

I behaved as I would for my friend or my brother; I bent down in sorrow as if mourning my mother.

I paced about as for my friend or brother; I was bowed down with grief, like one mourning for his mother.

I behaved myself as though it had been my friend or my brother: I bowed down mourning, as one that bewaileth his mother.

Psalm 35:14 (KJV) reveals King David's profound compassion and selflessness towards those who would later become his adversaries. This verse is a powerful testament to his character, highlighting the stark contrast between his past benevolence and their subsequent betrayal.

Context of Psalm 35:14

Psalm 35 is a fervent plea from David to God for deliverance and justice against his enemies. It is a lament where David pours out his heart, describing the unjust persecution he faces from individuals he once treated with great kindness. Verse 14 specifically serves as a poignant illustration of David's past conduct, emphasizing his deep empathy and care for these very people when they were in distress. This sets the stage for the psalm's central theme of betrayal and the cry for divine intervention against those who repay good with evil, echoing themes found in other psalms of lament such as Psalm 69 or Psalm 109.

Key Themes and Messages

  • Profound Compassion: David treated his future enemies with the utmost care, behaving "as though he had been my friend or brother." This highlights a remarkable level of empathy and solidarity, extending even to those outside his immediate family.
  • Deep Sorrow and Empathy: His act of "bowing down heavily, as one that mourneth for his mother" underscores the intensity of his shared grief. The loss of a mother was, and remains, one of the most profound forms of sorrow, indicating David's willingness to enter deeply into the suffering of others.
  • Betrayal and Ingratitude: The verse implicitly contrasts David's past kindness with the present treachery of his foes. It sets up the psalm's central lament about how good deeds can be repaid with malice, a recurring theme in the human experience and biblical narratives.

Linguistic Insights

The phrase "bowed down heavily" comes from the Hebrew word qadar (קָדַר), which conveys a sense of being dark, gloomy, or in deep mourning. It often describes a posture of profound sorrow, humility, or even dejection, sometimes involving wearing dark clothes or having a downcast countenance. This emphasizes the genuine and visible nature of David's sympathetic grief.

Practical Application and Reflection

Psalm 35:14 challenges believers to reflect on their own capacity for empathy and kindness, even towards those who may later prove ungrateful or hostile. David's example, though presented in the context of lamenting betrayal, reminds us of the ideal of selfless love and compassion, a principle later exemplified perfectly by Christ, who prayed for His persecutors. It encourages us to:

  • Extend Kindness: To treat others with genuine care and respect, regardless of their current or future standing with us.
  • Practice Empathy: To genuinely mourn with those who mourn, sharing in their burdens as if they were our own, as encouraged in Romans 12:15.
  • Recognize Human Frailty: To understand that despite our best intentions and kindness, betrayal can still occur, prompting us to rely on divine justice rather than human reciprocity.

This verse serves as a powerful reminder of the deep emotional cost of ingratitude and the unwavering commitment to compassion that should characterize a righteous heart.

Note: Commentary was generated by an advanced AI, utilizing a prompt that emphasized Biblical fidelity over bias. We've found these insights to be consistently reliable, yet we always encourage prayerful discernment through the Holy Spirit. The Scripture text and cross-references are from verified, non-AI sources.
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