Proverbs 2:16

To deliver thee from the strange woman, [even] from the stranger [which] flattereth with her words;

To deliver {H5337} thee from the strange {H2114} woman {H802}, even from the stranger {H5237} which flattereth {H2505} with her words {H561};

They will save you from a woman who is a stranger, from a loose woman with smooth talk,

It will rescue you from the forbidden woman, from the stranger with seductive words

To deliver thee from the strange woman, Even from the foreigner that flattereth with her words;

Commentary

Proverbs 2:16, part of a larger discourse on the value and protective power of wisdom, warns against the dangers of moral corruption, specifically focusing on the seductive influence of the "strange woman." This verse highlights how wisdom delivers the seeker from those who use deceptive words to lead astray.

Context

Proverbs chapter 2 opens with an earnest call to embrace and seek wisdom, understanding, and discernment (Proverbs 2:1-5). It promises that wisdom, which comes from the Lord, will guard and preserve those who find it (Proverbs 2:7-8). Following this promise, the chapter delineates specific dangers from which wisdom delivers: first, from the path of evil men (Proverbs 2:12-15), and then, as seen in this verse, from the "strange woman" and her flattering words.

Key Themes

  • Protection from Immorality: The primary message is that wisdom serves as a powerful shield against the allure of illicit relationships and sexual temptation. This is a recurring warning throughout the book of Proverbs, emphasizing the destructive nature of infidelity.
  • Deception and Flattery: The "strange woman" is characterized by her ability to "flatter with her words." This highlights the insidious nature of temptation, which often comes disguised as pleasant, appealing, or seemingly harmless speech. It underscores the danger of smooth talk that masks harmful intentions.
  • The Value of Wisdom: Implicitly, the verse reiterates that true wisdom provides the discernment needed to recognize and resist such deceptive overtures, guiding one toward a path of righteousness and safety.

Linguistic Insights

The term "strange woman" translates the Hebrew phrase 'ishshah zarah (אִשָּׁה זָרָה). The word zarah literally means "foreign" or "alien." While it can refer to a non-Israelite woman, in the context of Proverbs, it more broadly signifies a woman who is morally alien or outside the bounds of covenant fidelity and societal norms, often implying an adulteress or prostitute. She is "strange" not necessarily by ethnicity, but by her behavior and disregard for established moral order.

The phrase "flattereth with her words" comes from the Hebrew root chalaq (חָלַק), meaning to be "smooth" or "slippery." This describes speech that is enticing, persuasive, and designed to deceive, much like oil that is smooth but can cause one to slip. It points to the manipulative power of seductive language.

Related Scriptures

  • The warning against the "strange woman" is a major theme in Proverbs. Proverbs 7:5 offers a direct parallel, stating that wisdom delivers "from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words."
  • Further descriptions of her seductive methods can be found in Proverbs 5:3, where her "lips drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil."
  • The ultimate consequences of falling prey to her are vividly described in Proverbs 7:26-27, indicating that "she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her."
  • This verse also aligns with the broader call to avoid evil paths, as seen in Proverbs 4:14-15, which urges the reader to "enter not into the path of the wicked."

Practical Application

While the literal warning pertains to sexual immorality, the principle extends to any deceptive influence that seeks to draw individuals away from God's truth and righteous living. In contemporary life, the "strange woman" can represent any voice—whether from media, culture, or individuals—that uses appealing, smooth, or seemingly harmless words to promote values contrary to biblical wisdom.

This verse encourages believers to cultivate discernment, relying on God's wisdom to distinguish truth from falsehood and wholesome influence from destructive flattery. It reminds us that temptation often comes packaged attractively, making it crucial to test what we hear and to guard our hearts and minds against seductive messages that promise pleasure but lead to ruin. Embracing God's wisdom is our strongest defense against all forms of spiritual and moral deception.

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Cross-References

  • Ecclesiastes 7:26

    And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart [is] snares and nets, [and] her hands [as] bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.
  • Proverbs 7:5

    That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger [which] flattereth with her words.
  • Proverbs 7:23

    Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it [is] for his life.
  • Proverbs 6:24

    To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman.
  • Proverbs 23:27

    For a whore [is] a deep ditch; and a strange woman [is] a narrow pit.
  • Proverbs 22:14

    ¶ The mouth of strange women [is] a deep pit: he that is abhorred of the LORD shall fall therein.
  • Genesis 39:3

    And his master saw that the LORD [was] with him, and that the LORD made all that he did to prosper in his hand.