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Commentary on Mark 3 verses 31–35
Here is, 1. The disrespect which Christ's kindred, according to the flesh, showed to him, when he was preaching (and they knew very well that he was then in his element); they not only stood without, having no desire to come in, and hear him, but they sent in a message to call him out to them (Mar 3:31, Mar 3:32), as if he must leave his work, to hearken to their impertinences; it is probable that they had no business with him, only sent for him on purpose to oblige him to break off, lest he should kill himself. He knew how far his strength would go, and preferred the salvation of souls before his own life, and soon after made it to appear with a witness; it was therefore an idle thing for them, under pretence of his sparing himself, to interrupt him; and it was worse, if really they had business with him, when they knew he preferred his business, as a Saviour, so much before any other business.
2.The respect which Christ showed to his spiritual kindred upon this occasion. Now, as at other times, he put a comparative neglect upon his mother, which seemed purposely designed to obviate the prevent the extravagant respect which men in aftertimes would be apt to pay her. Our respect ought to be guided and governed by Christ's; now the virgin Mary, or Christ's mother, is not equalled with, but postponed to, ordinary believers, on whom Christ here puts a superlative honour. He looked upon those that at about him, and pronounced those of them that not only heard, but did, the will of God, to be to him as his brother, and sister, and mother; as much esteemed, loved, and cared for, as his nearest relations, Mar 3:33-35. This is a good reason why we should honour those that fear the Lord, and choose them for our people; why we should be not hearers of the word only, but doers of the work, that we may share with the saints in this honour, Surely it is good to be akin to those who are thus nearly allied to Christ, and to have fellowship with those that have fellowship with Christ; and woe to those that hate and persecute Christ's kindred, that are his bone and his flesh, every one resembling the children of a king (see Jdg 8:18, Jdg 8:19); for he will with jealously plead their cause, and avenge their blood.
But let us be assured that we are His brethren and His sisters, if we do the will of the Father; that we may be joint-heirs with Him, for He discerns us not by sex but by our deeds. Wherefore it goes on: Whosoever shall do the will of God, &c.
Let us then praise him, not with the mouth only, but from the heart, so that he may accept us as sons. For the Lord said, “My brothers are those who do the will of my Father.” So let us do the will of the Father who called us, that we may live peaceably within this family, where our inclination shall be the pursuit of virtue.
(non occ.) From this it is manifest that His brethren and His mother were not always with Him; but because He was beloved by them, they come from reverence and affection, waiting without. Wherefore it goes on, And the multitude sat about him, &c.
(non occ.) By this, the Lord shows that we should honour those who are relations by faith rather than those who are relations by blood. A man indeed is made the mother of Jesus by preaching Himq; for He, as it were, brings forth the Lord, when he pours Him into the heart of his hearers.
(Vict. Ant. e Cat. in Marc.) But another Evangelist says, that His brethren did not believe on Him. With which this agrees, which says, that they sought Him, waiting without, and with this meaning the Lord does not mention them as relations. Wherefore it follows, And he answered them, saying, Who is my mother or my brethren? (John 7:5) But He does not here mention His mother and His brethren altogether with reproof, but to show that a man must honour his own soul above all earthly kindred; wherefore this is fitly said to those who called Him to speak with His mother and relations, as if it were a more useful task than the teaching of salvation.
And looking around at those who were sitting around him, he said: Behold, my mother and my brothers. For whoever does the will of God, he is my brother, and sister, and mother. When he who does the will of God is called the sister and brother of the Lord, it is not surprising due to both sexes being gathered to faith. But it is very astonishing how even mother is also said. For he deigned to call his faithful disciples brothers, saying: Go, announce to my brothers. Whoever, therefore, is able to become the brother of the Lord by coming to faith, it must be asked how he can also be mother. But we must know that he who is the brother and sister of Jesus by believing, becomes a mother by preaching. For he as it were births the Lord, whom he has infused into the heart of the listener. And he becomes his mother if the love of the Lord is generated in the mind of the neighbor through his voice.
(ubi sup.) The brothers of the Lord must not be thought to be the sons of the ever-virgin Mary, as Helvidius sayp, nor the sons of Joseph by a former marriage, as some think, but rather they must be understood to be His relations.
(Ambr in Luc. 6, 36. Bede ubi sup.) Being asked therefore by a message to go out, He declines, not as though He refused the dutiful service of His mother, but to show that He owes more to His Father's mysteries than to His mother's feelings. Nor does He rudely despise His brothers, but, preferring His spiritual work to fleshly relationship, He teaches us that religion is the bond of the heart rather than that of the body. Wherefore it goes on, And looking round about on them which sat about him, he said, Behold my mother and my brethren.
(ubi sup.) But mystically, the mother and brother of Jesus means the synagogue, (from which according to the flesh He sprung,) and the Jewish people who, while the Saviour is teaching within, come to Him, and are not able to enter, because they cannot understand spiritual things. But the crowd eagerly enter, because when the Jews delayed, the Gentiles flocked to Christ; but His kindred, who stand without wishing to see the Lord, are the Jews who obstinately remained without, guarding the letter, and would rather compel the Lord to go forth to them to teach carnal things, than consent to enter in to learn spiritual things of Him. (Ambr in Luc. 6, 37.). If therefore not even His parents when standing without are acknowledged, how shall we be acknowledged, if we stand without? For the word is within and the light within.
Because the relations of the Lord had come to seize upon Him, as if beside Himself, His mother, urged by the sympathy of her love, came to Him; wherefore it is said, And there came unto him his mother, and, standing without, sent unto him, calling him.
He does not therefore say this, as denying His mother, but as showing that He is worthy of honour, not only because she bore Christ, but on account of her possessing every other virtue.
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SUMMARY
Mark 3:34 captures a pivotal moment in Jesus' ministry where, confronted by His biological family, He deliberately surveys the crowd of disciples and listeners around Him. In this profound declaration, Jesus redefines the concept of family, shifting the emphasis from conventional blood ties to a spiritual kinship forged through obedience to God's will. This statement serves as a foundational teaching on discipleship, inviting all who hear and respond to His word into a new, divine family.
CONTEXT
EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS
Key Word Analysis
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Literary Devices
Mark 3:34 employs several potent literary devices. Dramatic Irony is present as Jesus' biological family, concerned for His well-being, seeks Him, yet He declares a new family based on spiritual rather than physical ties. The audience is privy to this deeper truth, while His family remains outside, misunderstanding His mission. Symbolism is central, with "mother and brethren" symbolizing not just biological relatives but the entire concept of traditional, earthly kinship. Jesus' redefinition transforms this symbol to represent a spiritual community united by obedience to God. The act of "looking round about" can be seen as a form of Visual Rhetoric, as Jesus physically directs attention to the crowd, making a visual statement before His verbal one, emphasizing that His words are directly connected to those present. This creates a powerful Contrast between the earthly family seeking Him from without and the spiritual family gathered within His presence, highlighting the shift from a physical to a spiritual understanding of belonging.
THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS
Mark 3:34 profoundly reshapes the understanding of family, moving beyond mere biological ties to establish a spiritual kinship rooted in divine relationship. Jesus' declaration signifies the inauguration of a new covenant community, where allegiance to God's will, as demonstrated through discipleship, becomes the defining characteristic of true belonging. This challenges the deeply ingrained societal norms of His day, where bloodlines were paramount, and elevates the spiritual family—the church—as the primary locus of identity and loyalty for believers. It underscores that following Christ demands a reordering of priorities, placing the kingdom of God above all earthly relationships when they conflict with divine calling.
REFLECTION AND APPLICATION
Mark 3:34 challenges us to examine the nature of our deepest loyalties and where our true identity lies. In a world that often prioritizes biological family, social status, or personal ambition, Jesus radically redefines what it means to belong. He calls us into a spiritual family where the bond is forged not by genetics, but by a shared commitment to hear and do the will of God. This passage compels us to consider whether our lives reflect this prioritization. Are we actively seeking to obey God's word, even when it means making difficult choices that may diverge from cultural expectations or even familial pressures? The spiritual family of Christ offers a profound sense of belonging, purpose, and eternal connection, inviting us to invest deeply in relationships with fellow believers who share this divine kinship. It reminds us that our ultimate identity is found in Christ and our shared pursuit of God's kingdom.
Questions for Reflection
FAQ
Does Jesus reject His biological family in this passage?
Answer: No, Jesus does not reject His biological family. Instead, He uses their arrival as a teaching moment to expand and redefine the concept of family. He is not saying that His biological mother and brothers are no longer important, but rather that there is a higher, spiritual family that transcends biological ties. His statement elevates the importance of spiritual kinship—those who hear and obey God's will—to a preeminent position. This redefinition is about inclusion and a new order of priorities, not exclusion or abandonment of His earthly family. Later, Jesus demonstrates care for His mother (see John 19:26-27).
What does it mean to be part of Jesus' "mother and brethren"?
Answer: To be part of Jesus' "mother and brethren" means to be part of His spiritual family, which is defined by a commitment to "do the will of God" (as clarified in Mark 3:35). This involves hearing His word, believing in Him, and actively obeying His commands and the Father's will. It signifies a deep spiritual connection and allegiance to God that supersedes even the strongest earthly bonds. This concept is foundational to understanding Christian discipleship and the nature of the church as the family of God.
CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT
Mark 3:34, while a radical redefinition of family, finds its ultimate fulfillment in Christ Himself, who not only articulates this new spiritual kinship but also embodies it. Jesus, the Son of God, perfectly fulfilled the will of His Father (as seen in John 4:34 and Hebrews 10:7), thereby establishing the very criterion for belonging to this new family. He is the elder brother (as described in Romans 8:29) within this vast spiritual household, inviting all who believe in Him and obey the Father's will to be adopted as sons and daughters of God (see Galatians 4:4-7). Through His atoning work on the cross, Jesus broke down the barriers of sin and division, creating one new humanity (as taught in Ephesians 2:14-16), uniting diverse individuals into a single body, the Church, where all are bound by common faith and obedience to Him. Thus, Jesus is not just the definer of this spiritual family, but its very head, its foundation, and the means by which anyone can enter into this eternal relationship with God and one another.