I am become a stranger unto my brethren, and an alien unto my mother's children.
I am become a stranger {H2114}{H8716)} unto my brethren {H251}, and an alien {H5237} unto my mother's {H517} children {H1121}.
I am estranged from my brothers, an alien to my mother's children,
I have become a stranger to my brothers and a foreigner to my mother’s sons,
I am become a stranger unto my brethren, And an alien unto my mother’s children.
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Psalms 31:11
I was a reproach among all mine enemies, but especially among my neighbours, and a fear to mine acquaintance: they that did see me without fled from me. -
John 1:11
He came unto his own, and his own received him not. -
Matthew 10:35
For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. -
Matthew 10:36
And a man's foes [shall be] they of his own household. -
Matthew 26:70
But he denied before [them] all, saying, I know not what thou sayest. -
Matthew 26:74
Then began he to curse and to swear, [saying], I know not the man. And immediately the cock crew. -
Psalms 38:11
My lovers and my friends stand aloof from my sore; and my kinsmen stand afar off.
Psalms 69:8 captures a profound expression of isolation and rejection, a lament from the psalmist (traditionally David) who feels utterly estranged even from his closest kin.
Context
Psalm 69 is a deeply emotional lament, where the psalmist pours out his heart concerning intense suffering, distress, and persecution by his enemies. This suffering is often attributed to his zealous devotion to God, as indicated in Psalm 69:9, "For the zeal of thine house hath eaten me up." Verse 8 specifically highlights the painful dimension of this rejection: it extends beyond adversaries to those who should be sources of comfort and support—his own family. This abandonment by brethren and "mother's children" signifies a complete and agonizing sense of being an outsider.
Key Themes
Linguistic Insights
The KJV uses "stranger" (Hebrew: nokriy, נָכְרִי) and "alien" (Hebrew: muwzar, מוּזָר). Both terms emphasize being an outsider or foreigner. Nokriy refers to someone from another land or tribe, while muwzar means to be estranged or treated as a stranger. The parallelism with "brethren" and "mother's children" intensely underscores the shock and pain of this rejection coming from within one's own immediate family circle, highlighting the unnaturalness of such an estrangement.
Practical Application
For believers today, Psalms 69:8 offers several profound insights: