Why would the psalmist be rejected by his own family?

The psalm itself suggests that the psalmist's suffering, including familial rejection, is often a consequence of his fervent devotion to God and His house, as indicated in Psalm 69:9. His zeal might have been perceived as extreme, disruptive, or even dangerous by his family or community, leading to misunderstanding, ridicule, and ultimately, estrangement. In ancient societies, differing religious or political loyalties could easily fracture family units, especially if one member's actions were seen as bringing shame or danger upon the rest. This rejection highlights the potential cost of unwavering faithfulness.

Is this verse only about physical family, or does it have a broader meaning?

While "brethren" and "mother's children" primarily refer to immediate and extended family, the verse's theme of profound alienation can be extended to broader communities or groups where one should naturally belong. The pain of being an "outsider" or "alien" can apply to spiritual communities, social circles, or even one's nation, especially when one's convictions or actions set them apart. However, the specific language of "mother's children" emphasizes the unique and particularly painful nature of rejection from one's most intimate circle, suggesting that the primary focus is indeed on the deepest familial bonds.

69:7 69:7

Psalms 69:8

69:9 69:9

Bible Versions

I am become a stranger unto my brethren, and an alien unto my mother's children.

I am become a stranger {H2114}{H8716)} unto my brethren {H251}, and an alien {H5237} unto my mother's {H517} children {H1121}.

I am estranged from my brothers, an alien to my mother's children,

I have become a stranger to my brothers and a foreigner to my mother’s sons,

I am become a stranger unto my brethren, And an alien unto my mother’s children.

Note: Commentary is generated by AI with a directive for Biblical fidelity. Always rely on the Holy Spirit for discernment. The Scripture text and cross-references are from verified, non-AI sources.

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Cross-References

Psalms 31:11

I was a reproach among all mine enemies, but especially among my neighbours, and a fear to mine acquaintance: they that did see me without fled from me.
John 1:11

He came unto his own, and his own received him not.
Matthew 10:35

For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Matthew 10:36

And a man's foes [shall be] they of his own household.
Matthew 26:70

But he denied before [them] all, saying, I know not what thou sayest.
Matthew 26:74

Then began he to curse and to swear, [saying], I know not the man. And immediately the cock crew.
Psalms 38:11

My lovers and my friends stand aloof from my sore; and my kinsmen stand afar off.

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