Proverbs 19:26

¶ He that wasteth [his] father, [and] chaseth away [his] mother, [is] a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.

He that wasteth {H7703} his father {H1}, and chaseth away {H1272} his mother {H517}, is a son {H1121} that causeth shame {H954}, and bringeth reproach {H2659}.

One who mistreats his father and evicts his mother is a son who brings them shame and disgrace.

He who assaults his father or evicts his mother is a son who brings shame and disgrace.

He that doeth violence to his father, and chaseth away his mother, Is a son that causeth shame and bringeth reproach.

Commentary

Proverbs 19:26 delivers a stern warning against extreme disrespect and abuse of one's parents. This verse highlights the severe consequences, both personal and societal, for a child who acts with such profound filial impiety.

Historical and Cultural Context

In ancient Israel, the family unit was the cornerstone of society. Honor for parents was not merely a suggestion but a foundational principle, enshrined in the Ten Commandments. Parents, especially the father, were often the head of the household and the primary source of support and inheritance. To "waste" a father's resources (Hebrew: shadad, implying violence or devastation) meant squandering the family's livelihood and future. To "chase away" a mother (Hebrew: barach, to cause to flee) was an act of utter abandonment and cruelty, leaving her vulnerable and without protection. Such actions were considered deeply scandalous and brought disgrace upon the entire lineage, challenging the very fabric of communal order.

Key Themes and Messages

  • Filial Disrespect and Abuse: The verse vividly describes a child who not only squanders family assets but actively harms or abandons their parents. This is a stark portrayal of rebellion against natural order and familial duty.
  • Consequences of Dishonor: The outcome for such a son is explicit: he "causeth shame, and bringeth reproach." This shame (Hebrew: bosh) and reproach (Hebrew: chapher) would extend beyond the individual, marking the entire family with public disgrace. This contrasts sharply with the wisdom found elsewhere in Proverbs about a wise son making a father glad.
  • Importance of Family Honor: The Proverb emphasizes that the actions of individuals reflect on the family name. Respect for elders and the proper stewardship of family resources were paramount for maintaining a good reputation within the community.

Linguistic Insights

The Hebrew word for "wasteth" (shadad) can mean to devastate, ruin, or deal violently with, suggesting more than just financial squandering but potentially physical or emotional harm. "Chaseth away" (barach) implies driving out or forcing to flee, highlighting an act of direct cruelty and abandonment. The terms "shame" (bosh) and "reproach" (chapher) are powerful, denoting public humiliation and utter disgrace, reinforcing the severity of the offense in the eyes of the community.

Practical Application

This Proverb serves as a timeless reminder of the profound importance of honoring and caring for one's parents. While the specific acts described are extreme, the underlying principle applies to all forms of disrespect, neglect, or abuse of elders. It calls believers to:

  • Fulfill Responsibilities: Provide for and care for aging parents, ensuring their well-being and dignity.
  • Show Respect: Treat parents with honor, even if there are disagreements or challenges, remembering the biblical command to honor your father and mother.
  • Guard Family Reputation: Understand that personal actions impact the family unit and the wider community, striving to bring honor rather than shame.

Ultimately, Proverbs 19:26 underscores that true wisdom includes filial piety, which contributes to a stable society and a blessed life.

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Cross-References

  • Proverbs 17:2

    ¶ A wise servant shall have rule over a son that causeth shame, and shall have part of the inheritance among the brethren.

  • Proverbs 10:5

    ¶ He that gathereth in summer [is] a wise son: [but] he that sleepeth in harvest [is] a son that causeth shame.

  • Proverbs 23:22

    Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.

  • Proverbs 23:25

    Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.

  • Proverbs 28:24

    ¶ Whoso robbeth his father or his mother, and saith, [It is] no transgression; the same [is] the companion of a destroyer.

  • Luke 15:30

    But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf.

  • Proverbs 30:17

    The eye [that] mocketh at [his] father, and despiseth to obey [his] mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.
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