1 Thessalonians 2:11

As ye know how we exhorted and comforted and charged every one of you, as a father [doth] his children,

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for you know that we treated each one of you the way a father treats his children —

For you know that we treated each of you as a father treats his own children—

as ye know how we dealt with each one of you, as a father with his own children, exhorting you, and encouraging you, and testifying,

Commentary

Context

In 1 Thessalonians chapter 2, the Apostle Paul defends the integrity and sincerity of his ministry among the Thessalonians. He recounts his initial visit, emphasizing that his motives were pure, not driven by flattery, greed, or a desire for human glory. He contrasts his genuine approach with the methods of false teachers, highlighting the authenticity of his gospel message and his personal conduct. This verse, 1 Thessalonians 2:11, directly follows his description of being "gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children" (1 Thessalonians 2:7), providing a complementary image of his multifaceted pastoral care.

Key Themes

  • Pastoral Nurturing and Care: Paul's ministry was not merely about delivering sermons but involved deep, personal investment in the lives of the believers. He saw himself as a spiritual parent, committed to their growth and well-being.
  • The Fatherly Metaphor: By comparing his actions to "a father [doth] his children," Paul conveys a relationship characterized by love, authority, protection, instruction, and discipline. This highlights a blend of tenderness and firm guidance.
  • Individualized Attention: The phrase "every one of you" underscores Paul's commitment to personal discipleship. His care was not a general, impersonal message, but tailored to the specific needs and challenges of each individual believer.
  • Balanced Ministry: Paul's description of his actions as "exhorted and comforted and charged" reveals a comprehensive approach to spiritual leadership. He encouraged, consoled, and also admonished or instructed with solemnity, demonstrating a holistic method for spiritual development.

Linguistic Insights

The three verbs Paul uses to describe his interaction are significant:

  • "Exhorted" (Greek: parakaleō - παρακαλέω): This word means to "call alongside," to encourage, appeal, or urge. It implies a loving persuasion towards a particular course of action, often spiritual growth or perseverance.
  • "Comforted" (Greek: paramytheomai - παραμυθέομαι): This term suggests speaking soothingly to someone, consoling them, or cheering them up, especially in times of distress or sorrow. It speaks to the empathetic and compassionate side of Paul's ministry.
  • "Charged" (Greek: martyromenoi - μαρτυρόμενοι): This is a strong term meaning "bearing witness," "solemnly affirming," or "admonishing." It implies a serious appeal, a solemn instruction, or even a warning, reflecting the authoritative aspect of a father guiding his children in the right path. This shows Paul's willingness to speak hard truths when necessary, always for their good.

Related Scriptures

  • Paul's deep concern for his spiritual children is also evident in Galatians 4:19, where he speaks of "travail again until Christ be formed in you."
  • The concept of God as a loving yet disciplining Father is clearly seen in Hebrews 12:7, which states, "If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?"
  • Paul's instruction to Timothy to "preach the word... reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine" (2 Timothy 4:2) mirrors the balanced approach he himself demonstrated.

Practical Application

This verse offers a profound model for Christian leadership, parenting, and discipleship. It teaches that effective spiritual care involves:

  1. Personal Investment: True spiritual growth flourishes when leaders and mentors invest personally in individuals, understanding their unique needs.
  2. Balanced Approach: Ministry requires a blend of encouragement (exhortation), comfort in trials, and firm, loving instruction (charging). It's not just about preaching but also about nurturing and guiding.
  3. Parental Heart: Whether in the church, family, or other spheres of influence, approaching those we lead with a heart like a father or mother—full of love, wisdom, and a desire for their ultimate good—is foundational for genuine impact.
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Cross-References

  • 1 Corinthians 4:14

    ¶ I write not these things to shame you, but as my beloved sons I warn [you].

  • 1 Corinthians 4:15

    For though ye have ten thousand instructors in Christ, yet [have ye] not many fathers: for in Christ Jesus I have begotten you through the gospel.

  • 1 Timothy 5:21

    I charge [thee] before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.

  • 2 Thessalonians 3:12

    Now them that are such we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread.

  • Hebrews 13:22

    And I beseech you, brethren, suffer the word of exhortation: for I have written a letter unto you in few words.

  • 1 Chronicles 28:20

    And David said to Solomon his son, Be strong and of good courage, and do [it]: fear not, nor be dismayed: for the LORD God, [even] my God, [will be] with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee, until thou hast finished all the work for the service of the house of the LORD.

  • Deuteronomy 3:28

    But charge Joshua, and encourage him, and strengthen him: for he shall go over before this people, and he shall cause them to inherit the land which thou shalt see.
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