¶ He that begetteth a fool [doeth it] to his sorrow: and the father of a fool hath no joy.
He that begetteth {H3205} a fool {H3684} doeth it to his sorrow {H8424}: and the father {H1} of a fool {H5036} hath no joy {H8055}.
He who fathers a fool does so to his sorrow, and the father of a boor has no joy.
A man fathers a fool to his own grief; the father of a fool has no joy.
He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow; And the father of a fool hath no joy.
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Proverbs 10:1
¶ The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son [is] the heaviness of his mother. -
Proverbs 19:13
¶ A foolish son [is] the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife [are] a continual dropping. -
Proverbs 15:20
¶ A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish man despiseth his mother. -
Genesis 26:34
¶ And Esau was forty years old when he took to wife Judith the daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and Bashemath the daughter of Elon the Hittite: -
Proverbs 23:15
My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine. -
Proverbs 23:16
Yea, my reins shall rejoice, when thy lips speak right things. -
1 Samuel 2:32
And thou shalt see an enemy [in my] habitation, in all [the wealth] which [God] shall give Israel: and there shall not be an old man in thine house for ever.
Commentary on Proverbs 17:21
Proverbs 17:21 delivers a stark and poignant observation about the profound grief that can accompany parenting a child who chooses a path of folly. It highlights the deep emotional cost borne by a parent when their offspring rejects wisdom and embraces foolishness.
Context
The book of Proverbs is a collection of wisdom literature, offering practical guidance for living a righteous and fulfilling life. A central theme is the sharp contrast between the wise and the fool, and the respective consequences of their choices. This verse fits squarely within this theme, emphasizing the relational impact of such choices, particularly within the family unit. Many proverbs speak to the joy a wise child brings versus the sorrow a foolish one causes.
Key Themes
Linguistic Insights
The Hebrew word for "sorrow" here is tuwgah, which denotes grief, affliction, or heavy sorrow. It conveys a deep, abiding pain. The absence of "joy" (Hebrew: simchah) emphasizes a profound emptiness where delight and happiness should reside. This highlights the emotional depth of the parental burden.
Practical Application
This proverb serves as a powerful reminder for both parents and children: