Proverbs 23:3

Be not desirous of his dainties: for they [are] deceitful meat.

Be not desirous {H183} of his dainties {H4303}: for they are deceitful {H3577} meat {H3899}.

Don't be greedy for his delicacies, for they are deceptive food.

Do not crave his delicacies, for that food is deceptive.

Be not desirous of his dainties; Seeing they are deceitful food.

Commentary

Context of Proverbs 23:3

Proverbs 23 is a collection of wise sayings, often presented as instructions from a father to a son, designed to impart practical wisdom for living a godly and prudent life. Verses 1-3 specifically address the perils of dining with a ruler or influential person. The immediate preceding verse, Proverbs 23:2, warns against giving oneself to appetite in such a setting. Proverbs 23:3 continues this warning by highlighting the deceptive nature of the food itself, suggesting that what appears desirable may carry hidden dangers or obligations.

Key Themes and Messages

  • Discernment Over Desire: The verse cautions against being easily swayed by outward appearance or immediate gratification. "Be not desirous of his dainties" emphasizes the need for self-control and spiritual discernment, especially when faced with tempting offers or luxurious provisions.
  • Hidden Dangers and Deception: The core message is that lavish temptations ("dainties") can be a trap. The phrase "deceitful meat" implies that the seemingly appealing food is not what it seems; it might come with strings attached, compromise, or ulterior motives from the host. This speaks to the broader biblical theme of discerning good from evil, as seen in passages like Hebrews 5:14.
  • Warning Against Manipulation: This proverb can be interpreted as a caution against being manipulated or indebted by those in power who offer favors or gifts. Accepting their "dainties" could imply an obligation or compromise one's integrity.

Linguistic Insights

The KJV phrase "dainties" comes from the Hebrew word maṭʿammîm (מַטְעַמִּים), which refers to delicacies, choice foods, or tasty dishes. It conveys the idea of something highly palatable and desirable.

More significant is "deceitful meat." The Hebrew behind this is leḥem kəzābîm (לֶחֶם כְּזָבִים), which literally translates to "bread of lies" or "food of falsehoods." This powerful metaphor suggests that the food itself is a lie; it promises satisfaction, pleasure, or benefit but ultimately delivers harm, disappointment, or entanglement. It's not just bad food, but food that actively misleads and ensnares the one who partakes of it.

Practical Application

While literally about food, Proverbs 23:3 offers timeless wisdom applicable to many areas of life:

  • Beware of "Too Good to Be True" Offers: Just as seemingly delicious food can be a trap, so can opportunities, deals, or relationships that appear overly appealing but come with hidden costs, moral compromises, or manipulative intentions. Wisdom calls us to look beyond the surface.
  • Cultivate Self-Control: The verse underscores the importance of self-discipline, not just in appetite but in all desires. Giving in to every craving, especially for things that glitter, can lead to negative consequences. This aligns with the call for temperance found throughout Scripture, such as in Galatians 5:23 regarding the fruit of the Spirit.
  • Discern Motives: When someone offers something seemingly generous, especially if they are in a position of power, it is wise to consider their motives and potential expectations. Not all gifts are pure; some carry an agenda.
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Cross-References

  • Proverbs 23:6

    ¶ Eat thou not the bread of [him that hath] an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:

  • Psalms 141:4

    Incline not my heart to [any] evil thing, to practise wicked works with men that work iniquity: and let me not eat of their dainties.

  • Daniel 1:8

    ¶ But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself.

  • Luke 21:34

    And take heed to yourselves, lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, and drunkenness, and cares of this life, and [so] that day come upon you unawares.

  • Ephesians 4:22

    That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;
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