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King James Version
Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.
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KJV (with Strong's)
Trust H539 ye not in a friend H7453, put ye not confidence H982 in a guide H441: keep H8104 the doors H6607 of thy mouth H6310 from her that lieth H7901 in thy bosom H2436.
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Complete Jewish Bible
Don't trust in your neighbor; don't put confidence in a close friend; shut the gates of your mouth even from [your wife], lying there with you in bed.
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Berean Standard Bible
Do not rely on a friend; do not trust in a companion. Seal the doors of your mouth from her who lies in your arms.
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American Standard Version
Trust ye not in a neighbor; put ye not confidence in a friend; keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.
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World English Bible Messianic
Don’t trust in a neighbor. Don’t put confidence in a friend. With the woman lying in your embrace, be careful of the words of your mouth!
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Geneva Bible (1599)
Trust ye not in a friend, neither put ye confidence in a counseller: keepe the doores of thy mouth from her that lyeth in thy bosome.
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Young's Literal Translation
Believe not in a friend, trust not in a leader, From her who is lying in thy bosom keep the openings of thy mouth.
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SUMMARY

Micah 7:5 encapsulates the prophet's profound lament over the utter collapse of trust and moral integrity within Israelite society during his era. It paints a chilling picture of pervasive treachery, warning against placing confidence in even the closest relationships—friends, guides, and even one's most intimate companion—due to the widespread corruption and deceit that had eroded the very fabric of communal and familial bonds. This verse serves as a stark admonition to exercise extreme caution and discretion in communication, highlighting a societal breakdown so severe that betrayal could come from any quarter.

CONTEXT

  • Literary Context: Micah 7:5 is situated within the prophet Micah's deeply personal lament (Micah 7:1-7), which immediately follows a series of pronouncements of judgment against Judah and Israel (Micah 6:1-16). The preceding verses in chapter 7 (Micah 7:1-4) describe a society utterly devoid of righteousness, where "the good man is perished out of the earth" and "every man hunts his brother with a net" (Micah 7:2). Leaders, judges, and princes are all implicated in corruption, practicing evil with "both hands earnestly" (Micah 7:3). The prophet describes the best among them as "a brier" and the most upright as "sharper than a thorn hedge" (Micah 7:4), indicating that even those who should be sources of stability and justice have become sources of harm. Micah 7:5-6 then extends this lament to the most intimate relationships, showing that the societal decay has infiltrated even the family unit, leading to betrayal between parents and children, and daughters-in-law against mothers-in-law (Micah 7:6). This immediate context underscores the profound despair and isolation felt by the righteous remnant, as trust has completely vanished.

  • Historical & Cultural Context: Micah prophesied primarily to Judah during the reigns of Jotham, Ahaz, and Hezekiah (roughly 750-700 BC). This was a period marked by significant political instability, social injustice, and religious apostasy. The northern kingdom of Israel was on the brink of collapse, eventually falling to Assyria in 722 BC, and Judah itself faced constant threats from Assyria. Internally, the rich oppressed the poor, justice was perverted, and idolatry was rampant. Culturally, trust was a foundational element of ancient Near Eastern society, particularly within tribal and familial structures. Betrayal of a friend, guide, or especially a spouse, was considered a profound violation of covenantal and social norms. The warnings in Micah 7:5 reflect a society where these traditional bonds had been so thoroughly corrupted by self-interest, greed, and a disregard for God's law that even the most sacred relationships could no longer be relied upon. The prophet's words are a direct indictment of the moral decay that had permeated every level of society, from public leadership to private households.

  • Key Themes: Micah 7:5 contributes significantly to several overarching themes within the book of Micah and the broader prophetic literature. Foremost among these is the theme of pervasive sin and societal corruption. The verse vividly illustrates how deeply sin has penetrated, leading to a complete breakdown of human relationships and trust. This directly contrasts with God's covenant faithfulness, setting the stage for Micah's ultimate declaration of hope in God's steadfast love and mercy (Micah 7:18-20). Another key theme is the erosion of trust, highlighting the devastating consequences when loyalty and integrity vanish, forcing individuals to guard their words even from their closest companions. This emphasizes the profound spiritual sickness that afflicted the nation. Finally, the verse underscores the prophetic lament, as Micah articulates the deep sorrow and despair of a righteous individual witnessing such widespread moral decay. His lament serves not only as an expression of grief but also as a powerful call for repentance, implicitly pointing to the necessity of placing ultimate reliance on God alone when human institutions and relationships prove utterly unreliable.

EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS

Key Word Analysis

  • Trust (Hebrew, ʼâman', H539): This primitive root means "to build up or support," "to foster," and figuratively, "to render (or be) firm or faithful," "to trust or believe," "to be permanent or quiet." In the negative command "Trust ye not," it conveys the dire warning against relying on human stability or faithfulness, as these qualities have become utterly absent in the society Micah describes. The verb implies a deep, foundational reliance, which is precisely what has been shattered.
  • Guide (Hebrew, ʼallûwph', H441): Derived from a root meaning "familiar," this word denotes a "friend," a "chieftain," or a "leader." It can also refer to a "bullock" (as being tame), implying someone familiar and reliable. The warning against trusting a "guide" is particularly potent, as a guide is someone expected to provide direction, counsel, and protection. The corruption of such a figure signifies the complete subversion of natural order and expectation.
  • Bosom (Hebrew, chêyq', H2436): This term refers to the "bosom" (literally or figuratively), "lap," or "midst." It signifies the most intimate and private space, often associated with one's spouse or closest confidant. The phrase "her that lieth in thy bosom" unequivocally points to one's wife, emphasizing the shocking depth of betrayal when even the most sacred and private relationship is compromised. It highlights the ultimate breakdown of trust within the most fundamental unit of society.

Verse Breakdown

  • "Trust ye not in a friend": This opening clause immediately sets the tone of extreme caution. The Hebrew verb for "trust" (אָמַן, ʼâman) implies a deep, settled confidence or reliance. The command is a stark prohibition against placing such fundamental trust in a "friend" (רֵעַ, rêaʻ), which refers to a close companion, neighbor, or associate. In a society where even casual acquaintances or long-standing companions could betray, the prophet warns against any form of unguarded reliance.
  • "put ye not confidence in a guide": This second clause reinforces and intensifies the first. "Put confidence" (בָּטַח, bâṭach) is synonymous with "trust" and implies a sense of security and reliance. A "guide" (אַלּוּף, ʼallûwph) is someone who leads, advises, or is a familiar, trusted chief or leader. The warning extends to those in positions of authority or those expected to provide wise counsel and direction. The implication is that even those who should be pillars of reliability have become sources of potential treachery.
  • "keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom": This final, most chilling clause highlights the ultimate extent of the societal breakdown. "Keep" (שָׁמַר, shâmar) means to guard, observe, or preserve, suggesting a deliberate and vigilant act. "The doors of thy mouth" is a vivid metaphor for guarding one's speech, secrets, and vulnerabilities. The phrase "her that lieth in thy bosom" (שָׁכַב בְּחֵיק, shâkab bᵉchêyq) is an intimate idiom, referring unequivocally to one's wife or closest confidante. The command to guard one's words even from one's spouse underscores the profound level of mistrust and betrayal that had permeated the most sacred and private relationships, indicating a society where no one could be fully trusted, even in the most intimate of settings.

Literary Devices

Micah 7:5 employs several powerful literary devices to convey its stark message. Hyperbole is evident in the absolute nature of the warnings ("Trust ye not," "put ye not confidence"), emphasizing the extreme and pervasive nature of the treachery. While not suggesting that every single person was a betrayer, it highlights the tendency and danger of the era. The phrase "keep the doors of thy mouth" is a striking example of Metonymy or Synecdoche, where "doors" and "mouth" stand for the act of speaking and the words themselves, urging discretion. This also functions as vivid Imagery, creating a mental picture of a fortress-like mouth that must be sealed against potential leaks. The entire verse is steeped in Lament, a common prophetic genre expressing deep sorrow and despair over the moral decay of the people, contrasting the ideal covenant community with the grim reality. The progression from external relationships ("friend," "guide") to the most intimate ("bosom") builds a sense of escalating vulnerability and betrayal, culminating in a deeply unsettling portrait of a society where trust has utterly collapsed.

THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS

Micah 7:5 serves as a profound theological statement on the devastating consequences of sin on human relationships and the fabric of society. It underscores the biblical truth that when humanity turns away from God, the natural order of trust, loyalty, and justice collapses. This verse implicitly highlights the stark contrast between the unreliability of fallen humanity and the unwavering faithfulness of God. While human relationships, even the most intimate, can be corrupted by sin and lead to betrayal, God remains eternally trustworthy and steadfast. The prophet's lament over the absence of human trustworthiness ultimately points to the necessity of placing ultimate reliance and hope in the divine, for only God's character is truly immutable and reliable in a world of pervasive deceit. This reliance on God is not merely a fallback but the foundational truth upon which all genuine trust must ultimately rest.

  • Psalm 118:8-9 – "It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man. It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in princes."
  • Jeremiah 17:5-8 – "Thus saith the LORD; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the LORD... Blessed is the man that trusteth in the LORD, and whose hope the LORD is."
  • Proverbs 25:9-10 – "Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another: Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away."

REFLECTION AND APPLICATION

Micah 7:5, while rooted in a specific historical context of profound societal decay, offers timeless wisdom for navigating a fallen world and discerning relationships. It serves as a sober reminder that human trust, while essential for communal flourishing, is inherently fragile and can be easily broken. This verse does not advocate for cynicism or isolation, but rather for a profound wisdom and discernment in whom we confide and how we communicate. It calls us to exercise prudence, guarding our words and vulnerabilities, especially in environments where integrity is compromised or where self-interest reigns supreme. Ultimately, this passage redirects our deepest trust from fallible human beings to the unfailing character of God. In a world where betrayal can still wound deeply, it encourages us to cultivate a steadfast reliance on the Lord, who alone is perfectly faithful and trustworthy, and to seek His wisdom in all our interactions. It challenges us to be people of integrity ourselves, striving to be trustworthy friends, guides, and family members in a world that desperately needs examples of faithfulness.

Questions for Reflection

  • How does the pervasive breakdown of trust described in Micah 7:5 resonate with or challenge your perceptions of trust in contemporary society?
  • In what areas of your life might you be placing too much confidence in human institutions or individuals, rather than in God?
  • What practical steps can you take to exercise greater discernment and "keep the doors of your mouth" in situations where trust is fragile?
  • How can you, as a believer, embody trustworthiness and faithfulness in your relationships, thereby reflecting God's character in a world marked by betrayal?

FAQ

Does Micah 7:5 mean we should never trust anyone, even our family?

Answer: Micah 7:5 is a hyperbolic lament reflecting an extreme state of societal and moral decay, not a universal command to live in perpetual suspicion. The prophet is describing a period where corruption was so pervasive that even the most sacred bonds were compromised. It highlights the danger of misplaced trust in a deeply fallen world, particularly when human integrity has eroded. The verse serves as a warning to exercise extreme caution and discernment, especially regarding sensitive information, and to recognize the inherent fallibility of all human beings. It does not advocate for cynicism or isolation, but rather for wisdom and for placing ultimate, unwavering trust in God alone, who is perfectly faithful. In a healthy society, trust is vital, but Micah's warning reminds us that human trust is always conditional and should be tempered with discernment.

How can I apply "keep the doors of thy mouth" in my daily life?

Answer: "Keeping the doors of thy mouth" means exercising discretion and wisdom in your speech, particularly concerning personal vulnerabilities, secrets, or sensitive information. In today's context, this can apply to various situations:

  1. Confidentiality: Being careful about what you share, especially in professional or relational contexts where information could be misused.
  2. Gossip and Slander: Refraining from speaking ill of others or participating in conversations that damage reputations.
  3. Vulnerability: Thoughtfully choosing who to confide in with your deepest struggles or secrets, recognizing that not everyone has your best interests at heart. As Proverbs 11:13 states, "A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter."
  4. Social Media: Being mindful of what you post online, as digital words can have far-reaching and unintended consequences.
    It's about speaking truth in love, but also knowing when silence or discretion is the wisest course of action, especially when navigating complex or potentially treacherous relational dynamics.

CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT

Micah 7:5, with its stark portrayal of human treachery and the complete breakdown of trust, finds its ultimate fulfillment and resolution in the person and work of Jesus Christ. The prophet's lament over a world where "friend" and "bosom" companions betray foreshadows the ultimate betrayal that Jesus Himself would experience at the hands of Judas Iscariot, one of His closest disciples, who shared intimate meals and ministry with Him (Matthew 26:47-50). This profound act of betrayal underscores the very human brokenness that Micah decries. However, unlike the unreliable friends and guides of Micah's day, Jesus stands as the perfectly faithful and trustworthy "guide" and "friend" (John 15:13-15). He is the one in whom all confidence can be placed, for He is "the way, the truth, and the life" (John 14:6). In Christ, the broken trust between humanity and God is restored through His atoning sacrifice, establishing a new covenant founded on His unwavering faithfulness, not on the fickle loyalty of fallen humanity (Hebrews 8:6). The Christian's ultimate security and hope are found not in human relationships, however precious, but in the steadfast love and unchanging character of Jesus, who will never betray those who put their trust in Him (2 Timothy 2:13).

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Commentary on Micah 7 verses 1–6

This is such a description of bad times as, some think, could scarcely agree to the times of Hezekiah, when this prophet prophesied; and therefore they rather take it as a prediction of what should be in the reign of Manasseh. But we may rather suppose it to be in the reign of Ahaz (and in that reign he prophesied, ch. 1:1) or in the beginning of Hezekiah's time, before the reformation he was instrumental in; nay, in the best of his days, and when he had done his best to purge out corruptions, still there was much amiss. The prophet cries out, Woe is me! He bemoans himself that his lot was cast in such a degenerate age, and thinks it his great unhappiness that he lived among a people that were ripening apace for a ruin which many a good man would unavoidably be involved in. Thus David cries out, Woe is me that I sojourn in Mesech! He laments, 1. That there were so few good people to be found, even among those that were God's people; and this was their reproach: The good man has perished out of the earth, or out of the land, the land of Canaan; it was a good land, and a land of uprightness (Isa 26:10), but there were few good men in it, none upright among them, Mic 7:2. The good man is a godly man and a merciful man; the word signifies both. Those are completely good men that are devout towards God and compassionate and beneficent towards men, that love mercy and walk with God. "These have perished; those few honest men that some time ago enriched and adorned our country are now dead and gone, and there are none risen up in their stead that tread in their steps; honesty is banished, and there is no such thing as a good man to be met with. Those that were of religious education have degenerated, and become as bad as the worst; the godly man ceases," Psa 12:1. This is illustrated by a comparison (Mic 7:1): they were as when they have gathered the summer fruits; it was as hard a thing to find a good man as to find any of the summer-fruits (which were the choicest and best, and therefore must carefully be gathered in) when the harvest is over. The prophet is ready to say, as Elijah in his time (Kg1 19:10), I, even I only, am left. Good men, who used to hang in clusters, are now as the grape-gleanings of the vintage, here and there a berry, Isa 17:6. You can find no societies of them as bunches of grapes, but those that are are single persons: There is no cluster to eat; and the best and fullest grapes are those that grow in large clusters. Some think that this intimates not only that good people were few, but that those few who remained, who went for good people, were good for little, like the small withered grapes, the refuse that were left behind, not only by the gatherer, but by the gleaner. When the prophet observed this universal degeneracy it made him desire the first-ripe fruit; he wished to see such worthy good men as were in the former ages, were the ornaments of the primitive times, and as far excelled the best of all the present age as the first and full-ripe fruits do those of the latter growth, that never come to maturity. When we read and hear of the wisdom and zeal, the strictness and conscientiousness, the devotion and charity, of the professors of religion in former ages, and see the reverse of this in those of the present age, we cannot but sit down, and wish, with a sigh, O for primitive Christianity again! Where are the plainness and integrity of those that went before us? Where are the Israelites indeed, without guile? Our souls desire them, but in vain. The golden age is gone, and past recall; we must make the best of what is, for we are not likely to see such times as have been. 2. That there were so many wicked mischievous people among them, not only none that did any good, but multitudes that did all the hurt they could: "They all lie in wait for blood, and hunt every man his brother. To get wealth to themselves, they care not what wrong, what hurt, they do to their neighbours and nearest relations. They act as if mankind were in a state of war, and force were the only right. They are as beasts of prey to their neighbours, for they all lie in wait for blood as lions for their prey; they thirst after it, make nothing of taking away any man's life or livelihood to serve a turn for themselves, and lie in wait for an opportunity to do it. Their neighbours are as beasts of prey to them, for they hunt every man his brother with a net; they persecute them as noxious creatures, fit to be taken and destroyed, though they are innocent excellent ones." We say of him that is outlawed, Caput gerit lupinum - He is to be hunted as a wolf. "Or they hunt them as men do the game, to feast upon it; they have a thousand cursed arts of ensnaring men to their ruin, so that they may but get by it. Thus they do mischief with both hands earnestly; their hearts desire it, their heads contrive it, and then both hands are ready to put it in execution." Note, The more eager and intent men are upon any sinful pursuit, and the more pains they take in it, the more provoking it is. 3. That the magistrates, who by their office ought to have been the patrons and protectors of right, were the practicers and promoters of wrong: That they may do evil with both hands earnestly, to excite and animate themselves in it, the prince asketh, and the judge asketh, for a reward, for a bribe, with which they well be hired to exert all their power for the supporting and carrying on of any wicked design with both hands. They do evil with both hands well (so some read it); they do evil with a great deal of art and dexterity; they praise themselves for doing it so well. Others read it thus: To do evil they have both hands (they catch at an opportunity of doing mischief), but to do good the prince and the judge ask for a reward; if they do any good offices they are mercenary in them, and must be paid for them. The great man, who has wealth and power to do good, is not ashamed to utter his mischievous desire in conjunction with the prince and the judge, who are ready to support him and stand by him in it. So they wrap it up; they perplex the matter, involve it, and make it intricate (so some understand it), that they may lose equity in a mist, and so make the cause turn which way they please. It is ill with a people when their princes, and judges, and great men are in a confederacy to pervert justice. And it is a sad character that is given of them (Mic 7:4), that the best of them is as a brier, and the most upright is sharper than a thorn-hedge; it is a dangerous thing to have any thing to do with them; he that touches them must be fenced with iron (Sa2 23:6, Sa2 23:7), he shall be sure to be scratched, to have his clothes torn, and his eyes almost pulled out. And, if this be the character of the best and most upright, what are the worst? And, when things have come to this pass, the day of thy watchmen comes, that is, as it follows, the day of thy visitation, when God will reckon with thee for all this wickedness, which is called the day of the watchmen, because their prophets, whom God set as watchmen over them, had often warned them of that day. When all flesh have corrupted their way, even the best and the most upright, what can be expected but a day of visitation, a deluge of judgments, as that which drowned the old world when the earth was filled with violence? 4. That there was no faith in man; people had grown so universally treacherous that one knew not whom to repose any confidence in, Mic 7:5. "Those that have any sense of honour, or spark of virtue, remaining in them, have a firm regard to the laws of friendship; they would not discover what passed in private conversation, nor divulge secrets, to the prejudice of a friend. But those things are now made a jest of; you will not meet with a friend that you dare trust, whose word you dare take, or who will have any tenderness or concern for you; so that wise men shall give it and take it for a rule, trust you not in a friend, for you will find him false, you can trust him no further than you can see him; and even him that passes for an honest man you will find to be so only with good looking to. Nay, as for him that undertakes to be your guide, to lead you into any business which he professes to understand better than you, you cannot put a confidence in him, for he will be sure to mislead you if he can get any thing by it." Some by a guide understand a husband, who is called the guide of thy youth; and that agrees well enough with what follows, "Keep the doors of thy lips from her that lieth in thy bosom, from thy own wife; take heed what thou sayest before her, lest she betray thee, as Delilah did Samson, lest she be the bird of the air that carries the voice of that which thou sayest in thy bed-chamber," Ecc 10:20. It is an evil time indeed when the prudent are obliged even thus far to keep silence. 5. That children were abusive to their parents, and men had no comfort, no satisfaction, in their own families and their nearest relations, Mic 7:6. The times are bad indeed when the son dishonours his father, gives him bad language, exposes him, threatens him, and studies to do him a mischief, when the daughter rises up in rebellion against her own mother, having no sense of duty, or natural affection; and no marvel that then the daughter-in-law quarrels with her mother-in-law, and is vexatious to her. Either they cannot agree about their property and interest, or their humours and passions clash, or from a spirit of bigotry and persecution, the brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child, Mat 10:4; Luk 21:16. It is sad when a man's betrayers and worst enemies are the men of his own house, his own children and servants, that should be his guard and his best friends. Note, The contempt and violation of the laws of domestic duties are a sad symptom of a universal corruption of manners. Those are never likely to come to good that are undutiful to their parents, and study to be provoking to them and cross them.

Matthew Henry (1662–1714) — Commentary on the Whole Bible. This section covers verses 1–6. Public domain.
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Commentary on Micah
(Verse 5-7) Your day of reckoning has come, your visitation is here. Now there will be destruction: do not trust your friend, and do not rely on your leader. Guard the doors of your mouth against the one who lies in your bosom; for a son insults his father, and a daughter rises up against her mother; a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law, and enemies are those of a man's own household. But as for me, I will look to the Lord; I will wait for God, my savior; my God will hear me. LXX: Woe, woe, your vengeance has come, now there will be weeping for them: do not trust in friends, nor hope in leaders. Beware of those who lie with you, do not trust them, for a son brings shame to his father, and a daughter rises against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law: a man's enemies are the members of his own household. But I will look to the Lord, I will wait for God my savior: my God will hear me. Except for the beginning of the chapter, both editions agree in the rest of the parts, and in the meantime, according to the historical context, it indicates the day of the siege of Samaria or Jerusalem, which had been eagerly awaited and feared, and its visitation, meaning captivity, saying: Your devastation has come: now there will be devastation for them, that is, for the inhabitants, or siege: Mabucha () indeed signifies more πολιορκίαν and φρούρησιν, that is, siege and custody, than devastation in Hebrew. Therefore, do not believe the words of prophets, nor lend your ear to the deceitful flattery of the divine; because if trust is rare among dear names and blood relations, how much more so in those who flatter you, lying for their own gain, and who command not what is useful for the sick, but what is delightful and pleasing! Do not trust a friend; for Achitophel rose up against David (2 Samuel 15), and true Achitophel Judas rose up against Christ (Matthew 26). And, do not trust in a leader, like the men of Shechem trusted in Abimelech (Judith 9). They made him king, and they were oppressed by him. Guard the gates of your mouth from the one who sleeps in your bosom (Ibid., 16): do not allow what Samson endured from Delilah (2 Kings 16). For a son brings shame to his father; notably Absalom to David: he defiled not only the kingdom, but also his father's concubines with incestuous relations. A daughter rises against her mother: although we may not find direct evidence in the Holy Scriptures, there are so many examples in everyday life that we should mourn their magnitude rather than seek them out. Nurus contra socrum suam: ut uxor Esau consurrexit contra Rebeccam (Gen. XXVI). Inimici hominis, viri domestici ejus. Hic exempla non quaero, cum plura sint, quam ut testimoniis indigeamus. Cum ergo haec ita se habeant, nolite credere, Samaria (( Al. Samariae)) et Jerusalem, pseudoprophetis. Ego autem, inquit propheta, ad Dominum aspiciam, exsultabo in Deum Salvatorem meum, sive Jesum meum, et audiet me Deus meus. The Seventy interpreters follow, who say, Woe, woe, thy revenges are come, that is, the punishments which are to be inflicted for sins. For the Lord saith, Vengeance is mine, and I will repay, saith the Lord (Rom. XII, 19; Deut. XXXII, 35). And in another place: The days of thy retribution are come (Hosea IX, 7). For the Lord doth avenge the clamours of them that cry unto him day and night, saying: How long, O holy and true Lord, dost thou not judge and avenge our blood on them that dwell on the earth (Rev. VI, 10)? So the avengers have come, and now there will be their lamentation, that is, of the avengers, so that those who laughed before may mourn, and immediately departing from the world, they may endure the torments, which that once richly robed and abundant in delights man endures in Hell, where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth (Luke 16; Matthew 8, 13). But what follows, 'now there will be'; understand either at the end of each person's life, or at the consummation of all things, and on the day of judgment, when the avengers will come upon all people. Therefore, do not trust friends, because every friend deceives through deception, and one who is a friend because of something is not as much a friend to the one they pretend to love (for he is called a friend by love) as to the thing that they cherish. When asked what a friend was, someone responded: Another self. But if the example of the Pythagoreans is opposed to us, who pledged themselves as sureties to a tyrant, we say that this is not a general statement against all friends and affections of love, but was uttered by God not against all time, but specifically concerning that which the Apostle says: In the last days perilous times will come: for men will be lovers of themselves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, truce-breakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God (2 Timothy 3:1-2), and so on. For then a brother will betray a brother, and a father his son, and children will rise against their parents and have them put to death (Matthew X, 35, 36). But even now faith is rare: what is said on the lips is different from what is in the heart: the poison of the soul is hidden by the honey of the tongue. Many are friends of the wealthy, but they depart from the poor as well those who appear to be their friends. Hence it is said: If you have a friend, possess him in times of temptation (Ecclesiasticus VI, 7). I read in a certain Controversy: A friend is sought for a long time, found with difficulty, and difficult to keep. Theophrastus wrote three volumes about friendship, extolling it above all other virtues, yet also declaring that it is rare among human affairs. There is also Cicero's book On Friendship, which he dedicated to Laelius: in which he states what is often said among our people: Let our friend be like old wine, and let us drink it with pleasure, the word themselves almost the same. Friendship either accepts or creates equals: where there is inequality and one person is superior and the other subservient, there is not so much friendship as flattery. And elsewhere we read: Let the same soul be a friend. And the lyric poet praying for a friend says: Preserve, he says, the half of my soul. Therefore, do not believe in friends, that is, in those men who seek profit in friendships. If you want to delight in true friendship, be a friend of God, like Moses who spoke to God as a friend to a friend. Be a friend, like the Apostles, to whom the Savior said: I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know what his master desires; but I call you friends, because you have persevered with me in all my temptations. Friendship is delicate, which follows the successes and wealth of friends. Such people do not seem to me to be friends, but to love themselves. Let us consider more carefully the words of the Lord: But I call you friends, he says. And he gives the reasons why he calls them friends: Because you have persevered with me in temptation, and have not given up until now: but in all, he says, my temptations. Indeed, it sometimes happens that one who has persevered with us in one temptation is defeated by others and departs. Secondly, it is commanded: Do not hope in leaders, for cursed is the man who has hope in man (Jeremiah 17:5). In man there is vain hope, and true hope is in God. Therefore, Paul speaks: And from among yourselves, men will rise up speaking perverse things (Acts 20:30). And the Lord Himself through the prophet: The leaders of my people do not know me, the foolish sons are senseless and do not understand: they are wise to do evil, but they do not know how to do good (Jeremiah 4:22). Indeed, they were called leaders, he says, both my leaders and the leaders of my people. But because they did not know me and destroyed the meaning of the word by their actions, therefore the children are foolish and unintelligent: they have wisdom only to subjugate a simple flock to themselves and trample them under their feet; however, they do not know how to do good and govern the people. Do not believe in leaders (or judges), not in bishops, not in priests, not in deacons, not in any dignity of men. Nor do I mean that you should not be subject to such authorities in the Church: For whoever curses his father or mother shall be put to death (Lev. XX, 9). And the Apostle teaches that we should obey the authorities in the Church; but it is one thing to honor leaders, another to place hope in leaders (I Pet. II). Let us honor the bishop, let us defer to the priest, let us rise for the deacon; and yet let us not place our hope in them: for the hope of man is in vain, and our certain hope is in the Lord (I Thess. IV). Third commandment: Guard against believing a woman who shares your bed. Hence the Apostle calls women vessels of weakness and orders that honor be shown to them by their husbands. For man was not created for woman, but woman for man (Ephesians 5). And he says, 'Wife, fear your husband' (1 Corinthians 11). To fear one's wife is to love one's husband with reverence. Men only to love; for love is the perfection of the saints. He says, 'Men, love your wives and do not be loved by them' (Ephesians 5:25); even though they may provoke anger and do things for which they deserve to endure bitterness. For this indeed signifies to be embittered: but you should not render them in return with bitterness. But also Solomon in Ecclesiastes: And he said, I have found one man among a thousand, but I have not found a woman among all these. Perhaps, having learned from his own example, he does not trust women, through whom he had offended God. But also the sublime Poet (not another Homer, as Lucillus suspects about Ennius; but the first Homer among the Romans):

.. . . . . . . Varium et mutabile semper Femina. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Plenae sunt historiae Graecae et Latinae, quanti viri ab uxoribus suis decepti sint eorumque vita sit prodita. De Scripturis autem et Dalilae, cujus supra fecimus mentionem, et alterius ante Dalilam testantur exempla, quae arcanum Samson septem dierum expressit lacrymis, et amore simulato, quod latebat, invenit. Unde Samson postea loquitur: Nisi domuissetis vitulam meam, non invenissetis propositionem meam (Jud. XIII, 19) . So far, it is commanded that we not trust easily in friends, leaders, and wives. And the reason given is not sufficient in response to the proposition; for it is said: Because a son dishonors his father, a daughter rises against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law, and the enemies of a man are those of his own household. For what does it pertain to a friend, a leader, a wife, if a son and daughter and daughter-in-law rise against their father, mother, and mother-in-law? Therefore, it seems to me that it can be connected in this way with the previous statements: Do not trust in friends, leaders, and wives, who can be changed and can be for a time: since even a son and daughter, forgetting their upbringing and infancy, rise against the authors of their lives and bodies, and it is a crime to harm them, whom it is also a crime to injure with one's face. But this explanation does not at all apply to the daughter-in-law rising up against her mother-in-law, and to a man, to whom his domestic enemies are hostile. Terence in Hecyra:

What is this? All mothers-in-law hate their daughters-in-law: which, although it may be ambiguous, is nevertheless almost natural: that daughters-in-law hate their mothers-in-law, and mothers-in-law hate their daughters-in-law. This prophetic discourse describes the consummation and end of the world, and what kind of generation will precede the coming of the Antichrist. Now we must discuss according to the previous interpretation, in which we spoke about heretics: Listen, O three, and who adorned the city? Was it not the fire and the house of the wicked? And again, concerning the Church: Woe to me, for I have become like one who gathers straw in the harvest. And again: Woe to me, my soul: reverence ((Al. returning)) from the earth has perished; and among men there is no one who corrects. And furthermore: The prince demands, and the judge has spoken peaceful words, the desire of his soul. Hence, a double curse follows: Woe, woe, your vengeance has come: now there will be lamentation, and let us speak the scripture concerning heretics: Do not trust in friends, O simple people, and in wicked leaders who promise to be friends and leaders of heresy: for they seek not your salvation, but their own gain, and they trample the flock deceived by them underfoot: and be cautious not to believe anything of her who sleeps with you, whom I can only understand to be flesh, so that we may not easily believe the flattery of the flesh, lest the hardness of the soul and the manly steadfastness be softened by her allurements. For the son who is born of God, neglecting his Creator, blasphemes him by whom he was created, as the Scripture says: 'Did not one God create you? Did not one father create all of you?' (Malachi 2:10). And he despises the heavenly soul of Jerusalem, and he scorns the Church as a mother, and whoever scorns her will die by death. And the daughter-in-law rises against her mother-in-law, which seems difficult to understand figuratively; but whoever reads the Song of Songs and understands the bridegroom of the soul, the word of God, and believes in the Gospel, which we have recently translated according to the Hebrews (wherein, in the person of the Savior, it is said: 'My mother recently brought me forth, the Holy Spirit in one of my hairs') (Matthew 10). He will not hesitate to say that the word of God has its origin in the spirit and that the soul, which is the bride of the word, has the Holy Spirit as its mother-in-law, who is called Rua in the feminine gender by the Hebrews. Therefore, heretics, having previously believed in the Scriptures, which were written and published by the Holy Spirit, transfer themselves to new doctrines and the leaven of the Pharisees and the commandments of men. And while they despise the word of God, they do harm to their mother-in-law. And so that you do not doubt, consider the words of Gabriel to Mary: 'The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God' (Luke 1:35). After this, it follows: 'The enemies of man will be those of his own household.' According to our interpretation, it seems that every man's head is Christ, and Christ is the head of the Church (1 Corinthians 11:3): these are often his enemies, those who are thought to be in his house, that is, in the Church, and do not depart from the head, but go against their own head. They arrogantly promise knowledge of the Scriptures by their own judgement, without a teacher and the grace of the Lord, and they are ignorant and quarrel about questions, contentions, and battles of words. Truly, those who are truly in the house are enemies of the truth. However, we must know that in the Gospel the same words are used as we now read in the Prophet, but according to the context of that place, they have a different meaning. Whether they are taken from the Prophet or accepted by His own authority, it is for us to know, who has spoken both in the Prophets and in the Gospels. But there the Lord says: 'I came to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law, and a man's enemies will be those of his own household." (Matthew 10:35-36) Therefore, let us expound (if indeed we have been able to grasp the meaning of the Scriptures). The holy one understands that charity has grown cold, and that people in the end times will not be lovers of God, but lovers of themselves. They will believe in friends, leaders, wives, sons, daughters, and daughters-in-law, rising up against fathers, mothers, and mothers-in-law. Even the enemies within one's own household. He himself believes in the Lord, and all his contemplation is in his God. And although he may be oppressed by the tribulations and pressures of the world, having no confidence in anyone except the one who says, 'Do not be afraid, I have conquered the world' (John 16:36), he waits for his God and Savior, believing in him and always directing his eyes towards him, hoping to be heard whenever he calls upon him.
John CassianAD 435
CONFERENCE 17:20.10-11
[In spiritual discipline], the disposition of the doer is given more weight than the thing that is done. Even the truth at times is found to have harmed some people and a lie to have helped them. For one time King Saul was complaining in the presence of his retainers about David’s flight, saying, “Will the son of Jesse give all of you fields and vineyards and make all of you tribunes and centurions, since you have all conspired against me, and there is no one to inform me?” What but the truth did Doeg the Edomite tell him when he said, “I saw the son of Jesse in Nob, with Ahimilech the son of Ahitub the priest. He consulted the Lord on his behalf and gave him provisions and he gave him the sword of Goliath the Philistines as well”? For this truth he deserved to be uprooted from the land of the living, and of him it is said by the prophet, “Therefore God shall destroy you forever, pluck you up and remove you from your tent and uproot you from the land of the living.” For indicating the truth, then, he was everlastingly uprooted from the land in which Rahab the harlot was planted, along with her family, because of her lie. In the same way we remember that Samson in most ruinous fashion delivered over to his wicked wife a truth that had long been concealed by a lie. Therefore the truth that he had very heedlessly disclosed to her brought about his own undoing, because he failed to keep that prophetic command: “Keep the doors of your mouth from her who sleeps at your breast.”
Source: Quotations drawn from early Church Fathers and historical Christian theologians (AD 100–1500). Some quotes address the surrounding passage context rather than this verse alone.
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