¶ To him that is afflicted pity [should be shewed] from his friend; but he forsaketh the fear of the Almighty.
To him that is afflicted {H4523} pity {H2617} should be shewed from his friend {H7453}; but he forsaketh {H5800} the fear {H3374} of the Almighty {H7706}.
"A friend should be kind to an unhappy man, even to one who abandons Shaddai.
A despairing man should have the kindness of his friend, even if he forsakes the fear of the Almighty.
To him that is ready to faint kindness should be showed from his friend; Even to him that forsaketh the fear of the Almighty.
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Proverbs 17:17
¶ A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. -
Galatians 6:2
Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ. -
1 Corinthians 12:26
And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer with it; or one member be honoured, all the members rejoice with it. -
Luke 23:40
But the other answering rebuked him, saying, Dost not thou fear God, seeing thou art in the same condemnation? -
Romans 12:15
Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep. -
Job 19:21
Have pity upon me, have pity upon me, O ye my friends; for the hand of God hath touched me. -
Job 4:3
Behold, thou hast instructed many, and thou hast strengthened the weak hands.
Job 6:14 (KJV) delivers a powerful statement from Job, lamenting the lack of compassion he experiences from his friends during his immense suffering. The verse highlights the expected duty of friendship in times of affliction versus the spiritual implication of its absence.
Context
This verse is part of Job's deeply emotional response to the initial speech of Eliphaz the Temanite (Job 4-5). Eliphaz had implied that Job's suffering was a direct consequence of his sin, urging him to repent. Overwhelmed by his physical pain and emotional distress, Job defends himself and, in Job 6, expresses his bitter disappointment in his friends. He expected comfort and support, but instead received condemnation and harsh judgment. Job 6:14 encapsulates his feeling that his friends, by withholding compassion, have effectively abandoned a fundamental aspect of their faith and duty, which is to show mercy to the afflicted.
Key Themes
Linguistic Insights
The Hebrew word often translated "pity" or "kindness" in the first part of the verse implies chesed (חֶסֶד), meaning loyal love, steadfast kindness, or covenant faithfulness. Job expects a compassionate loyalty that is rooted in a deeper, covenantal understanding of relationship. The phrase "fear of the Almighty" (יִרְאַת שַׁדַּי - yir'at Shaddai) emphasizes a reverent awe and obedience to God, often associated with wisdom and moral uprightness in the Old Testament, as seen in Proverbs 1:7.
Practical Application
Job 6:14 serves as a timeless reminder of the importance of empathy and compassion, particularly towards those who are afflicted. It challenges us to examine our own responses to suffering, both in others and in ourselves. True friendship, rooted in a genuine love for God and neighbor, compels us to offer support and understanding rather than judgment or abandonment. When we withhold compassion, we risk betraying not only our fellow human beings but also the very principles of faith and the character of God we claim to uphold. This verse calls believers to embody the mercy and steadfast love that God Himself demonstrates.