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Matthew Henry
From his Commentary on the Whole Bible. Henry comments on passages, not single verses — this entry covers Ephesians 5:3–20. His three-level outline is real structure in the source text, so it is rendered as structure.
These verses contain a caution against all manner of uncleanness, with proper remedies and arguments proposed: some further cautions are added, and other duties recommended. Filthy lusts must be suppressed, in order to the supporting of holy love. Walk in love, and shun fornication and all uncleanness. Fornication is folly committed between unmarried persons. All uncleanness includes all other sorts of filthy lusts, which were too common among the Gentiles. Or covetousness, which being thus connected, and mentioned as a thing which should not be once named, some understand it, in the chaste style of the scripture, of unnatural lust; while others take it in the more common sense, for an immoderate desire of gain or an insatiable love of riches, which is spiritual adultery; for by this the soul, which was espoused to God, goes astray from him, and embraces the bosom of a stranger, and therefore carnal worldlings are called adulterers: You adulterers and adulteresses, know you not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Now these sins must be dreaded and detested in the highest degree: Let it not be once named among you, never in a way of approbation nor without abhorrence, as becometh saints, holy persons, who are separated from the world, and dedicated unto God. The apostle not only cautions against the gross acts of sin, but against what some may be apt to make light of, and think to be excusable. Neither filthiness (Eph 5:4), by which may be understood all wanton and unseemly gestures and behaviour; nor foolish talking, obscene and lewd discourse, or, more generally, such vain discourse as betrays much folly and indiscretion, and is far from edifying the hearers; nor jesting. The Greek word eutrapelia is the same which Aristotle, in his Ethics, makes a virtue: pleasantness of conversation. And there is no doubt an innocent and inoffensive jesting, which we cannot suppose the apostle here forbids. Some understand him of such scurrilous and abusive reflections as tend to expose others and to make them appear ridiculous. This is bad enough: but the context seems to restrain it to such pleasantry of discourse as is filthy and obscene, which he may also design by that corrupt, or putrid and rotten, communication that he speaks of, Eph 4:29. Of these things he says, They are not convenient. Indeed there is more than inconvenience, even a great deal of mischief, in them. They are so far from being profitable that they pollute and poison the hearers. But the meaning is, Those things do not become Christians, and are very unsuitable to their profession and character. Christians are allowed to be cheerful and pleasant; but they must be merry and wise. The apostle adds, But rather giving of thanks: so far let the Christian's way of mirth be from that of obscene and profane wit, that he may delight his mind, and make himself cheerful, by a grateful remembrance of God's goodness and mercy to him, and by blessing and praising him on account of these. Note, 1. We should take all occasions to render thanksgivings and praises to God for his kindness and favours to us. 2. A reflection on the grace and goodness of God to us, with a design to excite our thankfulness to him, is proper to refresh and delight the Christian's mind, and to make him cheerful. Dr. Hammond thinks that eucharistia may signify gracious, pious, religious discourse in general, by way of opposition to what the apostle condemns. Our cheerfulness, instead of breaking out into what is vain and sinful, and a profanation of God's name, should express itself as becomes Christians, and in what may tend to his glory. If men abounded more in good and pious expressions, they would not be so apt to utter ill and unbecoming words; for shall blessing and cursing, lewdness and thanksgivings, proceed out of the same mouth?
I.To fortify us against the sins of uncleanness, etc., the apostle urges several arguments, and prescribes several remedies, in what follows,
1.He urges several arguments, As,
(1.)Consider that these are sins which shut persons out of heaven: For this you know, etc., Eph 5:5. They knew it, being informed of it by the Christian religion. By a covetous man some understand a lewd lascivious libertine, who indulges himself in those vile lusts which were accounted the certain marks of a heathen and an idolater. Others understand it in the common acceptation of the word; and such a man is an idolater because there is spiritual idolatry in the love of this world. As the epicure makes a god of his belly, so the covetous man makes a god of his money, sets those affectations upon it, and places that hope, confidence, and delight, in worldly good, which should be reserved for God only. He serves mammon instead of God. Of these persons it is said that they have no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God; that is, the kingdom of Christ, who is God, or the kingdom which is God's by nature, and Christ's as he is Mediator, the kingdom which Christ has purchased and which God bestows. Heaven is here described as a kingdom (as frequently elsewhere) with respect to its eminency and glory, its fulness and sufficiency, etc. In this kingdom the saints and servants of God have an inheritance; for it is the inheritance of the saints in light. But those who are impenitent, and allow themselves either in the lusts of the flesh or the love of the world, are not Christians indeed, and so belong not to the kingdom of grace, nor shall they ever come to the kingdom of glory. Let us then be excited to be on our guard against those sins which would exclude and shut us out of heaven.
(2.)These sins bring the wrath of God upon those who are guilty of them: "Let no man deceive you with vain words, etc., Eph 5:6. Let none flatter you, as though such things were tolerable and to be allowed of in Christians, or as though they were not very provoking and offensive unto God, or as though you might indulge yourselves in them and yet escape with impunity. These are vain words." Observe, Those who flatter themselves and others with hopes of impunity in sin do but put a cheat upon themselves and others. Thus Satan deceived our first parents with vain words when he said to them, You shall not surely die. They are vain words indeed; for those who trust to them will find themselves wretchedly imposed upon, for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. By children of disobedience may be meant the Gentiles, who disbelieved, and refused to comply with, and to submit themselves to, the gospel: or, more generally, all obstinate sinners, who will not be reclaimed, but are given over to disobedience. Disobedience is the very malignity of sin. And it is by a usual Hebraism that such sinners are called children of disobedience; and such indeed they are from their childhood, going astray as soon as they are born. The wrath of God comes upon such because of their sins; sometimes in this world, but more especially in the next. And dare we make light of that which will lay us under the wrath of God? O no. Be not you therefore partakers with them, Eph 5:7. "Do not partake with them in their sins, that you may not share in their punishment." We partake with other men in their sins, not only when we live in the same sinful manner that they do, and consent and comply with their temptations and solicitations to sin, but when we encourage them in their sins, prompt them to sin, and do not prevent and hinder them, as far as it may be in our power to do so.
(3.)Consider what obligations Christians are under to live at another rate than such sinners do: For you were sometimes darkness, but now, etc., Eph 5:8. The meaning is, "Such courses are very unsuitable to your present condition; for, whereas in your Gentile and your unregenerate state you were darkness, you have now undergone a great change." The apostle calls their former condition darkness in the abstract, to express the great darkness they were in. They lived wicked and profane lives, being destitute of the light of instruction without and of the illumination and grace of the blessed Spirit within. Note, A state of sin is a state of darkness. Sinners, like men in the dark, are going they know not whither, and doing they know not what. But the grace of God had produced a mighty change in their souls: Now are you light in the Lord, savingly enlightened by the word and the Spirit of God. Now, upon your believing in Christ, and your receiving the gospel. Walk as children of light. Children of light, according to the Hebrew dialect, are those who are in a state of light, endued with knowledge and holiness. "Now, being such, let your conversation be suitable to your condition and privileges, and accordingly live up to the obligation you are under by that knowledge and those advantages you enjoy - Proving what is acceptable unto the Lord (Eph 5:10), examining and searching diligently what God has revealed to be his will, and making it appear that you approve it by conforming yourselves to it." Observe, We must not only dread and avoid that which is displeasing to God, but enquire and consider what will be acceptable to him, searching the scriptures with this view, thus keeping at the greatest distance from these sins.
2.The apostle prescribes some remedies against them. As,
(1.)If we would not be entangled by the lusts of the flesh, we must bring forth the fruits of the Spirit, Eph 5:9. This is expected from the children of light, that, being illuminated, they be also sanctified by the Spirit, and thereupon bring forth his fruit, which is in all goodness, an inclination to do good and to show mercy, and righteousness, which signifies justice in our dealings. Thus they are taken more strictly; but, more generally, all religion is goodness and righteousness. And in and with these must be truth, or sincerity and uprightness of heart.
(2.)We must have no fellowship with sin nor sinners, Eph 5:11. Sinful works are works of darkness: they come from the darkness of ignorance, they seek the darkness of concealment, and they lead to the darkness of hell. These works of darkness are unfruitful works; there is nothing got by them in the long run, whatever profit is pretended by sin, it will by no means balance the loss; for it issues in the utter ruin and destruction of the impenitent sinner. We must therefore have no fellowship with these unfruitful works; as we must not practice them ourselves, so we must not countenance others in the practice of them. There are many ways of our being accessory to the sins of others, by commendation, counsel, consent, or concealment. And, if we share with others in their sin, we must expect to share with them in their plagues. Nay, if we thus have fellowship with them, we shall be in the utmost danger of acting as they do ere long. But, rather than have fellowship with them, we must reprove them, implying that if we do not reprove the sins of others we have fellowship with them. We must prudently and in our places witness against the sins of others, and endeavour to convince them of their sinfulness, when we can do it seasonably and pertinently, in our words; but especially by the holiness of our lives, and a religious conversation. Reprove their sins by abounding in the contrary duties. One reason given is, For it is a shame even to speak of those things, etc., Eph 5:12. They are so filthy and abominable that it is a shame to mention them, except in a way of reproof, much more must it be a shame to have any fellowship with them. The things which are done of them in secret. The apostle seems to speak here of the Gentile idolaters, and of their horrid mysteries, which abounded with detestable wickedness, and which none were permitted to divulge upon pain of death. Observe, A good man is ashamed to speak that which many wicked people are not ashamed to act; but, as far as their wickedness appears, it should be reproved by good men. There follows another reason for such reproof: But all things that are reproved are made manifest by the light, Eph 5:13. The meaning of this passage may be this: "All those unfruitful works of darkness which you are called upon to reprove are laid open, and made to appear in their proper colours to the sinners themselves, by the light of doctrine or of God's word in your mouths, as faithful reprovers, or by that instructive light which is diffused by the holiness of your lives and by your exemplary walk." Observe, The light of God's word, and the exemplification of it in a Christian conversation, are proper means to convince sinners of their sin and wickedness. It follows, For whatsoever doth make manifest is light; that is, it is the light that discovers what was concealed before in darkness; and accordingly it becomes those who are children of light, who are light in the Lord, to discover to others their sins, and to endeavour to convince them of the evil and danger of them, thus shining as lights in the world. The apostle further urges this duty from the example of God or Christ: Wherefore he saith, etc. (Eph 5:14); as if he had said, "In doing this, you will copy after the great God, who has set himself to awaken sinners from their sleep, and to raise them from the death of sin, that they might receive light from Christ." He saith. The Lord is constantly saying in his word what is more particularly expressed in Isa 60:1. Or, Christ, by his ministers, who preach the everlasting gospel, is continually calling upon sinners to this effect: Awake, thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead. The same thing in the main is designed by these different expressions; and they serve to remind us of the great stupidity and the wretched security of sinners, how insensible they are of their danger, and how unapt they naturally are to spiritual motions, sensations, and actions. When God calls upon them to awake, and to arise, his meaning is that they would break off their sins by repentance, and enter on a course of holy obedience, and he encourages them to essay and do their utmost that way, by that gracious promise, And Christ shall give thee light; or Christ shall enlighten thee, or shall shine upon thee. "He shall bring thee into a state of knowledge, holiness, and comfort, assisting thee with his grace, and refreshing thy mind with joy and peace here and rewarding thee with eternal glory at length." Observe, When we are endeavouring to convince sinners, and to reform them from their sins, we are imitating God and Christ in that which is their great design throughout the gospel. Some indeed understand this as a call to sinners and to saints: to sinners to repent and turn; to saints to stir up themselves to their duty. The former must arise from their spiritual death; and the latter must awake from their spiritual deadness.
(3.)Another remedy against sin is circumspection, care, or caution (Eph 5:15): See then, etc. This may be understood either with respect to what immediately precedes, "If you are to reprove others for their sins, and would be faithful to your duty in this particular, you must look well to yourselves, and to your own behaviour and conduct" (and, indeed, those only are fit to reprove others who walk with due circumspection and care themselves): or else we have here another remedy or rather preservative from the before-mentioned sins; and this I take to be the design of the apostle, being impossible to maintain purity and holiness of heart and life without great circumspection and care. Walk circumspectly, or, as the word signifies, accurately, exactly, in the right way, in order to which we must be frequently consulting our rule, and the directions we have in the sacred oracles. Not as fools, who walk at all adventures, and who have no understanding of their duty, nor of the worth of their souls, and through neglect, supineness, and want of care, fall into sin, and destroy themselves; but as wise, as persons taught of God and endued with wisdom from above. Circumspect walking is the effect of true wisdom, but the contrary is the effect of folly. It follows, redeeming the time (Eph 5:16), literally, buying the opportunity. It is a metaphor taken from merchants and traders who diligently observe and improve the seasons for merchandise and trade. It is a great part of Christian wisdom to redeem the time. Good Christians must be good husbands of their time, and take care to improve it to the best of purposes, by watching against temptations, by doing good while it is in the power of their hands, and by filling it up with proper employment - one special preservative from sin. They should make the best use they can of the present seasons of grace. Our time is a talent given us by God for some good end, and it is misspent and lost when it is not employed according to his design. If we have lost our time heretofore, we must endeavour to redeem it by doubling our diligence in doing our duty for the future. The reason given is because the days are evil, either by reason of the wickedness of those who dwell in them, or rather "as they are troublesome and dangerous times to you who live in them." Those were times of persecution wherein the apostle wrote this: the Christians were in jeopardy every hour. When the days are evil we have one superadded argument to redeem time, especially because we know not how soon they may be worse. People are very apt to complain of bad times; it were well if that would stir them up to redeem time. "Wherefore," says the apostle (Eph 5:17), "because of the badness of the times, be you not unwise, ignorant of your duty and negligent about your souls, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. Study, consider, and further acquaint yourselves with the will of God, as determining your duty." Observe, Ignorance of our duty, and neglect of our souls, are evidences of the greatest folly; while an acquaintance with the will of God, and a care to comply with it, bespeak the best and truest wisdom.
II.In the three following verses the apostle warns against some other particular sins, and urges some other duties.
1.He warns against the sin of drunkenness: And be not drunk with wine, Eph 5:18. This was a sin very frequent among the heathens; and particularly on occasion of the festivals of their gods, and more especially in their Bacchanalia: then they were wont to inflame themselves with wine, and all manner of inordinate lusts were consequent upon it: and therefore the apostle adds, wherein, or in which drunkenness, is excess. The word asōtia may signify luxury or dissoluteness; and it is certain that drunkenness is no friend to chastity and purity of life, but it virtually contains all manner of extravagance, and transports men into gross sensuality and vile enormities. Note, Drunkenness is a sin that seldom goes alone, but often involves men in other instances of guilt: it is a sin very provoking to God, and a great hindrance to the spiritual life. The apostle may mean all such intemperance and disorder as are opposite to the sober and prudent demeanor he intends in his advice, to redeem the time.
2.Instead of being filled with wine, he exhorts them to be filled with the Spirit. Those who are full of drink are not likely to be full of the Spirit; and therefore this duty is opposed to the former sin. The meaning of the exhortation is that men should labour for a plentiful measure of the graces of the Spirit, that would fill their souls with great joy, strength, and courage, which things sensual men expect their wine should inspire them with. We cannot be guilty of any excess in our endeavours after these: nay, we ought not to be satisfied with a little of the Spirit, but to be aspiring after measures, so as to be filled with the Spirit. Now by this means we shall come to understand what the will of the Lord is; for the Spirit of God is given as a Spirit of wisdom and of understanding. And because those who are filled with the Spirit will be carried out in acts of devotion, and all the proper expressions of it, therefore the apostle exhorts,
3.To sing unto the Lord, Eph 5:19. Drunkards are wont to sing obscene and profane songs. The heathens, in their Bacchanalia, used to sing hymns to Bacchus, whom they called the god of wine. Thus they expressed their joy; but the joy of Christians should express itself in songs of praise to their God. In these they should speak to themselves in their assemblies and meetings together, for mutual edification. By psalms may be meant David's psalms, or such composures as were fitly sung with musical instruments. By hymns may be meant such others as were confined to matter of praise, as those of Zacharias, Simeon, etc. Spiritual songs may contain a greater variety of matter, doctrinal, prophetical, historical, etc. Observe here,
(1.)The singing of psalms and hymns is a gospel ordinance: it is an ordinance of God, and appointed for his glory.
(2.)Though Christianity is an enemy to profane mirth, yet it encourages joy and gladness, and the proper expressions of these in the professors of it. God's people have reason to rejoice, and to sing for joy. They are to sing and to make melody in their hearts; not only with their voices, but with inward affection, and then their doing this will be as delightful and acceptable to God as music is to us: and it must be with a design to please him, and to promote his glory, that we do this; and then it will be done to the Lord.
4.Thanksgiving is another duty that the apostle exhorts to, Eph 5:20. We are appointed to sing psalms, etc., for the expression of our thankfulness to God; but, though we are not always singing, we should never want a disposition for this duty, as we never want matter for it. We must continue it throughout the whole course of our lives; and we should give thanks for all things; not only for spiritual blessings enjoyed, and eternal ones expected (for what of the former we have in hand, and for what of the other we have in hope), but for temporal mercies too; not only for our comforts, but also for our sanctified afflictions; not only for what immediately concerns ourselves, but for the instances of God's kindness and favour to others also. It is our duty in every thing to give thanks unto God and the Father, to God as the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ and our Father in him, in whose name we are to offer up all our prayers, and praises, and spiritual services, that they may be acceptable to God.
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For as, in the New Testament, that faith of men to be placed in God has been increased, receiving in addition to what was already revealed the Son of God, that man too might be a partaker of God; so is also our walk in life required to be more circumspect, when we are directed not merely to abstain from evil actions, but even from evil thoughts, and from idle words, and empty talk, and scurrilous language: thus also the punishment of those who do not believe the Word of God, and despise His advent, and are turned away backwards, is increased; being not merely temporal, but rendered also eternal.
Whence I admire the apostle, who, in reference to this, exhorts us not to utter "scurrilous nor unsuitable words."
That we must not speak foolishly and offensively. In Paul's Epistle to the Ephesians: "Foolish speaking and scurrility, which are not fitting for the occasion, let them not be even named among you."
Let all the lust of avarice be put from you, which serves the cause of idolatry rather than the religion of Christ.
Having said what should be the case, he adds what must above all be the case, which is this, that we should “give thanks”—to God, without doubt, but also to other people. Hence he uses the term thanksgiving without qualification.
But, moreover, in order to understand this, look too at the very name. It means the versatile man, the man of all complexions, the unstable, the pliable, the man that can be anything and everything. But far is this from those who are servants to the Rock. Such a character quickly turns and changes; for he must needs mimic both gesture and speech, and laugh and gait, and everything, aye, and such an one is obliged to invent jokes: for he needs this also. But far be this from a Christian, to play the buffoon. Farther, the man who plays the jester must of necessity incur the signal hatred of the objects of his random ridicule, whether they be present, or being absent hear of it.
If the thing is creditable, why is it left to mountebanks? What, dost thou make thyself a mountebank, and yet art not ashamed? Why is it ye permit not your gentlewomen to do so? Is it not that ye set it down as a mark of an immodest, and not of a discreet character? Great are the evils that dwell in a soul given to jesting; great is the ruin and desolation. Its consistency is broken, the building is decayed, fear is banished, reverence is gone. A tongue thou hast, not that thou mayest ridicule another man, but that thou mayest give thanks unto God. Look at your merriment-makers, as they are called, those buffoons. These are your jesters. Banish from your souls, I entreat you, this graceless accomplishment. It is the business of parasites, of mountebanks, of dancers, of harlots; far be it from a generous, far be it from a highborn soul, aye, far too even from slaves.
"Nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, or jesting, which are not befitting; but rather giving of thanks." Have no witticisms, no obscenities, either in word or in deed, and thou wilt quench the flame-"let them not even be named," saith he, "among you," that is, let them not anywhere even make their appearance. This he says also in writing to the Corinthians. "It is actually reported that there is fornication among you"; as much as to say, Be ye all pure. For words are the way to acts. Then, that he may not appear a forbidding kind of person and austere, and a destroyer of playfulness, he goes on to add the reason, by saying, "which are not befitting," which have nothing to do with us-"but rather giving of thanks." What good is there in uttering a witticism? thou only raisest a laugh. Tell me, will the shoemaker ever busy himself about anything which does not belong to or befit his trade? or will he purchase any tool of that kind? No, never. Because the things we do not need, are nothing to us.
Wherefore, I entreat you, let us banish the custom universally, and speak those things which become us. Let not holy mouths utter the words of dishonorable and base men. "For what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity, or what communion hath light with darkness?" Happy will it be for us, if, having kept ourselves aloof from all such foul things, we be thus able to attain to the promised blessings; far indeed from dragging such a train after us, and sullying the purity of our minds by so many. For the man who will play the jester will soon go on to be a railer, and the railer will go on to heap ten thousand other mischiefs on himself. When then we shall have disciplined these two faculties of the soul, anger and desire, and have put them like well-broken horses under the yoke of reason, then let us set over them the mind as charioteer, that we may "gain the prize of our high calling"; which God grant that we may all attain, through Jesus Christ our Lord.
But since the matter appears to some to be one of indifference, which moreover is difficult to be guarded against, let us discuss this point a little, to show you how vast an evil it is. For indeed this is a work of the devil, to make us disregard things indifferent. First of all then, even if it were indifferent, not even in that case were it right to disregard it, when one knows that the greatest evils are both produced and increased by it, and that it oftentimes terminates in fornication. However, that it is not even indifferent is evident from hence. Let us see then whence it is produced. Or rather, let us see what sort of a person a saint ought to be: gentle, meek, sorrowful, mournful, contrite. The man then who deals in jests is no saint. Nay, were he even a Greek, such an one would be scorned. These are things allowed to those only who are on the stage. Where filthiness is, there also is jesting; where unseasonable laughter is, there also is jesting. Hearken to what the Prophet saith, "Serve the Lord in fear, and rejoice with trembling." Jesting renders the soul soft and indolent. It excites the soul unduly, and often it teems with acts of violence, and creates wars.
Let there not be one idle word; for from idle words we fall also into foul words. The present is no season of loose merriment, but of mourning, of tribulation, and lamentation: and dost thou play the jester? What wrestler on entering the ring neglects the struggle with his adversary, and utters witticisms? The devil stands hard at hand, "he is going about roaring" to catch thee, he is moving everything, and turning everything against thy life, and is scheming to force thee from thy retreat, he is grinding his teeth and bellowing, he is breathing fire against thy salvation; and dost thou sit uttering witticisms, and "talking folly," and uttering things "which are not befitting." Full nobly then wilt thou be able to overcome him! We are in sport, beloved.
The “silly talk” to which Paul refers occurs not only among those who tell dirty jokes to get a cheap laugh. He is also referring to those who put on frivolous airs and to those who manipulate whoever they are trying to please. There is another kind of silly talk that occurs among those reckoned to be the intellectuals of the age who, when disputing on matters of natural science, imagine that they have fully comprehended the sands of the shore, the drops of ocean, the extent of heavens and the minuteness of earth.… Note that levity follows silly talk. The intent here is to speak of frivolous and inappropriate stories. The difference between silliness and levity is this: silliness has nothing in it that is wise or worthy of the human heart. Levity devolves from a clever mind and deliberately seeks out certain words, be they witty, vulgar, obscene or facetious, in a jocularity the sole aim of which is to get a laugh.
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Summary
Ephesians 5:4 delivers a profound apostolic directive from Paul, urging believers to purify their verbal expression. This verse stands as a stark contrast between the unwholesome, morally bankrupt forms of speech—such as obscenity, empty chatter, and crude humor—and the edifying, God-honoring practice of giving thanks. It underscores that a Christian's speech must reflect their new identity in Christ, aligning with the holiness and propriety fitting for those who walk as children of light.
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Literary Context
Ephesians 5:4 is an integral part of Paul's practical exhortations in the latter half of his letter, specifically within a section (Ephesians 5:3-14) where he transitions from theological truths to the ethical implications of Christian living. Following calls for believers to walk in love and to shun sexual immorality, impurity, and covetousness in Ephesians 5:3, this verse extends the demand for moral purity into the realm of verbal communication. It emphasizes that a transformed life in Christ must manifest not only in actions but also in words, serving as a natural progression of thought from the purity of body and mind to the purity of speech. The prohibitions here reinforce the idea that believers are to be distinct from the surrounding pagan culture, whose speech often reflected their immoral practices.
Historical & Cultural Context
The city of Ephesus, a prominent Roman provincial capital, was a melting pot of diverse cultures and religions, including widespread pagan worship, mystery cults, and prevalent immorality. Public discourse and private conversations in such an environment were often characterized by vulgarity, crude jokes, and idle gossip, reflecting the moral laxity of the age. Paul's audience, recent converts from this pagan background, would have been accustomed to such speech patterns. Therefore, his instruction in Ephesians 5:4 was not merely a general moral guideline but a direct challenge to adopt a counter-cultural way of speaking, one that distinguished them as followers of Christ. This call to verbal holiness was essential for maintaining the integrity of their Christian witness and fostering a community that reflected God's character.
Key Themes
This verse powerfully contributes to several overarching themes within Ephesians and Paul's broader theology. Firstly, it highlights the Purity of Speech as a non-negotiable aspect of Christian conduct, directly condemning language that is morally corrupt or spiritually unproductive. This includes "filthiness" (obscenity), "foolish talking" (empty, morally pointless chatter), and "jesting" (crude, inappropriate humor). Secondly, it underscores the theme of Propriety in Christian Conduct, asserting that such speech "are not convenient," meaning they are utterly "unfitting" or "unsuitable" for those who have been called to live as saints and children of light, as detailed throughout Ephesians 5. These behaviors are incongruous with their new identity in Christ. Finally, the verse introduces the profound theme of the Power of Thanksgiving as the positive and edifying alternative. This emphasizes that a Christian's speech should be characterized by gratitude towards God, reflecting a heart filled with appreciation for His blessings and grace, a theme echoed in Colossians 3:17. This attitude naturally displaces negative or unproductive speech and elevates communication to a form of worship.
Exposition and Analysis
Key Word Analysis
Meaning "shamefulness, i.e. obscenity." This term refers to any language that is morally impure, indecent, or sexually suggestive. It encompasses vulgarity, lewd talk, and anything that would cause shame or dishonor. It reflects a heart that is not yet fully purified by God's grace.
A compound of moros (foolish, stupid) and logos (word, speech). This term describes speech that is empty, silly, or morally useless. It's not merely intellectual foolishness but a moral emptiness, chatter that lacks edification, spiritual value, or a constructive purpose. It can include idle gossip, nonsensical chatter, or speech that trivializes serious matters.
Derived from a word meaning "well-turned, i.e. ready at repartee, jocose." While it could originally denote good-humored wit, in this context, it takes on a negative connotation, implying ribaldry, coarse humor, suggestive jokes, or sarcasm that is demeaning, morally questionable, or used for flattery rather than wholesome wit. It refers to humor that is inappropriate for a believer.
Meaning "gratitude; actively, grateful language (to God, as an act of worship)." This is the positive alternative to the forbidden forms of speech. It signifies a heart full of gratitude towards God, expressed through words of praise, appreciation, and acknowledgment of His goodness and grace. It transforms speech into an act of worship and edification.
Verse Breakdown
"Neither filthiness,"
This clause directly prohibits any form of speech that is morally impure, obscene, or indecent. It calls believers to a high standard of verbal purity, rejecting language that defiles or corrupts.
"nor foolish talking,"
This extends the prohibition to include speech that is empty, silly, or morally pointless. It condemns frivolous chatter, idle gossip, or any communication that lacks edification, spiritual value, or a constructive purpose, reflecting a lack of seriousness about one's Christian walk.
"nor jesting,"
This refers to crude, vulgar, or inappropriate humor, sarcasm, or suggestive jokes. While not condemning all humor, it specifically targets speech that is demeaning, morally questionable, or used in a way that is inconsistent with the holiness of a Christian.
"which are not convenient:"
This crucial phrase explains the rationale for the prohibitions. The Greek anḗkō (G433), translated "convenient," means "fitting," "proper," or "suitable." Thus, these forms of speech are "not fitting" or "unsuitable" for believers, as they are incongruous with their new identity in Christ and their calling to live as children of light. They are out of place for those who profess holiness.
"but rather giving of thanks."
This provides the positive, transformative alternative to the forbidden speech. Instead of corrupting words, believers are to cultivate a language of gratitude. This implies that a heart filled with appreciation for God's blessings and grace will naturally express itself in thanksgiving, which is edifying, God-honoring, and a form of worship that displaces all unwholesome talk.
Literary Devices
Paul employs several powerful literary devices in Ephesians 5:4 to convey his message with clarity and force. The most prominent is Antithesis, or Contrast, where he sets up a direct opposition between what is forbidden and what is commanded. The repeated "neither...nor...nor" followed by "but rather" creates a stark dichotomy, highlighting the absolute incompatibility of unwholesome speech with Christian conduct and presenting thanksgiving as the sole, appropriate alternative. This sharp contrast underscores the radical transformation expected of believers. Furthermore, the verse functions as a direct Exhortation, a strong moral command from the apostle, indicating the imperative nature of these instructions for the Christian life. The phrase "which are not convenient" serves as a form of Ethos, appealing to the inherent character and identity of believers—it is simply not fitting for them to speak in such ways, reinforcing the moral authority of the command by aligning it with their very being in Christ.
Theological and Thematic Connections
Ephesians 5:4 is deeply rooted in the theological understanding that speech is not merely a functional tool but a profound reflection of the heart and a powerful indicator of one's spiritual condition. As a new creation in Christ, the believer's inner transformation should naturally manifest in outward expressions, particularly through their words. Unwholesome speech reveals a heart still entangled with the world's darkness, while speech characterized by thanksgiving testifies to a heart renewed by grace, focused on God, and filled with appreciation for His redemptive work. This verse emphasizes that our words have the power to either defile or edify, to dishonor God or bring Him glory, and thus, verbal purity is an essential aspect of living out our calling as saints.
Reflection and Application
Ephesians 5:4 serves as a timeless and challenging call for believers to exercise profound discernment over their words in every sphere of life. In an age saturated with casual obscenity, thoughtless chatter, and often crude or cynical humor across various platforms—from social media to entertainment and daily conversations—this verse demands a higher standard of communication from those who bear the name of Christ. It compels us to move beyond merely avoiding what is explicitly wrong and to actively cultivate speech that is inherently good, pure, and edifying. This means intentionally guarding our tongues, considering the impact of our words on others and on our witness, and ensuring that our communication reflects the light of Christ within us. By consciously choosing to speak words of gratitude, praise, and encouragement, we not only honor God but also transform the atmosphere around us, fostering environments of grace and truth. Our words, ultimately, are a powerful testament to the transformation Christ has wrought in our hearts, revealing the depth of our spiritual maturity and commitment to Him.
Questions for Reflection
FAQ
What exactly does Paul mean by "jesting" here, and does it mean Christians should never use humor?
In Ephesians 5:4, the Greek word for "jesting" (eutrapelía) does not condemn all humor. Originally, it could refer to good-humored wit or ready repartee. However, in the context of Paul's broader exhortation against impurity and foolishness, it takes on a negative connotation, referring to coarse, vulgar, suggestive, or inappropriate humor. This includes ribaldry, sarcasm used to demean, or jokes that are morally questionable or trivializing of sacred things. Paul is not against wholesome, edifying humor that brings joy and lightens the spirit. Rather, he is against humor that is crude, at the expense of others, or reflects a lack of reverence and purity, which is "not convenient" or fitting for a follower of Christ. The emphasis is on the quality and moral nature of the humor, not humor itself.
Why is "foolish talking" considered so problematic for Christians?
"Foolish talking" (mōrología) is problematic because it signifies speech that is empty, morally useless, or spiritually unproductive. It's not merely about intellectual deficiency, but a moral and spiritual emptiness. Such talk includes idle gossip, nonsensical chatter, or frivolous conversation that lacks any edifying purpose. For believers, whose words should reflect their new life in Christ and contribute to building up the body of Christ, "foolish talking" is a waste of spiritual energy and time. It fails to honor God and can even detract from the seriousness of one's faith, as Matthew 12:36 warns that people will give account for every idle word. It stands in direct opposition to the call for speech that is seasoned with grace and designed to impart grace to the hearers, as seen in Colossians 4:6.
Christ-Centered Fulfillment
Ephesians 5:4 finds its ultimate fulfillment and perfect example in the person and work of Jesus Christ. He is the embodiment of pure speech, whose words were always full of grace and truth (John 1:14). Unlike the "filthiness, foolish talking, or jesting" that characterizes a fallen world, Christ's every utterance was redemptive, life-giving, and perfectly aligned with the will of His Father. He spoke words that brought healing, challenged hypocrisy, and revealed divine wisdom, never engaging in idle chatter or crude humor. Furthermore, it is through His atoning sacrifice that believers are purified and empowered to speak differently. His death on the cross cleanses us from the sin that pollutes our hearts and, consequently, our speech (Hebrews 10:10). The Holy Spirit, given by Christ, indwells believers, transforming our inner being so that our mouths can become instruments of righteousness, naturally inclining us towards "giving of thanks" rather than unholy communication (Acts 2:4). Our ability to offer genuine thanksgiving is itself a gift made possible through our union with Christ, for it is "through Him" that we can always offer a sacrifice of praise to God (Hebrews 13:15). Thus, the call to pure and thankful speech is a direct outflow of Christ's transformative work in us, enabling us to reflect His character in every word.