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Ecclesiastes 3:5

“The Appointed Times for Everything”Ecclesiastes 3:1–10

King James Version
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

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KJV (with Strong's)
A time H6256 to cast away H7993 stones H68, and a time H6256 to gather H3664 stones H68 together H3664; a time H6256 to embrace H2263, and a time H6256 to refrain H7368 from embracing H2263;

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Berean Standard Bible
a time to cast away stones and a time to gather stones together, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,

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American Standard Version
a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

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World English Bible Messianic
a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

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Geneva Bible (1599)
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones: a time to embrace, and a time to be farre from embracing.

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Young's Literal Translation
A time to cast away stones, And a time to heap up stones. A time to embrace, And a time to be far from embracing.

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King James Version — Interlinear
11 Hebrew words
  1. עֵת'eta timeH6256N-csNoun Singular common gender Absolute
  2. לְהַשְׁלִיךְle·hash·Likhto throw awayH7993Prep-l ¦ V-Hiphil-InfVerb Hiphil Infinitive Constructלְtoהַשְׁלִיךְthrow away
  3. אֲבָנִים'a·va·NimstonesH68N-mpNoun Plural (-îm ending) Absolute
  4. וְעֵתve·'Etand a timeH6256Conj-w ¦ N-csNoun Singular common gender Absoluteוְandעֵתa time
  5. כְּנוֹסke·Nosto gatherH3664V-Qal-InfVerb Qal Infinitive Construct
  6. אֲבָנִים'a·va·NimstonesH68N-mpNoun Plural (-îm ending) Absolute
  7. עֵת'eta timeH6256N-csNoun Singular common gender Absolute
  8. לַחֲבוֹקla·cha·Vokto embraceH2263Prep-l ¦ V-Qal-InfVerb Qal Infinitive Constructלַtoחֲבוֹקembrace
  9. וְעֵתve·'Etand a timeH6256Conj-w ¦ N-csNoun Singular common gender Absoluteוְandעֵתa time
  10. לִרְחֹקlir·Chokto be farH7368Prep-l ¦ V-Qal-InfVerb Qal Infinitive Constructלִtoרְחֹקbe far
  11. מֵחַבֵּקme·cha·Bekfrom embracingH2263Prep-m ¦ V-Piel-InfVerb Piel Infinitive Constructמֵfromחַבֵּקembracing
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This verse

There is a time to throw stones away and a time to gather them for building, a time to hold someone close and a time to keep apart.

“A time to cast away stones,”

Clearing stones from a field before planting, or throwing them in punishment or war.

“and a time to gather stones together;”

Collecting stones to build houses, walls, altars and memorials.

“a time to embrace,”

The warm clasp of family and friends.

“and a time to refrain from embracing;”

Keeping a fitting distance, in mourning, in matters of purity, or where closeness would be unwise.

Passage studyEcclesiastes 3:1–10

A Time to Every Purpose Under the Heaven

1To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: 2A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; 3A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 5A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; 6A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; 7A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; 8A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. 9What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboureth? 10I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it.

Summary

“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” With these words the Preacher opens the best-known poem in his book, fourteen pairs of opposites that run from birth and death through weeping and dancing to war and peace (Ecclesiastes 3:1–8). Every part of human life, the glad parts and the grievous ones, has its appointed time, and God is the one who appoints it. Then the Preacher asks the question his whole book asks, what lasting profit a worker has from his toil, and he answers with what he has seen: the business of life is something God has given to the sons of men to keep them occupied. These ten verses teach us that our days are in God’s hands, that wisdom is knowing what each season calls for, and that labour on its own leaves a man asking what he has gained.

To every thing there is a season

Verse 1 states the truth that the poem fills out, and it uses two words for time. Zᵉmân, “season”, comes from a root meaning to appoint. It names an appointed or fixed time, a set occasion for something to happen. The other word, ʻêth, translated “time”, is the broader of the two. It is used of time in general and often of a particular moment that is right or due, so that elsewhere it can mean “now”, “when” or “season”. Set together, they say that each thing has its moment and that the moment has been appointed. The word ʻêth then stands before every item of the poem, four times in each verse from 2 to 8.

The thing that has its time is a “purpose”, chêphets. The word means pleasure, delight, desire or wish, and it also means a matter or purpose, which is its sense here: every matter and undertaking that people set their hands to. The closing phrase, “under the heaven”, uses shâmayim, the sky and the heavens above the earth. “Under the heaven”, tachath hashshamayim, is the Preacher’s other way of saying “under the sun”, tachath hashshemesh (Ecclesiastes 1:3). Both mean life on earth as we live it and see it, so “every thing” takes in the whole of human life, its pleasant and its painful parts alike, as the pairs that follow show.

The poem names the times before it names who sets them, and the verses after it make that plain. God has given the travail of verse 10, and “he hath made every thing beautiful in his time” (Ecclesiastes 3:11). The seasons of verse 1 are his appointments, made by the same Lord of whom Proverbs says, “A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps” (Proverbs 16:9). His thoughts and ways are higher than ours as the heavens are higher than the earth (Isaiah 55:8–9), so his timing will often differ from what we would have chosen, and it is always wise.

The book calls its writer “the Preacher, the son of David, king in Jerusalem” (Ecclesiastes 1:1). Believers differ on who he was. It has long been held to be Solomon, and some hold that a later wise man of Israel wrote it, perhaps in the Persian or Greek period. On either view Ecclesiastes belongs to Israel’s wisdom writings, which take up the questions every person asks about purpose and meaning, and it is God’s word to us.

Why the poem sets opposites side by side

Verses 2 to 8 give fourteen pairs, two in each verse, and every pair joins a thing to its opposite: born and die, plant and pluck up, weep and laugh, war and peace. The repeated “a time to” at the head of each line gives the poem its steady beat. By naming both ends of each part of life, the Preacher takes in everything between them. The list moves across the whole of life, from the body (birth, death, killing, healing) and the field (planting, plucking up, clearing stones) to the heart (weeping, laughing, loving, hating), the home (embracing, keeping, rending, sewing), the tongue (silence and speech) and at last the nations (war and peace).

This poem comes after two chapters in which the Preacher tried wisdom, pleasure, toil and wealth as ends in themselves and found them empty: “Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity” (Ecclesiastes 1:2). His word is hebel, a breath or vapour. He watched the same round of things come back again and again, since “there is no new thing under the sun” (Ecclesiastes 1:9), and the whole of Ecclesiastes 1 traces that wearying circle. Chapter 3 shows that the round has an order, and that God set it. It is still a sober chapter, and the rest of Ecclesiastes 3 goes on to God’s work and our limits. The book later gathers its teaching into one charge: “Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man” (Ecclesiastes 12:13–14).

If every thing has its time, wisdom lies in knowing what the present time calls for. “A word spoken in due season, how good is it!” (Proverbs 15:23). “A wise man’s heart discerneth both time and judgment” (Ecclesiastes 8:5), and the Preacher calls wisdom a defence (Ecclesiastes 7:12).

A time to be born and a time to die

The poem begins where every life begins and ends. The verb yâlad means to bear or beget, and in the form used here it means to be born. The two great events of a life, its entrance and its exit, have their appointed times, and both lie outside our own choosing. Moses’ psalm counts the span between them: “The days of our years are threescore years and ten” (Psalm 90:10). Death stands in the same order as birth, an appointed end that comes to everyone under the sun.

The second pair comes from the farm. “To plant” is nâṭaʻ, and “to pluck up that which is planted” is the other end of the farming year, uprooting the crop or clearing the field. Israel lived from the land, and every family knew the round of sowing and reaping and knew it depended on God, who “causeth the grass to grow for the cattle, and herb for the service of man” (Psalm 104:14). Planting means working now for a harvest that comes in a later season, which is why Paul writes, “in due season we shall reap, if we faint not” (Galatians 6:9). The farmer’s pair also pictures every beginning and ending of the work we set our hands to.

A time to kill and a time to heal

Hârag is the ordinary verb to kill or slay. Râphâʼ, to heal, means to mend or cure, and Scripture uses it both of God’s healing and of human physicians. The second pair turns from bodies to buildings. Pârats, to break down, means to break out, make a breach or tear down, and bânâh, to build, is used of building in the literal sense and in the figurative one.

Israel knew all four. Cities were besieged, breached and built again, and death came through war, through the punishment of crimes and through the killing of animals for food. God gave Jeremiah a calling that covers the same range, “to root out, and to pull down, and to destroy, and to throw down, to build, and to plant” (Jeremiah 1:10). When the breaking comes from God’s own hand, his heart is set on mercy: “But though he cause grief, yet will he have compassion according to the multitude of his mercies. For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men” (Lamentations 3:32–33).

Does “a time to kill” justify violence?

The Preacher is describing the world as it is, where life is taken in war, in the lawful punishment of crimes and in the slaughter of animals, and he places even these under God’s ordering. Israel’s law sentenced some crimes to death, and God sent Israel to war in particular times such as the conquest of Canaan. The same law says “Thou shalt not kill” (Exodus 20:13), and murder remains a grievous sin. This line gives it no cover. What it teaches is that death at the hands of men, hard as it is, happens within a world God still rules.

A time to weep and a time to dance

Bâkâh means to weep, to bemoan and to lament, and in Scripture weeping is an outward thing, tears and loud grief. Mourning in Israel was public and shared, with its own rites and often a set length of time. On the other side, laughter leads into râqad, to dance, a word that means to stamp, spring about, leap or skip. The people danced at harvests, at victories and at feasts such as the Feast of Tabernacles (Leviticus 23:33–43).

Both belong to a life lived before God. Lament has its place in the life of faith beside praise, and the psalms of lament give it words: “How long wilt thou forget me, O LORD?” (Psalm 13). Paul writes, “Rejoice in the Lord alway” (Philippians 4:4). The times also follow one another, for “weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning” (Psalm 30:5). People ask whether this means we should accept sorrow passively and stop reaching for joy. The poem itself answers, because the time to mourn is matched by a time to dance and the time to kill by a time to heal, so seeking comfort and healing in their season is right. Since the people around us are often in a different season from ours, Paul gives the fitting response: “Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep” (Romans 12:15).

Stones and embraces

“Cast away” is shâlak, to throw or hurl, often with some sense of rejecting what is thrown. “Gather” is kânaç, to collect or bring together. Stones were part of daily work in Israel. Farmers cleared them from the fields before planting, and builders gathered them for houses, walls, altars and monuments, as when Jacob set up the stone he had slept on as a pillar at Bethel (Genesis 28:18). Stones were also cast to punish and in war, as in Israel’s campaign against Moab (2 Kings 3:25). So the first pair speaks of clearing and pulling down on one side and of building on the other.

“To embrace” is châbaq, to clasp someone in one’s arms, the closeness of family and friends. “A friend loveth at all times” (Proverbs 17:17). “To refrain from embracing” uses râchaq, to be far off or keep at a distance. There are good reasons for that distance: a time of mourning, the laws of purity, or a closeness that would be unwise in the circumstances. Paul allows husband and wife to abstain from each other for a time by consent, to give themselves to prayer (1 Corinthians 7:5). People ask whether this line makes intimacy less than good. The embrace and the refraining are both good in their seasons, and wisdom knows which season it is. Love itself is always owed, “Owe no man any thing, but to love one another” (Romans 13:8), and wisdom chooses how to show it.

Seeking, losing, keeping and casting away

“Get” translates bâqash, which means to search out or seek, so the line could be read “a time to seek, and a time to lose”. ʼÂbad, “lose”, means to wander away or be lost, and by implication to perish. It is the word used when the asses of Saul’s father were lost (1 Samuel 9:3). “Keep” is shâmar, to guard, preserve or watch over, and “cast away” is shâlak again, the verb of verse 5, to throw out.

In Israel wealth and children were often taken as signs of God’s blessing, as the blessings of Deuteronomy 28 set out, and the Preacher shows that even these good gifts are held for a season. Job said it when everything was taken from him: “the LORD gave, and the LORD hath taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD” (Job 1:21). The rich fool of Jesus’ parable kept everything and lost his soul in one night (Luke 12:16–21), while Paul learned to be content “in whatsoever state I am” (Philippians 4:11–13).

People ask whether “a time to get” means we should always be seeking more wealth. The Preacher has already called the chase after possessions as an end in itself “vanity and vexation of spirit” (Ecclesiastes 2:11). When a season of gain comes, it comes from God, and we hold what it brings as stewards who will one day let it go. Casting away has its practical side too: things we no longer need, things that have become idols, grudges and habits that weigh us down, as Hebrews says, “let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us” (Hebrews 12:1). Paul tells believers, “Set your affection on things above” (Colossians 3:1–4), where what we have can never be lost.

Rending, sewing, silence and speech

Qâraʻ, “rend”, means to tear, and it is the verb for tearing one’s clothes, Israel’s outward sign of grief, distress or outrage. Jacob rent his clothes when he believed Joseph was dead (Genesis 37:34), and David rent his when he heard that Saul had fallen (2 Samuel 1:11). Tâphar, “sew”, is its opposite. The torn garment is sewn up again when the time of mourning ends and life resumes. Joel takes the outward sign inward: “rend your heart, and not your garments” (Joel 2:13).

The second pair moves from the hands to the tongue. Châshâh, “keep silence”, means to hush, keep quiet or hold one’s peace. Dâbar, “speak”, is the common verb to speak, mention or tell. Silence has its time in grief, as when Job’s friends sat with him seven days and “none spake a word unto him: for they saw that his grief was very great” (Job 2:13). It has its time in wisdom, since “Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise” (Proverbs 17:28), and James tells us to be “swift to hear, slow to speak” (James 1:19). It has its time in worship too: “the LORD is in his holy temple: let all the earth keep silence before him” (Habakkuk 2:20). And there is a time when silence would be wrong, as Peter and John told the council, “we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard” (Acts 4:20). Truth must be told, comfort given and the gospel proclaimed.

A time to love and a time to hate

ʼÂhab, “love”, means to love or have affection for a person, a thing or a practice. Hate is its opposite. The last pair moves from what one person feels to what whole peoples go through, war and peace. Shâlôwm, “peace”, names a state of completeness, soundness, welfare and safety, the whole well-being of a people at rest. With these two pairs the poem ends on its largest scale.

What is “a time to hate”?

The hatred that has a rightful time is hatred of evil. “Ye that love the LORD, hate evil” (Psalm 97:10), and Paul writes, “Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good” (Romans 12:9). That hatred is aimed at sin, injustice and whatever stands against God, and the same Scripture tells us “Love your enemies” (Matthew 5:44) and “as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men” (Romans 12:18). Personal malice and prejudice find no support here. “God is love” (1 John 4:8), and those who love what he loves will hate what destroys it. War, too, belongs to a broken world, and the Preacher names it soberly as one of the seasons nations pass through.

Does God’s timing leave room for our choices?

God sets the times, and we choose and act within them, and Scripture holds both truths together. “A time to plant” needs a farmer who decides to plant, and “a time to speak” leaves each of us to speak wisely or foolishly, truthfully or falsely. Paul puts the two side by side: “work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure” (Philippians 2:12–13). The poem calls us to discern the season God has given and to act rightly in it, and we answer to him for what we do.

“Every thing” also takes in the painful seasons: death, weeping, loss and war. The Preacher sets them inside God’s order alongside the glad ones. God remains blameless for the sins of men, and he rules over a fallen world and works through all of it toward his purposes. Paul says that “all things work together for good to them that love God” (Romans 8:28), and Lamentations has already shown us that he takes no pleasure in afflicting anyone.

What profit hath he that worketh?

After the poem comes the question. It repeats the question the Preacher began with, “What profit hath a man of all his labour which he taketh under the sun?” (1:3). Yithrôwn, “profit”, comes from the root yāthar, to be left over, and means what remains after the work is done, a surplus or lasting advantage. It is one of the book’s key words, appearing ten times in Ecclesiastes. “Worketh” is ʻâsâh, the broad verb to do or make, and “laboureth” is ʻâmêl, which describes someone toiling, a labourer, and figuratively one in misery. The two verbs together press the point that the worker toils.

The poem has just shown why the question is hard. Every work in it is matched by its undoing: planting by plucking up, building by breaking down, getting by losing, sewing by rending. If that is so, toil by itself leaves nothing that lasts under the sun. The Preacher had already said that he hated his labour because he must leave it to the man after him (Ecclesiastes 2:18–23). Yet work itself is good. God put the man in the garden “to dress it and to keep it” (Genesis 2:15), and Proverbs says, “In all labour there is profit” (Proverbs 14:23). The Preacher questions work as an end in itself, and he points to the God who gives it meaning: “Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it” (Psalm 127:1–2). A few verses later he says that to eat, drink and “enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God” (Ecclesiastes 3:12–13).

The New Testament carries the answer to its end. Jesus calls, “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28–30). Work done “heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men” (Colossians 3:23) is work done for him, and the inheritance he has won for us is “incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away” (1 Peter 1:4). That inheritance is the lasting gain the Preacher’s question looks for.

The travail God has given the sons of men

Verse 10 begins with “I have seen”, râʼâh, the Preacher’s word for what he has watched for himself. What he has seen is the “travail”, ʻinyân, the business, occupation or task that keeps people busy, with the trouble that so often comes with it. It is given by God, ʼĕlôhîym, the usual name for God in this book, plural in form and read as a plural of majesty, with its verbs usually singular. The verb “given”, nâthan, is the everyday word to give, used very widely (to put, to set, to yield), and here it says that this business comes from God’s hand. It is given “to the sons of men”, bên ʼâdâm, the sons of Adam, all people everywhere. The last phrase, “to be exercised in it”, uses ʻânâh, which in this verse means to be occupied or busy with something. The Preacher uses the same verb for the same thought in Ecclesiastes 1:13.

So the work and busyness of life, with all the times of the poem, is God’s appointment for the whole human race. Since the fall it has been hard: “In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread” (Genesis 3:17–19). God also uses hard things to shape his people. He humbled Israel in the wilderness to teach them “that man doth not live by bread only” (Deuteronomy 8:3). Paul writes that “tribulation worketh patience” (Romans 5:3–5), and James that “the trying of your faith worketh patience” (James 1:2–4). God is shaping his children to be “conformed to the image of his Son” (Romans 8:29), and Paul calls our affliction light and “but for a moment” beside the “eternal weight of glory” it is working for us (2 Corinthians 4:16–18).

People ask whether this makes us puppets. The verse puts our toil in God’s hands and leaves us fully engaged in it, as the Preacher himself says: “Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might” (Ecclesiastes 9:10). Paul laboured “according to his working, which worketh in me mightily” (Colossians 1:29). The next verse completes the thought, telling us that God has made every thing beautiful in its time.

Christ and the fulness of the time

The times of this poem come to their centre in Jesus Christ. “But when the fulness of the time was come, God sent forth his Son, made of a woman, made under the law” (Galatians 4:4), and Jesus began his preaching with “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand” (Mark 1:15). He lived by his Father’s timing. At the wedding in Cana, where he shared the feast and turned water into wine, he said “mine hour is not yet come” (John 2:1–11). Before the Passover “Jesus knew that his hour was come” (John 13:1), and he prayed, “Father, the hour is come” (John 17:1). His death was the appointed time to die, for he was “delivered by the determinate counsel and foreknowledge of God” (Acts 2:23), and “in due time Christ died for the ungodly” (Romans 5:6). His resurrection made him “the firstfruits of them that slept” (1 Corinthians 15:20), the first of a harvest still to come.

The pairs of the poem meet in him. He is “the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world” (John 1:29), put to death so that we might be healed, “by whose stripes ye were healed” (1 Peter 2:24). He “is our peace”, and he has broken down the wall that divided Jew from Gentile (Ephesians 2:14). He spoke out against the hypocrisy of the scribes and Pharisees (Matthew 23:13–36), and he builds: “I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it” (Matthew 16:18), a kingdom which cannot be moved (Hebrews 12:28).

He was “a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief” (Isaiah 53:3). He wept at the grave of Lazarus (John 11:35), and in Gethsemane he said, “My soul is exceeding sorrowful, even unto death” (Matthew 26:38). He also “rejoiced in spirit” (Luke 10:21), and after he rose and ascended his disciples “returned to Jerusalem with great joy” (Luke 24:52–53). He took the children “up in his arms, put his hands upon them, and blessed them” (Mark 10:16), and he also “withdrew himself into the wilderness, and prayed” (Luke 5:16). He kept his Father’s commandments (John 15:10), he cast away the kingdoms of the world when Satan offered them (Matthew 4:8–10), and he laid aside his glory to take the form of a servant (Philippians 2:6–8) and “give his life a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45).

Before his accusers he kept silence, “as a sheep before her shearers is dumb” (Isaiah 53:7), and before Pilate “he answered him to never a word” (Matthew 27:12–14). When the time came to speak, he taught with authority, as in the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5–7). His love is the greatest of all: “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13). He said that he came “not to send peace, but a sword” (Matthew 10:34), because his truth divides those who receive him from those who refuse him, and he is also “The Prince of Peace” (Isaiah 9:6). “By him all things consist” (Colossians 1:17), every season of this poem included, and he will bring the day when “God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes” (Revelation 21:4).

What the appointed times give us

This passage gives us a way to see our own days. Each one comes in its time from God, whether it brings a birth or a grave, laughter or tears, building or loss. He rules every season, and his mercies run through all of them, for “his compassions fail not. They are new every morning” (Lamentations 3:22–23).

The poem makes room for the whole of a believer’s life. Grief has its time and is right in its time, and joy has its time and may be enjoyed with a whole heart. Wisdom is knowing which season has come and what it asks of us, whether that is a word or silence, holding on or letting go. The Preacher’s question about profit is answered in the God who gives the work and gives the joy in it, and in Christ, in whom our “labour is not in vain in the Lord” (1 Corinthians 15:58). The God who set the times of this poem also sent his Son in the fulness of the time, and our seasons are safe in his hands.

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Matthew Henry

From his Commentary on the Whole Bible. Henry wrote on whole passages, and this entry covers Ecclesiastes 3:1–10. He set out his notes in a three-level outline, kept here as he numbered it.

1662–1714 · 10 verses
Passage under commentEcclesiastes 3:1–10
I. II. Main points1. 2. Sub-points(1.) (2.) Details

The scope of these verses is to show, 1. That we live in a world of changes, that the several events of time, and conditions of human life, are vastly different from one another, and yet occur promiscuously, and we are continually passing and repassing between them, as in the revolutions of every day and every year. In the wheel of nature (James 3:6) sometimes one spoke is uppermost and by and by the contrary; there is a constant ebbing and flowing, waxing and waning; from one extreme to the other does the fashion of this world change, ever did, and ever will. 2. That every change concerning us, with the time and season of it, is unalterably fixed and determined by a supreme power; and we must take things as they come, for it is not in our power to change what is appointed for us. And this comes in here as a reason why, when we are in prosperity, we should by easy, and yet not secure - not to be secure because we live in a world of changes and therefore have no reason to say, Tomorrow shall be as this day (the lowest valleys join to the highest mountains), and yet to be easy, and, as he had advised (Ecclesiastes 2:24), to enjoy the good of our labour, in a humble dependence upon God and his providence, neither lifted up with hopes, nor cast down with fears, but with evenness of mind expecting every event. Here we have,

I.A general proposition laid down: To every thing there is a season, Ecclesiastes 3:1.

1.Those things which seem most contrary the one to the other will, in the revolution of affairs, each take their turn and come into play. The day will give place to the night and the night again to the day. Is it summer? It will be winter. Is it winter? Stay a while, and it will be summer. Every purpose has its time. The clearest sky will be clouded, Post gaudia luctus - Joy succeeds sorrow; and the most clouded sky will clear up, Post nubila Phoebus - The sun will burst from behind the cloud.

2.Those things which to us seem most casual and contingent are, in the counsel and foreknowledge of God, punctually determined, and the very hour of them is fixed, and can neither be anticipated nor adjourned a moment.

II.The proof and illustration of it by the induction of particulars, twenty-eight in number, according to the days of the moon's revolution, which is always increasing or decreasing between its full and change. Some of these changes are purely the act of God, others depend more upon the will of man, but all are determined by the divine counsel. Every thing under heaven is thus changeable, but in heaven there is an unchangeable state, and an unchangeable counsel concerning these things.

1.There is a time to be born and a time to die. These are determined by the divine counsel; and, as we were born, so we must die, at the time appointed, Acts 17:26. Some observe that here is a time to be born and a time to die, but no time to live; that is so short that it is not worth mentioning; as soon as we are born we begin to die. But, as there is a time to be born and a time to die, so there will be a time to rise again, a set time when those that lie in the grave shall be remembered, Job 14:13.

2.A time for God to plant a nation, as that of Israel in Canaan, and, in order to that, to pluck up the seven nations that were planted there, to make room for them; and at length there was a time when God spoke concerning Israel too, to pluck up and to destroy, when the measure of their iniquity was full, Jeremiah 18:7, Jeremiah 18:9. There is a time for men to plant, a time of the year, a time of their lives; but, when that which was planted has grown fruitless and useless, it is time to pluck it up.

3.A time to kill, when the judgments of God are abroad in a land and lay all waste; but, when he returns in ways of mercy, then is a time to heal what he has torn (Hosea 6:1, Hosea 6:2), to comfort a people after the time that he has afflicted them, Psalm 90:15. There is a time when it is the wisdom of rulers to use severe methods, but there is a time when it is as much their wisdom to take a more gentle course, and to apply themselves to lenitives, not corrosives.

4.A time to break down a family, an estate, a kingdom, when it has ripened itself for destruction; but God will find a time, if they return and repent, to rebuild what he has broken down; there is a time, a set time, for the Lord to build up Zion, Psalm 102:13, Psalm 102:16. There is a time for men to break up house, and break off trade, and so to break down, which those that are busy in building up both must expect and prepare for.

5.A time when God's providence calls to weep and mourn, and when man's wisdom and grace will comply with the call, and will weep and mourn, as in times of common calamity and danger, and there it is very absurd to laugh, and dance, and make merry (Isaiah 22:12, Isaiah 22:13; Ezekiel 21:10); but then, on the other hand, there is a time when God calls to cheerfulness, a time to laugh and dance, and then he expects we should serve him with joyfulness and gladness of heart. Observe, The time of mourning and weeping is put first, before that of laughter and dancing, for we must first sow in tears and then reap in joy.

6.A time to cast away stones, by breaking down and demolishing fortifications, when God gives peace in the borders, and there is no more occasion for them; but there is a time to gather stones together, for the making of strong-holds, Ecclesiastes 3:5. A time for old towers to fall, as that in Siloam (Luke 12:4), and for the temple itself to be so ruined as that not one stone should be left upon another; but also a time for towers and trophies too to be erected, when national affairs prosper.

7.A time to embrace a friend when we find him faithful, but a time to refrain from embracing when we find he is unfair or unfaithful, and that we have cause to suspect him; it is then our prudence to be shy and keep at a distance. It is commonly applied to conjugal embraces, and explained by 1 Corinthians 7:3-5; Joel 2:16.

8.A time to get, get money, get preferment, get good bargains and a good interest, when opportunity smiles, a time when a wise man will seek (so the word is); when he is setting out in the world and has a growing family, when he is in his prime, when he prospers and has a run of business, then it is time for him to be busy and make hay when the sun shines. There is a time to get wisdom, and knowledge, and grace, when a man has a price put into his hand; but then let him expect there will come a time to spend, when all he has will be little enough to serve his turn. Nay, there will come a time to lose, when what has been soon got will be soon scattered and cannot be held fast.

9.A time to keep, when we have use for what we have got, and can keep it without running the hazard of a good conscience; but there may come a time to cast away, when love to God may oblige us to cast away what we have, because we must deny Christ and wrong our consciences if we keep it (Matthew 10:37, Matthew 10:38), and rather to make shipwreck of all than of the faith; nay, when love to ourselves may oblige us to cast it away, when it is for the saving of our lives, as it was when Jonah's mariners heaved their cargo into the sea.

10.A time to rend the garments, as upon occasion of some great grief, and a time to sew, them again, in token that the grief is over. A time to undo what we have done and a time to do again what we have undone. Jerome applies this to the rending of the Jewish church and the sewing and making up of the gospel church thereupon.

11.A time when it becomes us, and is our wisdom and duty, to keep silence, when it is an evil time (Amos 5:13), when our speaking would be the casting of pearl before swine, or when we are in danger of speaking amiss (Psalm 39:2); but there is also a time to speak for the glory of God and the edification of others, when silence would be the betraying of a righteous cause, and when with the mouth confession is to be made to salvation; and it is a great part of Christian prudence to know when to speak and when to hold our peace.

12.A time to love, and to show ourselves friendly, to be free and cheerful, and it is a pleasant time; but there may come a time to hate, when we shall see cause to break off all familiarity with some that we have been fond of, and to be upon the reserve, as having found reason for a suspicion, which love is loth to admit.

13.A time of war, when God draws the sword for judgment and gives it commission to devour, when men draw the sword for justice and the maintaining of their rights, when there is in the nations a disposition to war; but we may hope for a time of peace, when the sword of the Lord shall be sheathed and he shall make wars to cease (Psalm 46:9), when the end of the war is obtained, and when there is on all sides a disposition to peace. War shall not last always, nor is there any peace to be called lasting on this side the everlasting peace. Thus in all these changes God has set the one over-against the other, that we may rejoice as though we rejoiced not and weep as though we wept not.

III.The inferences drawn from this observation. If our present state be subject to such vicissitude,

1.Then we must not expect our portion in it, for the good things of it are of no certainty, no continuance (Ecclesiastes 3:9): What profit has he that works? What can a man promise himself from planting and building, when that which he thinks is brought to perfection may so soon, and will so surely, be plucked up and broken down? All our pains and care will not alter either the mutable nature of the things themselves or the immutable counsel of God concerning them.

2.Then we must look upon ourselves as upon our probation in it. There is indeed no profit in that wherein we labour; the thing itself, when we have it, will do us little good; but, if we make a right use of the disposals of Providence about it, there will be profit in that (Ecclesiastes 3:10): I have seen the travail which God has given to the sons of men, not to make up a happiness by it, but to be exercised in it, to have various graces exercised by the variety of events, to have their dependence upon God tried by every change, and to be trained up to it, and taught both how to want and how to abound, Philippians 4:12. Note,

(1.)There is a great deal of toil and trouble to be seen among the children of men. Labour and sorrow fill the world.

(2.)This toil and this trouble are what God has allotted us. He never intended this world for our rest, and therefore never appointed us to take our ease in it.

(3.)To many it proves a gift. God gives it to men, as the physician gives a medicine to his patient, to do him good. This travail is given to us to make us weary of the world and desirous of the remaining rest. It is given to us that we may be kept in action, and may always have something to do; for we were none of us sent into the world to be idle. Every change cuts us out some new work, which we should be more solicitous about, than about the event.

Historical interpretation

Two Centuries of Reception

10 surviving comments on this verse. Each one is dated, so this reads as a timeline rather than a list.

10 quotes · AD 395–604
Post-NiceneEarly Medieval
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Select a marker to jump to its quote. Markers stagger vertically where authors wrote within a few decades of each other.

d. AD 395Gregory of NyssaPost-NiceneSourceHOMILIES ON ECCLESIASTES 7
The text reads “There is a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,” words which will become clear only if we first look at them in the context of scripture and enable us to clearly know how the divinely inspired text is used for obtaining insight. The great David cries out in the Psalter “Walk around Zion, go round about her.” Solomon himself made a spiritual connection by yoking our capacity for love to wisdom and utters other words to unite us to virtue, “Honor her in order that she will embrace you.” If David bids us to walk around Zion and if Solomon says that wisdom will embrace those who honor her, we will not be mistaken about the meaning [of the text] before us which instructs us about an opportune time. Mount Zion is Jerusalem predominantly situated upon a mountaintop; therefore he who urges you to embrace her bids you to be united to that lofty manner of life in order to attain the peak of virtues as symbolized by Zion. He who wishes wisdom to dwell with you announces her embrace. And so, it is time to walk [perilambanein] around Zion and be embraced [perilambanesthai] by wisdom for the word “Zion” represents an exalted manner of life. However, wisdom in itself signifies every virtue. If we had known the opportune time for embracing as expressed by [Ecclesiastes], separation is perceived as superior to union. Ecclesiastes says “There is a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing.” Anyone joined to virtue is hostile to evil.… When we lovingly cling to the beautiful (that is, what is opportune) we alienate ourselves from any previous hostility. If you truly loved temperance, you hate its opposite. If you lovingly contemplate purity, you despise the foul stench of filth. If you cling to the good, you would indeed distant yourself from clinging to evil.
d. AD 395Gregory of NyssaPost-Nicene
Those who look only to the literal meaning and support the superficial interpretation of the words perhaps fit the law of Moses to the text before us. In cases where the law enjoins the pelting with stones of persons convicted of a felony, we have learned examples from the scriptural account itself in the case of sabbath breakers, and the one who had stolen sacred things, and other offenses, for which the law imposed a penalty of stoning. For my part, if the Ecclesiast had not claimed that collecting stones was also something timely, about which no law directs and no event in biblical history suggests a comparable precept, I might agree with those who interpret the passage through the law, that the moment for throwing stones is when someone has broken the sabbath or stolen something dedicated. But as it is, the addition of the requirement to collect stones again, which is prescribed by no law, leads us to a different interpretation, so that we may learn what kind of stones it is which after being thrown must again become the property of the thrower.… We certainly ought to consider that thoughts destructive of evil are the very stones accurately aimed by the Ecclesiast, which must be continually cast and collected. [They are] cast to put an end to the one who rises in pride against our life and collected to keep the soul’s lap always full of such missiles, ready to be thrown at the enemy, whenever he may plan some fresh assault on us. Where, then, are we to collect stones, with which we shall stone the enemy to death? I have heard the prophecy that said, “holy stones roll about on the ground.” These might be the words which come down to us from the divinely inspired writings, which we should collect in our soul’s lap, to use at the right moment against those who vex us, and which when they are thrown destroy the enemy and yet do not leave the hand of the thrower. The one who pelts with the stone of selfcontrol the unbridled thought which gathers fuel for the fire through the pleasures defeats it with his attack and always keeps his weapons in his hand. Thus justice both becomes the stone against injustice and defeats it and is kept in the lap of the one who throws it. In the same way all thoughts directed to better things are destructive of worse things and do not leave the one who lives rightly in virtue. This, in my opinion, is “throwing stones at the right moment” and “collecting them at the right moment,” so that we always cast good volleys of stones for the destruction of what is bad, and the supply of such weapons never runs out.
d. AD 395Gregory of NyssaPost-Nicene
“A moment for embracing and a moment for avoiding an embrace.” These ideas cannot possibly become clear to us unless the passage has first been interpreted through the Scripture, so that it has become clear to us in what connection the divinely inspired word consciously uses the word embrace. Great David exhorts us in the words of the psalm, “Circle Zion and embrace her,” and even Solomon himself, when he was describing poetically the spiritual marriage of the one in love with Wisdom, mentions a number of ways in which union with virtue becomes ours and adds this: “Honor her, so that she may embrace you.” If, then, David tells us to embrace Zion, and Solomon says that those who honor Wisdom are embraced by her, perhaps we have not missed the correct interpretation if we have identified the object which it is timely to embrace. For Mount Zion rises above the upper city of Jerusalem. Thus the one who urges you to embrace her is bidding you to attach yourself to high principles, so that you hasten to reach the very citadel of the virtues, which he indicates allegorically by the name Zion. And the one who makes you live with wisdom announces the good news of the embrace she will give you in the future. Therefore there is a moment for embracing Zion and for being embraced by Wisdom, since the name Zion denotes the pinnacle of conduct and Wisdom in herself means every instance of virtue. If we have learned through these words the right moment for embracing, we have been taught through the same words in what cases separation is more beneficial than union. For he says, “A moment for avoiding an embrace.” The one who has become familiar with virtue is a stranger to the state of evil.… So when the loving disposition clings to the good—that is the “right moment”—the result is surely estrangement from its opposite. If you really love selfcontrol, then of course you hate its opposite. If you look with love at purity, you obviously loathe the stink of filth. If you have become attached to the good, you surely avoid attachment to evil.
d. AD 395Gregory of NyssaPost-NiceneSourceHOMILIES ON ECCLESIASTES 7
Persons who look only at the letter and the superficial sense also accommodate Ecclesiastes’ words to the Law of Moses which bids us to cast stones at law breakers. History has taught us about persons who break the Sabbath and who have stolen sacred objects in addition to other transgressions which the Law has commanded to be punished by stoning. If Ecclesiastes does not provide an opportunity to gather stones of which neither the Law nor any historical record speaks, I would concur with those who interpret the Law as an occasion to cast stones at any violator of the Sabbath or at anyone who removed sacred objects. Another occasion to gather stones which is not legislated offers us another interpretation, that is, it teaches us about this stone after it is cast; the person who threw the stone can possess it again.… We would be correct in understanding wood as any thought inclined to evil, so we must perceive these stones which Ecclesiastes rightly casts at the destructive thoughts of evil. We should always cast them and then gather them. An enemy comes to lay waste our noble life; however, the bosom of our souls must always be prepared to cast [stones] against the foe if we perceive that he is ready to assault us in another manner. Where do we gather stones to hurl against our foe? I have heard the prophet saying “for holy stones are rolled upon the land.” We must gather into our soul’s bosom these divinely inspired words which come down for use against our foes. Our casting of stones destroys the enemy, a deed closely associated [with the stone itself] because whoever casts the stone of temperance at an unchaste thought which feeds the fire through pleasure is victor and always bears a weapon in his hand. Once righteousness becomes a stone against injustice, it destroys this evil and is kept in our bosom. In this way everything we understand about the good which destroys evil is associated with a person who conducts himself virtuously. Thus our interpretation [of Ecclesiastes’ words] requires a time to cast stones and a time to gather them that we may always cast goodness to destroy evil and never lack such weapons.
d. AD 398Didymus the BlindPost-NiceneSourceCOMMENTARY ON ECCLESIASTES 75:4
“A time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing.” In the literal sense this means men who live together with their wives have a time when they get together with them and a time when they do not.… When it is time for prayer, when it is a day on which one has to remain clean and send up prayers, one has to avoid embraces. When the days of prayer are over, they come together and embrace.…According to a superficial explanation, but perhaps also against it, the following remark is valid. “The appointed time has grown short,” Paul writes; “from now on, let even those who have wives be as though they had none.” He says, Since time has grown short and humankind has increased to a large number, it is not necessary any more to increase it; one has to cease.… When it was necessary that humankind increase, it was a time to embrace. But after the population had become numerous and the begetting of the faithful spread, one needed to avoid embracing.…
In the spiritual sense this is the meaning: Some have acquired God’s wisdom as a wife, like the one who says, “I became enamored of her beauty” and took her home as a spouse. About her it is said: “She will honor you if you embrace her.” Then wisdom embraces the wise by communicating to him her character, and the wise man embraces her.
When therefore this wife is with a person from whom she can beget insight and thoughts and works of insight—for “wisdom begets insight for a man”—then it is the time to embrace. This time, however, is not interrupted by breaks. One can always embrace wisdom. This time is eternal.
d. AD 398Didymus the BlindPost-NiceneSourceCOMMENTARY ON ECCLESIASTES 73:22
In the literal sense the following is said: The law prescribes that Israel’s judges have to investigate the behavior of the people; and if someone was found to have done prohibited things, he was to be convicted to be stoned.…Now, we relate the verse to rebuke instead of stoning. The wise teacher knows whom he has to rebuke and whom not, and in a certain way he throws the rebuke like stones in order to dissuade the rebuked from a bad way of life. If the person improves through the rebuke, the rebuke is gathered in and no more stones are thrown against him. Paul indicates this when he says, “Convince, rebuke and encourage!” By rebuking and convincing he was throwing stones. After seeing the one who was rebuked improve, he encourages and gathers the stones together. The following is meant: There is a time to punish and a time not to punish.
d. AD 420JeromePost-NiceneSourceCommentary on Ecclesiastes
"A time
for dispersing stones and a time for collecting stones." I marvel how an learned man could have said this
ridiculous note about this passage: "this passage speaks about the
destruction and killing of Solomon's houses, because men first destroy, then
build". Some amass stones to
construct buildings, others destroy those buildings which have been erected,
according to Horace's lines "he demolished, he builds, exchanges squares with
wheels, he fluctuates and disagrees with the whole order of life itself." [Horat. Epist. I. I. 100, 99.] Whether he is correct in saying this or not I
leave up to the reader to decide.
Nonetheless we should follow the sequence of the prior explanation-they
say it is a time for scattering and collecting stones, similar to what is
written in the Gospel: "God is powerful enough to raise up the sons of
Abraham from these stones". [Matth. 3, 9.] For there was a time for dispersing the
nation and a time for gathering them again into the Church. I have read in a certain book, (like the
Septuagint however, which says "there was a time for throwing stones and a
time for collecting them") that the harshness of the ancient law of the
Gospel was tempered by grace. In fact
the stern law, unkind and unforgiving, murders the sinner, he pities with the
grace of the Gospel and provokes men to repentance. And there is a time for throwing stones, or
collecting them, because stones are thrown in law and are collected in the
Gospel. Whether this is true fact or not
is credited to the author. "A time for embracing and a time for being far from
embrace. "The meaning of this is seemingly the
simplest understanding- the apostle agrees with the same words: "do not
cheat each other, unless by chance it is agreed for a time that you give
yourselves to fasting and to prayer." [I Cor. 7, 5.] Attention must be given to children, and
again to self-control. Or perhaps it was
the time for embrace when the opinion was flourishing that we ought to
"grow and multiply, and fill up the Earth" [Gen. 1, 28.]. And the time became far from one of embracing
when it passed away: "the times are hard; it remains that both they that
have wives be as though they had none". [I Cor. 7, 29.] But if we wanted to climb to the higher
parts, we would see wisdom embracing its lovers: for he says "honour it
and it will embrace you" [Prov. 4, 8.],
and hold them in its arms and lap in a tighter embrace. More precisely, it is not always possible to
stretch the human mind to heaven and think about the divine and higher things,
or continually consider celestial matters, but meanwhile to indulge in the necessities
of the flesh. On account of this there
is a time for embracing wisdom, and holding it more tightly, and a time for
relaxing the mind from the study and embrace of wisdom, just as of the care of
the body, and we have those things that our life needs in the absence of
sin.
d. AD 430Augustine of HippoPost-NiceneSourceON MARRIAGE AND CONCUPISCENCE 14
Now this propagation of children which among the ancient saints was a most bounden duty for the purpose of begetting and preserving a people for God, among whom the prophecy of Christ’s coming must have had precedence over everything, now has no longer the same necessity. For from among all nations the way is open for an abundant offspring to receive spiritual regeneration, from whatever quarter they derive their natural birth. So that we may acknowledge that the Scripture which says there is “a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing,” is to be distributed in its clauses to the periods before Christ and since. The former was the time to embrace, the latter to refrain from embracing.
d. AD 430Augustine of HippoPost-NiceneSourceTHE EXCELLENCE OF WIDOWHOOD 8:11
As for you, you both have children and live in that end of the world when the time has already come not “to scatter stones but to gather; not to embrace but to refrain embraces.” [This is a time] when the apostle cries out, “But this I say, brethren, the time is short; it remains that those who have wives be as if they had none.” Surely, if you had sought a second marriage, it would not have been in obedience to a prophecy or a law, or even the desire of the flesh for offspring, but merely a sign of incontinence. You would have followed the advice of the apostle, when, after having said, “It is good for them if they so remain, even as I,” he immediately added, “But if they do not have self-control, let them marry, for I prefer them to marry rather than to burn.”
d. AD 604Gregory the DialogistEarly MedievalSourceDIALOGUE 3:37
According to Solomon’s words, there is “a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them.” Because the end of the world presses upon us, it is necessary to gather living stones for the heavenly building, in order to make our Jerusalem grow to its full stature.
Source: Quotations drawn from early Church Fathers and historical Christian theologians (AD 100–1500). Some quotes address the surrounding passage context rather than this verse alone.

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