Romans 14:23
“Avoid Causing a Brother to Stumble”Romans 14:13–23
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Matthew Henry
From his Commentary on the Whole Bible. Henry wrote on whole passages, and this entry covers Romans 14:1–23. He set out his notes in a four-level outline, kept here as he numbered it.
We have in this chapter,
I.An account of the unhappy contention which had broken out in the Christian church.
Our Master had foretold that offences would come; and, it seems, so they did, for want of that wisdom and love which would have prevented discord, and kept up union among them.
1.There was a difference among them about the distinction of meats and days; these are the two things specified. There might be other similar occasions of difference, while these made the most noise, and were most taken notice of. The case was this: The members of the Christian church at Rome were some of them originally Gentiles, and others of them Jews. We find Jews at Rome believing, Acts xxviii. 24. Now those that had been Jews were trained up in the observance of the ceremonial appointments touching meats and days. This, which had been bred in the bone with them, could hardly be got out of the flesh, even after they turned Christians; especially with some of them, who were not easily weaned from what they had long been wedded to. They were not well instructed touching the cancelling of the ceremonial law by the death of Christ, and therefore retained the ceremonial institutions, and practised accordingly; while other Christians that understood themselves better, and knew their Christian liberty, made no such difference.
(1.)Concerning meats (v. 2): One believeth that he may eat all things—he is well satisfied that the ceremonial distinction of meats into clean and unclean is no longer in force, but that every creature of God is good, and nothing to be refused; nothing unclean of itself, v. 14. This he was assured of, not only from the general tenour and scope of the gospel, but particularly from the revelation which Peter, the apostle of the circumcision (and therefore more immediately concerned in it), had to this purport, Acts x. 15, 28. This the strong Christian is clear in, and practises accordingly, eating what is set before him, and asking no question for conscience' sake, 1 Cor. x. 27. On the other hand, another, who is weak, is dissatisfied in this point, is not clear in his Christian liberty, but rather inclines to think that the meats forbidden by the law remain still unclean; and therefore, to keep at a distance from them, he will eat no flesh at all, but eateth herbs, contenting himself with only the fruits of the earth. See to what degrees of mortification and self-denial a tender conscience will submit. None know but those that experience it how great both the restraining and the constraining power of conscience is.
(2.)Concerning days, v. 5. Those who thought themselves still under some kind of obligation to the ceremonial law esteemed one day above another—kept up a respect to the times of the passover, pentecost, new moons, and feasts of tabernacles; thought those days better than other days, and solemnized them accordingly with particular observances, binding themselves to some religious rest and exercise on those days. Those who knew that all these things were abolished and done away by Christ's coming esteemed every day alike. We must understand it with an exception of the Lord's day, which all Christians unanimously observed; but they made no account, took no notice, of those antiquated festivals of the Jews. Here the apostle speaks of the distinction of meats and days as a thing indifferent, when it went no further than the opinion and practice of some particular persons, who had been trained up all their days to such observances, and therefore were the more excusable if they with difficulty parted with them. But in the epistle to the Galatians, where he deals with those that were originally Gentiles, but were influenced by some judaizing teachers, not only to believe such a distinction and to practise accordingly, but to lay a stress upon it as necessary to salvation, and to make the observance of the Jewish festivals public and congregational, here the case was altered, and it is charged upon them as the frustrating of the design of the gospel, falling from grace, Gal. iv. 9-11. The Romans did it out of weakness, the Galatians did it out of wilfulness and wickedness; and therefore the apostle handles them thus differently. This epistle is supposed to have been written some time before that to the Galatians. The apostle seems willing to let the ceremonial law wither by degrees, and to let it have an honourable burial; now these weak Romans seem to be only following it weeping to its grave, but those Galatians were raking it out of its ashes.
2.It was not so much the difference itself that did the mischief as the mismanagement of the difference, making it a bone of contention.
(1.)Those who were strong, and knew their Christian liberty, and made use of it, despised the weak, who did not. Whereas they should have pitied them, and helped them, and afforded them meek and friendly instruction, they trampled upon them as silly, and humoursome, and superstitious, for scrupling those things which they knew to be lawful: so apt are those who have knowledge to be puffed up with it, and to look disdainfully and scornfully upon their brethren.
(2.)Those who were weak, and durst not use their Christian liberty, judged and censured the strong, who did, as if they were loose Christians, carnal professors, that cared not what they did, but walked at all adventures, and stuck at nothing. They judged them as breakers of the law, contemners of God's ordinance, and the like. Such censures as these discovered a great deal of rashness and uncharitableness, and would doubtless tend much to the alienating of affection. Well, this was the disease, and we see it remaining in the church to this day; the like differences, in like manner mismanaged, are still the disturbers of the church's peace. But,
II.We have proper directions and suggestions laid down for allaying this contention, and preventing the ill consequences of it.
The apostle, as a wise physician, prescribes proper remedies for the disease, which are made up of rules and reasons. Such gentle methods does he take, with such cords of a man does he draw them together; not by excommunicating, suspending, and silencing either side, but by persuading them both to a mutual forbearance: and as a faithful daysman he lays his hand upon them both, reasoning the case with the strong that they should not be so scornful, and with the weak that they should not be so censorious. If the contending parties will but submit to this fair arbitration, each abate of his rigour, and sacrifice their differences to their graces, all will be well quickly. Let us observe the rules he gives, some to the strong and some to the weak, and some to both, for they are interwoven; and reduce the reasons to their proper rules.
1.Those who are weak must be received, but not to doubtful disputations, v. 1. Take this for a general rule; spend your zeal in those things wherein you and all the people of God are agreed, and do not dispute about matters that are doubtful. Receive him, proslambavesthe—take him to you, bid him welcome, receive him with the greatest affection and tenderness; porrigite manum (so the Syriac): lend him your hand, to help him, to fetch him to you, to encourage him. Receive him into your company, and converse, and communion, entertain him with readiness and condescension, and treat him with all possible endearments. Receive him: not to quarrel with him, and to argue about uncertain points that are in controversy, which will but confound him, and fill his head with empty notions, perplex him, and shake his faith. Let not your Christian friendship and fellowship be disturbed with such vain janglings and strifes of words.—Not to judge his doubtful thoughts (so the margin), "not to pump out his weak sentiments concerning those things which he is in doubt about, that you may censure and condemn him." Receive him, not to expose him, but to instruct and strengthen him. See 1 Cor. i. 10; Phil. iii. 15, 16.
2.Those who are strong must by no means despise the weak; nor those who are weak judge the strong, v.
3.This is levelled directly against the fault of each party. It is seldom that any such contention exists but there is a fault on both sides, and both must mend. He argues against both these jointly: we must not despise nor judge our brethren. Why so?
(1.)Because God hath received them; and we reflect upon him if we reject those whom he hath received. God never cast off any one that had true grace, though he was but weak in it; never broke the bruised reed. Strong believers and weak believers, those that eat and those that eat not, if they be true believers, are accepted of God. It will be good for us to put this question to ourselves, when we are tempted to behave scornfully towards our brethren, to disdain and censure them: "Hast not God owned them; and, if he has, dare I disown them?" "Nay, God doth not only receive him, but hold him up, v. 4. You think that he who eateth will fall by his presumption, or that he who eateth not will sink under the weight of his own fears and scruples; but if they have true faith, and an eye to God, the one in the intelligent use of his Christian liberty and the other in the conscientious forbearance of it, they shall be held up—the one in his integrity, and the other in his comfort. This hope is built upon the power of God, for God is able to make him stand; and, being able, no doubt he is willing to exert that power for the preservation of those that are his own." In reference to spiritual difficulties and dangers (our own and others), much of our hope and comfort are grounded upon the divine power, 1 Pet. i. 5; Jude 24.
(2.)Because they are servants to their own master (v. 4): Who art thou that judgest another man's servant? We reckon it a piece of ill manners to meddle with other people's servants, and to find fault with them and censure them. Weak and strong Christians are indeed our brethren, but they are not our servants. This rash judging is reproved, Jam. iii. 1, under the notion of being many masters. We make ourselves our brethren's masters, and do in effect usurp the throne of God, when we take upon us thus to judge them, especially to judge their thoughts and intentions, which are out of our view, to judge their persons and state, concerning which it is hard to conclude by those few indications which fall within our cognizance. God sees not as man sees; and he is their master, and not we. In judging and censuring our brethren, we meddle with that which does not belong to us: we have work enough to do at home; and, if we must needs be judging, let us exercise our faculty upon our own hearts and ways.—To his own master he stands or falls; that is, his doom will be according to his master's sentence, and not according to ours. How well for us is it that we are not to stand nor fall by the judgment one of another, but by the righteous and unerring judgment of God, which is according to truth! "While thy brother's cause is before thy judgment, it is coram non judice—before one who is not the judge; the court of heaven is the proper court for trial, where, and where only, the sentence is definitive and conclusive; and to this, if his heart be upright, he may comfortably appeal from thy rash censure."
(3.)Because both the one and the other, if they be true believers, and are right in the main, have an eye to God, and do approve themselves to God in what they do, v. 6. He that regards the day—that makes conscience of the observance of the Jewish fasts and festivals, not imposing it upon others, nor laying a stress upon it, but willing to be as he thinks on the surer side, as thinking there is no harm in resting from worldly labours, and worshipping God on those days—it is well. We have reason to think, because in other things he conducts himself like a good Christian, that in this also his eye is single, and that he regardeth it unto the Lord; and God will accept of his honest intention, though he be under a mistake about the observance of days; for the sincerity and uprightness of the heart were never rejected for the weakness and infirmity of the head: so good a master do we serve. On the other hand, he that regards not the day—that does not make a difference between one day and another, does not call one day holy and another profane, one day lucky and another unlucky, but esteems every day alike—he does not do it out of a spirit of opposition, contradiction, or contempt of his brother. If he be a good Christian, he does not, he dares not, do it from such a principle; and therefore we charitably conclude that to the Lord he does not regard it. he makes no such difference of days only because he knows God hath made none; and therefore intends his honour in endeavouring to dedicate ever day to him. So for the other instance: He that eateth whatever is set before him, though it be blood, though it be swine's flesh, if it be food convenient for him, he eateth to the Lord. He understands the liberty that God has granted him, and uses it to the glory of God, with an eye to his wisdom and goodness in enlarging our allowance now under the gospel, and taking off the yoke of legal restraints; and he giveth God thanks for the variety of food he has, and the liberty he has to eat it, and that in those things his conscience is not fettered. On the other hand, he that eatest not those meats which were forbidden by the ceremonial law, to the Lord he eateth not. It is for God's sake, because he is afraid of offending God by eating that which he is sure was once prohibited; and he giveth God thanks too that there is enough besides. If he conscientiously deny himself that which he takes to be forbidden fruit, yet he blesses God that of other trees in the garden he may freely eat. Thus, while both have an eye to God in what they do, and approve themselves to him in their integrity, why should either of them be judged or despised? Observe, Whether we eat flesh, or eat herbs, it is a thankful regard to God, the author and giver of all our mercies, that sanctifies and sweetens it. Bishop Sanderson, in his 34th sermon, upon 1 Tim. iv. 4, justly makes this observation: It appears by this that saying grace (as we commonly call it, perhaps from 1 Cor. x. 30) before and after meat was the common known practice of the church, among Christians of all sorts, weak and strong: an ancient, commendable, apostolical, Christian practice, derived down from Christ's example through all the ages of the church, Matt. xiv. 19; xv. 36; Luke ix. 16; John vi. 11; Matt. xxvi. 26, 27; Acts xxvii. 35. Blessing the creatures in the name of God before we use them, and blessing the name of God for them after, are both included; for eulogein and eucharistein are used promiscuously. To clear this argument against rash judging and despising, he shows how essential it is to true Christianity to have a regard to God and not to ourselves, which therefore, unless the contrary do manifestly appear, we must presume concerning those that in minor things differ from us. Observe his description of true Christians, taken from their end and aim (v. 7, 8), and the ground of it, v. 9.
[1.]Our end and aim: not self, but the Lord. As the particular end specifies the action, so the general scope and tendency specify the state. If we would know what way we walk in, we must enquire what end we walk towards. First, Not to self. We have learned to deny ourselves; this was our first lesson: None of us liveth to himself. This is a thing in which all the people of God are one, however they differ in other things; though some are weak and others are strong, yet both agree in this, not to live to themselves. Not one that hath given up his name to Christ is allowedly a self-seeker; it is contrary to the foundation of true Christianity. We neither live to ourselves nor die to ourselves. We are not our own masters, nor our own proprietors—we are not at our own disposal. The business of our lives is not to please ourselves, but to please God. The business of our deaths, to which we are every day exposed and delivered, is not to make ourselves talked of; we run not such hazards out of vain-glory, while we are dying daily. When we come to die actually, neither is that to ourselves; it is not barely that we would be unclothed, and eased of the burden of the flesh, but it is to the Lord, that we may depart and be with Christ, may be present with the Lord. Secondly, But to the Lord (v. 8), to the Lord Christ, to whom all power and judgment are committed, and in whose name we are taught, as Christians, to do every thing we do (Col. iii. 17), with an eye to the will of Christ as our rule, to the glory of Christ as our end, Phil. i. 21. Christ is the gain we aim at, living and dying. We live to glorify him in all the actions and affairs of life; we die, whether a natural or a violent death, to glorify him, and to go to be glorified with him. Christ is the centre, in which all the lines of life and death do meet. This is true Christianity, which makes Christ all in all. So that, whether we live or die, we are the Lord's, devoted to him, depending on him, designed and designing for him. Though some Christians are weak and others strong,—though of different sizes, capacities, apprehensions, and practices, in minor things, yet they are all the Lord's—all eying, and serving, and approving themselves to Christ, and are accordingly owned and accepted of him. Is it for us then to judge or despise them, as if we were their masters, and they were to make it their business to please us, and to stand or fall by our dooms?
[2.]The ground of this, v. 9. It is grounded upon Christ's absolute sovereignty and dominion, which were the fruit and end of his death and resurrection. To this end he both died, and rose, and revived (he, having risen, entered upon a heavenly life, the glory which he had before) that he might be Lord both of dead and living—that he might be universal monarch, Lord of all (Acts x. 36), all the animate and inanimate creatures; for he is head over all things to the church. He is Lord of those that are living to rule them, of those that are dead to receive them and raise them up. This was that name above every name which God gave him as the reward of his humiliation, Phil. ii. 8, 9. It was after he had died and risen that he said, All power is given unto me (Matt. xxviii. 18), and presently he exerts that power in issuing out commissions, v. 19, 20. Now if Christ paid so dearly for his dominion over souls and consciences, and has such a just and undisputed right to exercise that dominion, we must not so much as seem to invade it, nor intrench upon it, by judging the consciences of our brethren, and arraigning them at our bar. When we are ready to reproach and reflect upon the name and memory of those that are dead and gone, and to pass a censure upon them (which some the rather do, because such judgments of the dead are more likely to pass uncontrolled and uncontradicted), we must consider that Christ is Lord of the dead, as well as of the living. If they are dead, they have already given up their account, and let that suffice. And this leads to another reason against judging and despising,
(4.)Because both the one and the other must shortly give an account, v. 10-12. A believing regard to the judgment of the great day would silence all these rash judgings: Why dost thou that art weak judge thy brother that is strong? And why dost thou that art strong set at nought thy brother that is weak? Why is all this clashing, and contradicting, and censuring, among Christians? We shall all stand before the judgment-seat of Christ, 2 Cor. v. 10. Christ will be the judge, and he has both authority and ability to determine men's eternal state according to their works, and before him we shall stand as persons to be tried, and to give up an account, expecting our final doom from him, which will be eternally conclusive. To illustrate this (v. 11), he quotes a passage out of the Old Testament, which speaks of Christ's universal sovereignty and dominion, and that established with an oath: As I live (saith the Lord), every knee shall bow to me. It is quoted from Isa. xlv. 23. There it is, I have sworn by myself; here it is, As I live. So that whenever God saith As I live, it is to be interpreted as swearing by himself; for it is God's prerogative to have life in himself: there is a further ratification of it there, The word is gone out of my mouth. It is a prophecy, in general, of Christ's dominion; and here very fully applied to the judgment of the great day, which will be the highest and most illustrious exercise of that dominion. Here is a proof of Christ's Godhead: he is the Lord and he is God, equal with the Father. Divine honour is due to him, and must be paid. It is paid to God through him as Mediator. God will judge the world by him, Acts xvii. 31. The bowing of the knee to him, and the confession made with the tongue, are but outward expressions of inward adoration and praise. Every knee and every tongue, either freely or by force.
[1.]All his friends do it freely, are made willing in the day of his power. Grace is the soul's cheerful, entire, and avowed subjection to Jesus Christ. First, Bowing to him—the understanding bowed to his truths, the will to his laws, the whole man to his authority; and this expressed by the bowing of the knee, the posture of adoration and prayer. It is proclaimed before our Joseph, Bow the knee, Gen. xli. 43. Though bodily exercise alone profits little, yet, as it is guided by inward fear and reverence, it is accepted. Secondly, Confessing to him—acknowledging his glory, grace, and greatness—acknowledging our own meanness and vileness, confessing our sins to him; so some understand it.
[2.]All his foes shall be constrained to do it, whether they will or no. When he shall come in the clouds, and every eye shall see him, then, and not till then, will all those promises which speak of his victories over his enemies and their subjection to him have their full and complete accomplishment; then his foes shall be his footstool, and all his enemies shall lick the dust. Hence he concludes (v. 12), Every one of us shall give account of himself to God. We must not give account for others, nor they for us; but every one for himself. We must give account how we have spent our time, how we have improved our opportunities, what we have done and how we have done it. And therefore, First, We have little to do to judge others, for they are not accountable to us, nor are we accountable for them (Gal. ii. 6): Whatsoever they were, it maketh no matter to me, God accepteth no man's person. Whatever they are, and whatever they do, they must give account to their own master, and not to us; if we can in any thing be helpers of their joy, it is well; but we have not dominion over their faith. And, Secondly, We have the more to do to judge ourselves. We have an account of our own to make up, and that is enough for us; let every man prove his own work (Gal. vi. 4), state his own accounts, search his own heart and life; let this take up his thoughts, and he that is strict in judging himself and abasing himself will not be apt to judge and despise his brother. Let all these differences be referred to the arbitration of Christ at the great day.
(5.)Because the stress of Christianity is not to be laid upon these things, nor are they at all essential to religion, either on the one side or on the other. This is his reason (v. 17, 18), which is reducible to this branch of exhortation. Why should you spend your zeal either for or against those things which are so minute and inconsiderable in religion? Some make it a reason why, in case of offence likely to be taken, we should refrain the use of our Christian liberty; but it seems directed in general against that heat about those things which he observed on both sides. The kingdom of God is not meat, &c. Observe here,
[1.]The nature of true Christianity, what it is: it is here called, The kingdom of God; it is a religion intended to rule us, a kingdom: it stands in a true and hearty subjection to God's power and dominion. The gospel dispensation is in a special manner called the kingdom of God, in distinction from the legal dispensation, Matt. iii. 2; iv. 17. First, It is not meat and drink: it does not consist either in using or in abstaining from such and such meats and drinks. Christianity gives no rule in that case, either in one way or another. The Jewish religion consisted much in meats and drinks (Heb. ix. 10), abstaining from some meats religiously (Lev. xi. 2), eating other meats religiously, as in several of the sacrifices, part of which were to be eaten before the Lord: but all those appointments are now abolished and are no more, Col. ii. 21, 22. The matter is left at large. Every creature of God is good, 1 Tim. iv. 4. So, as to other things, it is neither circumcision nor uncircumcision (Gal. v. 6; vi. 15; 1 Cor. vii. 19), it is not being of this party and persuasion, of this or the other opinion in minor things, that will recommend us to God. It will not be asked at the great day, "Who ate flesh, and who ate herbs?" "Who kept holy days, and who did not?" Nor will it be asked, "Who was conformist and who was non-conformist?" But it will be asked, "Who feared God and worked righteousness, and who did not?" Nothing more destructive to true Christianity than placing it in modes, and forms, and circumstantials, which eat out the essentials. Secondly, It is righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost. These are some of the essentials of Christianity, things in which all the people of God are agreed, in the pursuit of which we must spend our zeal, and which we must mind with an excelling care. Righteousness, peace, and joy, are very comprehensive words; and each of them includes much, both of the foundation and the superstructure of religion. Might I limit the sense of them, it should be thus:—As to God, our great concern is righteousness—to appear before him justified by the merit of Christ's death, sanctified by the Spirit of his grace; for the righteous Lord loveth righteousness. As to our brethren, it is peace—to live in peace and love, and charity with them, following peace with all men: Christ came into the world to be the great peace-maker. As to ourselves, it is joy in the Holy Ghost—that spiritual joy which is wrought by the blessed Spirit in the hearts of believers, which respects God as their reconciled Father and heaven as their expected home. Next to our compliance with God, the life of religion consists in our complacency in him; to delight ourselves always in the Lord. Surely we serve a good Master, who makes peace and joy so essential to our religion. Then and then only we may expect peace and joy in the Holy Ghost when the foundation is laid in righteousness, Isa. xxxii. 17. Thirdly, It is in these things to serve Christ (v. 18), to do all this out of respect to Christ himself as our Master, to his will as our rule and to his glory as our end. That which puts an acceptableness upon all our good duties is a regard to Christ in the doing of them. We are to serve his interests and designs in the world, which are in the first place to reconcile us one to another. What is Christianity but the serving of Christ? And we may well afford to serve him who for us and for our salvation took upon him the form of a servant.
[2.]The advantages of it. He that duly observeth these things, First, Is acceptable to God. God is well pleased with such a one, though he be not in every thing just of our length. He has the love and favour of God; his person, his performances, are accepted of God, and we need no more to make us happy. If God now accepts thy works, thou mayest eat thy bread with joy. Those are most pleasing to God that are best pleased with him; and they are those that abound most in peace and joy in the Holy Ghost. Secondly, He is approved of men—of all wise and good men, and the opinion of others is not to be regarded. The persons and things which are acceptable to God should be approved of us. Should not we be pleased with that which God is pleased with? What is it to be sanctified, but to be of God's mind? Observe, The approbation of men is not to be slighted; for we must provide things honest in the sight of all men, and study those things that are lovely and of good report: but the acceptance of God is to be desired and aimed at in the first place, because, sooner or later, God will bring all the world to be of his mind.
3.Another rule here given is this, that in these doubtful things every one not only may, but must, walk according to the light that God hath given him. This is laid down v. 5, Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind; that is, "Practise according to your own judgment in these things, and leave others to do so too. Do not censure the practice of others; let them enjoy their own opinion; if they be persuaded in their own mind that they ought to do so and so, do not condemn them, but, if your sober sentiments be otherwise, do not make their practice a rule to you, any more than you must prescribe yours as a rule to them. Take heed of acting contrary to the dictates of a doubting conscience. First be persuaded that what you do is lawful, before you venture to do it." In doubtful things, it is good keeping on the sure side of the hedge. If a weak Christian doubts whether it be lawful to eat flesh, while he remains under that doubt he had best forbear, till he be fully persuaded in his own mind. We must not pin our faith upon any one's sleeve, nor make the practice of others our rule; but follow the dictates of our own understanding. To this purport he argues, v. 14 and 23, which two verses explain this, and give us a rule not to act against the dictates,
(1.)Of a mistaken conscience, v. 14. If a thing be indifferent, so that it is not in itself a sin not to do it, if we really think it a sin to do it it is to us a sin, though not to others, because we act against our consciences, though mistaken and misinformed. He specifies the case in hand, concerning the difference of meats. Observe,
[1.]His own clearness in this matter. "I know and am persuaded—I am fully persuaded, I am acquainted with my Christian liberty, and am satisfied in it, without any doubt or scruple, that there is nothing unclean of itself, that is, no kind of meat that lies under any ceremonial uncleanness, nor is forbidden to be eaten, if it be food proper for human bodies." Several kinds of meat were forbidden to the Jews, that in that, as in other things, they might be a peculiar and separate people, Lev. xi. 44; Deut. xiv. 2, 3. Sin had brought a curse upon the whole creation: Cursed is the ground for thy sake; the use of the creatures and dominion over them were forfeited, so that to man they were all unclean (Tit. i. 15), in token of which God in the ceremonial law prohibited the use of some, to show what he might have done concerning all; but now that Christ has removed the curse the matter is set at large again, and that prohibition is taken away. Therefore Paul says that he was persuaded by the Lord Jesus, not only as the author of that persuasion, but as the ground of it; it was built upon the efficacy of Christ's death, which removed the curse, took off the forfeiture, and restored our right to the creature in general, and consequently put a period to that particular distinguishing prohibition. So that now there is nothing unclean of itself, every creature of God is good; nothing common: so the margin, ouden koinon; nothing which is common to others to eat, from the use of which the professors of religion are restrained: nothing profane; in this sense the Jews used the word common. It is explained by the word akatharton, Acts x. 14, nothing common or unclean. It was not only from the revelation made to Peter in this matter, but from the tenour and tendency of the whole gospel, and from the manifest design of Christ's death in general, that Paul learned to count nothing common or unclean. This was Paul's own clearness, and he practised accordingly.
[2.]But here is a caution he gives to those who had not that clearness in this matter which he had: To him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, though it be his error, yet to him it is unclean. This particular case, thus determined, gives a general rule, That he who does a thing which he verily believes to be unlawful, however the thing be in itself, to him it is a sin. This arises from that unchangeable law of our creation, which is, that our wills, in all their choices, motions, and directions, should follow the dictates of our understandings. This is the order of nature, which order is broken if the understanding (though misguided) tell us that such a thing is a sin, and yet we will do it. This is a will to do evil; for, if it appears to us to be sin, there is the same pravity and corruption of the will in the doing of it as if really it were a sin; and therefore we ought not to do it. Not that it is in the power of any man's conscience to alter the nature of the action in itself, but only as to himself. It must be understood likewise with this proviso, though men's judgments and opinions may make that which is good in itself to become evil to them, yet they cannot make that which is evil in itself to become good, either in itself or to them. If a man were verily persuaded (it is Dr. Sanderson's instance, sermon on ch. xiv. 23) that it were evil to ask his father's blessing, that mispersuasion would make it become evil to him: but, if he should be as verily persuaded that it were good to curse his father, this would not make it become good. The Pharisees taught people to plead conscience, when they made corban an excuse for denying relief to their parents, Matt. xv. 5, 6. But this would not serve any more than Paul's erroneous conscience would justify his rage against Christianity (Acts xxvi. 9), or theirs, John xvi. 2.
(2.)Nor must we act against the dictates of a doubting conscience. In those indifferent things which we are sure it is no sin not to do, and yet are not clear that it is lawful to do them, we must not do them while we continue under those doubts; for he that doubteth is damned if he eat (v. 23), that is, it turns into sin to him; he is damned, katakekritai—he is condemned of his own conscience, because he eateth not of faith, because he does that which he is not fully persuaded he may lawfully do. He is not clear that it is lawful for him to eat swine's flesh (suppose), and yet is drawn, notwithstanding his doubts, to eat it, because he sees others do it, because he would gratify his appetite with it, or because he would not be reproached for his singularity. Here his own heart cannot but condemn him as a transgressor. Our rule is, to walk as far as we have attained, not further, Phil. iii. 15, 16.—For whatsoever is not of faith is sin. Taking it in general, it is the same with that of the apostle (Heb. xi. 6), Without faith it is impossible to please God. Whatever we do in religion, it will not turn to any good account, except we do it from a principle of faith, with a believing regard to the will of Christ as our rule, to the glory of Christ as our end, and to the righteousness of Christ as our plea. Here it seems to be taken more strictly; whatever is not of faith (that is, whatever is done while we are not clearly persuaded of the lawfulness of it), is a sin against conscience. He that will venture to do that which his own conscience suggests to him to be unlawful, when it is not so in itself, will by a like temptation be brought to do that which his conscience tells him is unlawful when it is really so. The spirit of a man is the candle of the Lord, and it is a dangerous thing to debauch and put a force upon conscience, though it be under a mistake. This seems to be the meaning of that aphorism, which sounds somewhat darkly (v. 22), Happy is he that condemns not himself in that thing which he allows. Many a one allows himself in practice to do that which yet in his judgment and conscience he condemns himself for—allows it for the sake of the pleasure, profit, or credit of it—allows it in conformity to the custom; and yet whilst he does it, and pleas for it, his own heart gives him the lie, and his conscience condemns him for it. Now, happy is the man who so orders his conversation as not in any action to expose himself to the challenges and reproaches of his own conscience—that does not make his own heart his adversary, as he must needs do who does that which he is not clear he may lawfully do. He is happy that has peace and quietness within, for the testimony of conscience will be a special cordial in troublesome times. Though men condemn us, it is well enough if our own hearts condemn us not, 1 John iii. 21.
4.Another rule here prescribed is to those who are clear in these matters, and know their Christian liberty, yet to take heed of using it so as to give offence to a weak brother. This is laid down v. 13, Let us not judge one another any more. "Let it suffice that you have hitherto continued in this uncharitable practice, and do so no more." The better to insinuate the exhortation, he puts himself in; Let us not; as if he had said, "It is what I have resolved against, therefore do you leave it: but judge this rather, instead of censuring the practice of others, let us look to our own, that no man put a stumbling-block, or an occasion to fall, in his brother's way,"—proskomma, e skandalon. We must take heed of saying or doing any thing which may occasion our brother to stumble or fall; the one signifies a less, the other a greater degree of mischief and offence—that which may be an occasion,
(1.)Of grief to our brother, "One that is weak, and thinks it unlawful to eat such and such meats, will be greatly troubled to see thee eat them, out of a concern for the honour of the law which he thinks forbids them, and for the good of thy soul which he thinks is wronged by them, especially when thou dost it wilfully and with a seeming presumption, and not with that tenderness and that care to give satisfaction to thy weak brother which would become thee." Christians should take heed of grieving one another, and of saddening the hearts of Christ's little ones. See Matt. xviii. 6, 10.
(2.)Of guilt to our brother. The former is a stumbling-block, that gives our brother a great shake, and is a hindrance and discouragement to him; but this is an occasion to fall. "If thy weak brother, purely by thy example and influence, without any satisfaction received concerning his Christian liberty, be drawn to act against his conscience and to walk contrary to the light he has, and so to contract guilt upon his soul, though the thing were lawful to thee, yet not being so to him (he having not yet thereto attained), thou art to be blamed for giving the occasion." See this case explained, 1 Cor. viii. 9-11. To the same purport (v. 21) he recommends it to our care not to give offence to any one by the use of lawful things: It is good neither to eat flesh nor to drink wine; these are things lawful indeed and comfortable, but not necessary to the support of human life, and therefore we may, and must, deny ourselves in them, rather than give offence. It is good—pleasing to God, profitable to our brother, and no harm to ourselves. Daniel and his fellows were in better liking with pulse and water than those were who ate the portion of the king's meat. It is a generous piece of self-denial, for which we have Paul's example (1 Cor. viii. 13), If meat make my brother to offend; he does not say, I will eat no meat, that is to destroy himself; but I will eat no flesh, that is to deny himself, while the world stands. This is to be extended to all such indifferent things whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, is involved either in sin or in trouble: or is made weak—his graces weakened, his comforts weakened, his resolutions weakened. Is made weak, that is, takes occasion to show his weakness by his censures and scruples. We must not weaken those that are weak; that is to quench the smoking flax and to break the bruised reed. Observe the motives to enforce this caution.
[1.]Consider the royal law of Christian love and charity, which is hereby broken (v. 15): If thy brother be grieved with thy meat—be troubled to see thee eat those things which the law of Moses did forbid, which yet thou mayest lawfully do; possibly thou art ready to say, "Now he talks foolishly and weakly, and it is no great matter what he says." We are apt, in such a case, to lay all the blame on that side. But the reproof is here given to the stronger and more knowing Christian: Now walkest thou not charitably. Thus the apostle takes part with the weakest, and condemns the defect in love on the one side more than the defect in knowledge on the other side; agreeably to his principles elsewhere, that the way of love is the more excellent way, 1 Cor. xii. 31. Knowledge puffeth up, but charity edifieth, 1 Cor. viii. 1-3. Now walkest thou not charitably. Charity to the souls of our brethren is the best charity. True love would make us tender of their peace and purity, and beget a regard to their consciences as well as to our own. Christ deals gently with those that have true grace, though they are weak in it.
[2.]Consider the design of Christ's death: Destroy not him with thy meat for whom Christ died, v. 15. First, Drawing a soul to sin threatens the destruction of that soul. By shaking his faith, provoking his passion, and tempting him to act against the light of his own conscience, thou dost, as much as in thee lies, destroy him, giving him an occasion to return to Judaism. Me apollye. It denotes an utter destruction. The beginning of sin is as the letting forth of water; we are not sure that it will stop any where on this side of eternal destruction. Secondly, The consideration of the love of Christ in dying for souls should make us very tender of the happiness and salvation of souls, and careful not to do any thing which may obstruct and hinder them. Did Christ quit a life for souls, such a life, and shall not we quit a morsel of meat for them? Shall we despise those whom Christ valued at so high a rate? Did he think it worth while to deny himself so much for them as to die for them, and shall not we think it worth while to deny ourselves so little for them as abstaining from flesh comes to?—with thy meat. Thou pleadest that it is thy own meat, and thou mayest do what thou wilt with it; but remember that, though the meat is thine, the brother offended by it is Christ's, and a part of his purchase. While thou destroyest thy brother thou art helping forward the devil's design, for he is the great destroyer; and, as much as in thee lies, thou art crossing the design of Christ, for he is the great Saviour, and dost not only offend thy brother, but offend Christ; for the work of salvation is that which his heart is upon. But are any destroyed for whom Christ died? If we understand it of the sufficiency and general intendment of Christ's death, which was to save all upon gospel terms, no doubt but multitudes are. If of the particular determination of the efficacy of his death to the elect, then, though none that were given to Christ shall perish (John vi. 39), yet thou mayest, as much as is in thy power, destroy such. No thanks to thee if they be not destroyed; by doing that which has a tendency to it, thou dost manifest a great opposition to Christ. Nay, and thou mayest utterly destroy some whose profession may be so justifiable that thou art bound to believe, in a judgment of charity, that Christ died for them. Compare this with 1 Cor. viii. 10, 11.
[3.]Consider the work of God (v. 20): "For meat destroy not the work of God—the work of grace, particularly the work of faith in thy brother's soul." The works of peace and comfort are destroyed by such an offence given; take heed of it therefore; do not undo that which God hath done. You should work together with God, do not countermine his work. First, The work of grace and peace is the work of God; it is wrought by him, it is wrought for him; it is a good work of his beginning, Phil. i. 6. Observe, The same for whom Christ died (v. 15) are here called the work of God; besides the work that is wrought for us there is a work to be wrought in us, in order to our salvation. Every saint is God's workmanship, his husbandry, his building, Eph. ii. 10; 1 Cor. iii. 9. Secondly, We must be very careful to do nothing which tends to the destruction of this work, either in ourselves or others. We must deny ourselves in our appetites, inclinations, and in the use of Christian liberty, rather than obstruct and prejudice our own or others' grace and peace. Many do for meat and drink destroy the work of God in themselves (nothing more destructive to eh soul than pampering and pleasing the flesh, and fulfilling the lusts of it), so likewise in others, by wilful offence given. Think what thou destroyest—the work of God, whose work is honourable and glorious; think for what thou destroyest it—for meat, which was but for the belly, and the belly for it.
[4.]Consider the evil of giving offence, and what an abuse it is of our Christian liberty. He grants that all things indeed are pure. We may lawfully eat flesh, even those meats which were prohibited by the ceremonial law; but, if we abuse this liberty, it turns into sin to us: It is evil to him that eats with offence. Lawful things may be done unlawfully.—Eats with offence, either carelessly or designedly giving offence to his brethren. It is observable that the apostle directs his reproof most against those who gave the offence; not as if those were not to be blamed who causelessly and weakly took the offence from their ignorance of Christian liberty, and the want of that charity which is not easily provoked and which thinketh no evil (he several times tacitly reflects upon them), but he directs his speech to the strong, because they were better able to bear the reproof, and to begin the reformation. For the further pressing of this rule, we may here observe two directions which have relation to it:—First, Let not then your good be evil spoken of (v. 16)—take heed of doing any thing which may give occasion to others to speak evil, either of the Christian religion in general, or of your Christian liberty in particular. The gospel is your good; the liberties and franchises, the privileges and immunities, granted by it, are your good; your knowledge and strength of grace to discern and use your liberty in things disputed are your good, a good which the weak brother hath not. Now let not this be evil spoken of. It is true we cannot hinder loose and ungoverned tongues from speaking evil of us, and of the best things we have; but we must not (if we can help it) give them any occasion to do it. Let not the reproach arise from any default of ours; as 1 Tim. iv. 12, Let no man despise thee, that is, do not make thyself despicable. So here, Do not use your knowledge and strength in such a manner as to give occasion to people to call it presumption and loose walking, and disobedience to God's law. We must deny ourselves in many cases for the preservation of our credit and reputation, forbearing to do that which we rightly know we may lawfully do, when our doing it may be a prejudice to our good name; as, when it is suspicious and has the appearance of evil, or when it becomes scandalous among good people, or has any way a brand upon it. In such a case we must rather cross ourselves than shame ourselves. Though it be but a little folly, it may be like a dead fly, very prejudicial to one that is in reputation for wisdom and honour, Eccl. x. 1. We may apply it more generally. We should manage all our good duties in such a manner that they may not be evil spoken of. That which for the matter of it is good and unexceptionable may sometimes, by mismanagement, be rendered liable to a great deal of censure and reproach. Good praying, preaching, and discourse, may often, for want of prudence in ordering the time, the expression, and other circumstances to edification, be evil spoken of. It is indeed their sin who do speak evil of that which is good for the sake of any such circumstantial errors, but it is our folly if we give any occasion to do so. As we tender the reputation of the good we profess and practise, let us so order it that it may not be evil spoken of. Secondly, Hast thou faith? Have it to thyself before God, v. 22. It is not meant of justifying faith (that must not be hid, but manifested by our works), but of a knowledge and persuasion of our Christian liberty in things disputed. "Hast thou clearness in such a particular? Art thou satisfied that thou mayest eat all meats, and observe all days (except the Lord's day) alike? Have it to thyself, that is, enjoy the comfort of it in thy own bosom, and do not trouble others by the imprudent use of it, when it might give offence, and cause thy weak brother to stumble and fall." In these indifferent things, though we must never contradict our persuasion, yet we may sometimes conceal it, when the avowing of it will do more hurt than good. Have it to thyself—a rule to thyself (not to be imposed upon others, or made a rule to them), or a rejoicing to thyself. Clearness in doubtful matters contributes very much to our comfortable walking, as it frees us from those scruples, jealousies, and suspicions, which those who have not such clearness are entangled in endlessly. Compare Gal. vi. 4, Let every man prove his own work, that is, bring it to the touchstone of the word and try it by that so exactly as to be well satisfied in what he does; and then he shall have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. Paul had faith in these things: I am persuaded that there is nothing unclean of itself; but he had it to himself, so as not to use his liberty to the offence of others. How happy were it for the church if those that have a clearness in disputable things would be satisfied to have it to themselves before God, and not impose those things upon others, and make them terms of communions, than which nothing is more opposite to Christian liberty, nor more destructive both to the peace of churches and the peace of consciences. That healing method is not the less excellent for being common: in things necessary let there be unity, things unnecessary let there be liberty, and in both let there be charity, then all will be well quickly.—Have it to thyself before God. The end of such knowledge is that, being satisfied in our liberty, we may have a conscience void of offence towards God, and let that content us. That is the true comfort which we have before God. Those are right indeed that are so in God's sight.
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As to those who are overtaken by an involuntary flux in the night-time, let such follow the testimony of their own conscience, and consider themselves as to whether they are doubtfully minded in this matter or not. And he that doubteth in the matter of meats, the apostle tells us, "is damned if he eat." In these things, therefore, let every one who approaches God be of a good conscience, and of a proper confidence, so far as his own judgment is concerned.
If “all that is not of faith is sin, and faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God,” then everything outside holy Scripture, not being of faith, is sin.
It is true that if someone thinks it wrong to eat but does so anyway, he is condemned. For he makes himself guilty when he does what he thinks he ought not to.If someone acts against his better judgment in a matter of conscience, then Paul says that it is a sin.
Every word or deed or thought which does not look to Christ looks completely to the adversary of Christ. For it is not possible for what is outside of light or life not to be completely in darkness or death.… The person outside of Christ rejects him by what he thinks, does or says.
Again, it is to exhort him to spare the weaker, that he says this. For what good is it if he eat in doubt, and condemn himself? For I approve of him, who both eateth, and doeth it not with doubting. See how he induces him not to eating only, but to eating with a good conscience too. Then he mentions likewise the reason why he is condemned continuing in these words, "Because he eateth not of faith." Not because it is unclean, but because it is not of faith. For he did not believe that it is clean, but though unclean he touched it. But by this he shows them also what great harm they do by compelling men, and not persuading them, to touch things which had hitherto appeared unclean to them, that for this at all events they might leave rebuking. "For whatsoever is not of faith is sin." For when a person does not feel sure, nor believe that a thing is clean, how can he do else than sin? Now all these things have been spoken by Paul of the subject in hand, not of everything. And observe what care he takes not to offend any; and he had said before, "If thy brother be grieved with thy meat, now walkest thou not charitably." But if one should not grieve him, much less ought one to give him offence. And again, "For meat destroy not the work of God." For if it were a grievous act of iniquity to throw down a Church, much more so is it to do so to the spiritual Temple. Since a man is more dignified than a Church: for it was not for walls that Christ died, but for these temples.
Whatever destroys another is not of faith and is therefore sin.
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Whoever eats while doubting stands condemned, because he acted without faith, and anything done apart from faith is sin.
“And he that doubteth is damned if he eat,”
diakrínō, to be divided in mind, and katakrínō, to be judged against. The condemnation falls on the act done in doubt.
“because he eateth not of faith:”
The fault lies in the missing conviction, since the food itself is clean.
“for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.”
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Passage studyRomans 14:13–23
Do Not Make Your Brother Stumble
Summary
Paul has just told the believers in Rome to stop judging one another over food and holy days. Now he gives them something better to decide: each of them will keep his brother’s path clear of anything that could make him fall. Paul is sure that all food is clean, and he is just as sure that a brother’s conscience must be protected, because that brother is one “for whom Christ died”. The kingdom of God is “righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost”, so the strong gladly give up meat or wine for a brother’s sake, and every believer acts only on what he can do in faith before God.
The quarrel in Rome over food and days
The church in Rome was made up of Jewish and Gentile believers. Many Jewish believers had kept the law of Moses all their lives, with its clean and unclean animals (Leviticus 11), its Sabbaths and its feasts, and these habits were hard to lay down. Gentile believers had grown up free of such rules, though some of them carried a scruple of their own. Much of the meat sold in the markets of a Roman city had first been offered to an idol, and a believer who had left idols behind could fear that eating it was a share in pagan worship. Wine carried religious associations as well. The church ate together, so these differences were on show at every shared meal.
Paul calls the believers with scruples “weak” in faith and those who understand their freedom “strong”. Romans 14 opens by telling the church to receive the weak brother and to leave doubtful matters unargued. In Romans 14:1–12 the strong are told to stop despising and the weak to stop judging, since each should be fully persuaded in his own mind, each lives to the Lord, and each will give account of himself to God. The verses studied here turn from what we must stop doing to what we owe one another, and the same teaching runs on into Romans 15. Paul wrote the letter from Corinth around A.D. 57–58, to a church that probably met in several houses with differing customs, and he had already answered a similar question about idol meat for the Corinthians (1 Corinthians 8, 1 Corinthians 10:23–33).
A better thing to judge
Verse 13 begins, “Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather”. “Therefore” reaches back to the judgment seat before which every one of us will stand (Romans 14:10), and “any more” tells us that the judging was already going on. Paul then uses the same verb, krínō, a second time and gives it a new object. The word means to distinguish and so to decide, and it can go as far as to condemn. Believers who had been passing sentence on each other are to pass a decision on themselves. Mâllon, “rather”, marks the alternative, the judging to take up in place of the other.
What we are to decide is “that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way”. Two pictures stand side by side. A próskomma is something a foot strikes against, an obstacle that trips a person up. A skándalon, the source of our word “scandal”, was first the bent stick that holds the bait in a trap, so it means a snare. The brother’s “way” is his walk with Christ, and the two words together cover anything of ours that would make him falter, sin or act against his conscience, even a thing that is right in itself. Paul told the Corinthians to take heed lest their liberty become a stumblingblock to the weak (1 Corinthians 8:9).
This is love at work. Freedom in Christ is real, and it is given so that by love we may serve one another (Galatians 5:13). To use it this way is to keep the “royal law” of loving your neighbour (James 2:8) and to guard the unity of the Spirit that Paul urges on the Ephesians (Ephesians 4:1–3).
Does this verse forbid all judging?
Paul is forbidding the critical, condemning spirit that believers were turning on each other over disputable matters, where consciences differ and each one answers to God. Telling truth from error is still our duty, and in this very verse Paul commands a judgment, the one we make about our own conduct and its effect on others.
Paul’s conviction about clean and unclean food
“I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself”. Paul states his certainty twice over. Eídō, “I know”, is properly a verb of seeing that is used for knowing, and “persuaded by the Lord Jesus” tells us where the certainty came from. He speaks as an apostle taught by Christ, and his words carry that authority.
The word for unclean, koinós, means “common” or “shared”. Among the Jews it was used for whatever was profane or ritually defiled, the opposite of what was set apart as holy. Paul says that every food is free of this defilement in itself. Jesus had taught that a man is defiled by what comes out of his heart, and that food, which enters from outside, leaves him clean (Mark 7:15, Mark 7:18–19, Matthew 15:18–19). Peter was told in his vision to stop calling common what God had cleansed (Acts 10:15), and Paul writes to Titus that to the pure all things are pure (Titus 1:15). Behind all of this stands Christ, who is the end of the law for righteousness to everyone who believes (Romans 10:4). He has set his people free from the yoke of ceremonial rules, to stand in that liberty and to walk in the Spirit (Galatians 5:1, Galatians 5:16).
Then comes the second half of the verse: “but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean”. Logízomai means to count, reckon or consider. A believer who reckons a food unclean and eats it anyway has done what he believes God forbids, and for him that is sin, as verse 23 will say outright. So the food is clean, and the eater may still be defiled by his own act against his conscience.
Are all things then permissible for every Christian?
The verse holds two truths together. In itself the food is clean, which is the liberty Christ has won. For the person whose conscience counts it unclean, eating is wrong for as long as his conscience says so. Paul treats the same case at length when he writes of idol meat and the weak conscience in 1 Corinthians 8:7–13, and from this point on he presses the strong to act for the sake of the weak.
Why a brother outweighs a meal
“But if thy brother be grieved with thy meat, now walkest thou not charitably.” The little word dé, “but”, turns from what Paul knows to what love requires. “Meat” is brōma, food in general and especially food that the Jewish law allowed or forbade, and here it stands for any disputable thing. Lypéō means to distress or make sad. The grief in view is that of a brother who watches the strong eat and is shaken by it, pressed toward doing what his conscience forbids or left doubting his own convictions. “Charitably” translates two Greek words, katá and agápē, “according to love”, and peripatéō, “walk”, is the usual figure for how a person lives and behaves. A believer who eats on regardless has stepped off the path of love, the love that fulfils the law (Romans 13:8–10).
“Destroy not him with thy meat, for whom Christ died.” Paul says “thou” and “thy” all through the verse and so speaks to one believer at a time. He sets the smallest thing beside the greatest, a plate of food beside the death of the Son of God. Christ judged this brother worth dying for, and the strong believer is asked only to go without a dish. To harm such a brother is to make light of what Christ did for him. Jesus gave the same warning himself: “But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea” (Matthew 18:6). Paul’s own resolve was, “Wherefore, if meat make my brother to offend, I will eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother to offend” (1 Corinthians 8:13). His rule was, “All things are lawful for me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but all things edify not. Let no man seek his own, but every man another’s wealth” (1 Corinthians 10:23–24).
What does “destroy” mean here?
Apóllymi means to destroy fully, to perish or to lose, so Paul is speaking of grave spiritual harm. The weak brother may be led to sin against his conscience, lose his footing, or be so disheartened that his faith is undermined and even wrecked. How far that ruin can finally go Paul leaves unsaid in this verse, and the warning carries its full weight either way, because the one put at risk is one for whom Christ died.
Must I give up a freedom whenever someone disapproves?
Paul’s concern is real spiritual harm, the grief of a brother who is being pushed to violate his conscience or whose faith is being shaken. A brother’s dislike or disagreement calls for patient discernment and perhaps gentle teaching, and Paul has already told that brother to stop judging. Telling the two apart takes humility: listening, watching how the other is faring, and asking whether he is being tempted to sin or to doubt. Where the harm is real, love gives way.
What is “your good”, and who speaks evil of it?
“Let not then your good be evil spoken of.” Oûn, “then”, draws the consequence from verse 15. “Your good”, with agathós for what is good and beneficial, is the liberty itself, a real good that the strong believer holds with a clear conscience. Blasphēméō means to vilify, defame or revile, and our word “blaspheme” comes from it. Freedom used without love gets a bad name. Weaker believers who are hurt by it speak against it, and outsiders who watch Christians wound each other over a meal think the worse of the gospel and of Christ. The believers in Rome were a small and often misunderstood company, and their life together was their witness. Jesus told his disciples to let their light shine so that men would see their good works and glorify the Father (Matthew 5:16), and Paul asks for a manner of life worthy of the gospel (Philippians 1:27).
What the kingdom of God is
“For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.” Basileía comes from the word for a king and means royalty, rule or a realm. Here it is God’s reign in the hearts and lives of his people now. “Meat and drink” are brōsis and pósis, eating and drinking, and they stand for every outward observance that believers argue about. Paul says elsewhere that food does not commend us to God (1 Corinthians 8:8), that food, drink and holy days were a shadow of things to come (Colossians 2:16–17), and that what counts in Christ is faith working by love (Galatians 5:6).
Three things mark the kingdom. Righteousness, dikaiosýnē, is rightness of character and act, and in Christian use it is justification: the right standing God gives through faith in Christ, together with the upright life that flows from it. Peace is peace with God, quiet within, and harmony between believers, which was the very thing Rome was losing. Joy is “in the Holy Ghost”, a gladness the Spirit gives, and it holds whatever the circumstances. Peace and joy are named among the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23), so all three are received from him and grown in us by him.
Does this mean outward conduct is unimportant?
Righteousness is itself a matter of right living, so the verse puts conduct at the centre of the kingdom. Paul is setting food rules and observances below the life the Spirit produces, and the whole passage is about one piece of conduct, the way we treat a brother.
Acceptable to God and approved of men
“For he that in these things serveth Christ is acceptable to God, and approved of men.” “These things” are the disputed matters of the chapter. Douleúō comes from doulos, a slave, and means to serve as one who belongs to a master, so the believer makes his choices about food and days as Christ’s servant and for Christ’s honour. Such a person is euárestos to God, a word built from eu, “well”, and arestos, “pleasing”. He is also dókimos to men, from dokeō, a word used for what has been tried and found genuine, as tested metal is passed as current coin.
People ask whether “approved of men” tells us to seek human praise. God’s pleasure comes first in the verse and is the aim, and the approval of men follows as a result, since a life lived for Christ in love and humility earns the respect of fellow believers and makes for peace among them. Paul speaks the same way when he tells servants to work heartily as to the Lord (Colossians 3:23–24) and tells the Corinthians to do everything, eating and drinking included, to the glory of God (1 Corinthians 10:31).
Pursuing peace and building one another up
“Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.” Diṓkō means to pursue, to press hard after something, and it is strong enough to be used elsewhere for persecuting. Peace in the church is chased down by people who want it. Eirḗnē is wholeness and harmony, right relations among people who still differ. Oikodomḗ, “edify”, is literally a building, and to edify another is to build him up in faith and character. Paul asks this of every part of church life. All things in the gathering are to be done for edifying (1 Corinthians 14:26), our words are to be good for building up (Ephesians 4:29), and each of us is to look to the interests of others (Philippians 2:1–4). We are many members of one body (Romans 12:4–5), and that body is built up until we all come to the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ (Ephesians 4:12–13).
“For meat destroy not the work of God.” Our English Bible has “destroy” here and in verse 15, but Paul’s verb has changed. Katalýō means to loosen down, to demolish, the reverse of building. “The work of God” is the brother himself: his faith, his growth, his conscience, all that God is doing to save and mature him. Paul calls the church God’s building (1 Corinthians 3:9) and the believer’s body the temple of the Holy Ghost (1 Corinthians 6:19). A believer who insists on his plate is pulling down, for the sake of food, what God is putting up.
“All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence.” Paul grants the strong their point once more and then qualifies it. “Offence” is próskomma again, the stumblingblock of verse 13. Clean food becomes an evil (kakon, something harmful) in the hands of the man whose eating trips his brother.
“It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.” “Good” is kalós, and it tells us that going without for a brother’s sake is a good deed in its own right, freely chosen. Paul widens the rule from flesh to wine to “any thing”. Three verbs name the harm. Proskóptō is to strike against something and trip. Skandalízō, from skándalon, is to be snared, drawn into sin or away from one’s convictions. Asthenéō is to be made feeble, with faith or conscience undermined. Between them they cover every degree of damage one believer can do to another.
Should Christians never eat meat or drink wine?
Paul’s rule is love for a brother, and it applies when eating or drinking would harm him. He has already said in verse 14 that “there is nothing unclean of itself”, so the food and the wine remain clean. The abstaining is a free choice made for someone else’s good.
Faith kept before God, and the conscience that doubts
“Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God.” Pístis, faith, usually names our trust in Christ for salvation. In these two verses it is the settled conviction, held before God, that a particular thing is right to do. Paul asks the strong believer whether he has it and tells him to keep it between himself and God. His freedom is real and God sees it, so it needs only God for its audience, and it should never be paraded before weaker brothers. This also frees him from judging, since a believer who is secure before God has little reason to despise another’s conscience.
“Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.” Makários means blessed, happy. Dokimázō, “alloweth”, means to test, prove and approve. The blessed man is the one who has examined a thing, approved it, and does it with his conscience at rest. Earlier in the chapter Paul asked that each be fully persuaded in his own mind, and this is that persuasion at work.
“And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not of faith.” Diakrínō comes from a root meaning to separate thoroughly, and here it describes a person divided in mind, wavering over whether the thing is right. This is the weak brother who eats because the strong are eating. The food is clean and his eating is still wrong, because he did it while half believing that God forbids it.
“For whatsoever is not of faith is sin.” Paul ends by turning the case into a rule for the whole of life. Any act done apart from the conviction that God approves it is sin for the person who does it. Sin therefore includes what we do against our own conscience, just as James says that knowing to do good and leaving it undone is sin (James 4:17). The rule fits everything Paul teaches about faith. We are justified by faith (Romans 3:28), without faith it is impossible to please God (Hebrews 11:6), and the life that follows is lived in the Spirit (Romans 8), so that even ordinary acts like eating are done in trust toward him.
Does “damned” mean eternal condemnation?
Katakrínō is built from katá, “against”, and krínō, “to judge”, and means to judge against, to pass sentence. In this verse the sentence is the one a man’s own conscience passes on him, the guilt and self-reproach of having done what he believed was wrong. He is the opposite of the happy man of verse 22, who “condemneth not himself”. The word speaks of a breach between his act and his conscience before God. It is not a sentence of eternal damnation. The passage that began by telling us to stop judging a brother ends with the doubter judged by himself, and both verbs come from the same root.
Christ, who gave up his rights for us
Everything Paul asks of the strong, Christ has already done. He was in the form of God, and he “made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men”, and became obedient to the death of the cross (Philippians 2:5–8). He came to serve and to give his life a ransom for many (Mark 10:45). He died for us while we were weak and ungodly (Romans 5:6–8) and was made sin for us so that we might be made righteous (2 Corinthians 5:21). When Paul goes on to tell the strong to bear the infirmities of the weak and to please their neighbour for his good, the reason he gives is Christ, who put our good before his own pleasure and bore reproach for it (Romans 15:1–7).
So giving up a freedom for a brother is a share in Christ’s own way of loving. His new commandment is “love one another, as I have loved you”, and by that love all men know his disciples (John 13:34–35). Peter says that Christ left us an example, that we should follow in his steps (1 Peter 2:21). It is the love that looks to another’s good and bears, believes, hopes and endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:5–7).
Christ is also the substance of the kingdom Paul describes. He fulfilled all righteousness (Matthew 3:15) and is made our righteousness (1 Corinthians 1:30). He is our peace, who broke down the wall between Jew and Gentile and made peace by the blood of his cross (Ephesians 2:14–16, Colossians 1:20), and he leaves his own peace with his people (John 14:27). He promised that his joy would be in his disciples and that their joy would be full (John 15:11). He is the servant who always did what pleased the Father (John 8:29), and the Father said so from heaven at his baptism and on the mountain (Matthew 3:17, Matthew 17:5). The clear conscience of verse 22 is his gift too, for he is the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world (John 1:29), and his blood cleanses the conscience (Hebrews 9:14).
Scripture does speak of one stumblingblock that stays. Paul calls Christ crucified a stumblingblock to the Jews and foolishness to the Greeks (1 Corinthians 1:23). That offence arises from men’s rejection of God’s truth, and the cross that caused it is the means of salvation for all who believe. The stumblingblocks of this passage are of our own laying.
What this passage gives the church
Few churches today quarrel over idol meat, yet believers still differ over things Scripture leaves open: alcohol, entertainment and music, dress, political stances, social media, styles of worship, the use of time and money. Paul’s teaching reaches all of them. It gives the believer with a free conscience two certainties to hold together, that his freedom is real and that the brother beside him was bought with Christ’s blood. The question the passage teaches us to ask moves from “What am I allowed to do?” to “What will build up the one beside me?”
It gives the believer with a tender conscience protection and dignity. God calls him his own work. He is asked to act only on what he can do in faith, whatever others around him feel free to do, and a conscience taught by Scripture and by the Holy Spirit can grow in its understanding of that freedom.
And it shows us who God is. He values each believer at the price of his Son’s death, he is at work building in every one of them, and his kingdom among us is righteousness, peace and joy given by his Spirit. A church that pursues those things, with freedoms held quietly before God and gladly laid down for one another, is living under his reign.
Romans 14:13
“Let us not therefore judge one another any more:”
“Therefore” rests on verses 10–12, where every believer answers to God. “Any more” shows that the judging had become a habit in Rome.
“but judge this rather,”
The verb krínō returns with a new target, our own conduct. The word mâllon marks the turn from the one kind of judging to the other.
“that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way.”
A próskomma trips the foot and a skándalon springs a trap. The “way” is the brother’s walk with Christ, and the things in view are permitted things that harm him.
Romans 14:14
“I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus,”
Paul gives his certainty in two verbs, the first of them eídō, and names its source. What follows is settled truth received from Christ.
“that there is nothing unclean of itself:”
“Unclean” is koinós, common or profane. The ceremonial distinction between foods has been fulfilled in Christ.
“but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean.”
The verb is logízomai, to reckon. The repeated “to him” keeps the weight on the individual and his own conscience before God.
Romans 14:15
“But if thy brother be grieved with thy meat,”
The “but” is dé, and “grieved” is lypéō, to be distressed. The grief is real hurt to his conscience and faith, a heavier thing than annoyance. “Meat” is brōma, food.
“now walkest thou not charitably.”
Literally “according to love”, katá with agápē. The verb for walking, peripatéō, pictures the whole manner of life.
“Destroy not him with thy meat,”
apóllymi, to destroy fully or to lose. The food is the instrument, and it is a small one for so great a harm.
“for whom Christ died.”
The measure of the brother’s worth, and the reason the warning is so grave.
Romans 14:16
“Let not then”
The word oûn ties this command to verse 15: since love forbids harming a brother, guard what follows.
“your good”
agathós, the legitimate freedom of the strong, good because it is held in faith and is no sin in itself.
“be evil spoken of:”
The verb is blasphēméō, to revile or defame. Liberty used without love is slandered, and the gospel suffers with it.
Romans 14:17
“For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink;”
The kingdom, basileía, is God’s present rule among his people. Eating (brōsis) and drinking stand for all the outward matters believers dispute.
“but righteousness,”
dikaiosýnē, right standing with God and the right living that comes from it.
“and peace,”
Peace with God, within, and with one another.
“and joy in the Holy Ghost.”
The Spirit is the source of this joy, and of the righteousness and peace named with it.
Romans 14:18
“For he that in these things serveth Christ”
The verb douleúō is the service of one who belongs to his master. The motive in every disputed matter is Christ’s honour.
“is acceptable to God,”
euárestos, well-pleasing. God’s approval is the first and highest result.
“and approved of men.”
dókimos, tested and found genuine. This follows from the first and is never the aim.
Romans 14:19
“Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace,”
“Therefore” draws on verse 17. The verb diṓkō is active, deliberate pursuit, and eirḗnē is the harmony of believers who differ and still belong together.
“and things wherewith one may edify another.”
oikodomḗ, building. Peace and building up go together, and each believer has a hand in the other’s growth.
Romans 14:20
“For meat destroy not the work of God.”
The verb is katalýō, to pull down. God’s work is what he is doing in a fellow believer and in his church.
“All things indeed are pure;”
The liberty of verse 14 stated again, and granted in full.
“but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence.”
The eater here is the strong believer whose eating becomes a stumblingblock, próskomma, to someone else.
Romans 14:21
“It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine,”
kalós, good. Meat and wine were the disputed things in Rome, both clean in themselves.
“nor any thing”
The rule reaches past food to every matter of liberty.
“whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.”
To trip (proskóptō), to be snared (skandalízō), to be made feeble (asthenéō). Paul’s concern takes in every kind of harm.
Romans 14:22
“Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God.”
pístis here is conviction about a disputed matter. Paul speaks to one person, “thou”, and makes God the witness of his freedom.
“Happy is he that condemneth not himself”
makários, blessed. His act and his conviction agree, so his conscience is quiet.
“in that thing which he alloweth.”
dokimázō, to test and approve. The freedom meant is one he has examined before God.
Romans 14:23 This verse
“And he that doubteth is damned if he eat,”
diakrínō, to be divided in mind, and katakrínō, to be judged against. The condemnation falls on the act done in doubt.
“because he eateth not of faith:”
The fault lies in the missing conviction, since the food itself is clean.
“for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.”
The single case becomes a general principle for every choice Scripture leaves open.
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