Such [is] the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.
Such is the way {H1870} of an adulterous {H5003} woman {H802}; she eateth {H398}, and wipeth {H4229} her mouth {H6310}, and saith {H559}, I have done {H6466} no wickedness {H205}.
This is how an unfaithful wife behaves: she eats, wipes her mouth, and says, "I did nothing wrong."
This is the way of an adulteress: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, ‘I have done nothing wrong.’
So is the way of an adulterous woman; She eateth, and wipeth her mouth, And saith, I have done no wickedness.
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Proverbs 7:13
So she caught him, and kissed him, [and] with an impudent face said unto him, -
Proverbs 7:23
Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it [is] for his life. -
Proverbs 5:6
Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, [that] thou canst not know [them]. -
Numbers 5:11
¶ And the LORD spake unto Moses, saying, -
Numbers 5:30
Or when the spirit of jealousy cometh upon him, and he be jealous over his wife, and shall set the woman before the LORD, and the priest shall execute upon her all this law.
Context
Proverbs 30:20 is part of a collection of wise sayings attributed to Agur, son of Jakeh, found in Proverbs chapter 30. This particular verse falls within a series of observations about things that are inscrutable or difficult to understand, or behaviors that are particularly insidious. While the preceding verses (18-19) speak of the mysterious "way of a man with a maid" and other natural wonders, verse 20 abruptly shifts to illustrate a morally reprehensible "way"—that of the adulterous woman. The book of Proverbs frequently warns against the dangers of sexual immorality, often personified as the "strange woman" or "immoral woman," whose path leads to destruction (e.g., Proverbs 2:16-19, Proverbs 5:3-6, Proverbs 7:6-27). This verse highlights not just the act, but the profound lack of conscience accompanying it.
Key Themes and Messages
Linguistic Insights
The imagery of "she eateth, and wipeth her mouth" is highly metaphorical and potent. Eating is a common, often innocent act, but here it symbolizes the effortless and perhaps even pleasurable consumption of forbidden fruit (the act of adultery). "Wiping her mouth" signifies a clean, untraceable act, leaving no evidence or trace of the transgression. It's an act of covering up, of erasing the signs of guilt, much like a child might wipe away crumbs after secretly taking a treat. The Hebrew word for "wickedness" here is 'awon (עָוֹן), which refers to iniquity, guilt, or punishment for sin. Her denial of 'awon underscores a profound moral blindness or deliberate refusal to acknowledge her guilt.
Practical Application
Proverbs 30:20 serves as a powerful warning not only against sexual immorality but more broadly against the insidious nature of sin coupled with self-deception and denial. It challenges us to reflect on: