Lamentations 5:3

We are orphans and fatherless, our mothers [are] as widows.

We are orphans {H3490} and fatherless {H369}{H1}, our mothers {H517} are as widows {H490}.

We have become fatherless orphans, our mothers now are widows.

We have become fatherless orphans; our mothers are widows.

We are orphans and fatherless; Our mothers are as widows.

Commentary

Lamentations 5:3 captures the profound despair and vulnerability experienced by the people of Judah following the destruction of Jerusalem and the Temple by the Babylonians in 586 BC. This verse is part of a collective prayer and lament in Chapter 5, where the community appeals to God, recounting their dire circumstances.

Historical and Cultural Context

The book of Lamentations serves as a poetic expression of grief over the catastrophic events that befell Jerusalem. The city, once the glorious capital and spiritual center, lay in ruins, its inhabitants scattered, enslaved, or left in utter destitution. In ancient Near Eastern societies, orphans and widows were consistently identified as the most vulnerable groups, lacking the traditional male protection and provision. Their plight symbolized the ultimate state of helplessness and social collapse. This verse vividly portrays the complete breakdown of societal structure and protection that resulted from the Babylonian conquest and the subsequent exile, a time of unprecedented suffering for the Judean people.

Key Themes and Messages

  • Extreme Vulnerability: The declaration "We are orphans and fatherless" underscores a deep sense of abandonment and a complete lack of protection. It signifies that the traditional protectors—fathers, husbands, and by extension, the nation's leadership and God's covenantal protection—are perceived as absent or ineffective.
  • Loss of Provision and Security: The phrase "our mothers are as widows" further amplifies this theme. Even if some fathers were technically alive but exiled or incapacitated, their absence left mothers in a state of destitution, akin to true widows who had no support system. This highlights a severe lack of provision and security, signifying the complete disruption of family life.
  • Societal Collapse: The verse paints a stark picture of a society utterly broken. The family unit, the foundational block of society, is shattered, reflecting the wider national catastrophe. This state was the antithesis of the blessed and ordered society God intended for Israel.

Linguistic Insights

The Hebrew word for "orphans," yetomim (יְתוֹמִים), specifically refers to children whose fathers have died. The term "fatherless" reinforces this condition, emphasizing the critical absence of the patriarchal head of the household who was responsible for protection, sustenance, and identity. Similarly, almanot (אַלְמָנוֹת), "widows," denotes women who have lost their husbands, their primary providers. The comparison "our mothers are as widows" suggests a state of effective widowhood, even if not literal, due to the complete inability of men to fulfill their roles in the shattered society, leading to immense suffering and destitution for the women and children. This highlights the profound social and economic impact of the Babylonian invasion.

Related Scriptures and Biblical Significance

The Bible frequently emphasizes God's special care for the vulnerable, particularly orphans and widows, often commanding His people to protect them. This lament stands in stark contrast to divine commands found elsewhere. For instance, Deuteronomy 10:18 states that God "doth execute the judgment of the fatherless and widow," and James 1:27 defines "pure religion" as visiting "the fatherless and widows in their affliction." The lament expresses the devastating reality when the community itself has failed to uphold justice and has experienced God's judgment, leading to a situation where these vulnerable groups are left exposed. The historical context of Jerusalem's destruction is detailed in 2 Kings 25:8-10, which sets the stage for this lament.

Practical Application

Lamentations 5:3 is a poignant reminder of the profound impact of loss, war, and societal breakdown on the most vulnerable. It calls us to:

  • Empathize with the Displaced: Recognize the deep emotional and physical suffering of those who have lost their homes, families, and sense of security due to conflict, persecution, or disaster.
  • Care for the Vulnerable: The lament serves as a timeless call to action for believers and communities to actively protect and provide for orphans, widows, and all who are marginalized, embodying the very heart of God's concern for justice and compassion.
  • Reflect on Consequences: Understand that societal disobedience and moral decay can lead to devastating consequences, highlighting the importance of justice, righteousness, and adherence to God's principles for national and community well-being.

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Cross-References

  • Jeremiah 18:21

    Therefore deliver up their children to the famine, and pour out their [blood] by the force of the sword; and let their wives be bereaved of their children, and [be] widows; and let their men be put to death; [let] their young men [be] slain by the sword in battle.
  • Exodus 22:24

    And my wrath shall wax hot, and I will kill you with the sword; and your wives shall be widows, and your children fatherless.
  • Jeremiah 15:8

    Their widows are increased to me above the sand of the seas: I have brought upon them against the mother of the young men a spoiler at noonday: I have caused [him] to fall upon it suddenly, and terrors upon the city.
  • Hosea 14:3

    Asshur shall not save us; we will not ride upon horses: neither will we say any more to the work of our hands, [Ye are] our gods: for in thee the fatherless findeth mercy.
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