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Commentary on Genesis 33 verses 5–15
We have here the discourse between the two brothers at their meeting, which is very free and friendly, without the least intimation of the old quarrel. It was the best way to say nothing of it. They converse,
I. About Jacob's retinue, Gen 33:5-7. Eleven or twelve little ones, the eldest of them no fourteen years old, followed Jacob closely: Who are these? says Esau. Jacob had sent him an account of the increase of his estate (Gen 32:5), but made no mention of his children; perhaps because he would not expose them to his rage if he should meet him as an enemy, or would please him with the unexpected sight if he should meet him as a friend: Esau therefore had reason to ask, Who are those with thee? to which common question Jacob returns a serious answer, such as became his character: They are the children which God hath graciously given they servant. It had been a sufficient answer to the question, and fit enough to be given to profane Esau, if he had only said, "They are my children;" but then Jacob would not have spoken like himself, like a man whose eyes were ever towards the Lord. Note, It becomes us not only to do common actions, but to speak of them, after a godly sort, Jo3 1:6. Jacob speaks of his children, 1. As God's gifts; they are a heritage of the Lord, Psa 128:3; Psa 112:9; Psa 107:41. 2. As choice gifts; he hath graciously given them. Though they were many, and now much his care, and as yet but slenderly provided for, yet he accounts them great blessings. His wives and children, hereupon, come up in order, and pay their duty to Esau, as he had done before them (Gen 33:6, Gen 33:7); for it becomes the family to show respect to those to whom the master of the family shows respect.
II. About the present he had sent him.
1.Esau modestly refused it because he had enough, and did not need it, Gen 33:9. Note, Those who wish to be considered men of honour will not seem to be mercenary in their friendship: whatever influence Jacob's present had upon Esau to pacify him, he would not have it thought that it had any, and therefore he refused it. His reason is I have enough, I have much (so the word is), so much that he was not willing to take any thing that was his brother's. Note, (1.) Many that come short of spiritual blessings, and are out of covenant, yet have much of this world's wealth. Esau had what was promised him, the fatness of the earth and a livelihood by his sword. (2.) It is a good thing for those that have much to know that they have enough, though they have not so much as some others have. Even Esau can say, I have enough. (3.) Those that are content with what they have must show it by not coveting what others have. Esau, for his part, needs it not, either to supply him, for he was rich, or to pacify him, for he was reconciled: we should take heed lest at any time our covetousness impose upon the courtesy of others, and meanly take advantage of their generosity.
2.Jacob affectionately urges him to accept it, and prevails, Gen 33:10, Gen 33:11. Jacob sent it, through fear (Gen 32:20), but, the fear being over, he now importunes his acceptance of it for love, to show that he desired his brother's friendship, and did not merely dread his wrath; two things he urges: - (1.) The satisfaction he had in his brother's favour, of which he thought himself bound to make this thankful acknowledgment. It is a very high compliment that he passes upon him: I have seen thy face, as though I had seen the face of God, that is, "I have seen thee reconciled to me, and at peace with me, as I desire to see God reconciled." Or the meaning is that Jacob saw God's favour to him in Esau's: it was a token for good to him that God had accepted his prayers. Note, Creature-comforts are comforts indeed to us when they are granted as answers to prayer, and are tokens of our acceptance with God. Again, It is matter of great joy to those that are of a peaceable and affectionate disposition to recover the friendship of those relations with whom they have been at variance. (2.) The competency he had of this world's goods: God has dealt graciously with me. Note, If what we have in this world increase under our hands, we must take notice of it with thankfulness, to the glory of God, and own that therein he has dealt graciously with us, better than we deserve. It is he that gives power to get wealth, Deu 8:18. He adds, "And I have enough; I have all," so the word is. Esau's enough was much, but Jacob's enough was all. Note, a godly man, though he have but little in the world, yet may truly say, "I have all," [1.] Because he has the God of all, and has all in him; all is yours if you be Christ's, Co1 3:22. [2.] Because he has the comfort of all. I have all, and abound, Phi 4:18. He that thinks he has all is sure he has enough. He has all in prospect; he will have all shortly, when he comes to heaven: upon this principle Jacob urged Esau, and he took his present. Note, It is an excellent thing when men's religion makes them generous, free-hearted, and open-handed, scorning to do a thing that is paltry and sneaking.
III. About the progress of their journey. 1. Esau offers himself to be his guide and companion, in token of sincere reconciliation, Gen 33:12. We never find that Jacob and Esau were so sociable with one another, and so affectionate, as they were now. Note, As for God his work is perfect. He made Esau, not only not an enemy, but a friend. This bone that had been broken, being well set, became stronger than ever. Esau has become fond of Jacob's company, courts him to Mount Seir: let us never despair of any, nor distrust God in whose hand all hearts are. Yet Jacob saw cause modestly to refuse this offer (Gen 33:13, Gen 33:14), wherein he shows a tender concern for his own family and flocks, like a good shepherd and a good father. He must consider the children, and the flocks, with young, and not lead the one, nor drive the other, too fast. This prudence and tenderness of Jacob ought to be imitated by those that have the care and charge of young people in the things of God. They must not be over-driven, at first, by heavy tasks in religious services, but led, as they can bear, having their work made as easy to them as possible. Christ, the good Shepherd, does so, Isa 40:11. Now Jacob will not desire Esau to slacken his pace, nor force his family to quicken theirs, nor leave them, to keep company with his brother, as many would have done, that love any society better than their own house; but he desires Esau to march before, and promises to follow him leisurely, as he could get forward. Note, It is an unreasonable thing to tie others to our rate; we may come with comfort, at last, to the same journey's end, though we do not journey together, either in the same path or with the same pace. There may be those with whom we cannot fall in and yet with whom we need not fall out by the way. Jacob intimates to him that it was his present design to come to him to Mount Seir; and we may presume he did so, after he had settled his family and concerns elsewhere, though that visit is not recorded. Note, When we have happily recovered peace with our friends we must take care to cultivate it, and not to be behind-hand with them in civilities. 2. Esau offers some of his men to be his guard and convoy, Gen 33:15. He saw Jacob but poorly attended, no servants but his husbandmen and shepherds, no pages or footmen; and therefore, thinking he was as desirous as himself (if he could afford it) to take state upon him, and look great, he would needs lend him some of his retinue, to attend upon him, that he might appear like Esau's brother; but Jacob humbly refuses his offer, only desiring he would not take it amiss that he did not accept it: What needeth it? (1.) Jacob is humble, and needs it not for state; he desires not to make a fair show in the flesh, by encumbering himself with a needless retinue. Note, It is the vanity of pomp and grandeur that they are attended with a great deal of which it may be said, What needeth it? (2.) Jacob is under the divine protection, and needs it not for safety. Note, Those are sufficiently guarded that have God for their guard and are under a convoy of his hosts, as Jacob was. Those need not be beholden to an arm of flesh that have God for their arm every morning. Jacob adds, "Only let me find grace in the sight of my lord; having thy favour, I have all I need, all I desire from thee." If Jacob thus valued the good-will of a brother, much more reason have we to reckon that we have enough if we have the good-will of our God.
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SUMMARY
Genesis 33:6 meticulously describes the initial approach of Jacob's handmaidens and their children to Esau, an act marked by a profound gesture of bowing. This carefully orchestrated moment was a critical component of Jacob's strategy for reconciliation, designed to convey deep respect and humility, setting a conciliatory tone for the long-anticipated reunion with his estranged brother and initiating a sequence of deference intended to avert potential conflict.
CONTEXT
Literary Context: This verse is embedded within the climactic encounter between Jacob and Esau in Genesis 33, a reunion anticipated with great trepidation by Jacob after two decades of separation. Following his deceitful acquisition of Esau's birthright and blessing (Genesis 27:36), Jacob fled, and now, returning to Canaan, he faces the brother he wronged. The immediate preceding chapters detail Jacob's profound fear (Genesis 32:7), his earnest prayer for deliverance (Genesis 32:9-12), his strategic sending of lavish gifts (Genesis 32:13-21), and his transformative wrestling encounter at Peniel (Genesis 32:24-32). Verse 6 specifically initiates the carefully choreographed procession of Jacob's family, with the handmaidens and their children leading, followed by Leah and her children, and finally Rachel and Joseph (Genesis 33:7), each group performing the same act of obeisance.
Historical & Cultural Context: The act of "bowing themselves" was a deeply significant gesture in the ancient Near East, conveying profound respect, submission, and often a plea for favor or mercy from a superior. In a patriarchal society where social hierarchy was strictly observed, such a gesture was a powerful non-verbal communication. Jacob's strategic arrangement of his family—placing the handmaidens (Bilhah and Zilpah, Jacob's concubines and mothers of Dan, Naphtali, Gad, and Asher) and their children first—was a calculated diplomatic maneuver. This order was common for those of lesser status or those intended to absorb potential wrath, serving as a buffer to gauge the reaction of a powerful individual before the arrival of more prominent family members. This cultural practice underscores Jacob's prudence and his desperate desire to appease Esau and avert any potential violence.
Key Themes: Genesis 33:6 contributes to several overarching themes within the book of Genesis and the broader biblical narrative. It highlights the theme of reconciliation and forgiveness, demonstrating Jacob's proactive efforts to mend a broken relationship, even if driven by fear. It underscores divine providence working through human prudence, as Jacob's meticulous planning (gifts, procession, bowing) complements his fervent prayer, illustrating that God often orchestrates His will through human responsibility and wisdom. The verse also touches on family dynamics and hierarchy within ancient Israelite society, reflecting the social order and the roles of different family members. Furthermore, it subtly points to the fulfillment of God's promises despite human failings and fears, as Jacob's safe return and the surprising reconciliation with Esau demonstrate God's faithfulness to His covenant with Jacob, despite the long separation and the initial conflict detailed in Genesis 27.
EXPOSITION AND ANALYSIS
Genesis 33:6 describes the opening scene of the long-anticipated reunion between Jacob and Esau, focusing on the first group to approach. The verse states, "Then the handmaidens came near, they and their children, and they bowed themselves." This seemingly simple sentence is rich with cultural and strategic significance.
Key Word Analysis
Verse Breakdown
Literary Devices
The verse primarily employs Narrative Progression to detail the unfolding events of the reunion, moving from the general approach to the specific act of bowing. Symbolism is heavily present in the act of bowing itself, which is not merely a physical action but a potent symbol of humility, submission, and a plea for peace. The careful Choreography of Jacob's family procession, with the handmaidens and their children leading, followed by Leah's family, and then Rachel's, demonstrates a deliberate strategic arrangement, highlighting Jacob's calculated prudence in mitigating risk. This sequential presentation also subtly employs Foreshadowing, as the initial humble approach sets the stage for the surprising and gracious reconciliation that follows, hinting at the potential for a positive outcome despite Jacob's deep fear.
THEOLOGICAL AND THEMATIC CONNECTIONS
Genesis 33:6, through the actions of the handmaidens and their children, underscores profound theological truths about reconciliation, humility, and divine faithfulness. The act of bowing, repeated throughout the chapter, emphasizes that genuine reconciliation often requires a posture of humility, a willingness to set aside pride and acknowledge the other, even when fear is present. Jacob's meticulous planning—including this strategic procession and the accompanying gestures of respect—demonstrates a vital biblical principle: God's sovereignty does not negate human responsibility. Rather, divine providence often works through human prudence and effort. While Jacob's actions were born of fear and a desire to appease, the surprising outcome (Esau's embrace) highlights the transformative power of unmerited grace and forgiveness, transcending human efforts at appeasement. This narrative teaches that while we are called to act responsibly and humbly in seeking peace, the ultimate breakthrough often comes through a divine intervention of grace.
REFLECTION AND APPLICATION
Genesis 33:6 offers timeless wisdom for navigating strained relationships and pursuing reconciliation in our own lives. While cultural customs of bowing may differ today, the underlying principles of approaching others with humility, respect, and a genuine desire for peace remain profoundly relevant. Jacob's blend of strategic wisdom and fervent prayer teaches us to be proactive and thoughtful in addressing relational brokenness. We are called to exercise our best judgment, plan wisely, and take concrete steps towards reconciliation, while simultaneously relying on divine guidance and grace for the outcome. The handmaidens' act of bowing, though perhaps coerced by Jacob's fear, reminds us that a posture of deference can disarm tension and create an opening for healing. It challenges us to consider what "bowing" looks like in our contemporary contexts—perhaps it's offering a sincere apology, extending an olive branch, or simply listening with an open heart. Even in our deepest anxieties about difficult encounters, faith-filled action coupled with humility can lead to unexpected and transformative outcomes, mirroring the surprising grace Esau extended to Jacob.
Questions for Reflection
FAQ
Why were the handmaidens and their children sent first?
Answer: Jacob strategically arranged his family in a specific order, placing the handmaidens (Bilhah and Zilpah, his concubines) and their children first as a diplomatic and protective measure. In ancient Near Eastern culture, this order was common for those of lesser status or those intended to absorb potential wrath. It was a calculated move to present a less threatening initial approach to Esau, allowing Jacob to gauge his brother's reaction and potentially soften his heart before the more prominent members of his family (Leah, Rachel, and their sons) appeared. This arrangement demonstrated Jacob's prudence and his deep concern for the safety of his entire household.
What is the significance of "bowing themselves"?
Answer: The KJV phrase "bowed themselves" translates the Hebrew verb shâchâh (שָׁחָה), which means "to bow down," "to prostrate oneself," or "to do obeisance." This act was a profound gesture of deep respect, deference, and submission in ancient Near Eastern culture. In the context of Jacob's reunion with Esau, it was a crucial part of Jacob's strategy to appease his brother, acknowledge Esau's perceived authority, and seek his favor. It communicated humility and a desire for peace, setting a conciliatory tone for the highly anticipated encounter, and was a common way to seek mercy or honor a superior.
Does this verse suggest Jacob lacked faith?
Answer: While Jacob was indeed filled with "great fear and distress" (Genesis 32:7) regarding the encounter with Esau, his actions in Genesis 33:6 and the preceding verses do not necessarily indicate a lack of faith, but rather a blend of human prudence and reliance on God. Jacob had already wrestled with a divine being and received a blessing (Genesis 32:24-32), and he had earnestly prayed for deliverance (Genesis 32:9-12). His meticulous planning—sending lavish gifts (Genesis 32:13-21) and arranging his family's procession with gestures of humility—demonstrates a responsible use of wisdom in navigating a dangerous situation. This narrative illustrates that faith often calls for active, responsible steps, trusting God to work through our efforts, which ultimately led to a surprising and gracious reconciliation (Genesis 33:4).
CHRIST-CENTERED FULFILLMENT
The deeply human narrative of Jacob's fear and strategic humility in seeking reconciliation with Esau, culminating in an unexpected embrace, powerfully foreshadows the far greater reconciliation accomplished by Jesus Christ. Jacob's carefully choreographed approach, marked by gifts and prostration, was an attempt to appease a wronged brother and avert wrath, born out of human fear and self-preservation. This earthly drama, however, points to the ultimate Mediator who, in perfect love and obedience, humbled Himself not out of fear, but out of divine compassion, to bridge the infinite chasm between a holy God and sinful humanity. Just as Jacob's efforts faintly echoed a desire for peace, Christ, through His perfect life, atoning death on the cross, and glorious resurrection, provided the singular means for true peace and forgiveness, taking away the sin of the world (John 1:29). Unlike Jacob's fearful appeasement, Christ's approach to humanity is one of loving invitation and unmerited grace, freely offered to transform estranged hearts into reconciled children of God (Romans 5:10-11). He is our peace (Ephesians 2:14), achieving a reconciliation far grander, more permanent, and eternally significant than any earthly reunion, inviting all to be reconciled to God through Him (2 Corinthians 5:18-19).