### Core Meaning & Semantic Range
The Hebrew word **mêrêaʻ**, represented by `{{H4828}}`, is a specific term for a **friend** or **companion**. It appears **7 times** across **7 unique verses** in the Bible. The word is derived from `{{H7462}}` **râʻâh** in the sense of companionship, emphasizing a relationship built on association.
### Biblical Occurrences & Contextual Analysis
In the biblical narrative, `{{H4828}}` is used to describe different types of associations. It can denote a close political advisor, as when Abimelech is accompanied by Ahuzzath, "one of his **friends**" [[Genesis 26:26]]. The term is also used for the thirty **companions** brought to be with Samson at his wedding feast [[Judges 14:11]]. However, this relationship sours when Samson's wife is given to his **companion**, whom he had treated as a friend [[Judges 14:20]]. The word also appears in wisdom literature to illustrate the conditional nature of friendship, noting that the **friends** of a poor man go far from him [[Proverbs 19:7]].
### Related Words & Concepts
Several related words help define the scope of friendship and association:
* `{{H7462}}` **râʻâh** (to associate with (as a friend)): This is the primitive root of `{{H4828}}`, connecting the idea of a "friend" to the act of association. The verb is used to describe a **companion** of fools [[Proverbs 13:20]].
* `{{H251}}` **ʼâch** (a brother): This word for a kinsman is used in direct parallel with `{{H4828}}` to show a contrast in loyalty. For the poor man, his **brethren** hate him, and his friends go even further away [[Proverbs 19:7]].
* `{{H8130}}` **sânêʼ** (to hate (personally)): This term appears in contexts surrounding `{{H4828}}` to signify a broken relationship. After it was assumed Samson **hated** his wife, she was given to his **companion** [[Judges 15:2]].
### Theological Significance
The conceptual weight of `{{H4828}}` lies in its realistic portrayal of human relationships.
* **Fragile Alliances:** The word is frequently used in contexts of tension and instability. In the case of Samson, his wedding **companion** becomes his rival, taking his wife and sparking a violent conflict ([[Judges 14:20]], [[Judges 15:6]]).
* **Conditional Loyalty:** Friendship is shown to be dependent on circumstance. Proverbs explicitly states that while brethren may hate a poor man, his **friends** will desert him completely, highlighting a social bond that is weaker than kinship yet still subject to failure [[Proverbs 19:7]].
* **Socio-Political Role:** Beyond personal bonds, a **friend** could be a formal advisor or political ally. This is seen with Abimelech's **friend** Ahuzzath [[Genesis 26:26]] and Abner's reference to the **friends** of Saul's house [[2 Samuel 3:8]], framing friendship as a component of power structures.
### Summary
In summary, `{{H4828}}` is far more than a simple label for a friend. It captures a complex and often precarious relationship, spanning from a trusted political confidant to a temporary social **companion**. The word is most prominent in narratives of betrayal and proverbs about conditional loyalty, illustrating that these bonds are subject to human weakness and circumstance. Through its use, `{{H4828}}` provides a sober look at the nature of friendship as a social alliance that can be a source of either support or profound conflict.
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