Proverbs 15:17

Better [is] a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith.

Better {H2896} is a dinner {H737} of herbs {H3419} where love {H160} is, than a stalled {H75} ox {H7794} and hatred {H8135} therewith.

Better a vegetable dinner with love than a stall-fattened ox with hate.

Better a dish of vegetables where there is love than a fattened ox with hatred.

Better is a dinner of herbs, where love is, Than a stalled ox and hatred therewith.

Commentary

Commentary on Proverbs 15:17

Proverbs 15:17 delivers a profound message about the true source of contentment and abundance, contrasting the value of relational harmony with material wealth. This verse, like many in the book of Proverbs, offers practical wisdom for daily living, emphasizing that the quality of one's relationships far outweighs the luxury of one's possessions.

Historical and Cultural Context

The book of Proverbs is part of the Old Testament's wisdom literature, often attributed to King Solomon, known for his vast wisdom (1 Kings 4:29). Written in a society where meals often symbolized status and hospitality, the contrast between a "dinner of herbs" and a "stalled ox" would have been immediately understood. A "dinner of herbs" refers to a simple, vegetarian, and humble meal, indicative of a modest or even poor household. In stark contrast, a "stalled ox" signifies a fattened, prime animal, prepared for a lavish feast or a wealthy family's table. This imagery highlights the stark difference between poverty and affluence.

Key Themes and Messages

  • The Supremacy of Love and Peace: The core message is that an atmosphere of love and peace transforms even the most meager provisions into a satisfying experience. True joy and nourishment come from the heart's disposition and the quality of relationships, not from the richness of the food.
  • Material Wealth is Secondary: This verse challenges the common human tendency to equate happiness with prosperity. It asserts that lavishness accompanied by strife and animosity is ultimately unsatisfying and detrimental to well-being. The absence of peace makes any abundance meaningless.
  • The Destructive Nature of Hatred: Hatred, bitterness, or conflict can poison any environment, regardless of its material comforts. It suggests that even the most abundant blessings are spoiled when accompanied by animosity. This theme resonates with other proverbs warning against strife and anger, such as Proverbs 17:1, which states, "Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife."

Linguistic Insights

The Hebrew word for "love" here is 'ahabah (ืึฒื”ึธื‘ึธื”), which signifies a deep, abiding affection and goodwill, not merely a fleeting emotion. "Hatred" is sin'ah (ืฉื‚ึดื ึฐืึธื”), representing strong animosity or ill-will. The powerful contrast between these two words underscores the verse's central point: the presence of one or the other dictates the true quality of life, far more than the material circumstances. The phrase "stalled ox" (ืžึฐืจึดื™ื ื‘ึธืงึธืจ - meri' baqar) vividly paints a picture of a well-fed, prime animal, emphasizing luxury and abundance.

Practical Application

Proverbs 15:17 offers timeless wisdom for modern life:

  • Prioritize Relationships: This verse encourages us to invest in cultivating love, understanding, and peace within our homes, families, and communities. It reminds us that a simple meal shared with love is infinitely more valuable than a grand feast marred by conflict.
  • Seek Peace Over Possessions: It challenges consumerism and the endless pursuit of more, urging us to find contentment in harmonious relationships rather than material accumulation. This wisdom encourages us to be content with what we have if it means preserving peace and love.
  • Cultivate a Loving Atmosphere: Whether in a family, workplace, or church, fostering an environment of mutual respect, kindness, and forgiveness is paramount. As the Apostle Paul instructs on the nature of true love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, love is patient, kind, and does not envy or boast.

Ultimately, this proverb teaches that true richness is found not in what we consume or possess, but in the love we share and the peace we create. It's a call to examine our priorities and strive for an internal abundance of spirit over external displays of wealth.

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Cross-References

  • Proverbs 17:1

    ยถ Better [is] a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices [with] strife.
  • Proverbs 21:19

    ยถ [It is] better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
  • Philippians 2:1

    ยถ If [there be] therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies,
  • Matthew 22:4

    Again, he sent forth other servants, saying, Tell them which are bidden, Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and [my] fatlings [are] killed, and all things [are] ready: come unto the marriage.
  • 1 John 4:16

    And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
  • Psalms 133:1

    ยถ A Song of degrees of David. Behold, how good and how pleasant [it is] for brethren to dwell together in unity!
  • Psalms 133:3

    As the dew of Hermon, [and as the dew] that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, [even] life for evermore.
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