Ephesians 4:15

But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, [even] Christ:

But {G1161} speaking the truth {G226} in {G1722} love {G26}, may grow up {G837} into {G1519} him {G846} in all things {G3956}, which {G3739} is {G2076} the head {G2776}, even Christ {G5547}:

Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in every respect grow up into him who is the head, the Messiah.

Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into Christ Himself, who is the head.

but speaking truth in love, may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, even Christ;

Commentary

Context

Ephesians 4 begins with a powerful call for unity among believers, emphasizing that there is "one body, and one Spirit" (Ephesians 4:4). Paul then outlines the diverse spiritual gifts given by Christ "for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ" (Ephesians 4:12). The ultimate goal of these gifts and ministries is to bring believers to a state of spiritual maturity, preventing them from being "tossed to and fro by every wind of doctrine" (Ephesians 4:14). Verse 15 provides the positive pathway and ultimate aim of this maturity: growth into Christ Himself through truth spoken in love.

Key Themes

  • Truth and Love in Tandem: This verse beautifully balances the necessity of truth with the indispensable nature of love. It's not about delivering harsh truth or sentimental, untruthful love. Instead, it advocates for a way of communicating that is both honest and compassionate, essential for healthy relationships within the body of Christ and beyond.
  • Spiritual Maturity and Growth: The phrase "may grow up into him in all things" signifies a continuous, comprehensive process of becoming more like Christ. This isn't just intellectual growth but a transformation of character, thought, and action, aligning every aspect of life with God's will and the example of Jesus.
  • Christ as the Head: The verse underscores Christ's supreme authority and role as the source of life, direction, and nourishment for the Church. Just as a physical body functions under the direction of its head, the spiritual body (believers) thrives by remaining connected to and submitting to Christ. This echoes Paul's teaching elsewhere about Christ's headship over the church (Colossians 1:18).

Linguistic Insights

The phrase "speaking the truth in love" comes from the Greek alētheuontes en agapē. The word alētheuontes (speaking the truth) carries a broader meaning than just verbal communication; it can also imply "living truthfully" or "practicing truth." This suggests that our entire demeanor and lifestyle should be characterized by truthfulness, not just our words. The term for love, agapē, signifies God's unconditional, self-sacrificial love, which should be the guiding principle behind all our truth-telling. It's not about being "right" at the expense of others, but about building up and nurturing in a spirit of genuine care.

Practical Application

For believers today, Ephesians 4:15 is a powerful call to intentional and relational growth. It challenges us to examine how we communicate, especially within the Christian community. Are we willing to speak difficult truths when necessary, but always with a heart of compassion and a desire for the other person's good? This verse is crucial for fostering healthy church environments, where honest feedback is given and received in grace. It reminds us that our ultimate aim in all spiritual endeavors—from personal Bible study to corporate worship—is to "grow up" into the full stature and character of Christ, becoming more like our Head. This pursuit of Christian maturity through truthful, loving interaction is a lifelong journey.

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Cross-References

  • 1 John 3:18

    My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.

  • Zechariah 8:16

    These [are] the things that ye shall do; Speak ye every man the truth to his neighbour; execute the judgment of truth and peace in your gates:

  • Ephesians 4:25

    Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.

  • 1 Peter 1:22

    Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, [see that ye] love one another with a pure heart fervently:

  • 2 Peter 3:18

    But grow in grace, and [in] the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him [be] glory both now and for ever. Amen.

  • Ephesians 2:21

    In whom all the building fitly framed together groweth unto an holy temple in the Lord:

  • Ephesians 1:22

    And hath put all [things] under his feet, and gave him [to be] the head over all [things] to the church,