Proverbs 27:11

ยถ My son, be wise, and make my heart glad, that I may answer him that reproacheth me.

My son {H1121}, be wise {H2449}, and make my heart {H3820} glad {H8055}, that I may answer {H7725}{H1697} him that reproacheth {H2778} me.

My son, become wise, and gladden my heart, so that I can answer my critics.

Be wise, my son, and bring joy to my heart, so that I can answer him who taunts me.

My son, be wise, and make my heart glad, That I may answer him that reproacheth me.

Commentary

Proverbs 27:11 offers a profound insight into the interconnectedness of individual conduct and communal reputation within the wisdom tradition of the Old Testament. It's an appeal from a father (or teacher) to his "son," emphasizing the tangible impact of personal wisdom on the honor and defense of one's family or mentor.

Context

The Book of Proverbs is a collection of practical wisdom for living a godly and prosperous life. Often presented as direct advice from a father to a son, it covers a wide range of topics from personal discipline to social interaction. This particular verse highlights the deep emotional and reputational investment parents or mentors have in the character of those they guide. In ancient Near Eastern cultures, a person's reputation and honor were often inextricably linked to the behavior of their children and household. A wise and upright child brought honor, while a foolish one could bring shame and reproach upon the entire family line.

Key Themes

  • The Value of Wisdom: The primary exhortation is to "be wise." Biblical wisdom (Hebrew: chokmah) is not merely intellectual knowledge but practical discernment and righteous living that aligns with God's will. It's about making choices that lead to life and honor.
  • Parental Joy and Honor: A child's wise conduct brings immense "gladness" to a parent's heart. This joy is not just emotional but also serves as a vindication. The parent can confidently "answer him that reproacheth me," meaning they can defend their parenting, their values, and their family's good name against critics or accusers. This echoes themes found elsewhere, such as "A wise son maketh a glad father" (Proverbs 10:1).
  • Reputation and Legacy: The verse underscores the importance of reputation, not just for the individual but for those connected to them. A child's actions reflect on the parent's character and legacy. This social dimension of wisdom was crucial in ancient Israelite society, where family honor was paramount.

Linguistic Insights

The Hebrew word for "reproacheth" is kharaph (ื—ึธืจึทืฃ), which means to taunt, scorn, insult, or put to shame. It implies a public accusation or challenge. The father's desire to "answer" (Hebrew: shubh - ืฉืื•ึผื‘, meaning to return, reply) implies a need to defend himself against such public shame. The son's wisdom provides the very argument needed to silence these accusers, demonstrating the fruit of his upbringing.

Practical Application

Proverbs 27:11 remains highly relevant today. It encourages us to consider the broader impact of our choices:

  • Personal Responsibility: Our actions have consequences beyond ourselves. Living wisely and righteously brings honor not only to us but also to our families, mentors, and even the faith we profess. Conversely, foolishness can bring shame.
  • Honoring Those Who Guided Us: It serves as a reminder to honor those who invested in our upbringing and education. Our good character can be a source of joy and pride for them, allowing them to confidently stand by their investment in us. This aligns with the biblical principle of honoring one's father and mother.
  • Living as a Testimony: For believers, our lives are a testimony to God's transformative power. When we live wisely according to His word, it brings glory to Him and can silence those who might "reproach" or criticize the Christian faith.
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Cross-References

  • Proverbs 10:1 (9 votes)

    ยถ The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: but a foolish son [is] the heaviness of his mother.
  • Proverbs 23:15 (5 votes)

    My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine.
  • Proverbs 23:16 (5 votes)

    Yea, my reins shall rejoice, when thy lips speak right things.
  • Psalms 119:42 (5 votes)

    So shall I have wherewith to answer him that reproacheth me: for I trust in thy word.
  • 2 John 1:4 (3 votes)

    I rejoiced greatly that I found of thy children walking in truth, as we have received a commandment from the Father.
  • Proverbs 23:24 (3 votes)

    The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise [child] shall have joy of him.
  • Proverbs 23:25 (3 votes)

    Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.