Philemon 1:13

Whom I would have retained with me, that in thy stead he might have ministered unto me in the bonds of the gospel:

Whom {G3739} I {G1473} would {G1014} have retained {G2722} with {G4314} me {G1683}, that {G2443} in thy {G4675} stead {G5228} he might have ministered {G1247} unto me {G3427} in {G1722} the bonds {G1199} of the gospel {G2098}:

I would dearly have loved to keep him with me, in order for him to serve me in your place while I am in prison because of the Good News.

I would have liked to keep him with me, so that on your behalf he could minister to me in my chains for the gospel.

whom I would fain have kept with me, that in thy behalf he might minister unto me in the bonds of the gospel:

Commentary

Context

The Epistle to Philemon is a short but powerful letter from the Apostle Paul, written during his imprisonment (likely in Rome, around A.D. 60-62). It is addressed to Philemon, a wealthy Christian in Colossae, concerning his runaway slave, Onesimus. Onesimus had encountered Paul in prison and, through his ministry, had become a believer in Jesus Christ, transforming from a "unprofitable" servant to a "profitable" brother (Philemon 1:11). In this verse, Paul expresses his strong desire to keep Onesimus with him, highlighting Onesimus's newfound usefulness.

Paul was in "bonds" or chains because of his commitment to the gospel, and Onesimus had become a valuable assistant to him in this difficult situation. This verse reveals Paul's affection for Onesimus and his appreciation for the service Onesimus could provide, standing in for Philemon himself, who was a respected partner in the faith.

Key Themes

  • Christian Service and Ministry: The verse powerfully illustrates how the gospel transforms individuals and redefines relationships. Onesimus, a runaway slave, is now seen by Paul as capable of ministering to an apostle, highlighting the dignity and value of all believers in service to Christ. This is not forced labor, but willing, spiritual service.
  • Paul's Apostolic Authority and Humility: Paul, though an apostle with authority, chooses not to command Philemon to let Onesimus stay. Instead, he expresses a desire ("Whom I would have retained") but respects Philemon's rights and decision, appealing to love and partnership rather than obligation (Philemon 1:14). This demonstrates a profound respect for Christian freedom and relational integrity.
  • The Transforming Power of the Gospel: Onesimus's journey from a runaway slave to a trusted helper and "brother beloved" (Colossians 4:9) is a testament to the gospel's ability to redeem and reconcile. It elevates individuals beyond their social status or past failures.
  • The "Bonds of the Gospel": This phrase carries a double meaning. It refers to Paul's physical imprisonment (his "bonds") for the sake of preaching the gospel (Ephesians 3:1), but also signifies the spiritual ties that bind believers together through their shared faith in the gospel. Onesimus was serving Paul within the context of these spiritual and physical realities.

Linguistic Insights

The word "ministered" comes from the Greek diakoneo (διακονέω), which means "to serve, to wait upon, to attend to." It is the root of our English word "deacon" and implies active, often practical, service. Paul saw Onesimus not merely as a personal attendant, but as one providing valuable assistance in the work of the gospel, a role of honor and spiritual significance.

The phrase "in the bonds of the gospel" is crucial. It connects Onesimus's service directly to Paul's suffering for Christ. Onesimus was not just serving Paul the man, but Paul the prisoner *for* the gospel, making Onesimus's service a direct contribution to the spread of God's message.

Practical Application

This verse offers several timeless applications for believers today:

  • Valuing Every Believer: The gospel breaks down social barriers. Just as Paul saw Onesimus, a slave, as a valuable minister, so too should we recognize and affirm the inherent dignity and potential for service in every person, regardless of their background, status, or past.
  • Service as a Privilege: Christian service, whether prominent or behind the scenes, is a profound privilege. Onesimus's practical help to Paul in prison was deemed ministry, reminding us that all genuine service done for Christ is meaningful.
  • Respecting Boundaries: Paul's decision not to compel Philemon, despite his personal need and Onesimus's usefulness, models respect for the rights and choices of others. It teaches us to appeal to love and conscience rather than force or manipulation in our relationships.
  • Redemption and Transformation: The story of Onesimus is a powerful testimony to the gospel's ability to transform lives. It encourages us to believe in the redemptive power of Christ to change anyone and to see people not just for who they were, but for who they can become through faith.
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Cross-References

  • Philippians 1:7 (4 votes)

    ¶ Even as it is meet for me to think this of you all, because I have you in my heart; inasmuch as both in my bonds, and in the defence and confirmation of the gospel, ye all are partakers of my grace.
  • Ephesians 3:1 (4 votes)

    ¶ For this cause I Paul, the prisoner of Jesus Christ for you Gentiles,
  • 1 Corinthians 16:17 (3 votes)

    I am glad of the coming of Stephanas and Fortunatus and Achaicus: for that which was lacking on your part they have supplied.
  • Ephesians 4:1 (2 votes)

    ¶ I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called,
  • Philippians 2:30 (2 votes)

    Because for the work of Christ he was nigh unto death, not regarding his life, to supply your lack of service toward me.
  • Philemon 1:1 (2 votes)

    ¶ Paul, a prisoner of Jesus Christ, and Timothy [our] brother, unto Philemon our dearly beloved, and fellowlabourer,