Matthew 14:4

For John said unto him, It is not lawful for thee to have her.

For {G1063} John {G2491} said {G3004} unto him {G846}, It is {G1832} not {G3756} lawful {G1832} for thee {G4671} to have {G2192} her {G846}.

since Yochanan had told Herod, "It violates the Torah for you to have her as your wife."

because John had been telling him, “It is not lawful for you to have her.”

For John said unto him, It is not lawful for thee to have her.

Commentary

Matthew 14:4 records the courageous and direct confrontation by John the Baptist with Herod Antipas, the tetrarch of Galilee. This specific verse highlights John's unwavering commitment to God's truth, even when it meant challenging the powerful.

Context

This verse is part of the narrative leading to John the Baptist's execution. Herod Antipas had unlawfully taken Herodias, who was his brother Philip's wife, and married her. This act was a clear violation of the Mosaic Law, specifically prohibitions against marrying a brother's wife while the brother was still alive (Leviticus 18:16; Leviticus 20:21). John, acting as a prophet, did not shy away from exposing this sin. His declaration "It is not lawful for thee to have her" directly challenged Herod's authority and moral conduct, leading to John's imprisonment, as mentioned in the preceding verse (Matthew 14:3).

Key Themes

  • Moral Courage and Prophetic Integrity: John the Baptist exemplifies profound moral courage. He spoke truth to power, confronting a ruler about his sin, regardless of the personal cost. This demonstrates the prophet's role in holding even leaders accountable to divine law.
  • The Authority of God's Law: John's statement underscores the ultimate authority of God's commandments over human desires or political power. His declaration was not based on personal opinion but on clear biblical principles concerning marriage and family.
  • Confrontation of Sin: The verse illustrates the necessity of confronting sin, especially when it is blatant and involves those in positions of influence. John's directness served as a public condemnation of Herod's actions.

Linguistic Insights

The Greek word for "lawful" is exestin (ἔξεστιν), which implies not just legal permissibility but also moral propriety and divine sanction. John's use of this term indicates that Herod's marriage was not only against established Jewish law but also morally wrong in God's eyes, thus lacking divine approval.

Practical Application

Matthew 14:4 challenges believers today to uphold God's standards even when it is unpopular or difficult. It reminds us of the importance of:

  • Speaking Truth in Love: While John's delivery was direct, his motivation was rooted in faithfulness to God and a desire for righteousness. We are called to speak truth, even when it confronts sin, relying on God's strength.
  • Integrity in the Face of Pressure: Like John, we may face situations where standing for what is right, according to God's Word, puts us at odds with societal norms or powerful individuals. This verse encourages steadfastness.
  • Accountability: The story reminds us that all individuals, regardless of their status, are accountable to God's law.

John's faithfulness in delivering this uncomfortable truth ultimately cost him his life, but his legacy of integrity remains a powerful example for all who seek to follow Christ (Mark 6:20 shows Herod initially respected John, yet his sin ultimately led to conflict).

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Cross-References

  • Leviticus 20:21 (7 votes)

    And if a man shall take his brother's wife, it [is] an unclean thing: he hath uncovered his brother's nakedness; they shall be childless.

  • Leviticus 18:16 (6 votes)

    Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy brother's wife: it [is] thy brother's nakedness.

  • Proverbs 28:1 (3 votes)

    ¶ The wicked flee when no man pursueth: but the righteous are bold as a lion.

  • Mark 6:18 (3 votes)

    For John had said unto Herod, It is not lawful for thee to have thy brother's wife.

  • 2 Chronicles 26:18 (2 votes)

    And they withstood Uzziah the king, and said unto him, [It appertaineth] not unto thee, Uzziah, to burn incense unto the LORD, but to the priests the sons of Aaron, that are consecrated to burn incense: go out of the sanctuary; for thou hast trespassed; neither [shall it be] for thine honour from the LORD God.

  • 2 Chronicles 26:19 (2 votes)

    Then Uzziah was wroth, and [had] a censer in his hand to burn incense: and while he was wroth with the priests, the leprosy even rose up in his forehead before the priests in the house of the LORD, from beside the incense altar.

  • 2 Samuel 12:7 (2 votes)

    And Nathan said to David, Thou [art] the man. Thus saith the LORD God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul;