Deuteronomy 22:16
And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;
And the damsel's {H5291} father {H1} shall say {H559} unto the elders {H2205}, I gave {H5414} my daughter {H1323} unto this man {H376} to wife {H802}, and he hateth {H8130} her;
The girl's father will say to the leaders, 'I let my daughter marry this man, but he hates her,
and say to the elders, “I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he has come to hate her.
and the damsel’s father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;
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Commentary
Deuteronomy 22:16 is part of a specific legal section within the Mosaic Law concerning accusations of a bride's pre-marital impurity. This verse captures the critical moment when the father of the accused daughter presents his defense before the city elders.
Context
This verse comes from a passage (Deuteronomy 22:13-21) that details a legal dispute. If a newly married man claims his wife was not a virgin, and the father can prove otherwise (often by presenting evidence to the elders), the husband is to be severely punished for slandering his wife. The father's statement in verse 16 is the core of his legal plea, asserting that he gave his daughter in marriage, and the husband's accusation stems from his "hatred" or rejection of her, rather than genuine wrongdoing on her part. This highlights the importance of protecting a woman's reputation and rights in ancient Israelite society, where such accusations could have devastating social consequences.
Key Themes
Linguistic Insights
The phrase "he hateth her" translates the Hebrew word sane' (שָׂנֵא). While it can mean intense emotional hatred, in legal and relational contexts like this, it often signifies "to treat with aversion," "to dislike strongly," or "to reject." It implies a desire to repudiate the marriage or divorce the woman without just cause, perhaps because the man found her displeasing after the marriage, rather than because of actual pre-marital impurity. This is distinct from the concept of God's 'hatred' of divorce, as seen in Malachi 2:16, but both highlight the negative impact of relational aversion.
Practical Application
While the specific legal context of Deuteronomy 22:16 is tied to ancient Israel, the underlying principles remain relevant. This verse reminds us of the importance of truthfulness in all our dealings and the destructive power of false accusations. It also highlights God's enduring concern for justice and the protection of those who might be vulnerable to slander or mistreatment. We are called to uphold integrity in our relationships and to seek fair resolution when disputes arise, always valuing truth over personal convenience or malice. The example of the elders serves as a reminder of the need for wise and impartial judgment in our communities today.
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