2 Samuel 19:42

And all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, Because the king [is] near of kin to us: wherefore then be ye angry for this matter? have we eaten at all of the king's [cost]? or hath he given us any gift?

And all the men {H376} of Judah {H3063} answered {H6030} the men {H376} of Israel {H3478}, Because the king {H4428} is near of kin {H7138} to us: wherefore then be ye angry {H2734} for this matter {H1697}? have we eaten {H398} at all {H398} of the king's {H4428} cost? or hath he given {H5375} us any gift {H5379}?

All the men of Y'hudah answered the men of Isra'el, "Because the king is our close relative. Why are you angry about this? Have we eaten anything at the king's expense? Has any gift been given to us?"

And all the men of Judah replied to the men of Israel, “We did this because the king is our relative. Why does this anger you? Have we ever eaten at the king’s expense or received anything for ourselves?”

And all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, Because the king is near of kin to us: wherefore then are ye angry for this matter? have we eaten at all at the king’s cost? or hath he given us any gift?

Commentary

2 Samuel 19:42 captures a pivotal moment of tribal tension and political maneuvering in the aftermath of Absalom's rebellion. This verse records the men of Judah's heated defense against the accusations from the men of Israel regarding their swift action in bringing King David back to Jerusalem. It highlights the complex loyalties and rivalries that characterized ancient Israel.

Context

Following the tragic end of Absalom's rebellion, King David was preparing to return to his throne in Jerusalem. A significant point of contention arose between the ten northern tribes of Israel and David's own tribe, Judah. David, recognizing the need to secure his return, had sent a message to the elders of Judah, appealing to their kinship (see 2 Samuel 19:11-12) to escort him back. This initiative by Judah, without consultation with the other tribes, angered the men of Israel, who felt slighted and accused Judah of taking undue advantage. Judah's reply in this verse is their passionate rebuttal to these charges.

Key Themes

  • Tribal Rivalry and Jealousy: The primary theme is the deep-seated rivalry between the tribes of Israel and Judah. The men of Israel felt they had "ten parts" in the king (2 Samuel 19:43) and resented Judah's exclusive claim to David's favor.
  • Kinship and Loyalty: Judah's central argument, "Because the king is near of kin to us," emphasizes the powerful role of familial and tribal bonds in their society. Their loyalty, they contended, was a natural outflow of this close relationship with David.
  • Motive and Self-Interest: By denying that they "eaten at all of the king's cost" or received "any gift," Judah attempts to clear themselves of accusations of seeking personal gain or special privilege. They assert their actions were purely out of duty and kinship, not material benefit. This tension foreshadows the later division of the kingdom.

Linguistic Insights

The phrase "near of kin" translates the Hebrew word qārôb (קָרוֹב), which literally means "close" or "near." Its use here strongly emphasizes the immediate familial relationship and blood ties between King David and the tribe of Judah, underscoring their perceived right to lead his return. The rhetorical questions, "have we eaten at all of the king's cost? or hath he given us any gift?" are a common ancient Near Eastern idiom. They serve as a forceful denial of any personal profit, bribery, or undue advantage, asserting that their actions were honorable and free from corrupt motives.

Practical Application

This historical incident offers valuable insights into human dynamics and leadership:

  • Understanding Conflict: It demonstrates how perceived favoritism, even when rooted in genuine relationships, can spark resentment and intense conflict among those who should be united.
  • Examining Motives: Judah's defense prompts us to reflect on our own motivations in service, community, or leadership roles. Are our actions driven by pure intentions and genuine commitment, or by a desire for personal gain, recognition, or exclusive access?
  • Navigating Division: The dispute highlights the fragility of unity when underlying tensions and rivalries are not properly addressed. It serves as a reminder that unresolved strife can lead to greater division within any collective body, whether a nation, a community, or a church.
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Cross-References

  • 2 Samuel 19:12 (4 votes)

    Ye [are] my brethren, ye [are] my bones and my flesh: wherefore then are ye the last to bring back the king?
  • 1 Chronicles 2:3 (2 votes)

    The sons of Judah; Er, and Onan, and Shelah: [which] three were born unto him of the daughter of Shua the Canaanitess. And Er, the firstborn of Judah, was evil in the sight of the LORD; and he slew him.
  • 1 Chronicles 2:17 (2 votes)

    And Abigail bare Amasa: and the father of Amasa [was] Jether the Ishmeelite.
  • 2 Samuel 5:1 (2 votes)

    ¶ Then came all the tribes of Israel to David unto Hebron, and spake, saying, Behold, we [are] thy bone and thy flesh.