Proverbs 3:4

So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man.

So shalt thou find {H4672} favour {H2580} and good {H2896} understanding {H7922} in the sight {H5869} of God {H430} and man {H120}.

Then you will win favor and esteem in the sight of God and of people.

Then you will find favor and high regard in the sight of God and man.

So shalt thou find favor and good understanding In the sight of God and man.

Commentary

Proverbs 3:4 stands as a powerful promise within the broader call to embrace divine wisdom. It assures that those who diligently follow God's instruction will experience a dual blessing: finding favor and good understanding in the eyes of both God and humanity.

Context of Proverbs 3:4

This verse is a direct continuation of the fatherly admonition found in the opening verses of Proverbs chapter 3. The preceding verses (Proverbs 3:1-3) lay the groundwork, urging the "son" (representing anyone seeking wisdom) to remember God's law, keep His commandments, and to never forsake "mercy and truth," but to bind them close to the heart. Proverbs 3:4 then presents the positive outcome of such obedience and devotion to righteous living, acting as a direct consequence or reward for adherence to these principles. It follows the promise of length of days, long life, and peace mentioned in Proverbs 3:2.

Key Themes and Messages

  • Divine and Human Approval: The verse highlights a unique dual blessing. "Favour in the sight of God" signifies divine grace, acceptance, and approval, a blessing that transcends earthly understanding. "Favour...in the sight of man" suggests respect, goodwill, and positive regard from one's peers and society. This holistic favor implies that living wisely according to God's ways benefits one's spiritual standing and practical relationships.
  • Good Understanding: The phrase "good understanding" (Hebrew: sekhel tov) refers to more than mere intellectual knowledge. It denotes practical wisdom, discernment, and insight that leads to sound judgment and right actions. This understanding is not just about comprehending facts but about applying truth effectively in life's situations, which naturally earns respect.
  • The Reward of Obedience: Proverbs consistently teaches that there are tangible benefits to living according to God's wisdom. This verse underscores that a life rooted in God's principles leads to a respected reputation and a clear mind, both divinely bestowed and humanly recognized. This echoes the broader theme of blessings for obedience found throughout the Old Testament.

Linguistic Insights

The Hebrew word for "favour" is chen (ื—ึตืŸ), which carries the connotation of grace, charm, or acceptance. It implies a pleasing quality that draws goodwill. This is the same word often used to describe how Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord (Genesis 6:8) or how Joseph gained favor in Egypt (Genesis 39:4). "Good understanding" comes from sekhel tov (ืฉื‚ึตื›ึถืœ ื˜ื•ึนื‘), emphasizing not just intelligence but practical wisdom that produces good results and reflects sound judgment.

Practical Application

For believers today, Proverbs 3:4 serves as an encouragement to prioritize God's wisdom in all areas of life. It teaches that:

  • Integrity Builds Reputation: Living a life of integrity, marked by mercy and truth, naturally earns respect and trust from others, fostering positive relationships.
  • Divine Wisdom is Practical: Seeking God's guidance through His Word provides not only spiritual insight but also practical discernment for daily decisions, leading to a life that is both blessed and effective.
  • Holistic Well-being: The verse suggests that true well-being involves not just spiritual peace but also harmonious relationships with others. When we honor God, He often opens doors to favor in the world, just as Jesus grew in favor with God and man.

By applying the principles of wisdom found in Proverbs, individuals can expect to see God's favor at work in their lives, leading to a reputation of good character and sound judgment among their peers.

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Cross-References

  • Luke 2:52 (32 votes)

    And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man.
  • 1 Samuel 2:26 (22 votes)

    And the child Samuel grew on, and was in favour both with the LORD, and also with men.
  • Romans 14:18 (22 votes)

    For he that in these things serveth Christ [is] acceptable to God, and approved of men.
  • Psalms 111:10 (21 votes)

    The fear of the LORD [is] the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do [his commandments]: his praise endureth for ever.
  • Genesis 39:2 (19 votes)

    And the LORD was with Joseph, and he was a prosperous man; and he was in the house of his master the Egyptian.
  • Genesis 39:4 (19 votes)

    And Joseph found grace in his sight, and he served him: and he made him overseer over his house, and all [that] he had he put into his hand.
  • Genesis 39:21 (18 votes)

    But the LORD was with Joseph, and shewed him mercy, and gave him favour in the sight of the keeper of the prison.